No, I'm saying people need to take responsibility especially after they become adults. Many of the Kharkhus were more mentally stronger even while lacking a father presence than any aam person today.
We as a community need to ultimately start taking responsibility for ourselves after a certain age. At a certain point, we can't blame parents for our lack of Awareness of the world.
Most people stay together because of the issues of divorce are greater than the reward in our community, not because Indian women are better at being wifey.
Hello, I wanted to know does Ardas have to be done standing-up and if Guru Sahib isn't physically present where we are doing ardas, do we have to Mehta Teekh somewhere?