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okay so i lived in birmingham for all my life, all my friends family and everything was set, we lived next to a gurdwara and we used to go regularly and everthing was good and there was a big sikh community, but recently i had to move to move up north coz my dad got a good job there so i had to leave birmingham and leave everyone and start all over basically, and so i did, ive been living here for a year now and ive made friends and school and everything but ive started to dred going to the gurdwara...i live close to a gurdwara here too but considering there arnt much sikhs up here theres not much sangat in the gurdwara's, and coz theres little sangat everyone there knows eachother, and this is my problem! its like, everyone in my family has someone they can socialise with in the gurdwara but i dont have anyone :/ there are kdis there that are my age group but there just impossible to talk with coz there from india and they speak hindi and cant speak english properly (and i cant speak hindi) thats why i cant talk to them, theres other kids that can speak english but there in their own little group and i dont wanna barge in to their little friend circle, and tbh i dont mind being alone in gurdwara but it seems like everyone else does! i go to gurdwara so i can connect on waheguru not to make friends, i tell my parents that but they say u still need to know these poople coz their apart of ur 'community' n stuff, but im happy being a loner in the langar hall lool, i have friends in school that i go out with so its not like im a loner 247 and i got friends in birmingham that i go to visit occasionally (and their sikh so its not like im not hanging out wih my own kind (sikh friends coz i alrady have them back in birmingham) but at the same time if i look like a loner infront of my family and everyone at the gurdwara it looks bad, im just really confsed! i dont know what to think, this isnt a big problem but its still kind of annoying, any advice would be appriciated, thanks

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

Kid if you like to socialise then go ahead if not then just enjoy your own company.

People are going to talk behind your back anyway.

The best way to spend time in Gurdwara is either Sadh Sangat or Sewa.

Try to engage yourself in these activities you will gain a lot.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

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