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Ghost Dreams
by Guest Gupt- 6 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh When maharaj blessed me with amrit I used to regularly read bani and do my nitnem. I frequently started getting ghost dreams. Unfortunately due to circumstances I stopped doing my nitnem and I stopped having any ghost dreams. However I have started doing my nitnem again with maharajs blessing and I have started to get ghost dreams once again. Could this mean anything or am I just overthinking. Thank You Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
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Well, I'm a A Level student and I'm just finding it so difficult to balance everything in my life. I've completed 3 exams and have 3 to go and the 3 that i just did, ,i completely messed up because i started panicking in the exam hall, i guess everything happens for a reason. The worst thing is i put so much effort in to it and basically had time for nothing else. And i really am thinking what's the point ? I know what the real path and i feel like i'm wasting time in these worldly exams. I'm getting upset about things that i shouldn't get upset about and it makes me feel silly . And its like time is ticking and i spend so much time on school work and i don't spend time …
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This Is Not Sikhi
by Guest Guest- 1 reply
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This is not Sikhi. What is the right way to inspire others? What is the right way to deal with those who we disagree with or who stray from the path which we think is correct? We must understand historically nobody was ever forced, or pressured into Sikhi or a Sikh lifestyle. Guilt was not used, pressure was not used, infact only love was used. Yet we look around today and we see a lot of negativity towards each other. Even in Sikhs we have categories of Sikh, I am amrithdhari, he is kesadhari, he is sajh dhari, he is AKJ, he is taksali, and many other names are given. Yet they are all just means to have likeminded groups which has its benefits as you get concurrin…
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Zindgi Bilas Sadhu Daya Singh
by Guest Ek_He_Ek_Hai- 0 replies
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Eating Meat
by Guest userd- 1 reply
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now I know in sikhi people are condommed not to eating meat. right? but if they do... they cant it beef? or is that false.
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Rara
by Guest Moorak- 6 replies
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I'm having trouble pronouncing some gurmukhi letters, I have jus started going to santhiya about 3 weeks ago but I'm practising at home bit still getting it wrong. I'm fine on most of them apart from the last 1 which is rara , I was told it sounds like a d in English but I can't seem to do it, also I struggle on differing the sound between tutta and thutta , can somebody please tell me how you pronounce it, where do you place your tongue when saying it, behind teeth, top of mouth etc. thank you
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I don't feel like doing anything, it feels like I've lost interest in everything but if someone makes me do something something simple like kirtan then I'll start enjoying it like I used to before. I want to so Simran inside I want to go do seva at the gurdwara but I don't know what's stopping me, I want to so something but it feels like i lost interest and everything seems boring. Why do I feel this way? I did have a fight with my mom earlier which ruined my mood and made me upset. But I don't know something's missing. I don't know what to do.
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A Benti From A Worthless Person
by Guest Nobody- 7 replies
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I come from an amritdhari family and i was brought up with sikh values and morals however I have made lots of mistakes for various reasons... I was 'groomed' when I was younger and since then my life has been a downward spiral I have had many relationships with paki and sikh boys I have had abortions I have drank alcohol, smoked cigarettes and taken A class drugs I have failed in terms of my career too, I have just a minimum wage job I've come to a point in my life where I am suicidal and can't put my family through my behaviour anymore I have seen how it affects them...I feel as if I am killing them slowly every time I relapse into this Firstly I'm asking for s…
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Prayer?
by Guest Random- 6 replies
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I want to start praying but im confused ... I know the ideal prayers you should do daily are 'japji sahib', 'rehrass sahib' and 'kirtan sohila'. When I wake up im tired, its too cold to change yet alone have a shower.. so how do I do japji sahib? * I wash when I come back home, and that's when I do rehrass but im not constant with it.. kirtan sohila I don't do I wanna do all three but like is it ideal you wash? and I am a meat eater, sometimes I eat meat sometimes I don't? what do I do if I ate meat on that day? PLEASE CAN YOU TELL ME HOW'D YOU FIX UR LIFE ROUND ROUTINE WITHIN SIKHI. im a teenager.
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Help... In Love?!? Help Me Get Out!
by Guest confused- 1 reply
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ok so im a guy (14) and amritdhari and i like this girl in my class who is also amritdhari. please help get me out of this, relationship before marriage is not good so how can I stop this!!! its definitely not lust. I dont think dirty things and i feel sick if i did. she is really nice we have a lot in common. please how can I stop having a crush its wrong and I dont wanna break amrit!!!!!!!!!!!! help!!!!!!!!!
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I'm Losing Faith In Sikhism. How Do I Tell My Parents? 1 2 3 4
by Guest Anon- 38 replies
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Okay I'm 16 Years old and I have found some discrepancies in Sikhism that have caused me to lose faith. First of all guru Nanak dev ji did all he could to avoid violence and he was automatically respected wherever he went. Guru gobind Singh ji was war oriented and proclaimed Sikhs as the warrior race. Guru gobind Singh ji also said that we must keep a turban and Kesh. On the other hand guru Nanak dev ji said in one of his sakhis where the pandit was tying a bracelet on him, that he won't wear it because no exterior feature will help someone reach god. In addition guru Nanak dev ji said that it doesn't matter what religion you are as long as you're one with god and are hum…
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A Heat Wave Inside Body During Listening Bani
by Guest question- 4 replies
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yesterday night i was listening to jai bhagauti by gyani tarsem singh moranwali and a sudden heat wave which originated from the back of my neck and moved in all of vertebrate colum for a sec and it was very hot? can anybody explain this experience?
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I came to know of bachans about the future (few years ahead from now till Khalsa Raaj). Something in me is itching to share this but I don't know If I should
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Sanjog And "bad Timing" / Divorce 1 2
by Guest ConfusedSingh- 10 replies
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Fateh Ji, Can singhs/singhnis of the board please explain to me why god puts people through divorce? I hear elders say "it was sanjog and couldnt be stopped". Are we supposed to believe in that? Amirtdhari divorces happening everywhere....where is the sanctity of marriage? Is it "bad timing"? Curses? Why would god put his sevaks through this?
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Cant Look At Myself
by Guest disgrace- 3 replies
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Fataeh I'm amrit shakya and female and i masturbated once only and i feel bad its not intercourse so im not sure what to do. It took three days to realise i made mistake, but i don't know if im wrong or really wrong.
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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