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Waheguru ji, Any ideas for mother days gift? Does Anyone have good Quality picture If Dhan Mata Gujri Kaur ji, thannnnnnnnnx

hahaha theres always a good and bad, YEs sum ppl get stuck with a partner that doesnt walk on the path of sikhi, and maybe they looked like they did becuz looks are decieving, it is kalara if we make it a mess, so we making a mess would be dating every girl in town HAHAHAHa-- u kno what i mean vikaar dristi naal kuriyaa dekhi janeeya, not cool and not good for ur eyes, if its a nice bibi she wont like u becuz she can see the ghand/dirt on ur eyes, respect everyone as a sister, Maharaj apay rista karlogay thru family/ gursikhs, jsut dont get excited that just causes us to fall becuz our mun becomes kaala(fast) so when we do things in a hurry that is usually when we make a mistake (like driving for example-better safe than sorry! happened to me today worst highway driving day ever lol) me persoanlly i would never want a girlfrend they Pi** me off soooooooo much, they say to their bf--get me this get me that,, ohh u never think bout me why didnt u do this,, always complaining and wanting attention, Bhaji i kno exactly what ur talking bout as to why even bother getting married, U can take 2 paths, dont get married but for a single man with hormones ur gonna have trouble controlling so u gonna need alot of abhyaaaaaas and kirpa, on the other side u do get married--- that does not mean kuli shooti( ur free to do w/e) u still have to control kaam, I heard in KAtha Mahapursh Dhan Dhan Giani Gurbachan Singh ji said that a women-Suhaagan should not see anyone as a man but her husband, she does not have the desire to look upon anyone else-- As for a Male-- ur are only to see ur wife as a women, everyone else is family-sisters,mothers,daughters Sum ppl there minds are so dirty every where they look they have kaam furney, thats groseness to the max, its sooooo bad man its KALJUG,, i was innocent about this but Maharaj made it clear to me, that even Guys that are 30 year olds they look upon teenage girls in a bad way, :sad:, thats disgusting And girls tell me they see uncles married men with older children,, looking at them with their dirrty eyes, :o Oh Satyug why cant we go back to u, when everyone spoke truth

This is Awsome! Where he goes he has to face us!, his past is coming back to haunt him and this time he isn't getting a promotion hes gonna get SERVED! Waheguru U can't hide ur paap anymore, the curtains have been lifted now EVERYONE knows what u did, u inhuman monster!

:D Waheguru Ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh!! WWW.GURSEVAK.COM Has just been updated which means that there is a newlayout and a new link that walks you through the steps of Getting Online Santhiya! Santhiya If you have already gotten Santhiya, I humbly Request you to listen to Gareebi Pothi <3 I Can't express the sukh that Daasan Daas Recieved from Reading this pothi and listening to the recordings, Burn a Cd of Gareebi Pothi Recordings and Listen to Them While you Drive to Work or to the Gurdwara, Guru Sahib's Bani is Pure Amrit, and the meanings are jewels that if we bring those teachings into our lives we can be saved from the Fire of Kaljug, "Gareebi pothi (atleast completing 1 paath by listening to the recordings and following along with pothi). This will aid in understanding arths, bring peace of mind, and understanding of guru sahibs' teaching to fight five vices." Gareebi Pothi Info ਐਸਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਰਤਨੁ ਨਿਰਮੋਲਕੁ ਪੁੰਨਿ ਪਦਾਰਥੁ ਪਾਇਆ ॥ Such is the Naam, the Name of the Lord, the invaluable jewel, the most sublime wealth, which I have found through good deeds. ਅਨਿਕ ਜਤਨ ਕਰਿ ਹਿਰਦੈ ਰਾਖਿਆ ਰਤਨੁ ਨ ਛਪੈ ਛਪਾਇਆ ॥੧॥ By various efforts, I have enshrined it within my heart; this jewel cannot be hidden by hiding it. ||1|| ਹਰਿ ਗੁਨ ਕਹਤੇ ਕਹਨੁ ਨ ਜਾਈ ॥ The Glorious Praises of the Lord cannot be spoken by speaking. ਜੈਸੇ ਗੂੰਗੇ ਕੀ ਮਿਠਿਆਈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ They are like the sweet candies given to a mute. ||1||Pause|| ਰਸਨਾ ਰਮਤ ਸੁਨਤ ਸੁਖੁ ਸ੍ਰਵਨਾ ਚਿਤ ਚੇਤੇ ਸੁਖੁ ਹੋਈ ॥ The tongue speaks, the ears listen, and the mind contemplates the Lord; they find peace and comfort. ਕਹੁ ਭੀਖਨ ਦੁਇ ਨੈਨ ਸੰਤੋਖੇ ਜਹ ਦੇਖਾਂ ਤਹ ਸੋਈ ॥੨॥੨॥ Says Bheekhan, my eyes are content; wherever I look, there I see the Lord. ||2||2|| The First Picture Below is of Baba Jaswant Singh ji Student of Sant Gurbachan Singh ji Khalsa. The Picture on the left is of Dhan Dhan Sant Giani Gurbachan Singh Ji Khalsa. The First Picture Is From BC, Bhagat Ji taught a Class at a Kaurs United Kamai Camp, They Did Jaap Of this Shabad: Bina Santokh Nahee ko-oo Rajay|| (From Sukhmani Sahib)

ਨਿਰਗੁਣੁ ਰਾਖਿ ਲੀਆ ਸੰਤਨ ਕਾ ਸਦਕਾ ॥ Nirguṇ rākẖ lī▫ā sanṯan kā saḏkā. I am unworthy, but He has saved me, for the sake of the Saints. ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਢਾਕਿ ਲੀਆ ਮੋਹਿ ਪਾਪੀ ਪੜਦਾ ॥ Saṯgur dẖāk lī▫ā mohi pāpī paṛ▫ḏā. The True Guru has covered by faults; I am such a sinner. ਢਾਕਨਹਾਰੇ ਪ੍ਰਭੂ ਹਮਾਰੇ ਜੀਅ ਪ੍ਰਾਨ ਸੁਖਦਾਤੇ ॥ Dẖākanhāre parabẖū hamāre jī▫a parān sukẖ▫ḏāṯe. God has covered for me; He is the Giver of the soul, life and peace. ਅਬਿਨਾਸੀ ਅਬਿਗਤ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਪੂਰਨ ਪੁਰਖ ਬਿਧਾਤੇ ॥ Abẖināsī abigaṯ su▫āmī pūran purakẖ biḏẖāṯe. My Lord and Master is Eternal and Unchanging, Ever-present; He is the Perfect Creator, the Architect of Destiny. ਉਸਤਤਿ ਕਹਨੁ ਨ ਜਾਇ ਤੁਮਾਰੀ ਕਉਣੁ ਕਹੈ ਤੂ ਕਦ ਕਾ ॥ Usṯaṯ kahan na jā▫e ṯumārī ka▫uṇ kahai ṯū kaḏ kā. Your Praise cannot be described; who can say where You are? ਨਾਨਕ ਦਾਸੁ ਤਾ ਕੈ ਬਲਿਹਾਰੀ ਮਿਲੈ ਨਾਮੁ ਹਰਿ ਨਿਮਕਾ ॥੪॥੧॥੧੧॥ Nānak ḏās ṯā kai balihārī milai nām har nimkā. ||4||1||11|| Slave Nanak is a sacrifice to the one who blesses him with the Lord's Name, even for an instant. ||4||1||11|| Once you have given you head to Guru Sahib by taking AMrit Guru Sahib paij rakhdey, Guru Sahib saves our respect, Our Father is Guru Gobind Singh ji Why should we worry? Reading Bani gives us inner strength, power and Confidence, we oursleves dont have any power to do any good, its all Maharaj di kirpa, Nanak Naam Chardi Kala Teri Bhane SARBAt da Bhala!

Guru Sahib has blessed us with the Khalsa Family! I have countless brothers and sisters! We share the same love and values for our Beautiful Faith, They Give me support so that I do not waver on this path, They give me their shoulder for support, When i loose my direction in life, Guru Sahib Speaks to me Through his Sons, My Khalsa Brothers are Fierce and Strong, When I feel I dont have the strength anymore, Their Strong Words Pick me up again, When I am feeling down, My Khalsa Sisters lovingly embrace me! I feel the light vibrating inside them, I am forever a sacrifice to their Strength, They walk with such grace, Their Auras uplift even the lowest beings, We look up and we see a women with a Dastar We see Guru Gobind Singh jis Proud Daughter, We look into her eyes and we see a bright future, I am forever a sacrifice to their beauty, Dhan Dhan is Our Dasmesh Father, Vaaho Vaaho Gobind Singh Ji! No worldy Father is capable of this Love, The True Love that stays with us even when our body departs, My heart is Pierced by Your Sacrifice, I Place before you, my soul and my life, Please Save My Honor, I wish never to fall from the Title as Your Daughter, Give me Strength So that I can Fight, KHALSA soee jo Karay nit jung! Give me Strength to Slay the 5 demons! And bless me with ur Heavenly qualities of Forgivness, Mercy, Contentment, Truth and Love, May I see Your Light everywhere I look, Dhan Dhan Guru Gobind Singh ji! Dhan Dhan Guru Nanak Dev Sahib ji! Tuhi Nirankar!

Random FlashBack :6 : When I was 8 I attended a Summer Khalsa School Camp at the Gurdwara. My parents were Amritdhari so I was used to sitting and doing Rehras every evening and I knew the rule that i have to wash my hands before holding the english/gurmukhi Gutka Sahib, So one day during the Camp we were having snack time, the camp councellors were telling us(all the kids) to hurry and go and sit in the darbar---> it was time for Rehras sahib. I stuffed my mouth with ketchup chips and wiped my hands on my suit and ran up the staires to sit in Darbar Sahib. We were all handed Gutka Sahibs, As you all know Ketchup chips leave a red powder/flavoring all over ur hands, I felt bad and scared at the same time for getting ketchup flavoring all over the gutka sahib, After Rehras I was relieved when I handed the Gutka Sahib to the person collecting them---> thinking im glad no one saw what I did :umm: .,,, The next day for Rehras, I washed my Hands and Sat in Darbar--> :sad: i tried to ignore the feelings of uneasiness when i thought about what i did yesterday, I sat waiting to recieve a Gutka Sahib, When i was handed the Gutka Sahib--> i looked at it and it was the same one i had yesterday it had Ketchup Flavoring all over the front cover :o Omg God KNOWS and sees everything, even if the person next to me doesn't even see my misdeeds!! What was the possiblity of getting the same Gutka sahib??,, , this was a huge camp the darbar was full of kids!! Oh Waheguru I am soo sorry for the beadbi and seek forgiveness from the Sangat by placing the dust of their feet to my forehead, I have Siblings and they have left Sikhi Totally, they were born into it but they did not make it their own, they did not realize that they were blessed to be born into a family which gave them another chance to live this lifestyle, instead they chose to fit in with society, I get along with my siblings but i dont have a connection with them on the emotional/spiritual level., It doesnt matter tho, becuz! Guru Sahib has blessed us with the Khalsa Family! I have countless brothers and sisters! We share the same love and values for our Beautiful Faith, They Give me support so that I do not waver on this path, They give me their shoulder for support, When i loose my direction in life, Guru Sahib Speaks to me Through his Sons, My Khalsa Brothers are Fierce and Strong, When I feel I dont have the strength anymore, Their Strong Words Pick me up again, When I am feeling down, My Khalsa Sisters lovingly embrace me! I feel the light vibrating inside them, I am forever a sacrifice to their Strength, They walk with such grace, Their Auras uplift even the lowest beings, We look up and we see a women with a Dastar We see Guru Gobind Singh jis Proud Daughter, We look into her eyes and we see a bright future, I am forever a sacrifice to their beauty, Dhan Dhan is Our Dasmesh Father, Vaaho Vaaho Gobind Singh Ji! No worldy Father is capable of this Love, The True Love that stays with us even when our body departs, My heart is Pierced by Your Sacrifice, I Place before you, my soul and my life, Please Save My Honor, I wish never to fall from the Title as Your Daughter, Give me Strength So that I can Fight, KHALSA soee jo Karay nit jung! Give me Strength to Slay the 5 demons! And bless me with ur Heavenly qualities of Forgivness, Mercy, Contentment, Truth and Love, May I see Your Light everywhere I look, Dhan Dhan Guru Gobind Singh ji! Dhan Dhan Guru Nanak Dev Sahib ji! Tuhi Nirankar!

Waheguru!! Thanx for sharing your beautiful story bhanjio<3 ਫਰੀਦਾ ਪਿਛਲ ਰਾਤਿ ਨ ਜਾਗਿਓਹਿ ਜੀਵਦੜੋ ਮੁਇਓਹਿ ॥ Farīḏā picẖẖal rāṯ na jāgi▫ohi jīvaḏ▫ṛo mu▫i▫ohi. Fareed, if you do not awaken in the early hours before dawn, you are dead while yet alive. ਜੇ ਤੈ ਰਬੁ ਵਿਸਾਰਿਆ ਤ ਰਬਿ ਨ ਵਿਸਰਿਓਹਿ ॥੧੦੭॥ Je ṯai rab visāri▫ā ṯa rab na visari▫ohi. ||107|| Although you have forgotten God, God has not forgotten you. ||107|| I am such a papi, i become beymukh and turn away from my Guru, Guru Sahib is the Light!---> just as when we walk toward the sun our shadow is left behind us, in such a away all the darkness,obstacles,doubts and negativity is left behind us when we walk towards Guru Sahib<3

True Story: A couple weeks ago I was told by a friend about a simran program that takes place every morning @ 3:30am. I googled the directions and saw that I would have to leave by 3:00am to reach the Gurdwara Sahib on time. I put my alarm on for 2:30, Recited Kirtan Sohila and went to sleep. As you can see I was too lazy to do ardas be4, I just went to sleep like an animal! The next Morning the Alarm rang I pressed snooze once and then I just turned the alarm off altogether::: You know how when ur mind comes up with excuses to why its okay to go back to sleep, thats Maya’s illusion rite there, makin us believe in the dream and forget the reality of this world, So being the Kaljugi Jeev I am, I went back to sleep and I totally missed amrit vela, ਫਰੀਦਾ ਚਾਰਿ ਗਵਾਇਆ ਹੰਢਿ ਕੈ ਚਾਰਿ ਗਵਾਇਆ ਸੰਮਿ ॥ Fareed, the hours of the day are lost wandering around, and the hours of the night are lost in sleep. ਲੇਖਾ ਰਬੁ ਮੰਗੇਸੀਆ ਤੂ ਆਂਹੋ ਕੇਰ੍ਹੇ ਕੰਮਿ ॥੩੮॥ God will call for your account, and ask you why you came into this world. ||38|| That Morning I had to go Pick Sumone up and it was raining outside, so I quickly ran to my car and shut the door. I parked my car on the road last night so that it would be easier for me to go to the Gurdwara instead of having to move my brothers car. So im driving its raining and the wippers are going and after 10 mins I notice theres a ticket on my window~(ur not alowed to park on the side of the road at night)! "<banned word filter activated>!!" "I just got my license damn im done! my parents are gonna kill me! I am So irresponsible argh, ,,,what if they take away my driving privlegdges becuz i am such an <banned word filter activated>!"- the thoughts going thru my mind as I drive,, When I parked at my destination, I got out of the car and I grabbed the wet ticket as I waited for the person who I was picking up, And guess what time i got that parketing violation ticket!!!!!! 3:30am----------->>the time i was suppose to be at the gurdwara for simran!! Maharaj has given me a fine! im a tankhiya!!,, This incident made me me realize how much i am suffering spiritually without Amrit Vela, Im a tankhiya everyday when I sleep thru Amrit Vela, I am a disgrace! how can I call myself ur daughter? im a kuputhri--i follow my manmat--i have not sacrificed nething, how can i say i love u if i cant even give up my love for sleep? im such a janvar (animal) All i car about is sleep and food, while my poor soul gets hushed over and over again to the point I dont hear that voice inside me anymore, My EGO has taken over—Oh the PAIN! Oh man sumone slap me more, becuz I keep falling asleep--my mind is asleep to Guru Sahibs Teachings, I need to wake up! ਜਾਗ ਲੇਹੁ ਰੇ ਮਨਾ ਜਾਗ ਲੇਹੁ ਕਹਾ ਗਾਫਲ ਸੋਇਆ ॥ Wake up, O mind! Wake up! Why are you sleeping unaware? ਜੋ ਤਨੁ ਉਪਜਿਆ ਸੰਗ ਹੀ ਸੋ ਭੀ ਸੰਗਿ ਨ ਹੋਇਆ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ That body, which you were born with, shall not go along with you in the end. ||1||Pause|| ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਬੰਧ ਜਨ ਹਿਤੁ ਜਾ ਸਿਉ ਕੀਨਾ ॥ Mother, father, children and relatives whom you love, ਜੀਉ ਛੂਟਿਓ ਜਬ ਦੇਹ ਤੇ ਡਾਰਿ ਅਗਨਿ ਮੈ ਦੀਨਾ ॥੧॥ will throw your body into the fire, when your soul departs from it. ||1|| ਜੀਵਤ ਲਉ ਬਿਉਹਾਰੁ ਹੈ ਜਗ ਕਉ ਤੁਮ ਜਾਨਉ ॥ Your worldly affairs exist only as long as you are alive; know this well. ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਨ ਗਾਇ ਲੈ ਸਭ ਸੁਫਨ ਸਮਾਨਉ ॥੨॥੨॥ O Nanak, sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord; everything is like a dream. ||2||2|| http://www.flickr.com/photos/d-kaur/4251518812/

I have seen women in toronto tie this style of patka:Joora patka style I think this style is better then just a rumaal, becuz rumaal slip off, this stays on longer if u tie a rumaal underneath then tie patka, and plus all ur hair gets covered properly, but to tell u the truth dastar is the most comfortable, i use to do a joora but i have really heavy hair, so when i started tying a dastar it felt the most comfortable, ur choice to tie it on ur ears or over, u can do so many styles you do not have to wear a chunni over ur dastar or patka, its ur choice basically

did sumone say there are no sikh rappers?!? theres humble the poet and i am sure there are alot, i dunno why but alot of singhs can be seen as "gansgter-type" lol so i guess they like being more bl ack, i unno but yea rappers are common, and theres rabbi sher gil?

Waheguru!!! This is Awsome!! Bhenji could not have said it any better!! Thank you<3

Waheguru ji, I posted the email i got exactly how i recieved it, so the notes in it are by the sender also, i have not added any new info to the email,, ----------->>I was blessed with Baba Thakhur Singh jis Darshan when i was 10 years old, Baba ji and singhs came to our house for langar, my Mom made Saag becuz she knows bajurgs like Saag, so she realy wanted to make sumthing baba ji would like,, Baba ji wasn feeling that well so he was upstaires resting on the bed, the singhs that were with baba ji said that baba ji is not going to eat and they had brought his dhaal, So my Mom was a lil sad that she wasnt going to be able to do seva of baba ji,, After a while Baba ji told one of the singhs to bring him roti and saag :D oh waheguru maharaj dey piayrey kno everything, they know our desires our thoughts,they kno everything! And another time Baba ji came i remeber seeing him doing seva of serving langar, baba ji gave the sangat sukka parshad , Baba ji also went for a walk around our neighbourhood street as a singh with Baba ji recited Gurbani, I was 10-years-old but just seeing a glimpse of Baba jis way of life, his nimrata in serving the sangat is a treasure in itself <3 Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh ji!

Waheguru ji! I was lucky to be forwarded this email from a friend of a friend, Enjoy!<3 Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh Ji, Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh Ji, Dhan Dhan… Baba Ji and Their Respect and Love for Their Daughters Many people create lies that Damdami Taksal is in some way a sexist or woman hating organization. This is completely false. The leaders of Damdami Taksal have judged people based on their love, rather than their gender. Here are a few stories involving Sant Baba Thakur Singh ji and bibian. 1) "When Baba Ji was due to go to New York, America, the bibi whose house they would be keeping rahesh at, wondered what Baba Ji looked like as she had never had their darshan. She would wonder to herself all the time. As she would sit and do sukhmani sahib, she remembers that a elderly singh used to come and sit in the same room and then leave just before she would finish Sukhmani Sahib, she did not know who he was, and never had the chance to ask as he would leave before she would finish. The day came when Baba Ji and the jatha arrived in New York, the bibi had been busy preparing and getting the house ready for Baba Jis arrival, as she went to the front door to welcome them, she stopped.... the Mahapursh who she had long been awaiting to get darshan of and wondered what they looked like was the same 'elderley singh' who had come to listen to her recite Sukhmani Sahib.. Astounded at first, the bibi realised that Baba Ji was more than what she could ever explain in words, and was the truest form of a Brahamgyanni... Baba Ji saw her astonishment and just smiled Dhan Dhan Sant Baba Thakur Singh Ji" 2) In the UK, a particular Singhnee wanted to visit Baba Thakur Singh ji. Many times, Baba Ji would rest in their room at any given time during the day, and be with the Singhs. Sometimes the Singhs would maalash Baba Ji, and none of us really know what other bachan/bilaas Baba Ji did with Guru Sahib/other mahapurkhs when they were alone. This Bibi asked the Singhs if she could visit Baba Ji. The Singhs said, “no, you are here alone, and there are no other bibian in this room. Therefore, you cannot meet Baba Ji, being the only bibi here.” Bibi Ji said, “please, I really want to get Baba Ji’s darshan, please let me meet them, it’s not my fault that I came here alone…” The Singhs still refused and went into the room. Bibi Ji was sitting outside crying to herself, for her soul thirsted for Baba Ji’s darshan. Baba Ji immediately knew what was going on (Baba Ji knew so many things we did not know). Baba Ji asked the Singhs, “is there some Bibi sitting outside?” the Singhs shyly said “yes Baba Ji, but we didn’t let her inside because…” and Baba Ji immediately said, “bring her inside!” To the shock of all of the Singhs in the room, Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh ji remained sitting with Bibi Ji and talking to her for HOURS. Baba Ji did not care that she was a Bibi and the room was full of Singhs, Baba Ji saw the true love in her heart and treated her as if she’s no different from the Singhs. 3) Recently on Indian TV (in early 2009), Baba Ranjit Singh (Dhadriawala) began sharing stories of Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh ji. Many people call pyare Baba Thakur Singh ji a “liar”, because they mention that Sant Jarnail Singh ji Khalsa Bhinderanwale will still return and did not get Shaheed yet. Although Ranjit Singh’s views are mixed on this, he emphasized on TV, “Who in this world says Baba Thakur Singh ji is a liar? Any such person, come before me, and I will tell you…” Baba Ranjit Singh continued saying, “very recently, some widow Singhneea from 1984 came to me. They told me that they need money, and I have, with Guru Ji’s kirpa, given them as much as I can. I was shocked to hear their story.” Baba Ranjit Singh continued explaining that these bibian mentioned, “Baba Thakur Singh ji was the only person who ever helped us. When Baba Ji was alive, he never once let us feel that our husbands were no longer with us… But when Baba Ji left us, is the day that we truly felt the floor under our feet dissipating…. We felt that our father had left us.” This is the untold story of Sant Baba Thakur Singh ji. No one in the world really realizes that when Babaji did worldwide parchaar and received money, it was going towards the widow mothers and sisters in India who had no money to feed their children… Baba Ji used the donations they received internationally to feed the women who our Panth “shoved” under the rug. And now those same people who didn’t help our women, call Baba Ji names? Dhan Dhan Baba Thakur Singh ji… 4) Once, Baba Ji was in California and asked some Singhs to come in the room and maalish their legs. A Singhnee was there with her three children and asked her husband, “Please, can you go and maalish Baba Ji’s legs? I am a woman so he would never let me touch him… Please, at least do this Seva so part of my desire for Baba Ji’s seva will be fulfilled.” The husband agreed and did seva of Baba Ji. Baba Ji, in the meanwhile, as always, heard everyone’s thoughts. A little later, Baba Ji was invited over to the Singhnee’s house, with all of the Singhs. The Singhnee had so much devotion and love in her heart for Baba Ji, as a true father. When the vehicle arrived, Singhnee went outside after a while to see why the Singhs wouldn’t come inside. She thought in her head, while gazing at Baba Ji, “Baba Ji, tusi aajo hun”. Immediately, Baba Ji told the Singhs, “challo challo Singho, utho hun.” Singhnee Ji stood by the front door with water and a towel, her soul was screaming to wash and touch Baba Ji’s feet, but her negative self talk said, “I am a woman, Baba Ji would NEVER let me touch their feet…” Baba Ji then walked upto the Bibi and put his blessed charan in front of her. Bibi Ji had tears in her eyes and washed the first charan, and she thought to herself, can I actually touch it? She heard Baba Ji’s thoughts telling her, “it’s okay, my daughter, you can touch my foot as well.” Singhnee ji touched Baba Ji’s charan and began cleaning it. She was scared that Baba ji would get mad because she’s a woman, and some less spiritually developed Singhs emphasize that women should never touch Singhs, etc. Baba ji put their other charan forward as well, mentally telling Bibi Ji, “it’s okay, you can touch this charan too.” Singhnee ji felt through some strange non-verbal Gurmukh communication with Baba ji, that Baba Ji told her she is allowed to do the same Seva the Singhs do, even if she is a Singhnee. 5) Another time in the UK, Baba Ji was staying at some Sangats house with a Singh & Bibi Ji. Baba Ji had stayed there often & the Bibi Ji loved Baba Ji like a true father. One day a family came and wanted to take Baba Ji to their house. Baba Ji at this time was in Smaadhi in the living room (for 30 mins) and the family ended up getting up to eat langar in the meanwhile. The Bibi Ji of the house was in so much bairaag that Baba Ji was going to leave because since they had arrived, there was so much raunak in the house of sangat coming over, etc. and just the blessed sangat of Baba Ji in itself was amazing. As Baba Ji sat in smaadh, the Bibi Ji sat across and in her mind pleaded with Baba Ji to stay and not leave. After a while, Baba Ji said, Bibi, ethe aah. And they said, sada jee ta nei karda jaan nu, par sabh sangataa diya bentiya manauniya pendiya (our heart does not want to leave, but we have to listen to the requests of all sangat). Baba ji knew the pains of peoples hearts without them even saying a word. 6) There is one story that Baba Thakur Singh ji always used to tell younger kathavaachik Singhs to share at Anand Kaarajs. It is of a Singhnee from Maharaja Ranjit Singh’s time. She was a naujavaan Singhnee and was one day approached by a Muslim man on horseback. The man saw Singhnee and looked at her with very bad intentions. He stopped his horse, jumped off, and left his gun on the horse. He began walking towards Singhnee and as soon as he reached out to grab her, Singhnee Ji pulled out her Sri Sahib and fed it to the attacker. He died. Singhnee Ji had the courage to take off the man’s soldier outfit and put it on, wear his gun, and jump on his horse. She rode the horse all the way to Sri Darbar Sahib and went in front of all of the Sangat to share her story!!! She said, “Sadh Sangat Ji, because of this 9-inch Sri Sahib that Dhan Dhan Sri Guru Gobind Singh ji has blessed me with, my honour was saved today. If I did not have this 9-inch Sri Sahib, only God knows what my state would have been by now… This Sri Sahib has exalted and saved me - Dhan Dhan Guru Gobind Singh ji for providing His Sikhs with this!” Baba Ji always emphasized from this story that Sikhs, especially Sikh women, are reminded to be armed and the Kathavaachik Singh who I heard this from mentioned that a 9-inch Sri Sahib is the bare minimum rule for protecting ourselves, based on history. Baba Ji wanted this story mentioned at weddings so that Singhneea would be reminded that they have to be tyaar bar tyaar, just like Singhs. There are many other examples of Baba Ji uplifting the status of his daughters and treating them with equal regard, respect, and love. Hopefully we can share more as time progresses. A few other great stories of Baba Ji: Baba Ji arrived at Australia airport, Giani Gurdev Singh and other singhs were at the airport waiting to greet Baba Ji. Their was a singh who had never seen Baba Ji before and never even seen a photo of Baba Ji. In the singhs mind was that Baba Ji will be really tall and big like Sant Jarnail Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale, when Baba Ji came out te singhs all greated Baba Ji and that singh was surprised that, is that Baba Ji, he’s small. As soon as Baba Ji got in his car to go to his house whenever he looked at Baba Ji he started seeing Baba Ji in a very big roop. Even his car when he was taking Baba Ji home was puling to the side because of the weight of Baba Ji and the size of what he was seeing. As soon as he got home he told a singh that he did shanka on Baba Ji and now when ever he looks at them, that he sees them in a very big roop. The singh took him to Baba Ji and the singh started asking for forgiveness to Baba Ji, Baba Ji gave him an apple and said “everything will be alright. It isn’t me whos making you see things, its Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji that’s making you see things, Oh meri laaj rakhde neh” Baba Ji phoned Giani Amolak Singh and said to them that, “everybody is saying on stage that Sant Ji’s in chardikala, their will be a time where no one will say this on stage” Predicting the Future: -Baba Ji said that their will be one day where our own headquarters (Mehta) will one day announce that Sant Giani Jarnail Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale is shaheed. That they will announce it worldwide. -Baba Ji said in the U.K. that their will be 3 paghan (dastaran) that get taken. Meaning that their will be 3 people that start saying that their the Damdami Taksal’s Jathedar. -Baba Ji said that when Sant Giani Jarnail Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale re-appears that they wont be that many singhs staying at Mehta, like their used to be. -On Baba Ji’s last visit in the U.K. they told quite a few family’s to save their money, because when Sant Ji comes, they will need seva and to send Sant Ji it. For example Baba told a family in Southall where Baba Ji used to stay, to save their money and to send it to Sant Ji when he returns also Baba told a family in Walsall and Baba Ji also told three Singh’s in Leeds to save their money aswell. Also Baba Ji said to the three Singh’s that make sure they come to India before the Jang because the Government will shut down all access to India including flights etc and you won’t have a chance to come after so make sure you come to India before the Jang starts. -Once, Baba Ji and the Singhs drove past a Dera of Nang Phoola (the one who recently was killed by brave jail inmates). The Singhs made a point to Baba Ji whose Dera they were driving by. Baba Ji mentioned, “eh sar ke maruga… sar ke maruga” (meaning, this guy will burn to death… He will be burned to death). This is actually what happened very recently – Nang Phoola was lit on fire and died because of burn wounds. Cute: Baba Ji was watching the Punjab news and the rashtapati was giving the Hindu’s medals, Baba Ji watched and said “Go on, give out medals, when you have a fight with the muslims, don’t come to us Sikhs for help”. Bhai Manna Singh and Bhai Heera Singh was doing Baba Ji’s malish. Once they had finished, They helped Baba Ji to put on a choala. While they where helping to put on the choala, one of Baba Ji’s arm got stuck in the choala. Across the room their was Sant Giani Jarnail Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale’s photo and Baba Ji put one of his arms towards the photo and said that “Come on back now from wherever you are, I’m getting old now, come on back quickly.” ^ That one almost made me cry. Bhai Janak Singh came to Southall to visit Baba Ji. Baba Ji did his satkaar and was very happy to see him. Baba Ji gave him loads of fruit to eat and had a long conversation with him. When Bhai Janak Singh was leaving, Baba Ji specially got up of their bed and grabbed Bhai Janak Singh’s hand and specially walked them to their car. Bhai Janak Singh requested to Baba Ji that the wheather’s cold, that to go back inside, but Baba Ji replied that it doesn’t matter about the wheather, that who knows when we will meet again. That was the final time that Bhai Janak Singh did darshan of Baba Ji. Bhai Janak Singh passed away later on that year at Sri Hemkunt Sahib. Once Babaji was staying at a beloved Singhs house in the UK, with a couple that had (and still has) limitless prem for Babaji. Babaji was resting on their bed while a Singh sat nearby reciting Gurbani. All of a sudden Babaji shot up from their rest and began pacing back and forth into the room. After a while, Baba ji finally returned to normal. Some time later, the confused Paathi Singh asked what had happened. Babaji said, while they were resting, Sant Baba Gurbachan Singh ji Khalsa Bhinderanwale came to the edge of the bed and sat down at the ground where Baba ji's charn were. Baba ji couldn't handle this and shot up immediately until Sant ji left. (This was a few years ago). The Paathi sing was left amazed and had no words to speak. ^ This makes me very alert. Baba Thakur Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale would always prepare smundar for Sant Gyani Baba Kartar Singh Ji Khalsa Bhindranwale every night. He would always have two glasses of smundar (full garvee), one for Sant Ji and one glass for any other Gursikh sitting with Sant Ji. One night Baba Ji prepared two glasses of smundar and was sitting with Sant Ji. One Gursikh sitting near was reading Bani. Suddenly, four gursikhs came in the room. Sant Ji told Baba Ji to serve smundar to gursikhs. Baba Ji covered the garvee with a cloth and started filling up the steel glasses. All four gursikhs drank smundar and after a while all left. Sant Ji then said “Baba Ji, please give me and this Gursikh some smundar too”. Baba Ji filled two glasses and gave ‘em to Sant Ji and the Gursikh. Then Baba Ji left and Sant Ji told the Gursikh to leave. As the Gursikh was leaving he looked in the garvee and there was still some smundar left. Six glasses came out of a garvee of two. This was the power of true Gursikhs. There are COUNTLESS other stories, but perhaps we should save it for another day. Go to this link to read the article: Remembering baba Takhur Singh ji: http://manvirsingh.blogspot.com/2008/12/remembering-baba-thakur-singh-jee.html

Waheguru ji! We could send around the link of this thread so people read it and start japping! Or sumone could mkae a facebook group,send mass emails, If someone made like one page on a website kind of like maybe a poster it would get the word out more :D Nanak Naam Chardi Kala teri bhane sarbat da bhula! Dhan Guru Nanak Dev Sahib ji Maharaj jeo! Tuhi Nirankar!!

Waheguru ji! My hair is past my knees! and it has alot of volume also, I had a problem figuring out how to handle my hair also, this is what i do, i do a pancake joora so i dont tie a knot, its a sort of loose joora that is on right centre on the top of my head and then i tie a patka or u can tie a rumall to ensure the joora doesnt move, then u tie small dastar for support and neatness, second dastar to finish off this way my dastar is nice and round and my joora isnt sticking out at all, my dastar is a perfect size, with practise u will be easily be able to handle ur hair,, when i wanted to start tying a dastar, it was hard for bibya to tie a dastar on my becuz they didnt know how to handle such long hair lol! Good luck!

ਮੇਰੋ ਸੁੰਦਰੁ ਕਹਹੁ ਮਿਲੈ ਕਿਤੁ ਗਲੀ ॥ Tell me - on what path will I find my Beauteous Lord? ਹਰਿ ਕੇ ਸੰਤ ਬਤਾਵਹੁ ਮਾਰਗੁ ਹਮ ਪੀਛੈ ਲਾਗਿ ਚਲੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ O Saints of the Lord, show me the Way, and I shall follow. ||1||Pause|| Waheguru ji, i went to india last year and i was mostly stuck in family functions weddings, there was not much time to just spend on yatra, We didnt stay much at Darbar sahib either and i am a girl so i was not allowed to just take a bus to amritsar by myself type of thing, So one day our whole family went to Darbar sahib, we all kinda split up and did our own thing, sumone mite sit and listen to kirtan in the big parkarma or go to Akal Takhat sahib, I was really enjoying just being alone after being stuck with family 24/7,, Now it was just me and Guru Sahib, Sada ang sang<3 I sat on the top of floor of darbar sahib and began to recite Sukhmani sahib, Since i had been in india i had the desire to have the Darshan of a Pooran Gursikh Brahamgiani, my thirst was not quenced it was deep aching pain inside my hirda, ਹਮ ਸੰਤਨ ਕੀ ਰੇਨੁ ਪਿਆਰੇ ਹਮ ਸੰਤਨ ਕੀ ਸਰਣਾ ॥ I am the dust of the feet of the Beloved Saints; I seek the Protection of their Sanctuary ਸੰਤ ਹਮਾਰੀ ਓਟ ਸਤਾਣੀ ਸੰਤ ਹਮਾਰਾ ਗਹਣਾ ॥੧॥ The Saints are my all-powerful Support; the Saints are my ornament and decoration. ||1|| As i sat reciting sukhmani sahib i stood up so i wouldnt get tired of sitting, and i was on the astpadhi Saadh kai sang mukh oojal hot || rite then a singhni with a blue dastar walked by and for sum reason i had the icha(the pull) to see her again so i was looking around and she had just done parkarma of Maharaj da Saroop and was rite infront of me it was so mutual we said fateh to eachother and I asked where she was from becuz she seemed like she was also from a western country, as we were having a short conversation she asked me if i had met Bhai Sahib Bhai Jeevan Singh ji and i said unfortunately no but i have heard of them, and shes like i kno where they live, do u want to go??!, and i said yes! let me just read 1 more astpadhi, ਸਾਧ ਕੈ ਸੰਗਿ ਨਹੀ ਕਛੁ ਘਾਲ ॥ In the Company of the Holy, there is no suffering. ਦਰਸਨੁ ਭੇਟਤ ਹੋਤ ਨਿਹਾਲ ॥ The Blessed Vision of their Darshan brings a sublime, happy peace. So Me and this random Singhni i just met walked over to Bhai Sahibs house which is like 5 mins away from the Harmandhar Sahib complex, we were warmly welcomed by the Gursikh couple that is taking care of Bhai Sahib,, I did not kno much about Bhai Sahib but i had extreme pyaar for Gursikhs, When we went into Bhai sahibs room he was laying there, and we helped him sit up,, i was not aware that bhai sahib was physically not well, becuz the first thing i saw was their ujal tej parkash saroop, their face just glowed and bhai sahib has the most beautiful smile =D Emotionally i was really down a couple days before because of Family issues and my head was stuck in the future, so i had no place of rest as my monkey mind was running all over the place freaking out about the future, But when i saw Bhai Sahib Ji, I knew that i had finally Had the Darshan of GuruSahibs Piyara Pooran Gursikh,, Brahmgiani ki drist amrit barsi|| His eyes Glistened with Amrit, I felt my burning hirda become shaant and cool, ,,there was a doctor that had come to look at bhai sahibs hipbone i think,, Me and the Random Singhni sat on the bed and kirtan was playing on the tv, it was such a tranquil environment, and Guru Sahib sent Beautiful Tuks of Bani into my surat (mind) which i had memorized months be4,, ਸੰਤਹ ਚਰਨ ਮਾਥਾ ਮੇਰੋ ਪਉਤ ॥ I touch my forehead to the feet of the Saints. ਅਨਿਕ ਬਾਰ ਸੰਤਹ ਡੰਡਉਤ ॥੧॥ Countless times, I humbly bow to the Saints. ||1|| Gurparsaadh i internally bowed to Guru Sahibs Pooran Gursikh and pictured this tuk of gurbani: ਐਸੀ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਮੋਹਿ ਕਰਹੁ ॥ Bless me with such mercy, Lord, ਸੰਤਹ ਚਰਣ ਹਮਾਰੋ ਮਾਥਾ ਨੈਨ ਦਰਸੁ ਤਨਿ ਧੂਰਿ ਪਰਹੁ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ that my forehead may touch the feet of the Saints, and my eyes may behold the Blessed Vision of their Darshan, and my body may fall at the dust of their feet. ||1||Pause|| Bhai Sahib Bhai jeevan Singh couldnt speak much becuz he is physically getting old, i could only make out sum words, he lovingly told us to eat langar and asked us to stay, he gave his granddaughters such love and warmth i felt like i was finally at home in the charans of Maharajs Gursevaks, Just Having Darshan of Bhai Sahib my thirst was quenched and my sharda for Gursikhi grew<3

sgpc- rehat maryada http://www.sgpc.net/sikhism/sikh-dharma-manual.asp i dont know much but i would think that the committee is kind of like a management system, managing program-kirtan, katha, Then Langar is sangats duty, but i have seen sumtimes there are 2 or 3 ppl that are always doing langar seva-so its either they have a duty or they just do it becuz they Love serving the sangat The main committee is to be of 5 amritdhari rehat singh rite? Basically any problem or anything the meeting would be with them, they list rules to follow like No Ppl with Haircut Allowed to Speak on stage-- I have seen this rule at a Gurdwara but it was changed becuz that city didnt have many amritdharees so it was hard to follow i guess? Nagarkeertan events--- u need a stage secretary to make annoucements, and tell snagat to come out or if u need donations for gurdwara renovations, need people to book programs for weekends which arfe unbooked Sumtimes Gurdwara stages can be very political and basically have a whole program of ppl doing speeches, i was at a divaan in india and i didnt understand a thing, one becuz i dont have interest for politics,, Yes we have to talk bout sum politics like theres upcoming election put ur votes in, But the Main Purpose of aGurdwara Sahib is that it is the Guru's Door, we are to go and humbly bow and surrender are manmat so it can be replaced with gurmat, A Gurdwara is a school, we are to learn and listen to Guru Sahibs Updesh Thru Katha Kirtan kavishri dhadhi and listen to Guru Sahibs Hukumnama, We are to enjoy time spent in Guru Sahibs Charan, that is the main purpose to serve the sangat and accomadate so they can absord Guru Sahibs Bani and Updesh, Langar is to fufill a physical need, When i am hungry i cant concentrrate, we arent yogis we dont starve oursleves we are to take care of our body as it is our temple and Ram resides Inside, There should always be sumone handling phone calls to the Gurdwara, as people will book programs for their house and at Gurdwara sahib, The Gurdwara Belongs to the Sangat, We just need People to Manage, supervise and make programs thats bout all i kno, theres prolly alot of roles ppl play in a Gurudwara management team type thing

The Way u understand what Guru Sahib is saying, is to personalize Guru Sahibs hukam, That Guru Sahib is Given me this updesh! i must understand and bring it into my life: ਗੁਰੂ ਦੁਆਰੈ ਹੋਇ ਸੋਝੀ ਪਾਇਸੀ ॥ गुरू दुआरै होइ सोझी पाइसी ॥ Gurū ḏu▫ārai ho▫e sojẖī pā▫isī. Through the Gurdwara, the Guru's Gate, one obtains understanding. This line really hit me hard, How often do u go to the Gurdwara? Guru Sahib is Saying Go to The Gurdwara you wont have any more ?s because you obtain understanding of Guru Sahibs Parm Pavitar Marag Panth! ਏਤੁ ਦੁਆਰੈ ਧੋਇ ਹਛਾ ਹੋਇਸੀ ॥ एतु दुआरै धोइ हछा होइसी ॥ Ėṯ ḏu▫ārai ḏẖo▫e hacẖẖā ho▫isī. By being washed through this Gate, it becomes pure. I Read Arth from Isher Micro Media and It GOes into Detail of How When We go to Guru Sahib we leave our ego aside, If we take our Ego with us to the gurdwara no teaching can go inside, we have to leave our manmat and listen to Guru sahib and walk toward this path by reading bani which when it is heard our ears are purified, our eyes become all-seeing they are no longer covered with the mayl dirt of our vikaars,, , What do we see when we have the dirt of Vikaars on our eyes? Anger=we get angry when we look at others and this world Greed= We look at others' material objects and we get the strong desire to obtain MORE Material Wealth then our neighbours, We are greedy we want more,"we want better quality" this & that,, we are never satisfied and our eyes r always looking at other ppls wealth, Emotional Attachment= We look at our children, friends, our gf/bfs, our family memebrs and we think they belong to us, we look at them thru such immense attachment that we cant bear to be apart for a week, but in the end no ones going with u newhere,, Sexual Desire=This seems to be basically the worst one, We look at the opposite sex at think sexual thoguhts, we check them out, we can see anyone as a brother/sister, everything is a sex object our eyes are perved out, soo much mayl on them, in kaljug incest occurs becuz of this dirt thinking and dirty tv shows, porn which corrupt our mind, Ego=We look at evryone like they are a piece of <banned word filter activated> compared to us, becuz Im so Smart, I have the best voice, I am such a Giani, I am so beautiful, We have so much Ego that we cant bear to see anyone better than us, thus we judge them to make our ego feel better ਮਨਿ ਮੈਲੈ ਸਭੁ ਕਿਛੁ ਮੈਲਾ ਤਨਿ ਧੋਤੈ ਮਨੁ ਹਛਾ ਨ ਹੋਇ ॥ मनि मैलै सभु किछु मैला तनि धोतै मनु हछा न होइ ॥ Man mailai sabẖ kicẖẖ mailā ṯan ḏẖoṯai man hacẖẖā na ho▫e. When the mind is filthy, everything is filthy; by washing the body, the mind is not cleaned. How Can this Disgusting Dirt Be Washed from our Eyes? Going to the Gurdwara and with immense love look upon our Beloved Dhan dhan Guru Granth Sahib ji ਜਿਨੀ ਡਿਠਾ ਮੇਰਾ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਭਾਉ ਕਰਿ ਤਿਨ ਕੇ ਸਭਿ ਪਾਪ ਗਵਾਈ ॥ Jinī diṯẖā merā saṯgur bẖā▫o kar ṯin ke sabẖ pāp gavā▫ī. Those who have gazed lovingly upon my True Guru - all their sins are taken away. A technique to memorize bani is to keep repeating 2 lines from a shabad, stare at the bani with so much concentration and memorize every lagh akhar, every onkar, siharee, memorize these 2 lines of bani to the point that you can give a written test and pass 100% when u close ur eyes picture the bani and akhars inside u as u say the shabd in ur mind our outloud, this is a good technique to concentrate and memorize bani and never 4get it ਮੈਲੇ ਹਛੇ ਕਾ ਵੀਚਾਰੁ ਆਪਿ ਵਰਤਾਇਸੀ ॥ मैले हछे का वीचारु आपि वरताइसी ॥ Maile hacẖẖe kā vīcẖār āp //ṯā▫isī. The Lord Himself sets the standards to differentiate between the dirty and the pure. Guru Sahib is Antarjamee, Maharaj knows how we think feel and act, so are we doing our actions in the purity of intention or thru our vikaars?! For example Sumone can call me bhenji with the utmost love and i feel they respect me as a sister becus of their sweet words and the vibes they give off, Now theres also another Singh who stutters and awkwardly says bhenji becuz his mind is so filthy he cant project the word bhenji and actually mean it, only Guru Sahib knows whos acting and whos real ਮਤੁ ਕੋ ਜਾਣੈ ਜਾਇ ਅਗੈ ਪਾਇਸੀ ॥ मतु को जाणै जाइ अगै पाइसी ॥ Maṯ ko jāṇai jā▫e agai pā▫isī. Do not think that you will automatically find a place of rest hereafter. ਜੇਹੇ ਕਰਮ ਕਮਾਇ ਤੇਹਾ ਹੋਇਸੀ ॥ जेहे करम कमाइ तेहा होइसी ॥ Jehe karam kamā▫e ṯehā ho▫isī. According to the actions one has committed, so does the mortal become. I think we need to balance our school with our spiritual life, Having a Spiritual Practise(NItnem, Simran, Gurdwara Sangat,Seva) will help us deal with our stress calmly and we will be more happy and energetic in general, meditation is rejeuvanating for your mind, like sleeping is rejeuvanating for your body,, If we plant deeds that are truthful(we dont cheat in exams, we dont pay sumone to do write a essay 4 us) Only then can we expect to reap the benefits of truthful actions, if we plant poison we will not be able to digest the posionous fruit that will come from it, it will cause pain, thats karma thats gonna kik u for all the times we've mistreated ppl, sworn and spoke harshly, If we Plant karams of Simran, Seva and bani then Gurparsaadh we will reicieve countless fruits and our good karams will multiply, Just thinknig of God with a pure heart for 1 second is a blessing and we get so much laha from it becuz its Kaljug and its so hard to meditate, everything is a blockage in our way to spirituality ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਹਰਿ ਕਾ ਨਾਉ ਆਪਿ ਵਰਤਾਇਸੀ ॥ अम्रितु हरि का नाउ आपि वरताइसी ॥ Amriṯ har kā nā▫o āp //ṯā▫isī. He Himself bestows the Ambrosial Name of the Lord. Guru sahib blesses us with Gurbani then we are able to read recite sing and remeber his praises Gurparsaadh ਚਲਿਆ ਪਤਿ ਸਿਉ ਜਨਮੁ ਸਵਾਰਿ ਵਾਜਾ ਵਾਇਸੀ ॥ चलिआ पति सिउ जनमु सवारि वाजा वाइसी ॥ Cẖali▫ā paṯ si▫o janam savār vājā vā▫isī. Such a mortal departs with honor and renown; his life is embellished and redeemed, and the trumpets resound with his glory. ਮਾਣਸੁ ਕਿਆ ਵੇਚਾਰਾ ਤਿਹੁ ਲੋਕ ਸੁਣਾਇਸੀ ॥ माणसु किआ वेचारा तिहु लोक सुणाइसी ॥ Māṇas ki▫ā vecẖārā ṯihu lok suṇā▫isī. Why speak of poor mortals? His glory shall echo throughout the three worlds. Nānak āp nihāl sabẖ kul ṯārsī. ||1||4||6|| O Nanak, he himself shall be enraptured, and he shall save his entire ancestry. ||1||4||6|| When Guru Sahib Gifts that Humble Being with naam then he is saved and his whole family is saved, ਸਭ ਵਡਿਆਈਆ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮ ਵਿਚਿ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਧਿਆਈਐ ॥ सभ वडिआईआ हरि नाम विचि हरि गुरमुखि धिआईऐ ॥ Sabẖ vaḏi▫ā▫ī▫ā har nām vicẖ har gurmukẖ ḏẖi▫ā▫ī▫ai. All glorious greatness is in the Name of the Lord; as Gurmukh, meditate on the Lord. ਥਿਰੁ ਘਰਿ ਬੈਸਹੁ ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਪਿਆਰੇ ॥ थिरु घरि बैसहु हरि जन पिआरे ॥ Thir gẖar baishu har jan pi▫āre. Remain steady in the home of your own self, O beloved servant of the Lord. ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਤੁਮਰੇ ਕਾਜ ਸਵਾਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ सतिगुरि तुमरे काज सवारे ॥१॥ रहाउ ॥ Saṯgur ṯumre kāj savāre. ||1|| rahā▫o. The True Guru shall resolve all your affairs. ||1||Pause|| listen to Kirtan of this shabad to calm school stress, ijn@w siqgur isau icqu lwieAw su KwlI koeI nwih ] jinhaa sathigur sio chith laaeiaa s khaalee koee naahi || Those who center their consciousness on the True Guru, never go empty-handed. Please Forgive Daasan Daasi For all the mistakes i have made i am a maha moorakh, i am a small insect that cannot be seen without a microscope and i reside in the feet of Guru Sahibs Saints, Gursikhs, Gursevaks ਸੇਵਾ ਸੁਰਤਿ ਨ ਜਾਣਾ ਕਾਈ ਤੁਮ ਕਰਹੁ ਦਇਆ ਕਿਰਮਾਇਣਾ ॥੧੨॥ Sevā suraṯ na jāṇā kā▫ī ṯum karahu ḏa▫i▫ā kirmā▫iṇā. ||12|| I know nothing about service and awareness; please take pity upon this worm. ||12||

Dhan Dhan Gursikhi Dhan Guru Piarey<3 Gursikhs are overflowing with such sweetness, they accept Hukam so sweetly and surrender themselves to Guru Sahib, hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw gurmiq irdY grIbI AwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa guramath ridhai gareebee aavai|| I Love him deeply who cultivates humility through Gurmat, the wisdom of Guru. hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw pr nwrI dy nyiV n jwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa par naaree dhae naerr n jaavai|| I Love him deeply who does not go near another’s wife. hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw pr drbY no hQu n lwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa par dharabai no hathh n laavai|| I Love him deeply who touches not the other’s wealth. hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw pr inµdw suix Awpu htwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa par ni(n)dhaa sun aap hattaavai|| I Love him deeply who becoming indifferent to the backbiting of others detaches himself. hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw siqgur dw aupdysu kmwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa sathigur dhaa oupadhaes kamaavai|| I Love him deeply who listening to the teaching of the True Guru practices it in actual life. hau iqsu Goil GumwieAw QoVw svY QoVw hI KwvY] ho this ghol ghumaaeiaa thhorraa savai thhorraa hee khaavai|| I Love him deeply who sleeps little and eats little. gurmuiK soeI shij smwvY ]4] guramukh soee sehaj samaavai ||4|| Such a Gurmukh absorbs himself in the equipoise.(4

This is a wake-up call to TORONTO YOUTH, You guys seriously need to learn from BC SIKHS, Its time for a TORONTO YOUTH SLATE,, You guys need EKTA and work TOGETHER get ur ACT together and get serious about doing Bhalla for the Sangat,, Sum singhs may take it this way that they dont want to get involved in politics But if GURU SAHIBS GOOD HEARTED Beautiful HONEST Humble Singhs give Up Committee POSITIONS this is when the corrupt LEADERS will take over!! Youth will definately get votes especially becuz of these recent events, but you singhs need to get serious about it, itll be a wonderful seva to work with fellow brothers towards the betterment of EVERYONE Comon guys do 5 jakarey and get this gaddi moving, its not time to sleep anymore and just go to uni and focus on ourselves, time to focus on SARBAT DA BHULAA!! JO BOLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE SO NIHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL Guru Granth SAHIB DEY CHARNA NU BHAVE NIHAAL HO JAVEY!!!!!! SATSIRIAKALLLLLLLLLL AKAALL HIIIIIIIII AKAAAL TUHIIIIIII NIRANKAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRR

Arrange marriage isnt very popular in our generation meaning even amritdharis but it does still happen kinda mix, u get arranged by family/friends and tlak to eachother then say yes type of thing,, when u go behind ur parents and start these relations it ends up being a mess sumtimes, its a huge issue these days thats why the gupt section is full of this stuff, its way to easy these dayz to get in a realtionship, I see sumone at the gurdwara next day they add me on facebook and we start talking and slowly slowly get closer: The 9 steps that our mind takes when committing an immoral deed: 1) Looking at someone of the opposite sex and having dirty thoughts. 2) Listening upon dirty conversations. 3) Remembering this person’s face. 4) Praising that individual’s appearance to others. 5) In your mind thinking endlessly about this individual. 6) Privately thinking dirty thoughts of this individual. 7) Making plans on how to achieve goal to get closer to this individual. 8) Carrying out actions which assist in accomplishing goal. 9) Achieving the goal. (The above information was taken from Sri Sukhmani Sahib Steek www.gursevak.com DDT,Bhai Jaswant Singh(Bhagat ji) and translated into english.) If u guys want to get married there is nothing that his parents or ur parents can do basically, theyre are just mad and not happy with u, We are no longer scared of our parents, we are beysharm we do w/e we want, we date while being amritdhari and do physical stuff, and then oops i found out hes from a different caste so my parents said no, then u have to marry sumone one else, basically life is full of pain, we dont surrender anything, we do manmat all day long-- what do i want? what do i want? what makes me happy?, houmai houmai houmai Im not bashing the original Poster at all please dont be offended im just a bit negative bout amritdhari dating so im bashing it as a whole The Thing is You guys have been together for a year and u get along and have a good understanding of eachother,,,,,,,, just talk to ur parents and be humble dont yell, stay quiet if they yell at u then try to talk to ur mom at ur level privately, ur dad could be more garm