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as i said there were loads 80 odd bullets in his body. i reckon it took loads to take him out. cant imagine sum1 standing over him shooting him 4 that long.

the more u gel it the more bushier it will bcom. my dhari was reli rough 2 start off with but i just left it and its a lot better now. its starts to become reli smooth and natural. u almost 4get about it like its just another part of ur body!my mate used to gel his dhari all the time and his dhari is so frizzy now he regrets it big time

sant ji said he wanted to die in a hail of bullets!appearantly there were over 100 in his body. some people say it took 100 to take him down others say it was indian army shooting him while he was dead. i think i believe the 1st. no1 chooses how they die but he certainly wanted to die this way

hey dude/dudette ive been going thru some depression myself recently. my probs dnt seem as serious as urs but i know its hard to get out off. talk 2 sum1 bro/sis. message me ill give u my email add. ive spoken 2 random people on here and its helped so much. i think its coz their strangers. futeh

i collect a load of mine. then burn it!think ur suppose 2.

india does a very good job of covering up whats going on. and i think sikhs get a lot of bad press coz of teh fact that we stick up 4 ourselves. the dalai lama is well known throughout thw world has has a lot of influence. buddhist in tibet r peaceful and people sympathise with that. india is just as bad as china if not worse!make me sick we shud boycott this olympics.

i love that!its so pwerful!well done bro love the design that shud be given out at gudwareh

sapanch its wrong that u criticise them. yeah nowdays sp is dodgy but back in teh day they did so much. my mum told me of them going round womens houses after they hadf just been beaten up by their husbands. the sp back then offered these women help and even spoke to the evil men that beat up these women telling them to stop beating up their sisters!baclk in the 80's racism was crazy in bham...this was a time where singhs were being killed for wearing a dastaar and bnp etc wanted to ban sikhs weraing a dastaar..the sp made the streets safer. we shudnt just look at the negatives. they did so much good back in teh day. im sure they did more than u sapanch lol no offence

it depends on teh job reli. ive been to 15 or sp recently./ the advice i wud give is wear a bright shirt / top if u a girl. use a firm handshake and try and make them laugh. as 4 q's they; ask about ur experience so have that prepared. what u od in ur spare time-dnt just talk about 1 thing ie sports make sure its a wide range of hobbies ie reading, playing sports volunteer work etc. and u shud ask a q that way u actually look interested in teh job. ask about hours or pay. good luck

we dnt have to hide who we r we r sikh thats it!sher of punjab shud have our respect what they did back in the day was amazing. my fam live in bham and they used to tell me the stories of how the s/p were there 4 them after racist attacks etc. they were amazingly brave people. however bcoz the responsibility has passed 2 their kids so have bad habits. paki bashing drinking smoking eating meat during on visakhi etc. they r reli letting a gr8 legacy go down the pan!

i woke up came down 4 breakfast adn was so nervous. my mum told me what was gonna happen. but i had to write down notes as i thght i made need then/my head was going blank. stuff like why i wanted to take amrit were on teh note lol. i wore a new dastaar which my mum helped me tie. i then went gudwara met up with my mates and we travelled 2 coventry 2getha. we were reli nervous and quiet all teh way down. we stayed in the divan hall 4 what seemed liek ages. i was beginning 2 think ill never take amrit. i was having doubts at that stage. but that was just nerves. when i enetered the room where the amrit cereomny was happening the panj pyaareh seemed liek giants!im tall but i remember these seeming to be huge. the experience itself was something i can not describe. at 1st i thght it was nerves, then fear then excitement, then tiredness. but it was a feeling ive never had b4. when we finished we came out where our friends met us aand congratulated us. we drove home doing phaat and i went home and slept. mu family were around in the morn and were reli happy 4 me. the spread this news like wild fire and soon i was having phone calls left right and centre. it was prob the only good things ive done in my life!

progress report of how i feel. hey every1.....i tried 2 sort my situations out this week i spoke 2 my ex and told her the stress i had been under with my sis and taht im sorry 4 all my bad words to her. which i feel awful about. i texted her several times saying i need her as a friend and im sori about all that i had said. but she wasnt having any of it and literally told me 2 leave her alone. kinda sad reli as all i wanted was to put my sins right. but she wnt 4give me but god will im sure. this dissapointment has left me feeling rather weak and i dnt think i can take my lil sis being bad at me too. but i am thinking of writing her a letter to see if we can bcom close again. ill try and write 1 in a few weeks not yet! im doing what u guys have siggested exercise i love-it sorts my anger out. going gudwara is just so rewarding. talking to god is great he reli does listen. i feel very exposed but i dnt feel like harming myself not 2day neway. my mood is so inconsistent and i reli dnt like myself much anymore. all i wanted was to say sorry 2 my ex and my lil sis but im finding it like no1 is 4giving me therefore i cant move on. my conscience doesnt feel clear and im worried that itl never be. thanks 4 listening bros and sisters i appreciate ur help so much. god bless .

even if no1 gave money guru ji will still be there. guru ji does not need our money. but we offer things as a sign of respect i often just do ardass if front of guru without giving a penny.

hey thanks for all the replies plz keep em cumin! my sis is just off the rails. i think i shud write her a letter soon as i do still love her...alwys will. im sure very unsure as 2 what 2 say?4gotten how 2 show my real feelings. so showing love will be reli hard. i do feel a bit happier 2day i went gudwara and 4 a walk and did exercise as suggested by u bros and sis's. i think i shud see a counciller thgh?i feel nuts sumtimes. lol. it helps talking 2 a stranger. just

thanks for the replies. i reli mean that. its nice u guys taking the time out to listen. and plz continue to be honest and expresive i cud do with all teh help i can get. whether its constructive/positive. i saw a councillor for a few times. it helped. i talked alot of my ex and my sis. i love my ex as a mate and want to be there 4 u as 1 i also love my sis but shes hurt me so much. i just dont know what to do. i havent hurt myself in a year but im thinking about it now. going gudwara does help me so much i just want to stay there all the time. i was over this depression/anger but recently its coming back. im not sure why. i reli think there are some screws loose in my head. i was always so happy and this may sound stupid but i reli miss being me!its like im sum1 else. a quiet moody angry depressed person. i dont know how 2 talk to girls anymore. i mean like my sis.....i dont know what to say. shes made mistake after mistake which is fair enough but each time its hurt me so much its like she doesnt care. i think im turning reli insecure and im reli worried. nothing makes me happy anymore. ive just got a brand new job its good money and that. but whats work/money without happiness?

hey bro's and sisters i need help. i was always a reli happy person always laughing and joking nothing used to get me down. but like 2 years ago things changed. i was having sum fam probs and it was reli getting me down. i used to punch walls and just not talk to anyone. this happned for ages. when i used to get upset i used to talk to my g/f about it all and it helped so much. i know its wrong 2 have a g/f but we both wanted to marry each other. anyway we had a fight and coz of the porbs at home i just didnt trust any1. i left her 4 2 months we wer both upset. i started cutting myself to relieve the pain. after 2 months i finally sorted my head out a bit and wanted to get back with her. we tried but today she finally told me to leave her alone. which makes me sad as i feel guilty 4 going out with her/i still wanna marry her. im finding all this stuff so hard. its(both probs) left me very insecure and i just dnt know how to cope. im amrithari now which has helped a lot but things make me so sad. sometimes i feel angry sometime sad sumtimes lonely sumtimes like i cant cope. i reli dont know myself and it worries me a lot. i reli miss my ex-not in a sexual way or a g/f way but as a friend she was teh only person i trusted. i also miss my little sis who i have not spoken to in years. we live 2getha but theres nothing there. thanks 4 listening

peacemaker urpoint about tying ur ur hair on ur head is flawed i think. most dhari;s arent even that long so cant reli get in the way. covering ur head is a great sign of respect bravery and dedication to god. so i dont think u acn put the two together!. i understand if ur in the army or hardcore factory work u may have to tie it but i just dont think it looks 'right'. wierd indeed. one of my friends uses hair pins and hair spray. i cudnt believe it when i saw his sorting his dhari out lol!

bhenj, the fact tht uve asked this question in the first place should tell you something. dont know who wrote this but its bloody amazing!if we question stufff then surely theres personal doubt in our heads. doubt isnt good, if it was 100% right wed just go 4 stuf without questioning our OWN life. wow i am impressed!

wheres this discussion gone?cant find it anywhere?

dnt go sexual tahts the 1st thing id say. but u guys r so young so u still have hormone inbalances and stuff so itd be hard. ur both amrithari so u shud be there for each others sikhi. like dont let it get all lovey dovey dnt forget ur sikhi.

fixo?what teh hell?i dont judge anyone for gelling their beard or tying it up but i do think whats the point of growing it if ur gonna hide it?every1 judges whther we like to admit it or not sometims its a good thing. but tying ur dhari up?if u gel ur dhari whats stopping u from gelling ur hair on ur head?thght sikhi was about being natural. we shoudl be proud of how we look....we r differnt but thats a good thing! let the beard grow and let the beard flow!!

What is the definition of asian in this county muslim!even the muslim official from the ramadhan organisation said these people should be singled out by religion.race as crime is crime!blackburn luton bradford were all mentioned. and overall there were a hell of a lot of reference to muslims via names, teh word asian etc.

is teh original poster ok?????

what can teh gudwara do about it?at the end of day he can just turn around and say 'im not even that religious so whats it got to do with u?' get the law involved and tell his parents via letter. he should be the shamed one

wear a dastaar now sis. its better to start coz later it just gets harder and u put it off more. i personally think all amritharis shud wear a dastaar/keksi rather than a patka. just go 4 it sis. i started of by wearing a dastaar just a couple of hours a day. then the odd day here and there and finally all the time.