simran345

is this the same queue for humans? i think they are talking about the queue to go before dharmraj, depending on your karams and bhagti we have to queue up, and whilst waiting there will be many things happening. eg. the bad ones get punished, and the gud ones get carried across others depending on their bhagti or if they are amritdhari and been doing their bhagti proper. not sure if this is true but read it somewhere. so basically this is the time to jap naam and do the good karams, so we prepare ourselves also for the queue. can't remember where i read or heard it, but the jam are the supervisors apparently if one is not good. does this happen? all scary but preparation done from the heart is the jewel apparently that will help. hisaab kitaab tha hona, is janam ch te marn tho baad v. jithe karma da lekha jokha hunda.

thankuji all, wish not posted now, took turn for worse since, emergency wouldn't take me today. please why i got worse, i thought ardas of others was good,i do appreciate it, but why i got worse i dont know. can't keep awake. family member also ill now. bye delete please all

was a Sant and will come and knock on our door to help me, but nobody does. thankuji sangat Waheguru

Thanku paji, sent you message. Can't cope with seeing my mom cry at seeing me like this. That makes me more emotional on top. That's when i wish i was dead would be lot easier.

paji, im sorry but i dont remember many things now, my brain isnt like before, nowadays it just goes blank like a baby, is placebo effect when u think the medicine is goin to make u better then it starts to work? i think tests have been done on patients one group told they are being given a medicine and the others are not being given anything, and i think the results are then compared? i dont know paji,,my energy gone now so im goin to bed.

im not a hypocondriac, anyways ur not to know as ur not in my situation so its not ur fault, i've decided not to take the anti depressants, after discussing with family, and to go for CBT instead, if they ever get round to it. Been 2yrs asking to see a hypnotherapist. This nhs system isnt like it used to be, even emergency just want u in and out. But instead of doing tests that need to be done, they take ages to send an appointment. They can do what they want if they really want to, but because of budgets and its easier giving prescriptions, they just hand out tablets left right n centre without even doing the tests first, coz there is profit in it. Research it if u dont believe me. if i was a millionaire i would pay for the test privately, but im not. nowadays u got to push the docs to do somethin, like really push them, coz they got a million patients and to them its just numbers, theres no personal relation with them nomore, like before. they have to do everything within budgets and time limits. rubbish system even if its free. and they only allow 5mins a patient in some places now. Yes u are right all in god's hands, back to the same old karms, its hard thou, either one gets better or dies, bit difficult to be stuck in the middle. Its not called hypocondriac, its called makin the most of it, whilst u got th energy until ur zapped away again, and its called karm bhogne. And how many times i been prescribed antibiotics without them gettin the results back first, sweetaa vangar golian dehi jande, yes take them if u got th problem, but no if they are not 100% sure thats what u have. sometimes u just got to weight up things yourself. if the blood tests or other tests diagnose somethin, then i say yes take the golian, but not just take if not need them, not worth the side effects, unless a proper professional can confirm the best treatment. evi golian nal garmi pehjandi je lohr ni golian di. gorea nu pata ni garmi ki hundi, no offence, par kehi cheeja da pata ni hunda. sorry but im frustrated, all they need to do is put few electrodes on my head, and few other tests, instead of makin th patient wait n wait. wait for what? I used to have to advise the docs on their jobs, as i was a gp mentor, and i was surprised that they have to ask patients for advice in how to do their jobs. not sure if they still do this project now, but it was good feedback for them. And i have mentored patients too, in how to manage their conditions, when the they dont find the docs helpful and how to work with th docs to get the best out of them, for their health conditions, so im pretty sure i know my body by now. but now its my turn, the system seems to have slowed down a lot. Also want to say, never neglect doctors advise, as they are the professionals, but i just seem to have not an understanding doc right now, since movin to a new city. There are some really good docs, who are a godsend to patients. without them it would be harder, sorry for the rant. thankuji

Thanku mine is 37.5-37.8. Its fluctuating. Not takin paracetamol today. Not sure if should take when its 37.8. As some of you know i am bed bound for last four months. But now when i stand i can't function at all, and after eating or going toilet i get tightness in my chest so bad then brain cuts off and can't breathe. Its happening when sitting down too. Went to a and e, and they said its not heart attack. And cried to th doc today to send me to neurologist quicker. All they keep saying its not heart related and its panic attacks. I know its not, i am too weak to get out of bed let alone worry. I think i maybe having fits, but they keep saying no, and can't hurry my appointment. So now given me anti depressant. Scared to take them. I can't keep awake as it is, tryin to keep alive and they want to give me anti depressants, i can't physically move.i need help with everything, even bathing on my bath seat is hard now. I dont know if i should take them as its hard even eating food, scared they will kill me off. Why cant they just do my mri scan as quickly as they can, why won't the docs send me asap, i am already on bed 24/7. Even a and e not keep me. Even my husband says take the anti depressants. I not have good time with them in past. You will all say its up to me and do what the docs say, but that's the only medicine i scared of now i am too weak, even when somebody touch me i can't handle it. Please somebody help me, i feel i only takin them as last option and then that will take me from thi s world. But then think its better than goin thru this everyday losing my breath, struggling to survive. The worry is made me weaker. Feel just my body left but my soul goes then comes back then goes. Body is only making acid. I already got too much garmi in body, even my arms and legs are very dry now skin is white peeling. Do anti depressants cause garmi?

What's normal temperature?

thankuji, got somebody to get an ear thermometer hopefully that should be better than the armpit one. and there is a difference in the readings. im scared.

sorry not Sikhi question, have a Boots digital thermometer and checkin under armpit, but not sure if they are accurate. REad different things on internet, like u should add 0.5 or 1.0 degrees to it. Is there a doc on here that can clarify this plz, took painkillers. but notthin happenin yet. went to a and e the other day and when ambulance came had fever but once i got there hospital said i dont have fever, normal temperature. very confused, with the thermometer and gettin worried as dont feel well so panicking more with the readings as dont know wats right wats wrong, even the professionals check temp different.

Just read this again, didi penji- hain. You sound like and write like me a bit. Looks funny seems like me talking to myself here. No wonder i got confused, ida lagda apne ap nal galan krdi.

Hi penji Simran, only seen this today. Hanji thread close kardo plz hun. How come accounts are getting hacked? How would i know if mine has? Please DasamSarblohGranth ji na keho, ji keemti labhj de kabil nai main. I say ji to you as you praise god, which i am unable to do nowadays.

Do seva of those that truly need it. The poor, disabled, elderly. Give to charity. Pray to god. Have nimrata, and say god you did it not me. Helping somebody that truly need it will give you dua, good wishes and blessings which will make you become a better person if you dont get ego that you did it for somebody else. Always think god gave u the opportunity.

1. Control your mind 2. As above 3. As above 4. . As above 5. . As above 6. . As above 7. . As above 8. . As above 9. . As above 10. . As above

Thankuji for doing that harkiratkaurkhalsa, yes a sant/mahapursh/brahmgiani can be from any religion, faith or walk of life. Its not exclusive to just one faith, all are god's people. But its just the way he portrayed himself that makes one judge or come to the conclusion something does not feel right. it is absolutely correct that anybody can be a sant, etc. And also in the video i noticed u put up also is mention Lakha da data, and Baba Balak Nath, they were also saints and are considered by people as holy, so putting them down too is not right, its actually hypocritical if u say how people group monas as not good people. Therefore we should not say nothing against any belief anybody has and instead look at ownselves.

sangat ji Just like to say not a complaint or anything, but I get confused myself sometimes too, there is another id simran721, and its not me, so if i get confused, my sisters and brothers, friends on here will too. main nai hegi okji, probably another bro or sis decided to have same id. once again not a complaint, just look out for the numbers on the end when u want to message me, so u dont message the wrong id. thankujio

By the way it should be NewtoSikhi, not Sikhism, there is no word as Sikhism. Its said as Sikhi... Thankuji...

Leh hun paa dita sanu gadhi gehri ch ke nai. Hor navi story agei. Ki kare banda, ki believe kare, sadi pootni hilaiyi jao, jida pela ni hili. Fiteh muh.

Then how come amritdharis also divorce if there is no concept of divorce in Sikhi? If somebody is trapped in a marriage or unhappy, does it mean they cannot divorce? Dont understand that bit, please explain.

Thank youji for your replies. At paji what other energies you mean?

Oh hoo dads daughter de lagde. Fite muh lol

There probably is some very few brahmgianis, mahapursh that probably could do something for somebody, but even then its god that does it, but never would they say they have god inside them, or do sound effects i dont think. The thing is there are so so many fakers ajkal, that it makes it impossible to ever come across a real that is connected to god.

@lucky paji, yes thats what i used to think, it should be from our hearts if we are doin ardas for somebody else, like when we say Nanak Naam Chardi kala tere bhane sarbat da bhala? But then i get confused when u get people say other things, so thats when it gets confusing.

I always thought if somebody did ardas for somebody else then god listens more?

I remember when i discovered Mcvities chocolate biscuits at somebody's house, and everytime we went round, they put the plate in front of us, then when nobody was looking i used to take a few and put them in my pocket to take home for later. But I was so naive i didnt realise they would melt and get stuck to my pocket when i used to take them out at night chori chori.