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Why do u need an experience? What for? I also cried soo much today, but not for an experience, but for what u have and what i dont. And that is u can do what u want, go where u want, you dont have to worry about what God has given you the most precious thing you have of health. You dont have to think how long it will take u to go into the next room without all the problems i have, or how to dress yourself or where u next meal is coming from. Are u going thru depression? Being isolated for so long from the world can make ur brain stuck in one thought. dont do the drugs, u will be worse off. you know u dont want to do them - SOOOO DONT.... YOU WONT think about suicide either, you will think of getting help, and go to the doctor. God does not give us gold medals or rewards if we are doing simran for receiving an experience. its real good u have done that much, you should not think its gone to waste, as gurbani never goes to waste. You dont see it but u have had the experience, you have realised something has not happened from you wanting it, and come on this site for honsla, (hope), to stop you. And WE WILL STOP YOU FROM DOING NASHE DODEH FEEM KUMBAA MUSHROOM JO V HAI. We should ask for what we need, not what we want from god...instead of asking for the experience, why dont you thank god for what u have and think what u have is what somebody else would love to have. You have soooooooooo much, but you dont see it, that is the experience God has given u, you just need to wake up and see it. God isnt going to come and flash a light or tap the table three times, it dont work like that. Please stop taking tension on the experience thing, dont think about it, and seriously go see a professional if you are feeling like doing drugs, STOP IT BEFORE IT STOPS YOU. THEN GOD WILL HELP YOU.

Lol @Mehtab, baskaro. Pela eh daso, OP kudia val kio vekda scooter chalondi nu? Akhan band karke na sarak te jana, nai tho gol gappe di rehree ch oops hojana.

wowwwww didnt realise there was so many ways of doing naam simran, thankuji

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Lol @Mehtab, ha ha i should not write ha ha i am girl.

Thankuji all. Sikhastan thanku for informing about the bottles and sun. Finally bought a water filter jug. Looks too nice to take out of the box, so still staring at it. Oh well got to get past the wow factor, and give it a go, will let you know how i get on. @jio i got a brita, but try searching for reviews on the net for best one, it will give you customer ratings.

Thankuji Sewak1. Will download on the pc. Thankuji twada baut.

I go thru the emotional ups and downs too when doing simran, but that's due to things happening in my life. Defends upon what you have been through life and what your state of mind is at the moment too. Some people talk about bairaag, maybe you are going thru that. Minty fresh, hmm, dont know, colgate tha ni fasgea danda ch. Sorry about that comment above, u may get that taste too, just let it pass and dont think of it too much.

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I say Waheguru alone, is that ok?

Can somebody only shak Amrit, if they do nitnem, or get up at amritvela, or tie a dastaar, (being female)? If one is unable to do nitnem, or get up at amritvela or tie the dastaar, can one still shak Amrit? sorry i dont know much, but i know some elders shak Amrit and not doin nitnem as such, because of reading problems, but what if somebody is physically unable to do what is required by rehat maryada would they not be able to shak Amrit?

has anybody ever had hynotherapy, or NLP, for bad physical problems or pain? Or is it only effective with anxiety problems and addictions, etc?

Yes Bhai Gurnimit Singh Raaj Rangila is very good, i had the opportunity to speak to him briefly once and listen to his kirtan. Very high class English, and great prachaar, good voice. Like this one,

Thankuji i will look into the water filter. And will start boiling it.

Which is healthier, bottled or tap water? The only water i could digest properly was Canadian tap water. But here in uk, seems so heavy, i have been drinking bottled water for years, until somebody told me its bad for you. On reading some articles seems tap water has chlorine in it and other stuff that would be bad for us too. So which water do you drink and which is healthier? Any proof please too would be welcome. Thankuji

Jis din de tusi muk morke thurgey, us din tho mere akhan ch hanju aye, jad tusi nal c, is dil ch khushi c, eh akhan ch tusi vasde c, aj v eh akhan udeek rehian twade darshan le, eh komal da phul gande paani ch dubjaugi, mere malik, Sache paatsha Waheguruji - daatan oh na manga jisnal fir mangan jawa, Wapis ajao, twade bina main kuch v nai, chadke na jao, meri zindagai nu samban wale, tu hi tu, chadke na jao, chadke na jao.. . . .

I dont understand, what is a paranormal activity? How would it affect somebody, would it include illness too, or just hearing voices, and things like that etc?

Gosh is there no justice yet. Wat on earth is going on. India always drag the cases, delaying. Thought it was just with zameen matters though.

Its the India lot that make the abroad lot vehmi, otherwise we would not be in this mess. Wonder who started off all this vehm from centuries ago.

What is black seed oil and do you use it for wat?

Lol@vanhelsingh, guess its hard for young amritdharis to make friends, as non amritdharis have nothin in common with them. So their social life would be part of makin friends in sangat.

I am goin thru exactly same thing, tried everything, but knows its not depression, physically become weaker, nobody seems to know Watscausing the nausea, and i cry everyday too. Can't take this no more. Maybe we have that tharn problem, but when check it seems to be in place. Keep at the docs to check, check everything. They are so slow, and just send to back home with medicine that makes it worse. Eat small portions often rather than at once and sip on water if you can't drink at once. I got after having these stupid holiday vaccinations and had to cancel my trip. I actually think i am dying slowly. Dont know wat to do no more . My mother sometimes makes me adrak wali tea in morning. That may help the nausea a bit. Think of nice things, even thou its not helping me, try not to worry Wats happening, distract the mind elsewhere. These used to work for me but there is definitely somethin going on in my stomach, never suffered this much, on the bed 24/7 only to go bathroom. If it didn't hurt could just go to sleep. One thing i will say if you already have a weak immune system be cautious of medicine you take. Even thou we need them, lots of side effects are too. Especially antibiotics wipe out all the good bacteria. Probiotic yogurt is good for making good bacteria. These medicines have messed up my whole body, but if we dont take when needed that is not wise either. I feel Waheguru not helping me no more. This is affecting my faith so much i actually wish i was no more longer here, can't cope with just clinging on. But still i am keeping try to do much paat, simran in my mind. Dont give up on that, it will make you strong inside whatever your dukh is. Let me know if you get the solution please, as it will help me too. Sorry not been much help but the truth is i need it myself too. If you are able to do things without help, not to sound harsh, then you will get better, i probably will get better too, but gets too much to cope with, there is only so much dukh one can take. But right now i feel so bad. The only time i like now is when i am asleep., then can't feel nothin. Try every avenue, i am going to try alternative ways again. I remember i went thru same before and took ages to get to comfortable stage. But dont remember it hurting, i will ask my family if same before, then the only thing that helped me was gurbani, and my inner strength. Back to same again, even having a bath is so hard now. I need help with everything now, just no strength left. Keep remembering god and they will make you better, lets not give up and show the dukh it cannot take over. But your body will get better when it is ready too, not by force. Keep relaxed as much to as you can. Waheguru.

yeah @luckysingh99 a true sant would probably know u inside out anyways even if u acted like a prat in from of them. wats th point in being all nice in front of them, when one cant with everybody or more or less almost everybody else. but would a true sant show they are a sant? where can i find one? I know Maharaj ji are the true Sant, but in human form is there any? if somebody is dukhi, should one beg infront of a Sant, or just ask once only and be normal?

Being alone does not bother me so much, althou it does hurt when nobody cares or asks, but not being able participate in sangat and to go to the gurdwara bothers me more than anything. So I will say to those that have their health and are able to do that, make the most of it, and go to gurdwara, do seva, go and sit in divan, listen to kirtan, as u are so lucky u are given this opportunity, grab it with both hands. One place where u will never be alone is the gurdwara, and dont worry about having no friends, they come and go, and believe me the friends i had, were not friends, otherwise they would be here now.

@Sunsingh paji, wat does it mean by that, will reflect ur sharda? sorry dont understand that bit.