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if that post was to me i aint no bro, im ur sis

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh wow that is an amzing . ... what do u call that thing at the bottom? signiture? anyways this Dalvir person has an amazing one, it sort of puts me off wanting to post and just admire it, its the best one i seen wow thanks Dalvir, dunno why it just struck me like a bullet thanks. but anyways soz for the post, had to say it. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

never expected this frm u!! LOL joking btw haha navdeep nice 1 :TH: 121087[/snapback] yeah thanks Khalsa_girl, now i can start prouncing Ik o-ankar corrctly lol im not too impressed that after all that thinking of different words to explain the sound u failed at ''kaar'' by saying it is pronounced ''kaar'', lol i guess u could say its ''car'' pronounced with an indian accent...lol bad joke but thanks. and yeah abt Navdeep Kaur's post, it didnt have a good effect on me to be honest, i was praying and i called God by a different name and started wnadering what God would be getting chaged into so now its effecting my praying Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Namstang u got a point but then we got the prob of agreeing on who the right Sant Mahapursh are. There are so many groups in Sikhism some anti-Sants and well lets not get into it but I dont see sikhs agreeing to that just yet, ofcourse one day cos we definitely gonna get Khalistan but I just wander how long it will take, when will all sikhs unite and work together on this. At the moment we all agree on so many things but disagree on even more we need Khalistan but b4 we get our homeland we need to prepare to run it and at the moment we dont have a clue, everyone has their own ideas, no one knows exactly what will happen. We say that the Panj Singh will decide everyhting (I think thats whats gonna happen) but which Panj Singh, ok they all meant to be one but is it the Panj Singh that believe in keski or the ones that dont, is it the ones that allow dhaarna or the ones that dont, is it ones that think red is anti gurmat, are they ones that will allow Ragmaala to be read as part of bani or those that believe Ragmala is not bani. Maybe they are small issues but there are even bigger ones that cant be agreed on. What abt ppl of other religions, what say can they have, if the Panj Singh are in charge then the pplof the other religions wont get much of a say but yes as we are sikhs we will not treat them like anything less but there is so much to consider before we get Khalistan, these things hhave to be agreed on b4. Course i may just be babbling absolute bakwaas but just said what was bugging me a bit. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

lol I dont think we all admire Dharmendra as much as u do, anyways sunny didnt exactly do too well once he made Jo Bole So Nihaal so lets not even get into that mate. SIKHS dont admire them for being sikhs but punjabis as far as im concerned. If u want to cut ur beard, shave, put make up on, and marry a girl that likes all that then no one is stopping u. But in case ur wandering, i still wear my kachera to college and will to work and hopefully even on the day i die so whats this abt wearing a shirt and trousers to work, cos we still wear the kachera underneath . I think ifits only hair u want to compromise on then thats all il talkabt a tiny bit. When sikhs were getting killed, they could have cut their hair to survive and then carry on praying undercover but they didnt, they never cut their hair. so now we r supposed to cut our hair so that some girl will like us? ur not funny here. Guru Nanak Sahib Ji did not cut their hair BTW in case ur wandering. No one is asking u to stop telling the truth but ....er all u said was an opinion. No one will hate u, I dont think anyone will take u that seriosly to bother Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

er.... did u make those rules up as u typed? from what I know love marriages will be allowed, when i shakkdd amrit, the panj Singh even said it was allowed so now thats sorted so u'll become a khalistani Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh There are women in the same situation, fixed the wedding date, in love with the man, only to later find out he was lying about this or that and then the wedding is off. Some dont want to marry after that because they don't know who to trust, some can't marry again cos they dont know how. But every day passes and if a person sits there watching it go by and they do nothing, thinking they cant do anything, then they are wasting THEIR life. The man is gone, the parents have gone, you are left alone, make the most of what you have got left, there is no reason why you cant still marry, those women did. Take control of your life, you might not need anyones advice or think ppl dont understand, maybe they dont, but no one needs anyone to feel sorry for them, no one needs anyone to comfort them, what we need is to work at making ourselves happy.

lol bhenji, I dont think i want to take anyones eyeballs out, but I said that cos if u tell a non-sikh that we should keep our hair cos God wanted us to as it grows back then they will just say that ur nails also grow back so thats why i was saying that but thanks ji :TH:

er...u can say the same for nails. '' if vaheugur did not intended you to have hair then why does it keep growing back? some logical ones for religious people ''

ok lets take it seriously, in my opinion we should not have anyones jhooth or give them ours, but i guess u could tell them that ur against jooth and so u aint gonna give them ur left over food and not take theirs. but i have to admit i dont know what the right answer is .

or u could say it the right way and not have to worry abt whether or not God got what u meant to say?

''Earlier it was said that sikhs dont have a death sentence if somebody leaves sikhism, well i guess it must be very rewarding to do so then...'' If i was born into islam I would be happier dead than to carry on as a muslim knowing what some of my ancestors were.

thing is we can sit here and worry that ppl will come on this forum and laugh at us or think 'u what'. But i dont think that is AS important, what is more important is making sure ppl can come on this forum and discuss issues and the sangat can discuss what they think is right or wrong etc. if we try to keep such tpics out simply to make the forum look good, we wont be helping the sangat much. Proud to be singhnee, ur a bit ahead of some in sikh life, some of us are trying to catch up but cos we are still trying we need help from the sangat, we need to ask these Qs. If the issues wont be raised here then where will they be raised? I have a lot of respect for ur views and i can see that it is ur pyar for sikhi and wanting sikhi to be respected that has led u to start this thread but this is a youth forum and we have to discuss the issues the YOUTH wants to discuss. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

I am so sorry to hear what's happened but if u dont mind could I ask, was it because she was not at all religious or because she did not like the turban. to rephrase it, was it only because u kept a turban, was that her clear reason or was there more to it? Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

guys thats so not fair that a guy has come on the forum and ppl aint helping him, i dont know the answer but we all mature, and it is gupt so someone should help him!

mate if u want the best advice why not approach the panj pyare? i dont mean pesh but u can ask them when u see them? but ofcourse ardas from ur heart is the first thing but remember it was a mistake and if u would then do go to the Gurdwara and ask. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh

i dont know where Guru Ji have prayed in their previous life but i do know that that is one amazing place to go, the location is great to pray and sing kirtan. :T: Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh a mates went there and she said there were ppl doing all sorts of weird stuff heard a few stories abt the london, uk place where there is a 'dera' and some ppl went there , dont know why but they had some experiences after that, well they started hearing things and all that and basically had a spooky life for a while. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh whats the difference between prashad and langar , isnt it all food by Guru Jis blessing?? Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

Sinner I cn see ur point but seriously a person should not eat the food even if they did not have more change lol. really i think it is better to go hungry at that time, its only a matter of a day or a few hrs but what abt the sikh side to it? committment to Guru Ji? im not that strict myself but wiping it with a tissue is simply not enough, not being rude yeah but the mayonaise was still partly on it once it was cleaned right? i might be wrong but im pretty sure wiping it didnt do the trick, im not saying it makes him bad. only to learn from his mistake. As for ''Do an Ardas and ask for forgiveness, you'll feel much better after that.'' I dont think the main reason to do ardas is to feel better here but to actually be forgiven. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

u got a point, gets rid of the gupt part to PM admin. I thought it was a valid Q, it was not like u just wanted to know abt it, u wanted to know the SIKH view on it so i thnk admin should let it back on...........admin????????? or maybe admin can just answer the Q and then lock it so u dont get dodgy replies.? Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh

how do u know, i mean how come he werent arrested?

erm i read it, i think they thought it was inappropriate, why dont u PM admin to get an answer, maybe that will be better?

it is sort of discussed here: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=13356 hope u go. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ji

Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ok guys and girls, b4 I start- admin if u want to delete, move or do whatever else to this topic I wont in any way be hurt (not that that should matter to anyone) cos i dont know if it is appropriate so soz in advance. But there are 2 topics at the moment that are quite interesting in my view: 1.singhs with tubans. 2.singhnees with turbans. So maybe thats why our brother Bikramjit Singh has created his very own blog. I just read it and no he did not ask me to do this topic for him lol. But because we are all young (no I am not looking to get married ), I mean some are looking to marry then just read the blog. Some singhs like Supersingh are pretty stressed out so maybe admin wont see anything wrong with it-- its only sewa hunna admin? ok its my first post please dont delete it. Now in case anyone wandering whats with the topic title, well it was inappropriate to call it 'Matrimonial Ads this way' so I called it Poetry and I hope Mehtab veerji dont mind but I used their poem: ek garam chai ki pyaali ho aur usko pilaane waali ho chaahe gori ho ya kaali ho lekin dastar vali ho As I post this topic I feel it is inappropriate but I'll risk it :nihungsmile: Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh