Khalsa_Girl_1

oops..the quote thing didnt work there...sry abt that too (im still new at this thing...i dont post so much..lol)

thats great.....thanx :wub: 116822[/snapback] Bhanji I don't like that someone bow infront of me, On other u guys r saying tht we only bow to Guru Granth Sahib than wht is this :wub: ?????? 116825[/snapback] GurFateh Veerji im so sry veerji...i dont bow infront of anyone but Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji...the reason for me putting :wub: in is not to show that im bowing to you, but its in respect. i was just talking to one of a Panj Pyaara 2 days ago at my house and he said that dont Matha Tek, but you can bow...im sry if it offended you i just meant in respect, not as in the way Ppl bowed to the Dhadriaan wala...sry again. plz forgive me Veerji. GurFateh Ji

It was just a little, I'm gona talk with Other Granthi & Katha Vachak too.. 116820[/snapback] thats great.....thanx :wub:

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. thanx Sikh_Singh_Khalsa i'll try tellin her this the next time i see her. it's something im lookin forward to hehehe...this will be good. :wub: thanx again Sikh_Singh_Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

Dear brother Sikh_Singh_Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. i would beat her up if i didnt live in Canada or a country like it. but i serously need help though. i wanna teach her a lesson, but not be rude at the same time. Someone PLEASE help! thanx Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. HELP! ok...now my friends saying that if she keeps her nails clean, then she can keep them..and i said "well, thats still fasion." and she says "so..when you wear those really nice Dastars, thats also called fasion.". then i got annoyed and said "we dont wear such beautiful Dastars for fashion, we wear these really beautiful Dastars because we have love for our Guru Jis, and cuz they want us to. wouldnt you do something that your parents would want you to do that would make them happy?!" and she said "yeah, but they are the ones who actually made me, biologically, and so therefore i would do the things they wish for me to do. my parents and God are two totally different things." what should i say to this girl?

sry khalsa Ji. the website thing didnt work for some reason. here it is again: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showto...ndpost&p=114911 sry 9sorry ji) GurFateh

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Whaeguru Ji Ki Fateh. yes..Sikh Singh Khalsa (the new member) is right...you all should read that...and check out what i wrote in there too...its long and stuff but please, please read it all. go here: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showto...ndpost&p=114911 you'll find out a lot of stuff and you'll start to think a bit of what your daddy said. im so sry to tell you this my friend but, I think that your daddy is just saying al of this because he doesn't want to follow our religion. He might think that Christianity is a way more easy path to get to God compared to Sikhism, but plz (please) tell him that he'll remember God near the end of his life and he will regret saying all of this if he doesn't take Amrit. everyone remembers God at the end of their lives, but most Ppl who arent Amrit-Dhari dont show it cuz they know that Ppl would say stuff like "He/she didn't ever remember God in respect during the his/her life, but now as he/she is dying, he/she remembers God because he/she knows that the Day Of Judgement cant be hidden from him/her. no offense or anything to you or your father or you, but i think you should just tell him that he should stop saying these umm.....unusual comments and also stop asking these .....unusual questions cuz (because) i believe that he's not calm whenever he talks abt (about) all of this stuff and also when he asks these umm.....unusual questions of his. im sure he'll be a million times more calm when he starts to read Gurbani. just tell him to do it with full faith, love, spirit, soul and mind..and im sure he'll laugh at his questions some time sooner or later. hope you understand. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. this is awesome. i thought it was gonna turn out in a whole different direction there. lol. wow! i wish i could feel so much pain whenever im not reciting and/or listening to Sahbads so that i can recite them and/or listen 24 hrs, 7 days. i wanna be like that 24/7 yo! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Whaeguru Ji Ki Fateh. ......im so speachless...... very, very sad story. we have to understand that the Punjabi Ppl who are still living today are exremely lucky...i pray to God God help us all. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

yeah yeah...all gursikh guys are handsome. but i like this cartoon...lol its ROCKIN! :wub: GurFateh ya'all.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Wahegurur Ji Ki Fateh. you remind me of....me :wub: anyways; i had a lot of hard times and stuff cuz of me wearing a Dastar. (*note*: I am a girl who wears a Dastar.) Ppl at school used to stare and stuff but then more and more Punjabi Ppl who had Kesh came into my school, so i felt better. so i took Amrit when i was in Grade 5 (on Vasakhi) and then i changed 3 schools after that. the most problems i got was in the school that i go to now. i now go to M.D. High School. i am the only person who wears a Dastar in my school. i have many friends. i thought it would be really hard for me to make friends in M.D. but i made like the best friends ever! so yeah...most guys dont say anyhitng to me cuz i think theyre scared of me. but there is one guy named josh who wont leave me alone. just like you i was once in art class, and one of my friends threw a piece of clay at the guy who doesnt leave me alone. the guy turned around and then thought it was me cuz i told him a few days before that if he ever throws something at me again, i would kick his *ss. so he started to swear at me as soon as he got near his table (which was close by me), and he also started to get his clay ready for throwing at me. before he started i told him "You can throw however many you like, but it's not going to change me in any way.". so then he started. my friends at my table kept telling me to fight back and to use my fists cuz they know that i practice karate and Gatka, but i said "no. if i fight back, it'll only be after he hits my Dastar."...so he kept throwing but kept issing, and he wasnt even more than 4 or 5 metres away from me. (he was standing up, and i was sitting down.) i just sat there, counting out loud (so that everyone in the classroom would hear me) the number of times he threw the pieces of clay at me. he threw abt (about) 15 (sry, i cant remember) at me and only hit me once on the arm and once on my neck. since i was counting out loud, everyone knew how many times he threw the pieces of clay at me and also how many times the pieces actually hit me. the really funny thing is that i wasnt even moving a bit in my chair and i just let the pieces fly by me. (this guy is a baseball player just to let you know.) when he ran out of pieces of clay, i got up and said really calmy "I thought you play baseball Josh." and he said "Yeah; so?" and then i said "Well if you play baseball, then shouldnt you have hit me more than just two times, or are just on the team cuz they just needed an extra guy?" and then he told me to shut-up, so i said "Whats wrong now? You got nothing to say back to a Sikh girl right? You cant even throw anything at me while im not even moving a bit!" and then he picked up 2 pieces of clay and then threw one which didnt hit me. the second one he threw hit my Dastar, so i got steamed up bad! i told my friend beside me to break of pieces of clay from my art work and to pass them to me. he started to say "But, youre almost finished the sculpture." i just gave him one serious look, and he started to break the pieces off of my art work and started to hand them to me. i told him to just give me 3 pieces, and he did. then i told josh to stand still and give me a chance to throw something at him. i also that if he moved, he would prove that he he's a weakling. so he didnt move and i started to throw the clay pieces at him. surprisingly, i hit all 3 of them above his waist and he started to swear at me. i let him speak all he wanted. and then when he saw that i was saying anything, he said "Now you have nothing to say.". so i told him "I have a lot to say, but I'll only say some of what's on my mind right now, otherwise you wont stop crying. You should really get to work Josh. Even art class can be extremely difficult for some people. Aren't you supposed to be in university or sometihng, cuz you're like 22 years old aren't you?...*pause*...Why aren't you speakin now? Huh? Are you too ashamed or somthing? That's what I thought." then he olt me to shut-up so i said "What? You really have nothing to say right now, so i suggest you to just go back to your seat and actually get some work done cuz you have like a 25% in this class." he said something to himself and then just sat down. so i really showed him. now he's scared of me. :wub: this is something that happened to me..and i have many other stories, but thanx for sharing yours with us bro. it was really touching and i wish i knew you so that i could also have Darshan (blessing(s)) from you. keep it going and hold your head high like we're all supposed as Amrit-Dharis. youre a really good role-model. God Bless You and your family. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Whaeguru Ji Ki Fateh.

GurFateh Ji. im sry but i object the fact that any of our Guru Jis had more than one wife. its impossilbe!... you said something like 'thats how the story goes' and well if you say that then wouldnt that mean that you believe in things you hear. oh and umm..its not written anywhere in Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji or in Dasam Granth Sahib Ji that Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji (and or other Guru Ji(s)) had more than one wife. thats just not right. you also said that Guru Ji wouldnt object to any request from the Sangat, and im sry, but i believe thats wrong cuz what if someone from in the Sangat said "Guru Ji, plz let us eat meat and we request you to eat it as well, and plz leave your Amrit." ..if someone said that then im pretty sure that Guru Ji wouldnt have left Amrit, even if it was someone or some Ppl from the sangat requesting Him to do it... as i tried to explain before: Guru Ji wouldnt do something that just Ppl want; He would do anything for the sangat ji only if he knew that Sikhism and God would allow something it. so plz Ppl ...PLZ PLZ stop thinking abt Guru Ji in a way that seems as if we're saying He did wrong things. i actually think that most of the Ppl who continuously ask such questions and then argue and say wrong things abt Guru Ji are just saying that so that they could do whatecer they wish to do. example: if someone wanted to eat meat then that person would then say that Guru Ji also ate meat and if someone wanted to marry 2 times then that person would say that Guru Ji married more than once. it just doesnt make sense to some Ppl that saying all of this stuff is such a big sin! God help you all and bless you all. GurFateh.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh. READ THIS PEOPLE! I KNOW IT LOOKS LONG BUT BELIEVE ME, YOU'LL GET THE ANSWERS YOURE LOOKING FOR. YOU'LL ALSO BE SURPRISED AT SOME THINGS. even after taking Amrit i used think abt all of this stuff before too..ya know..why Guru Ji had more than one wife, why were not allowed to eat meat, why we're not allowed to cut our hair, etc. ...well...i started getting answers and i didnt like them. examples: 'Sikhs shouldnt cut their hair cuz its their identity.' and 'Sikhs dont eat meat cuz there are so many other things we can eat.' and 'Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji had more than one wife cuz someone made a promise with their daughter that they would have her married to Guru Ji, so then Guru Ji had to marry that girl'....and there are so many other pathetic, stupid answers to these common asked questions abt our religion. since i wasnt getting the answers i wanted, i started reading books and stuff. i was really disappointed cuz i still found the pathetic answers in the books. then i finally was told by a Gursikh that i shouldnt read books and i shouldnt always believe what other Ppl say; and that instead of all of that i should read Gurbani and Dasam Granth (since most Ppl have more questions abt sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji). so when i started to read i started to get answers....and its true abt Sri Gobind Singh Ji having one wife! omg! drop that topic...its so old.... theres something we should all know by now, and that's: WE SHOULD STOP READING THE BOOKS (except for jeevanies i think) BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE WRITTEN BY THE HINDU GOVERNMENT WHO ARE TRYING THEIR VERY BEST TO CHANGE SIKHISM!!! why dont you Ppl understand?? its so sad cuz so many Ppl dont even know that most of the pictures of Guru Jis (especially Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji and his family) are drawn by hindus and make it look like Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji worshiped the Hindu religion. think abt Ppl!: why do you think most Ppl are questioning stuff abt our Guru Jiwho made the Khalsa??? I'll tell you why. its cuz the Hindu Ppl who hate to look at us know that we wont leave our religion so easily and so then they start to change it slowly and slowly just like the nazi Ppl lead by hitler took the religious books from the Jews and started to change the history of the Jews and started to add in a lot abt what the Nazis believed. another thing thats really important for you Ppl to know is that Indra Ghandi (who started the whole Operation Bluestar) was related to Gangu who was the man who stole the gold coins from Guru Gobind Singh Ji's mother. Gangu went to a police chief and told them that he had the younger Sahibzaday and their Maata Ji at his house. he went and told them cuz he knew that Maata Ji found out that he stole the sack of gold coins from them and also cuz he knew that he would get a lot of money from the police by telling them where the younger Sahibzaday were. we are so unaware of what is going on around us....the way that hitler helped start the war cuz of discriminating against the Jews, is the same way that the indian government is going to help start the Third World War by discriminating against the Sikhs. asking questions abt our religion and our Gurus is ok, but questioning our Guru Jis in a way that could mean youre saying that they (or one of them, or some of them) are wrong, is totally wrong. and one more thing: i dont see why Ppl say it was wrong for Guru Ji to marry more then once in the first place. think abt it! cuz even if He did marry more than once, it wouldve been for an EXTREMELY good reason; Guru Ji didnt do things just for the fun of it, so even if Guru Ji married more than once, we cant say He did a wrong thing;....and adding to that..for those of you who say he married more than once and say that He is a hypocrit by doing so, i would just like to tell you Ppl that it wasnt like Guru Ji was with both of his wives at once. you can only say that it was wrong if He was both of his wives at once. theres one thing i know for sure: if Guru Ji did marry more than once, He ended His previous relationship and then started His new one. most of the Ppl who say its right to eat meat and cut hair and say that Guru Ji commited adultery are the Ppl who want to do these kind of things themselves!! WE CANT BE AS HIGH AS GURU JI SO DONT TRY TO COMPARE A SIKH TO GURU JI. sometimes im so disgusted at some things Ppl say abt our religion. If ya dont wanna follow it, then dont!!...and for those of you who ask "Do we have to take Amrit?", the answer is "Yes.", and heres why: there is a shabad stating in it "Sabh Sikhan Ko Hukam Hai, Guru Maanyo Granth." which means whateva our Guru Jis told us to do, we must do it. even Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji obeyed the Panj Piyaarey when they told Guru Ji to leave (i think it was) Chaandani Chok when the moghals were getting closer to the Sikhs; and if Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji obeyed someone while being a Guru themself, why should we hesitate to obey what out Guru Jis told us to do??!! well! i really hope this answers most of your questions. if you read this entire message, thank-you for doing so and im sure you'll consider the fact that you shouldnt question our Guru Jis. God Bless You All. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa. Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

GurFateh to ya'all. i neva really knew anythin abt Skihi cuz my parents didnt teach me:|which still makes me mad cuz they tell others to teach their children:@meh... anywho; i knew that the Gurudwara was a very special place, and that your head was supposed to be covered, feet to be uncovered, hands to be washed etc. ....but i neva knew what we went there for, and who 9what) God was (is). So i would just do whateva my mom would do when we went there. then one day my mom told me that i could get anything i wanted if i did Ardaas, so i started to do Ardaas wheneva i went to the Gurudwara (since we didnt do Paath at home)...and i would do Ardaas, not paying attention to anyone or anything around me , wishing for a bro...and as *science* works, i had a new baby brother abt what?...10 months later *no duh*...lol..... so yeah...then i was like "hmm"...and i started to realize the things that our Guru Jis wanted us to do, and all the things they did for us. I just started to think...ya know: "if god listened to my prayers, gave me a home, gave me loving parents, a loving sis, a baby bro, *gave me a Sikh life*, then i should also listen to what God asks from me cuz i had full faith in God (and still do of course). But then another thing that happened was when my daddy was talking to a bhai sahib...and the bhai sahib told my dad to stop eating meat, and my dad said that he would...slowly he would. so one day he was eating some left-over meat from the night before, and a small part of a bone cut my dads gum, and he told the bhai sahib the next day and then asked him what he could do to help stop my daddy from eating. the bhai sahib then put his hand on my dads head and said a prayer...after that day, my dad kept his hair, didnt drink, didnt eat meat, and started going to the Gurudwara more often. Then my entire family took Amrit when i was in grade 5, and man!, is it eva great to be a true Gursikh!! :doh: its pretty cool. :doh: GurFateh to ya'all.