ummm... i have been to pooran gursikh weddings where teh bride and grrom were like plane simple. Liek they both wore jolai and for tehir negagement tehy they traded kirpans ... so yeah it depends on teh family and who ur wedding. Miyas importanat. Liek i dont know any weddings where ppl dont do their miya...
Like tehir was one miya where teh both sides put gutkas in tehri cholie. Instead of liek some failies they would put for teh girls, makeup and all tht other crap!