D Kaur

To answer your original question, i dont think the symptoms you described sound like OCD. But please dont diagnose yourself, or allow others even those who claim to be Dr's to diagnose you online. No one here knows you, we know nothing about your life, your medical history, you families medical history therefore no one here, is in a position to advise you. However please do accept our suggestions: Firstly: Seek professional help. Make an appointment with your Dr and talk through your issues with him/her. Secondly: As others have suggested, continue with your Simran, hopefully it will keep your mind occupied and stop any bad thoughts. But please do go seek advise from your Dr. You may of heard about the young girl who heard voices in the news this week, she received counselling at school because of these voices. Everyone is different and we all cope with different situations in our own way, so what works for us one person may not work for you. So the best step is seeing a professional. I hope it all works out for you.

Once upon a time, there was a Guroo Pyaara who was about to get married. He was very excited and nervous, but also he looked foward to meeting his Guru. Then suddenly,something appeared before him ... it's david beckham! He had always (i was so tempted to say chak de phathe, but that would of ended the story!!)

Once upon a time, there was a Guroo Pyaara who was about to get married. He was very excited and nervous, but also he looked foward to meeting his Guru. Then suddenly,something appeared before him

Once upon a time, there was a Guroo Pyaara who was about to get married. He was very excited and nervous, but also he looked foward to

Once upon a time, there was a Guroo Pyaara who was about to get married. He was very excited and nervous

LMAO! haha!! <_< It made you check the post though!

http://indyblogs.typepad.com/independent/2...lli-1.html#more Hi All, Ravi Bhenji has asked for our help, can we all please post a comment, and also write to our MP's to try an get this some real coverage in the media? If Gillian Gibbons can be realeased with Govt intervention, surely something can be done in this case. Lets try and get the awareness on this case up. Thank you

Thanks! :lol:

Does anyone know where i can get the following in audio? ma 1 || First Mehla: bha(n)dd ja(n)meeai bha(n)dd ni(n)meeai bha(n)dd ma(n)gan veeaahu || From woman, man is born; within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married. bha(n)ddahu hovai dhosathee bha(n)ddahu chalai raahu || Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come. bha(n)dd muaa bha(n)dd bhaaleeai bha(n)dd hovai ba(n)dhhaan || When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound. so kio ma(n)dhaa aakheeai jith ja(n)mehi raajaan || So why call her bad? From her, kings are born. bha(n)ddahu hee bha(n)dd oopajai bha(n)ddai baajh n koe || From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all. naanak bha(n)ddai baaharaa eaeko sachaa soe || O Nanak, only the True Lord is without a woman. jith mukh sadhaa saalaaheeai bhaagaa rathee chaar || That mouth which praises the Lord continually is blessed and beautiful. naanak thae mukh oojalae thith sachai dharabaar ||2|| O Nanak, those faces shall be radiant in the Court of the True Lord. ||2||

FYI whilst Flaxseed oil does have omega-3 in it, and is preferred by some people, some doctors suggest that flaxseed oil should not be taken by pregnant women. The reason is that flax seed, like soy or even more so, seems to have an effect on estrogen and hormones and might interfere with your body during pregnancy - just something for the ladies to keep in mind. Ask your doctor before taking if you expecting of planning...

There are a lot of rumours suggesting that he has converted, but nothing factual... so who knows... his brother Jermainne is though... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml...njackson122.xml

Yeah i saw that... i did think it was a little odd... and your right it said that he had them for protection...

Is his name really Turloc Singh?? I found another post where he was asked why he uses the name Singh, but he avoided the question... http://carsonspost.wordpress.com/2007/08/2...urban-search-2/ i cant find and way of contacting him to ask him either...

Wow! Thats amazing!! Beautifully written too!

There are a few deluded kids around... Worrying thing is... they dont find anything wrond with that little 'poem'!!!! I only hope that they grow out of that behaviour... :WW: I dont think we have should have there pics online though...

As your not drinking it to get drunk - but to get better, go for it. Have a nice hot bath with some vicks, it will help you breathe better... then have some medicine and go to bed, but be sure to wrap up warm! Have a read of the whole perfume debate... it's the same principle...

Thats so true! education is the new caste system!! I've tried to introduce some girls in the family to a number of potential partners, and they either complain that the guy is to educated or not educated enough! And one auntie refused to even consider a guy because he didnt have a degree, even though he had his own successfull business - you'd think that she was going to get married to him and not her daughter!!! Personally i dont think it should be an issue, i have a degree and have a 'good' job, my husband dosnt have a degree, but thats not caused us any issues. But not all men can handle their partner being the financial earner...

Slightly of topic but does anyone have the notes to place this on the vaja?

Ooops Looks like we have all been fowarded the above email and it already has it's own topic!! Sorry! "Your talent is God's gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God. " ~ Leo Buscaglia

The Assan is on the right hand side... and i totally agree Cross Road and GNP are the places to be!!! As for the canada wala, and his blind followers... Vaheguru will deal with him... I havent been to Nanaksar for a very long time... so i couldnt tell you if there are pics there.... But Baba Meeha Singh Jee, when introduced to a relative of mine (who was only around 17 at the time) told him to stop smoking and also outlined a number of other personal things which he could never have guessed. Suffice to say this relative stopped smoking and got back on the right path. It's sad to see the changes that have happened at the Gurdwara since his departure...

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Several years ago, a gyanee from out-of-town accepted a call to attend a Gurdwara in canada. Some weeks after he arrived, he had the opportunity to ride the bus from his home to the downtown area. When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had accidentally given him a quarter too much change. As he considered what to do, he thought to himself, "You'd better give the quarter back. It would be wrong to keep it." Then he thought, "Oh, forget it, it's only a quarter. Who would worry about this little amount? Anyway, the bus company gets too much fare; they will never miss it. Accept it as a gift from Vaheguru and keep quiet. When his stop came, he paused momentarily at the door, then he handed the quarter to the driver and said, "Here, you gave me too much change." The driver, with a smile, replied, "Aren't you the new Gyanee in town? I have been thinking a lot lately about going somewhere to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I gave you too much change. I' ll see you at gurdwara on Sunday." When the Gyanee stepped off of the bus, he literally grabbed the nearest lamp post for support, and said, "Oh Vaheguru, I almost sold your Son for a quarter." Our lives are the only Teachings some people will ever read. This is a really scary example of how much people watch us as Sikhs and will put us to the test! Always be on guard -- and remember -- You carry the name of Guru ji on your shoulders when you call yourself "sikh." Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby.... somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, "normal" is history. Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct .... somebody never took a three-year-old shopping. Somebody said being a mother is boring .... somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver's permit. Somebody said if you're a "good" mother, your child will "turn out good"....somebody thinks a child comes with directions and a guarantee. Somebody said "good" mothers never raise their voices ... somebody never came out the back door just in time to see her child hit a golf ball through the neighbor's kitchen window. Somebody said you don't need an education to be a mother.... somebody never helped a fourth grader with his math. Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the first .... somebody doesn't have two children. Somebody said a mother can find all the answers to her child-rearing questions in the books.... somebody never had a child stuff beans up his nose or in his ears. Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery....somebody never watched her "baby" get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten .... or on a plane headed for military "boot camp." Somebody said a mother can do her job with her eyes closed and one hand tied behind her back.... Somebody never organized seven giggling Brownies to sell cookies. Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married....somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mother's heartstrings. Somebody said a mother's job is done when her last child leaves home....somebody never had grandchildren. Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her.... somebody isn't a mother. Pass this along to all the "mothers" in your life and to everyone who ever had a mother. This isn't just about being a mother; it's about appreciating the people in your life while you have them....no matter who that person is.

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, "I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you." The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. "I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that very much." That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited at the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's. "I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed," she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting." We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. "It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said. "Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favor," I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed. "How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered. A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son." At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: "I LOVE YOU" and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve, because these things cannot be put off until "some other time."

Baba Ji's Assan is opposite the Gurdwara, if you get a chance you should definately visit - have to admit that the Gudwara hasnt been the same since his passing though. Any videos that you have would be appreciated.