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I think you know what he means saying things to be hurtful to others hearts, I am sure if someone described your family member in the derogatory manner , or questioned your ethics or your Guru ji it would hurt on a level.

not my experience usually rage on for a while, then throw up hands then I offer a cuppa Eastenders stylee

to be honest when I saw the before and supposed after it didn't even look like the same guy I think this is just to undermine the image of the singhs in the eyes of the youth who are coming back to sikhi path . It could be a humshakal

as kirpan Khando kharag:

hukhamnama I gor after ardas for Veer ji's health iblwvlu mhlw 5 ] bilaaval mehalaa 5 || Bilaaval, Fifth Mehla: pwrbRhm pRB Bey ik®pwl ] paarabreham prabh bheae kirapaal || The Supreme Lord God has become Merciful. kwrj sgl svwry siqgur jip jip swDU Bey inhwl ]1] rhwau ] kaaraj sagal savaarae sathigur jap jap saadhhoo bheae nihaal ||1|| rehaao || The True Guru has arranged all my affairs; chanting and meditating with the Holy Saints, I have become happy. ||1||Pause|| AMgIkwru kIAw pRiB ApnY doKI sgly Bey rvwl ] a(n)geekaar keeaa prabh apanai dhokhee sagalae bheae ravaal || God has made me His own, and all my enemies have been reduced to dust. kMiT lwie rwKy jn Apny auDir lIey lwie ApnY pwl ]1] ka(n)t(h) laae raakhae jan apanae oudhhar leeeae laae apanai paal ||1|| He hugs us close in His embrace, and protects His humble servants; attaching us to the hem of His robe, he saves us. ||1|| shI slwmiq imil Gir Awey inMdk ky muK hoey kwl ] sehee salaamath mil ghar aaeae ni(n)dhak kae mukh hoeae kaal || Safe and sound, we have returned home, while the slanderer's face is blackened. khu nwnk myrw siqguru pUrw gur pRswid pRB Bey inhwl ]2]27]113] kahu naanak maeraa sathigur pooraa gur prasaadh prabh bheae nihaal ||2||27||113|| Says Nanak, my True Guru is Perfect; by the Grace of God and Guru, I am so happy. ||2||27||113|| Ang 826/7

if the sindhi hindu Bhardwaj can heal with Guru ji's kirpa so can Veer ji ...

apart from repeating my words I think that one woman or girl is too many ...

the truth is guys also talk with their mates at work/ home , often the women are isolated by the dual jobs and demands of being the primary caregiver , is it really so unreasonable to talk and share with their life partner , sometimes we have to smooth our husbands ruffled feathers or brows ...can you not do the same ? I do not see a reason to be so wound up by this. Most of the singhnian I know are not prone to moaning on every little thing , who has the luxury of time/energy for that

so the best thing to happen to sikhi is the removal of the Government's legislation to control gurdwarey , and the internal decisions of the sgpc. even dissolving the Sgpc

As Sant ji said they will label us aplenty, beat us, rape us, even kill us for being sons and daughters of Guru Gobind SIngh ji and fighting for justice, it's a tiny price to pay ...we need to follow up those who have been in the vanguard of the good fight like Manmohan Singh ji and other elders to prevent a slipback into apathy. We need to counter the millenial malaise and the balle balle culture , arming our kids and grandkids even Guru Kirpa kitte greatgrandchildren with true sikhi knowledge

I don't see a problem I used to do nam whilst training for half-marathon walk and listen to banian , the mind is very open and responsive at that time , if you listen to bir rass shabads it couldn't get better for creating muscle memory linked to memory recal , so when you do activities the bani is triggered in your head .

one man's dogma, another's discipline ? organised religion = special buildings for worship , priest class, missionaries/recruitment agency, exclusivity, political agenda sikhi : 1. 'ghar, ghar andar dharamshal hoe kirtan sada vasoa' in every home is a place of dharam where praises always abides .... gurbani gives our true home as nijj ghar the heart so no buildings are not necessary just the company of others in like frame of mind. 2. No formal priestly class like brahmins , catholic/anglican priests/pastors/vicars, mauvli/imam just Gursikhs who do sewa of Guru ji on behalf of sangat in Gurdwarey can be informal arrangement of a member of sangat even children. 3. No formal recruition agency just word of mouth , example and parcharik teaching and discussing Gurbani. 4. Sikhi doesn't have exclusivity on Heaven like most other faiths , any one who is graced will achieve 5. Political agenda is to bring food and justice to all , this not contingent on a piece of land or border labelled in sikhs favour look at our history.

It's simple remove the political interference on the gurdwarey and then return to sangat led smaller gurdwarey/dharamshaley model where the local sangat make the decisions under panj piare of rehitvaan gursikhs ...but first remove the Golak mechanism as this what is the government keeps looting . Maybe instead have Khalsa Credit unions Branches which sikhs have accounts which they deposit their savings and daswand , so instead of funding sinful endeavours like weapons development, conflict metals/gems, etc and gaining bad karma from that. The money could be used to set up to give interest free loans to poor , this will help remove the exploitation of the poor and debt slaves . Slavery is what we are meant to remove from the planet , because Guru Nanak Dev ji went to Rome to tell the Pope that slavery is a sin against God's children . The Credit unions could also build school classrooms, akhardey/gyms in villages and towns to provide free education and martial arts/sports training , initial teachers will train first generation , then they the next generation and so on down the line , no-one should be uneducated in this day and age. Business start-up loans could help develop green technologies and programs which could be sold/taught world wide e.g. moisture capture , pollution reduction tested out on Punjab's soil first .

i think the reframing of what sikhs are is happening a lot quicker because true sikhs are becoming visible in media and online and other people are responding positively , my boys have been pulled aside quite a few times in the past few months and congratulated for being proper sikhs by monay and non-sikhs , the monay or lapsed keshadharis have admitted they want to go back to being proper sikhs too and my boys have encouraged them . I was thanked by kashmiri muslim for the help their people got in the floods out of the blue when I was in Dharamshala , India on a course. The guys and girls who are majorly into the balle balle culture, maas and daru need a good shaking up and waking up ...Dharam Sewa is doing a good job to use music to get the proper ideas into their heads via catchy tunes . Looking forward to the Chitta info (gurbani backed method of releasing people from nasha) and tracks . Guru ji has given us a tough job but not without knowing we have the strength to see it through , it's going to be like hitting your head on sharp rocks for a while but then the tide will turn . I can see it happening . If we do major parchaar in Indian Gurdwarey now that jobless day jobbers are flooding to langar because of Modi's demonitisation scheme/scam and are appreciating how they always get help from langar whereas only from temples if some daan is being given out . We could end up with more grass roots level changes to sikhi.

They have recaptured Singh ji but his dardi and kesh have been cut off , some are saying this happened at police hands others taking reports from media think he did this himself to escape detection . I think it is strange how immediately following Modi's visit , this undermining of one of the 'secure' jails has happened . Me thinks it is just so Modi can insist on takeover of punjab jails at worst state of emergency again , or at least undermining akalis ...

he is trying to imply a level of controlled sexuality and morality harking back to victorian era when they were covered up and tied and restricted by corsets (laced up) I think he's a little too forgiving of the guys and a little too generalising on the girls , there are loads of good honourable sikh girls and his words imply that the situation is different

think about what you said and what I said , you can know of someone being a Mum, auntie , brother , sister , father doesn't mean that it is you , and it is possible from age 9 to be groomed what about those kids ...whoever it happens to , nobody deserves it . Being promiscuous is a different question and I don't think they asked that , if they did all the young lads would come out as greater rate of promiscuous behaviour , because they think it is OK to be like that , 'cos their guys innit' and their folks would say 'it's different because they won't get pregnant' . Double standards and lack of any serious morals and ethics is the cause and being too busy to know their own kids.

I saw this video a long time back and it made me angry that nothing was corrected in the Hazoori of Guru Granth Sahib ji by the jathedar , it was almost like he was paralysed to do anything , if you cannot keep the insult of gurbani distortion from happening in Guru ji's hazaree then what good is your jathedari?

according to the UK sikh survey 1 in 7 surveyed had been or knew of a person personally who had been groomed so it is not a little thing. People who go through this are damaged very very badly and usually don't get married and settle down ...

where's the head LOL anyway if it is unfertilised then is it not a part of the chicken ? besides who wants to eat chicken menses ....they contain nasty bugs like salmonella.

maybe you need to look around you in Canada , there are plenty girls who behave like gorian in every sense , of course they will act like butter wouldn't melt ... It is pure lack of self-respect ... I mean they created the free love movement to destroy moral living and even now our girls and boys behave like animals . But what can I say those in the generation above me who didn't have amrit or follow Guru ji properly look at young girls at weddings like the dirty -minded lechs they are rather than 'matt dhia bakane' . It is sick inducing

When I was in university I used to live in a room in a shared house and one of occupants was a trainee jehovah's witness , of course seeing me as a captive audience he tried to tell me what I believed in , which I found cute and replied in like vein then I asked him where he got his info from and he brought his textbooks out to show me . They have an encylopedia of faiths and ways to approach , versus their own faith ... being the kind soul I was , I taught him about Guru Sahiban and just who exactly we pray to and what amrit sanchar is and does . In the end he agreed logically I was praying to God the true creator and there was nothing more he could add by trying to change me to his faith. After that we had a friendly and mutually respectful relationship. I think after a little while he stopped missionary work ...because I had mentioned that the message didn't tell him to break people who already believed in God away from God but to support and remind people to love God.

there is a principle in UK Law: 'Ignorance is no defence ' ...simple if they were hiding their names faces, activities then of course they know it is wrong ...expect next to hear 'racist' if you confront them with that truth

that speaks to lack of spine , what if she had been abused as a child ? still same attitude .... then look to your sikhi you are failing in daya . People like you are the nightmare for sikh Parents of girls who were raped as part of shudi kaaran policy in Punjab or the grooming gangs . Just think on how your ancestors married those girls who had been captured by afghans and mughals when they got rejected by their own folks .