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Wjkk Wjkf SADH SANGAT JI PLEASE GUIDE ANY PARTICULAR PAATH OR SHABADS THAT ARE SUPPOSED TO BE DONE BY A PREGNANT WOMAN.THANKS

Thanks everyone for your replies. I would appreciate if everybody will start posting one Shabad with meaning each day.

WJKKWJKF SADH SANGAT JI PL POST YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS ON THIS SUBJECT.ARE WE SUPPOSE TO GO TO SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARAS BECAUSE THEY ARE ASSOCIATED WITH SOME KINDS OF //.FOR EXAMPLE SOME PEOPLE SAY YOU SHOULD GO TO SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARA TO GET A BABY ,OTHER TIMES SOME SAY YOU SHOULD GO TO THIS PARTICULAR GURUDWARA TO GET SOME MATERIALISTIC THING. I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD MOVE ON IT 'S HIGH TIME WE SHOULD GET ENLIGHTENED AND INSTEAD OF DOING SUCH THINGS ASK FOR COURAGE TO ACCEPT GURU DA BHANA. I DONT REMEMBER THE EXACT QUOTE BUT ONCE I READ IN A POST SAYING THAT OUR ULTIMATE GOAL SHOULD BE GOD,PARMATMA,WAHEGURU IS THERE SOMETHING WRITTEN IN GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI ABOUT VISITING SOME PARTICULAR GURUDWARAS FOR PARTICULAR FRUITS? ALSO WHAT IS THE SIGNIFICANCE OF POURING GHEE IN JOTS ? (PL FORGIVE ME FOR ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS I AM NO ONE TO JUDGE OTHER'S SENTIMENTS BUT THEN I NEED TO RESOLVE MY QUERRIES,PARTICULARLY AT THIS TIME WHEN MANY ARE DIENG OUT OF HUNGER HOW CAN WE WASTE SO MUCH OF GHEE AND OIL ETC.) AREN'T WE SUPPOSE TO GIVE EQUAL RESPECT TO ALL GURUDWARAS BECAUSE ULTIMATELY WE HAVE GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI AS OUR GURU. AND ONE MORE THING WHAT IS CHAUPAHRA AND WHAT IS IT 'S SIGNIFICANCE? IF SOMEBODY IS ASSOCIATED WITH BASIC OF SIKHI OR SOME OTHER GROUP ASSOCIATED WITH SPREADING RELIGIOUS AWARENESS I REQUEST PLEASE ORGANISE CAMPS IN PUNJAB. PLEASE FORGIVE ME IF MY THOUGHTS ARE NOT IN LINE WITH SOMEONE ELSE'S AND PLEASE POUR IN YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS ON THESE ISSUES.

From my personal experience I want to share some thoughts. I think the root of the problem is that we can't just do anything without knowing the cause behind it.I dont know about the rest of the world but the scene in India is that parents force their children to do path and children dont find this act good enough because they dont know the whole concept of religion.So there should be religious education first.parents should introduce religion by telling the basic things about sikhi.what is Sikhi.Why we are supposed to recite Nitnem.unfortunately this is not done in most of the families. Even today when I am told to do some acts linked to religion I dont like doing those things (eg pouring ghee in jots at some Gurudwaras).the reason for me is I dont know the significance of this act and my brain refuses to do acts blindly.So in your case I would advice you to talk to your parents about it and try to have knowledge of your religion by searching on net. You can also checkout Basic of Sikhi videos on youtube.I am sure you will be benefitted.

Feel yourself lucky enough that you are blessed with caring parents.It is an oppurtunity to save yourlife else at the middle age or old age you will regret that you wasted your precious life.Trust me it s really important to practice religion at an early age cause that makes you stronger,wiser and stable otherwise you get lost in this world and the real purpose of this life you never get that.the only thing that should be of concern is practising "karmkand"in the name of religion.if that is not the case then be thankful to your parents and obey them.

WJKKWJKF Sadh Sangat Ji,please post some suggestions and links to sources for learning and understanding SHABADS from gurbani,. I feel very ashamed when sometimes I dont know the complete Shabad sung at GURUDWARA SAHIB.I personally believe we should atleast try to learn all the SHABADS because when you know the SHABADS ,you stay more focussed while listening to kirtan at GURUDWARA SAHIB. Earlier too I have tried to learn Shabads but I want to do it in a systematic manner this time.This time I want to learn ,understand and imbibe one SHABAD at one time.

I think it 's the mentality that people here have.People don't have the time to listen and help .Relations don't carry the same value.People instead of helping start ignoring you.I have asked my husband many times to sit and discuss ,something is wrong and it 's effecting me badly.Instead of helping me out he complains my parents that I am giving him unnecessary stress and he just don't want any stress.

How to fight depression on your own.I mean if your near and dear ones are not ready to accept that you are psychologically ill.Any video links or self help books helpfull for this ailment.?

WJKKWJKF What is the right thing ,to accept whatever is happening as GURU'S BHANA or to make a prayer and ask for help.How to make ARDAAS for Waheguru ji's help?

You cannot fight with the system here and the best part is you are a visitor and you will be going back so just enjoy the good things and ignore the rest,that is how we have managed to survive here. Have you visited RANGLA PUNJAB ,HAVELI jalandhar ,i would say that is the only thing worth giving a try. Also try to spend more time at GOLDEN TEMPLE ,AMRITSAR.you will feel the bliss. if you have time try to visit historical gurudwaras in HIMACHAL PRADESH specially PAONTA SAHIB,GURU GOBIND SINGH JI spent a big part of his life at this place.

wow, very nice idea to kill hate BUNDHA.i am surely going to try this cause when we have bad feelings for someone it disturbs our own peace.

I will not be able to write regularly today onwards.but I will keep doing one hour JAAP not for just 30 days but beyond that.pray for me. I want to share my experience till now. doing Jaap and SIMRAN DEFINITELY HELPS.it adds to your confidence.it gives you strength.all you need to have is patience and devotion.for me it did wonders.and one thing is so very true that our thinking is too small;Waheguru's plans for us are beyond our imagination so always just remember HIM have faith. I feel i am lucky i got this phase in my life,otherwise i was so lost in worldly things I could have never searched for things and never got this forum and never learned this way of life.people on this forum are a blessing.they help you motivate you and they all are so wise so enlightened,I got a new vision to look at things.I am very grateful to everyone on this forum. At times some people criticize some posts when someone wishes to feel Waheguru,to see and feel HIS presence and when someone asks for some worldy things.Some enlightened souls say our sole motive should be beyond worldly things.I just want to say one thing everyone has his own journey.some are lucky they have got enlightened they can talk and feel about things in depth but few are beginners like me,we are at our step 1,dont expect us to understand things at higher steps. talking about myself,I think I am beginner.I cant just forget about worldly things completely at this stage.and I wish to feel WAHEGURU by myside always.At this stage I cant be totally selfless,I know it s not right.but it s a journey and i am at first step.slowly a stage will come when I will forget everything else and just do JAAP AND SIMRAN.but till that stage comes I want all you enlightened souls to motivate me so that I can move ahead on this path.

day 6: the day was very tiring still i managed to do Jaap and rest all the time i just listened to kirtan.I am unable to control myself from thinking too much about all that is happening.Finally I have decided to quit my job so that I can devote more time towards my innerself and towards Waheguru.my present job is just adding to my miseries.when you are surrounded by so many troubles u are left with no energy.sometimes I am not able to sit and do JAAP so I do it while lying . switching off phone is a good idea. I am trying to isolate myself from every other thing .let's see if that will be of any help. I am sure all my problems will end up once I will develop a true connection with GOD.

couldn't make it to day 4 and day 5 bcz of excess workload.i was already afraid of this.will try to compensate for the loss in these two days.negstivity and depression is again gripping me.

lucky you are.I WISH TO EXPERIENCE THE SAME.

in any kind of addiction physical dependence is the first thing that you have to fight but the psychological dependence is the big problem to get rid of.being a medical professional i can tell you this.congrats man u have won over both the physical and psychological dependence but at times there is a tendency to fall back.try never to sit alone doing nothing.have some KIRTAN played by your side always so that you never feel alone plus the positive vibes from devotional music will keep the negative thoughts away from you.

day 3 first of all i am not understanding why i am not able to see many of my posts. i have started feeling the effects of my SIMRAN though I m not sure if it's permanent or temporary.i am gaining confidence to rise above the present situations.I m turning more positive these days.but that concentration and devotion is still missing.I wish I get into that mode soon.

DAY 1 I started MOOL MANTAR JAAP after work in the evening.Initially I was not able to concentrate and all kinds of thoughts started coming to my mind.but then I was firm about one thing that I have to complete 1hour no matter what.so I just kept on doing Jaap.while doing Jaap I realised all the shortcomings I have , I realised the cause of our sufferings is not outside it s inside.We always run after others but we are supposed to bring changes in ourself.I saw Guru Nanak Dev Ji walking away.I felt like I have been so much soiled with worldly things that has created distance between me and Waheguru.and so I need lot more meditation simran and Jaap to make myself worth Waheguru's love.I cannot change the past but I can manage my future.Utmost important is Waheguru's love.despite of all these thoughts coming to my mind I completed one hour.and the end result was a very good sleep after so many days.my next session of one hour Jaap will begin in some minutes.real test will be on the weekend when I ll be so exhausted physically and frustated mentally but I have to do this.I am realising I am already late on this path.one thing more when I was a kid I used to had different kind of love and affection for Waheguru like a kid loves her parents but now I dont get those feelings, I want to feel that bonding again.. thanks everyone for participating.stay by myside and keep motivating me.

If you don't understand Shabads tty searching on apps like igurbani where you will understand the meaning . I know as man is a social animal we cant stay lonely all the time we need someone or something to do to talk butisolation is some times required.only when you are alone you can introspect about yourself you can meditate and bring transformations in your self.

So shastarSingh do you support akali's hhere? Aren't u aware of badals connections with pakhandi babe here? No doubt parkash singh badal is very hard working but he is working fr his people and his religion...I doubt..opening lots of hotels around famous Gurudwara Sahib is not required.If he is real sikh dedicated to his religion then he should have come up with Ideas of educating sikh people bringing awareness...whatever he has done so far like kabbadi matches and all is just to gain publicity and earn frm foreign investors however on the ground level where solid steps are required nthing mch has been done.Sikhi is flourishing in foreign land because real life issues are raised and sorted on these forums like SikhSangat and people there have access to web however here in India specially in punjab the age old trends are being followed evn today and the educated youth cannot connect to those rituals bcz we have our brains working and we need to know the significance of every ritual that is the reason the youth here is not able follow Sikhi thoroughly here.as far as politics is concerned kejriwal is doing a lot for people and he knows how to make people participate and make every issue their own.there s one interview of mrs.navjot kaur sidhu interacting with school children at amritsar try to watch that video (somehow I am not able to attach the link) to know how helpless sincere politicians in punjab gov are feeling in badal's raj

Badals have done nothing for punjab.Kejriwal atleast is doing a lot fr people of delhi so he surely will act.he is an educated person and is well versed with the present day needs of people.badals hv mixed politics with religion however I believe two things should be kept seperately.u ll get to see hundreds of videos of badals with many dera heads which are befooling people.the state of people here is so bad that it s not the DARSHAN OF GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI OR THE BAANI OF GURU GRANTH SAHIB JI that holds importance but the presence of babe and heads that brings people to Gurudwara Sahib.India needs a lot of improvisation not just in politics but also in religion so everybody who belongs to India should actively participate not just in elections but also try to do something for your nation in whatever way you can.

Do visit himachal pradesh in India.There are many historical Gurudwaras there and the beauty of nature will surely add memories to your trip.Paonta Sahib Gurudwara is situated on the banks of river Yamuna, this is the place whereGURU GOBIND SINGH SPEND a lot of time.This place is connected to all other major hill stations.the only problem you can face is the extreme cold here.If you are planning to stay at Amritsar it s hard to get accommodation inside Gurudwara premises.Go for online booking of a nearby hotel and try to see the Amritvela at Darbar Sahib.Manali is another hotspot in the hilly area.

Pl post the meaning of SO PURKH PATH

Yes I know but it takes time to become that firm so that nothing in daily life can make you forget this ultimate truth.that s why seeking help from all you gurmukh people to keep me guarded.often during our tough times we spend time in cribbing over the past instead of talking to WAHEGURU that 's the reason I have turned to this forum so that I remain among those people who know how to remember WAHEGURU with every breath, in every situation.

Paaji U are doing a wonderful job.nobody is perfect in this world but recognising our drawbacks and working upon them is not easy.But u have not just decided to kill the negative side of urs but also have worked consistently over it.I can foresee your victory in this battle.So keep up the spirit and achieve ypur aim. regarding your loneliness there are many people in this world who have become negative because of their wrong choices fr life partners.feel yourself lucky as you just have to manage your own stuff and I think it s the best time when you can bring about a transformation in yourself.Once you are in a relation you hardly get time to work upon yourself .