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VJKK VJKF How do you think we can prevent this from happening further with our girls? VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF Drugs are such a big problem in our community, especially alcohol. VJKK VJKF

Its important that we don't forget about wildlife.

VJKK VJKF That's such a nice concept. Its something I will remember for my whole life. We forget about animals and creatures and we only focus on ourselves. VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF Aww that's so nice. VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF I agree with penji, it is also our responsibility. Not just the child's. VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF The way that we can tackle this issue is by spreading more parchaar about Sikhi and raising awareness about these sorts of topics. If our girls have more faith in Sikhi then they would have a bit more common sense rather than to walk off with a random stranger. The problem is that in the western world dating is such a normal thing whereas in Sikhi the concept of dating does not exist. These groomers set up accounts on dating websites/social media and our girls are clueless enough to fall right into their trap. We cannot just blame the groomers and the victims but it is also up to us, to educate and spread knowledge amongst youth. We have resources like social media that we can use to our advantage to prevent issues like this from happening in the first place. So answering @mahandulai veerji's question, yes it is the victims fault and the groomers fault and ours since the older generation have not really done a good job of spreading the wisdom of Sikhi. If we did a better job, we could prevent most incidents and if we were more stricter with children and at the very least took them to the gurdwara more often, it could contribute to the betterment of our community. Just my twopence worth. Bhull Chuk Maaf VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF Yes, however it may not always be their fault but sometimes our girls can be a bit silly.

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I don't know! It changes with my mood.

VJKK VJKF I think its good as sangat will be more aware about what is happening nowadays. More awareness needs to be raised about this topic because not a lot of people like talking about it. VJKK VJKF

VJKK VJKF The way you believe in God is within your heart. The more paath and gurbani you do, the closer you become to God. The Guru is always willing to show you the path no matter what. I think you should have some time to understand Guru Ji. The way you can do this is by doing an ardas and then taking a hukamnama. That way you will be able to communicate with Guru Ji and your doubts will be cleared. The feeling on your dasam duaar is your connection with God and you will be able to speak directly to God via this connection. God is without a doubt real and its up to us to experience God and connect with Him. The reason why you cry is because you do love Vaheguru but your mind hasn't processed that yet so you feel confused and doubtful. I hope I cleared your doubts and you can progress on your bright journey towards Vaheguru. VJKK VJKF