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i never noticed that!!! :D ....haha watch him win too

vaheguru...

hahah that just adds to my list on why im moving to torotnO!!!!!

start practicing... practice makes perfect :D

I wasn't questioning anything. I was thinking about what they said. Don't I have the right to ponder things? im guessing their just letting everyone know that since thier amritdhari and still dont wear keski/dastaar yet thier not doing anything wrong since its not thier kakaar/rehit..? i dunno lol :D

^ sometimes its hard to make the nindiya stop since everyone thats doing it is like wayyy older.... you cant just people like veryone shut up and leave the darbar! haha.... i think little me needs to start speaking up at sangat as well when similar stuffs happens :D

hahaha awww that must suck lol

vjkk vjkf! yeah...just ignore those posts and pay more attention to the ones that r more inspirational-y :s

haha o come onnnn im sure you got a lil beating sometimeeee

vaheguru... that was such a nice read! thanks!

realllllyyyy nice way to put it!!!

nice!

At your age, it is quite natural to look for a life partner, and it is very natural to suffer a heart break. So wake up to the reality of life. First of all, have some respect for yourself. You are a creation of God, you are a daughter of Sahib Sri Guru Gobind Singh Jee Maharaj. You are not a grocery item purchased from Walmart that someone can pick you up when he wants to and then dump you once he feels like. Stop degrading yourself. You are more than that. Thats excellant! I urge you to carry on with it! And what will that achieve? You want another chance with someone who "dumped" you? Someone who considers you as a grocery item? Someone who thinks he can use you? And what guarantee do you have that he won't dump you again? Are you so sure about him? You don't have to prove anything to anyone sister. You can't make this world happy. It will always demand more from you. Just be yourself. Live your life, not the life the world wants you to live. How long will you prove things to the world? It won't quit demanding. Life is too short to prove things to people. Instead of doing that, prove your love to Gurujee. Be the best Sikh there can be. Now thats worth it! Why run after this world? The world never accepts us no matter what we do, and Gurujee accepts us always no matter what! So why not follow Gurujee rather than people? Get a hold of yourself. This kind of mental chaos isn't going to help you, or bring him back. In fact he will get a chance to laugh about it to his friends that he got a girl so crazy in love with him that she lost weight! You want a chance? Really? Are you sure? Fine! Here is your chance. Submit and surrender to Gurujee. Forget about this guy. From today Gurujee is ALL YOURS. He will NEVER EVER dump you. He will be with you, protect you, and love you 24/7, always, every second, micro-second, milli-second of your life, every breath you take. Even when you are asleep He will guard you. Just surrender yourself to Him. Now you want to grab this chance? Recite Kirtan Sohila (or as some call it Sohila Sahib) before sleeping, and do Ardas after reciting it. Recite Moolmantar before you start studying. Life will fall back in place. Nothing will fall apart. Sikhs don't mourn sis! We celebrate! Look at our history! We never ever say we are mourning on a shaheedi diwas, we say we are celebrating! The mothers who got their babies ripped apart and had a garland of their limbs put around their neck used to pray and say "The day has passed in sukh, may the night pass in sukh as well", and you are mourning for some next dude who "dumped" you? Come on sis! You are better than that! Forget about this guy. Such things are part of life. You got to get up and move on. Don't waste your life and tears for someone who doesn't value them. Like they say, "Don't waste your tears for someone who doesn't realize their worth. And the one who does will never make you cry" (something like that, a pretty corny quote so I forgot lol).Maybe this is Gurujee giving you a chance to come closer to Him. See you are already doing Moolmantar. Keep going, you are on track. Recite Sukhmani Sahib if you feel too depressed. And read the meanings too. It will blow your mind away, and your pain and anxieties as well. Keep going sis. May Gurujee hold your hand! And if I said anything offensive, then please forgive me. I don't know you, or the guy, or your situation. So I am advising you just generally. And after you are done reading this post, watch this video: Very well said! Def. watch the video as posted above... its a really nice one... but bhenji, every little thing happens for a reason and i mean everyyyy littttlllleeeee thingg...even when we dont realize it......we just have to accept it as hukum. and hukums never harsh...its like the sweetest thing out there(if you look at it in a angle in which guruji does everything for the best! :s ) ......maybe he would of dumped you years later so gurujis just trying to save your time! so...if you can....be thankful! ......im SURE if you guys were meant to be together, something one way or anoother will work out... i mean if you truly cant live without him, let him know. many have gone though what you are going through so dont feel alone...just think about it for a sec though. if this guy left you knowing you'll be hurt...is he really worth all the pain your enduring? is that someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with? aside from all the other stuff..just give it a thought... and really watch that video cause Guruka singhss reallyyyyy nice at inspiring and helping poeple!....im not to good of an advice giver hehe but the posts above are pretty helpful :D

vaheguru... adraas is a biggie on this one.... fill your heart with sooo much love for guruji that there wouldnt even be a thought of turning your back on him. your where you are now becuase OF him. and he knws whats in for you. that line...if you take one step towards him he takes thousands towards you... i dont think he'll let you go that easily (just keep doing ardaas that you forever remain in his charan) :s

and thier teaching thier children HATE becauseeeee...? :s :glare: :D

haha we're too cool :s ..!

WHAT is wrong with you guys?!?! like seriously..did you listen at ALL on what he said??....after listening..didnt you feel like all this seperation...hate towards one another needs to be demolished.......? didnt you feel lthat you should love EVERY sikh, every person, for guruji abides in them...but no some of you have to start talking about flaws...etc..etc... sorry to come off rude but seriously...i have sooo much respect for sukha singh and these previous points .... :D ... HE got up and said what was needed to be said...those of us sitting on our computers just chilin at home werent the ones out there giving that speech INSPIRING others to wake up and know what it means to be a KHALSA. so please if you have something stupid and bad to say ......keep it to yourselfs... nindah is all thats going on ....on almost every topic someone has to say something to tick someone off...is this what sikhi is about?? could you say this stuff knowing guru gobind singh jis standing right next to you???? talking about his sons/daughters?...guys plz just listen to what the guy has to say n get some lahaa ..geez! haha..again pull chuk maaf ..sukha singh if ur reading this..im sure none of this is taken offensive by you since im sure all you care about is what you guru thinks of you. :s You really inspired us. thank you! :D

My mom told me when i was like five or six...me n my cousin went around the wholeeee living room/kitchen and poured baby powder n baby oil everywhereeee... hehehe... one of us had the powder n one us had the oil so im guessing..so we were like attaking each other with em and ended up making the tv/sofas/etc. turn white n greasy! muahah...i was a bad lil kid :s im pretty sure i got a lil beating for it...OOOooOooo definitly! :D

this might help as well:

true..!

haha :s i hear ya... same thing happened when i brought a freind to a local keertan session ... shes like woah! a free buffet!!!

vjkk vjkf! bhenji guruji did soem mad kirpa on you for you to have enough courage to start wearing dastaar and present the khalsa image!...your situation sounds very very very familiar to mine... but you just have to stay strong.. know gurujis holding your arm and walking though it with you each second.. it'll get better hopefully :s but try to see the positive side to it... usually when people discourage you from something u believe in..the more you wanna show them, NO, this is right nad this is what im gonna do..! so keep your head up high bhenji!!!! and congrats :D