Vaheguroo ji ka khalsa Vaheguroo ji ki fateh
I just wanted to add my opinion to this post, i think every1 is forgetting than when it comes to marriage guru ji has the final say, you could marry a criple person but guru ji can change his fate because you are in love with guru ji. when marrying someone, you have to remember physical beauty should be at the bottom of the list, because spritually your souls need to become one to reach guru ji
i would like to share this story of rajni
rajni was the daughter of the local wealthy man named dhuni chand, who stop beliving in god because he was unable to have a son. Dhuni chand who had 7 daughters wanted his daughters to accept that he was there provider, in other words he was their god. The youngest daughter of all rajni said ' no father, you are our father, you look after us but god provides for all, you are only doing your duty under god.' dhuni chand who was angrey by these words married his daughter to a cripple leper, she was then banished away with her husband who she used to pull in a trolly from village to village. after many testing incidents her faith in god was answered when she reached the presence of dhuk bhajani bheri which was then a small pond. while she went to get some food her husband laid near the pond in his trolly and witnessed a black crow coming out white from the sacred pond. with all his strength he managed to lower himself towards the pond whilst holding onto a branch and to his amazement was cured from his lepersy, except for the small part of the hand where held onto the branch, when rajni came back from collecting the food she was unable to belive that was her husband and assumed that the man had drown her husband and taken his place. In the end a gursikh adviced them to go to guru amar das ji and there they were told by guru ji that the man beside rajini is her husband and that pond was a very sacred place which is now part of the sarovar at amritsar
for futhur knowledge watch Dhuk bhajan tere nam hai :TH:
bhul chuk maf karna
Vaheguroo ji ka khalsa Vaheguroo ji ki fateh
prabh sio laag rehiou maeraa cheeth ||My consciousness remains attached to God.