Ramneet Singh

:cool: that was funny, hmm i guess until we start looking for only one thing in our life partners partners things r gonna b like that, that single thing being complete true love for god haha this topic is makin the idea of settling down so regretfull lol :lol: , some hope for those still interested and at the optimum age and sikhi for marriage, Bhai Sahib Bhai Randhir Singh Ji's book Rangle Sajjan has one story in the first chapter about Bhai Ram singh ji and Mata Prem Kaur Ji, that is very touching, im sure there are other examples in past and present but truly perfect marriage life stories are rare

Waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh zomg, same thing happened to me , i started losing hair after doing patka to tight anf when i switched to dastar a year back it got even worse and right now hmm i look like one of em buddist monks? no offense jus saying i do haha. i guess its diff though cause im a guy, but i aint rly tryin to judge but u seem to b rly worried about every1 else but urself. like u seem to b rly worried about every1 elses opinion of ur appearence, im not attackin u ,we all care way to much about how we look, i take like soo long to get dastar perfect and everything, still gottta work on that ha, but basicaly do simran and some serious pure ardas, ull know deep down inside if cutting ur hair or w/e is "good" or not. We seem to look outwards for advice and answers, truth is they lie within us.... just ask ur true self. hope it helps haha this is kinda my view of things sooo its prob not right waheguru ji ka khalsa ,waheguru ji ki fateh

that wasn't good.... it was GREATTT (i better not get sued) :TH:

hahaha wicked answers guys but i dont rly think some of em r rly practical, but i'll tell u what i do. brush em to the side with my hand iunno about gel thought around mouth might gettin iritating or wierd... hope it helps :TH:

hm.. seems like it was initially self defense, but if hes on ground crying for mercy....uh..... then again he almost took off ur dumalla........so u had no choice but to fight bak....

wow very interesting..... i luv my beard :nihungsmile:

HAHA i jus thought of sumnthing funny, next time a gora or any1 says sumthing to u jus scream out "WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH", and walk away ..... i am pretty sure they will b scared to say anything next time

ouch.... well........ur situation sounds almost exactly like mine...... cept for like the major krodh ur sayin ur mom has. My parents say things like that all the time to me, like not even kidding , its a daily thing for me. I jus do w/e i do to fight the other 5 evils, simran, simran , simran!! And by no means am i even a gursikh, but thats jus how i get over it. Plus um.. iunno how old ur mom is but it might be that um.. mid age thing women go through, iunno if i'm aloud to say it on forums , but like i heard it can invoke major mood swings, so it might be sumthing u could speak to a doctor about? Also don't think for a second that guru ji wants nothing to do with you... your his child he wants the best for u.. even though we can't always see it. Also dont't b so harsd on urself, i admire the fact that u jus came out with this issue and i honestly dont think if there are that many true gursikhs out there.... me bein not even 1% close but, doesn't mean i'm jus gonna give up.... u shouldn't either.... Just do one true ardas and guru ji will hear u and help u..... Sorry if i said anything wrong, i'm jus another paapi who thinks he knows what hes talkin about....

i jus had a small question boutty hat whiole marryin ur sioster thing. I thought we were suppposed to think of all gurls as sisters? So in the end... wont we wend up marryin 1 any ways iunno i'm prob wrong, cause i am wrong 120% of time but pls sum1 clarify this pls

uh... sorry bout i dont get how people would get <Edited> off from alot of these topics??? Its probably the whole "i cant ask people that, no1's asked that" thinking people havethat makes these topics so commen. One person starts one, not every1 gets a answer, another person starts and so on.... even though the asnwer to all of i guess is the same....i jus confused myself

like zomg i was jus tryin to add some humour to a alrdy stress full situation :sady: but ya other bhenji is 130% right, and like i didn't even read the part about more than one crush now givin advice is way outa my league sorrry. But gl none the lesss :TH:

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HaRdKaUrWaRrIoRz has a veryy goood pointttt, well is there ?? huh ? huh ? huh ? and yeah i think nowadays marriages r a bit diff, but seems ur rents r still pretty traditionall plus ur a gurl so....... ouch. My mom had this wacky idea about like goin on a small outing with this guy with a third person to make sure nothing went to outa hand or sumthing maybe u can try sumthing like that to get to know him and might realzie hes a gud match

aww bhenji has a crushhhhhhhhhhh :D , i think its a fact that this happens to every1 sooner or later, hm... iunno if this will work and its usually my answer to most things but call him bhaji .. i think it'll zap the likin thing right outa u ..... hopefully, if that doesn't work UP the SIKHI. I would've also maybe told u to tell him , cause he could help ya also, but he seems rlyy shy and u might like make him go crazyy with the whole i like u thing , if hes thatt shy around gurls :T: :T: hope it helps, prob won't but i tried

well from my almost 1% of tabla knowledge, the taal is kerhva which is 8 beats. hope that helps bhen ji

well i ain't no scolar but from what i heard, i think its sum1 to has reached the highest lvl of spirtual enlightenment and isn't married?

WJKK, WJKF lol i'm not sayin i'm gonna move out , i'm only 17 but my friend was havin major issues where like rents r putting him down alot and he can;t take it, i tried to explain to him that all parents r klike that and they want everything for the best but hes not so religious so he won;t listen to the sikhi side of some points u guys mentioned. Thanks for the help so far WJKK, WJKF

hm..... iunno if this might work but next time u see him call him bhaji, it should make whole marriage idea rlyy awkward :D

:sady: wow man..... thats rough.....well iunno waht to rly tell u cept what every1 else is gonna sayy, and everything in life is a test from god

man this is so tensing, even thought i didn't know him at all, knowin a chardi kala singh might be leavin for sachkand is still sad in a ironic way.... isn't any1 from tdot on this forum??

WJKK,WJKF I jus found out from a friend that the Bhai TejinderPal Singh Dulla Ji was involved in a serious accident!!! From what i know his wife is now with our creator, but Dulla Ji is in critical condition!! I can't seem to find any more info on this so please sangat prayyy and post more infoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WJKK,WJKF

WJKK, WJKF hm.... wowza, well from what i can tell ya, i think jus about everyvody goes through what ur goin through, but i guess at diff lvls. Same thing sorta happened to me and i was pretty lost and didnt know what to do, so i did ardas like crazy for an answer. Andd sure enough i got my answer, in the form of advice from a friend who i told everything to. Basically he said what the bhaji/bhenji said b4 about the test thing. I upped my naam simran and paath and b4 i knew it i was bak to normal thanks to god helpin mee. bhul chuk maf WJKK, WJKF

WJKK, WJKF i was just wonderin if moving out from parents house was against sikhi like after marriage or for w/e reason u might have. Thanks :D WJKK, WJKF

wjkk, wjkf Raagi Bhai Niranjan Singh (Jawaddi Kalan Wale) will be at Guru Ram Das Darbar and Dashmesh Culture Center. All in Calgary :D Heres poster for more info http://calgarykeertan.com/images/JawaddiPoster.jpg its been soo long since i used html i completly forgot how to ahref w/e :D

LOL, i guess they r to busy donating to the gurudwara sahib, $ 1,201,269.54 is alota cashhhh and number 12 on harmeet singh's post, like ................ .....................................my brain can't even begin to comprehend how that works......