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  1. Here is the hate filled bigotry from a mullah in pakistan. Hope this is an eye opener for those praising Pakistan. These bigots are free to make big speeches to crowds in Pakistan. Shame on them!! https://youtu.be/7dWlanixDWs
  2. This question has been bothering me for many weeks now, to the point where its interfering with my simran/nitnem, making me look at faith from a perspective which is making me question it. Why is there so much suffering and evil in the world? God is something that we can never know but we can experience it or have a relationship with it, other than that we are told that God is "caring" "provides for all" "doesn't send anyone empty handed" "our father" "God is love and love is God" etc all that stuff. If God is all of the above then why are there so many people suffering in the world? Why is God allowing the suffering and not doing anything about it? Why are there millions of starving children in the world, dying out of starvation? why doesn't God, our father, provide for them? letting them starve to death instead? In poor countries like India parents are selling organs to corrupt doctors so they can feed their starving children, if God is the provider then why hasn't he provided for those children? but instead leaving parents with no option but to sell their organs? Which loving God puts his children through that? how is God caring and providing for them? Why is God letting toddlers get sexually molested and raped? Countless children around the world are getting raped, why is God letting that happen? that's a very funny way for a "loving" God to show his children that he loves and cares for them. Last week a 6 year old dalit girl from U.P was raped in Hoshiarpur by a Sikh man and his Grandfather, they told the little girl they will buy her sweets and she followed them and that's when they raped her. Why didn't God intervene? when this evil act was about to take place? Between the location where they offered her sweets to the location where they raped her, why didn't God intervene? There are millions of children who are raped like this around the world. Did God not love this child? if he did then that is a very messed up way of showing her that he loves her. When a 5 year old child is about to get gang raped why does God not intervene? why does he let it happen ? does he not love them? You can say it was "Gods will" well that's a very nasty and fcked up thing to write in someones will by a supposedly loving God, no offense to anyone .... I don't know why a loving God would write that in anyone's will. Its very easy for us here sitting in the west harping on about how Great God is and how God=Love etc try telling a father who is deciding which organ to sell next that God "cares" and "loves" his child, try telling a 12 year old girl that has been trafficked and sold to a red light district that God "loves" her and "cares" for her. Try convincing a mother whose 3 year old has been raped and killed that God "cared" and "loved" her child. Why would a "loving" "caring" and "all providing" God put his children through all that? For us in the west poverty is just a documentary or a news segment not reality, the biggest thing we have to worry about is having to work with someone you don't like, breaking up with your partner, annoying neighbors etc Why am i living a comfortable life here in the west, lazy and care free, while a man my age in India is deciding which organ to sell next to feed his starving children. Why ? Another thing, why does crime take place in the most holiest of places? like Harmandir Sahib? women get sexually assaulted there and children get kidnapped. I was once reading reviews of Amritsar and a White tourist wrote how his wifes bottom was groped by a man at Harmandir Sahib, he said he complained to the authorities and the authorities said it's the medias fault and how they portray White women. This kind of behavior at holy places is not unheard of. Its been in the news how children have been kidnapped at Harmandir Sahib, I'm guessing their either sold, trafficked or used as sacrifices for black magic. Why does God allow this to happen at these holy places? Guru RamDas ji is said to reside at Harmandir Sahib, then why did Guru Ji let these crimes take place at Harmandir Sahib? What hope is someones prayer who has traveled to Harmandir Sahib from 100miles away, when people are getting assaulted and kidnapped at the very place? Why is the West which basically has highest % of atheists and irreligious people the most comfortable place to live in, while places like Asia and Africa where most people believe in God are some of the worst places to live in, war zones, poverty and disease ? people are crying out to God for help in those parts of the world, while here in the west people openly mock religion and God, that's a very funny way for God to show his believers he "loves" them! why ?
  3. WJKK WJKF, This sikh woman who has converted to Islam is hating on Sikhism and calls it satanic. Wanted to hear views of some of you guys. Gurfateh
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    i want to die??

    Hi, so basically im a 22 year old female and i am completely fkin fed up of life I HATE IT AND I HATE EVERYONE IN IT. and all i can think about is killing myself lately??? it just seems there is no point in me living anymore. is there some sort of paat or kirtan or ANYTHING that can help me feel better!? I dnt rlly know what im suppose to listen too, religion is like my last resort rn cos MAYBE GOD CAN FRICKEN HELP ME. i feel so alone and hopeless and i have like 5839 meltdowns a day. THANK U FOR READING THIS AND I RLLY APPRECIATE ANY HELP TBH.
  5. Looks like things don't change in the 'Land of the Free' http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/sikh-uber-driver-passenger-gunpoint_us_5a85e21ae4b004fc319027dc Sikh Uber Driver Claims Passenger Pulled Gun On Him, Said, 'I Hate Turban People' Gurjeet Singh says he is traumatized, the Sikh Coalition reports. By Carol Kuruvilla SIKH COALITION Gurjeet Singh, a Sikh religious leader from Illinois, claims he was assaulted while driving for Uber in January. A Sikh Uber driver claims he was held at gunpoint on the job by a male passenger who asked questions about his national origin and allegiance to America. Gurjeet Singh, a religious leader from northwestern Illinois, said the passenger put a gun to his head on a nighttime ride on Jan. 28 and stated, “I hate turban people; I hate beard people.” Singh wears a turban and a beard as signs of devotion to his Sikh faith. The Rock Island County Sheriff’s Office is investigating the alleged assault but has yet to make an arrest. In the meantime, the local Sikh community is troubled that the armed suspect remains free, according to the Sikh Coalition, a national advocacy organization that is representing Singh. “We do still remain concerned that no arrest has been made and the State’s Attorney’s Office has yet to file hate crime charges,” the Sikh Coalition’s legal director and Singh’s lawyer Amrith Kaur said in a statement. “Mr. Singh and the local Sikh community have the right to feel safe. The reality is that hate crimes are not only attacks on individuals; they affect the entire community. They make all of us less safe, and everybody should be outraged by this.” Singh came to the U.S. three years ago to serve the Sikh community in the Quad City area on the Mississippi River as a granthi, an individual who helps lead Sikh congregations through hymns and prayers. He’s a legal resident of the U.S., Kaur said. In late December, Singh, who has a wife and a toddler, started driving with Uber to supplement his income. SIKH COALITION Gurjeet Singh has lived in the U.S. for three years. He has a wife and a toddler. At 10:39 p.m. on Jan. 28, Singh reportedly picked up two passengers ― a male and a female ― next to a tavern in Moline, Illinois. According to the Sikh Coalition, the man started interrogating Singh about his origins, asking questions like, “Which country do you belong to?” and “Do you serve our country or do you serve your country?” Singh, who speaks limited English, was “confused and scared” by the questions. He explained that he was Sikh and that he serves both the U.S. and his home country of India, since his parents still live there. “The attacker’s behavior escalated more and more as Mr. Singh tried to inform him about his religion, about the tenets of Sikhism, why he wore a turban,” Kaur told HuffPost. “As that went on, the attacker became more and more incensed, to the point where he pulled out a gun.” The woman in the car then “forcibly removed” the male passenger from the vehicle, the coalition said. She then apologized for the male passenger’s behavior and told Mr. Singh to drop her at home and to avoid taking the same route back to eliminate another encounter with the man.
  6. Hello, I am a Sikh, or at least i think i am. I followed Guru Nanak all the way. I followed the 10 teachers who never taught hatred, but when the last teacher trusted us to carry on our own, i found hatred as my companion in all the upcoming years. I cannot bear someone arguing with me. I cannot be a SIKH who learns, teaches, inner peace. I am tinier than the tinniest particle when compared to the vast universe around me. My gurus showed me the scope of things but i chose to be arrogant and full of ego ignoring my small place in the universe. This could have stopped me from actually expanding my position in the cosmos. My people [correction: All people] faced adversities one way or the other at times. My Guru gave us a reaction strategy. This was supposed to be a small problem that was to be solved and we had to move on. But i mistook that skill as a new world order for my people [thats right, some people became my people now, rest were not even close to equal like me]... ...to be continued
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    For some reason I don't like Christians and I know Sikh talks about loving everyone but i really don't like Christians and its is annoying me that I don't like them, maybe because most of the population is Christian and people I used to look up to are Christian
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    Hate Between Gursikhs

    Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, Is there any gurbani quotes/bhangtis where it states that it's bad for gursikhs to have hate towards each other/be rude to each other? Anything along those lines. I'd really appreciate it. Thank you! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.
  9. Out of interest was Muhammad a good logician? He established his own criterion (apparently from Allah) via which he commanded Muslims to recognize his so called divinity and integrity, but where is the subjectivity in that? What non-Islamic principles can prove his authenticity? Put simply, other then Muhammad's word what else is there to say Islam truly is the veracious path to God? Isn't it a defeatist mentality when da'wah givers penultimately proclaim that for not accepting Islam you will burn in hell?
  10. WJKK WJKF I need help letting go of anger. If i have an arguement with my wife for example it takes me a while to let it go and its getting worse. I end up holding a grudge. How can i let go of the anger or hate? PPul Chuk Maff
  11. So apparently there's a Sikh woman who wrote against some of our own members of Sikhsangat about the whole Interfaith wedding issue. Check it out:: http://secretweddingblog.com/why-i-defend-multicultural-marriages-against-people-like-this/
  12. http://australian-conservative-truth.blogspot.com.au/2013/05/gillard-insults-australia-by-embracing.html sorry you had to read that waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
  13. I am a young sikh taken amrit its been 4months now I useto love everybody urbut ever since I have taken amrit I hate everyone everyone I see and anythibg they do get so much on my nerves. Its not hormons or anything. People are so arrogant and ignorant I kniw I am to being arrogant but im becoming like this cause of all these people. Egeryone who wears chola think there to great to help a fellow sikh out. Everyone keeps everything gupt and when I need help noone helps me. Everyone who wear chola think there to cool for me. Everyone whos doesnt wear chola talk about really dirty things and are not in rehit. Im stuck in the middle idk what im doing anymore. So stupid I hate it SO much. like come on help.me out im just starting on this path. And everyone thats doing dirty things its like come on your suppose to be a sikh. I hate it it was better that I didnt know about all this stupid stuff. I hate it so much. Seeing this forum also makes me so angry so many weak people I really thought sikhi was babbar sikhi was strong but nope all for show nothing else What should I do
  14. ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕਿ ਸਾਰੇ ਜਾਣਦੇ ਹਨ ਕਿ ਪ੍ਰਧਾਨ ਮੰਤਰੀ ਇੰਦਰਾ ਗਾਂਧੀ ਦੀ ਮੌਤ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ 2 ਨਵੰਬਰ 1984 ਨੂੰ ਫਿਰਕੂ ਜਨੂੰਨੀਆਂ ਵਲੋਂ ਹੋਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ (ਹਰਿਆਣਾ) ਵਿਖੇ ਦਿਨ ਦੇ ਤਕਰੀਬਨ 11 ਵਜੇ ਪੂਰੇ ਪਿੰਡ ਦੇ 32ਨਿਰਦੋਸ਼ ਵਿਅਕਤੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਜਿਉਂਦਿਆਂ ਹੀ ਅੱਗ ਲਗਾ ਕੇ ਫੂਕ ਦਿਤਾ ਦਿਤਾ ਗਿਆ ਸੀ । ਉਹਨਾਂ ਦੀਆ...ਂ ਅੱਧਸੜੀਆਂ ਲਾਸ਼ਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਲਾਗਲੇ ਖੂਹ ਵਿੱਚ ਸੁੱਟ ਦਿਤਾ ਗਿਆ ਸੀ । 6 ਮਾਰਚ 2011 ਨੂੰ ਪੂਰੇ 26 ਸਾਲਾਂ ਬਾਅਦ ਉਸੇ ਉੱਜੜੇ,ਲੁੱਟੇ ਪਿੰਡ ਵਿੱਚ ਅੰਤਿਮ ਕ੍ਰਿਆ-ਕ੍ਰਮ ਦੌਰਾਨ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਸ਼ਹੀਦਾਂ ਦੀ ਸਦੀਵੀ ਯਾਦ ਬਣਾਈ ਰੱਖਣ ਲਈ ਸਿੱਖਾਂ ਦੀ ਸੁਪਰੀਮ ਹਸਤੀ ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਸ੍ਰੀ ਅਕਾਲ ਤਖਤ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਆਪਣੇ ਕਰ ਕਮਲਾ ਨਾਲ਼ ‘ਸਿੱਖ ਜੈਨੋਸਾਈਡ’ ਦਾ ਪੱਥਰ ਹੋਂਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਵਿਖੇ ਲਗਾਇਆ ਗਿਆ ਸੀ । ਅੱਜ ਕੱਲ਼ ਇਸ ਕਤਲੇਆਮ ਦਾ ਕੇਸ ਜਸਟਿਸ ਟੀ.ਪੀ.ਗਰਗ ਦੀ ਅਦਾਲਤ ਵਿੱਚ ਹਿਸਾਰ ਵਿਖੇ ਚੱਲ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ । ਪਿਛਲੇ ਦਿਨੀ ਜਦੋਂ ਜਸਟਿਸ ਟੀ.ਪੀ.ਗਰਗ ਨੇ ਇਸ ਹੋਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਪਿੰਡ ਦਾ ਦੌਰਾ ਕੀਤਾ ਸੀ ਤਾਂ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਤੁਰੰਤ ਆਰਡਰ ਕਰਕੇ ਇਸ ਪਿੰਡ ਨੂੰ ਸੀਲ ਕੀਤਾ ਸੀ ਅਤੇ ਡੀ.ਸੀ ਨੂੰ ਹਦਾਇਤਾਂ ਕੀਤੀਆਂ ਸਨ ਕਿ ਇਸ ਪਿੰਡ ਨੂੰ ਜਿਉਂ ਦਾ ਤਿਉਂ ਰੱਖਿਆ ਜਾਵੇ ਕੋਈ ਛੇੜ-ਛਾੜ ਨਾਂ ਕੀਤੀ ਜਾਵੇ । ਕੱਲ੍ਹ ਅਚਾਨਕ ਜਦੋਂ ਅਸੀਂ ਅਸੀਂ ਸ੍ਰੋਮਣੀ ਗੁਰਦੁਆਰਾ ਪ੍ਰਬੰਧਕ ਕਮੇਟੀ ਦੇ ਮੁਲਾਜਮਾਂ ਭਾਈ ਜਗਦੇਵ ਸਿੰਘ, ਭਾਈ ਹਰਜਿੰਦਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਅਤੇ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਦੇ ਉੱਘੇ ਲੇਖਕ ਮਨਜਿੰਦਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਕਾਲ਼ਾ ਸਰੌਂਦ ਨਾਲ਼ ਹੋਂਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਦਾ ਦੌਰਾ ਕੀਤਾ ਤਾਂ ਦੇਖਿਆ ਕਿ ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਲਗਾਇਆ ਨੀਹ ਪੱਥਰ ਸ਼ਰਾਰਤੀਆਂ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਤੋੜਿਆਂ ਹੋਇਆ ਸੀ । ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਏਧਰ-ਓਧਰ ਬਖੇਰਿਆ ਪਿਆ ਸੀ ਜਿਸ ਤੇ ਤੁਰੰਤ ਐਕਸ਼ਨ ਕਰਦਿਆਂ ਅਸੀਂ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਪਿੰਡ ਦੇ ਸਰਪੰਚ ਨਾਲ਼ ਰਾਬਤਾ ਕੀਤਾ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਇਹ ਕਹਿ ਕੇ ਪੱਲਾ ਝਾੜਿਆ ਕਿ ਉਹ ਕੀ ਕਰ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ । ਇਸ ਤੋਂ ਅਸੀਂ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਪਿੰਡ ਦੀ ਚੌਂਕੀ ਗੲ,ਅਫਸੋਸੇ ਉੱਥੇ ਜਿੰਦਰਾ ਲੱਗਾ ਹੋਇਆ ਸੀ । ਉਸ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ ਤੁਰੰਤ ਹੋਂਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਨੂੰ ਪੈਂਦੇ ਠਾਣੇ ‘ਪਲਵਾਵਾਦ’ ਗਏ ਜਿਥੇ ਇੰਸਪੈਕਟਰ ਰਤਨ ਲਾਲ ਨੂੰ ਮਿਲੇ । ਇਮਸਪੈਕਟਰ ਰਤਨ ਲਾਲ ਟਾਲ਼ਮਟੋਲ ਕਰਨ ਲੱਗਾ । ਜਦੋਂ ਸਖਤੀ ਕੀਤੀ ਤਾਂ ਕਹਿਣ ਲੱਗਾ ਕਿ ਉਹ ਤਾਂ ਮੌਕਾ ਦੇਖੇਗਾ ਤਾਂ ਤੁਰੰਤ ਇੰਸਪੈਕਟਰ ਰਤਨ ਲਾਲ ਨੂੰ ਨਾਲ਼ ਲਿਜਾ ਕੇ ਹੋਂਦ ਚਿੱਲੜ ਦਾ ਦੌਰਾ ਕਰਵਾਇਆਂ ਅਤੇ ਟੁੱਟਾ ਪੱਥਰ ਵੀ ਦਿਖਾਇਆ ਅਤੇ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਜੱਜ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਸੁਣਾਏ ਹੁਕਮ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਦੱਸਿਆ ਪਰ ਅਫਸੋਸ ਰਤਨ ਲਾਲ ਨੇ ਇਹ ਕਹਿ ਕੇ ਪੱਲਾ ਝਾੜਿਆ ਕਿ ਕਿਸੇ ਪਸੂ ਨੇ ਗਿਰਾਇਆ ਹੋਵੇਗਾ ਅਤੇ ਪਸ਼ੂਆਂ ਵਾਗੂੰ ਐਕਸ਼ਨ ਕਰਕੇ ਵੀ ਦਿਖਾਏ । ਅਸੀਂ ਕਿਹਾ ਕਿ ਪਸੂ ਨੇ ਇਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਕਿਉਂ ਗਿਰਾਉਣਾ ਸੀ ? ਇਸ ਦੇ ਤਾਂ ਜਾਣਬੁੱਝ ਕੇ ਟੁੱਕੜੇ-ਟੁੱਕੜੇ ਕੀਤੇ ਹੋਏ ਲੱਗਦੇ ਹਨ । ਇਹ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਹੀ ਸ਼ਰਾਰਤੀਆਂ ਦਾ ਕੰਮ ਹੈ ਜਿਹਨਾਂ 1984 ਵਿੱਚ ਕਤਲੇਆਮ ਕੀਤਾ ਸੀ । ਉਹ ਐਲੀਮੈਂਟ ਦੁਬਾਰਾ ਤੋਂ ਸਰਗਰਮ ਹੋ ਗਏ ਹਨ ਅਤੇ ਜਾਂਚ ਵਿੱਚ ਰੋੜੇ ਅਟਕਾ ਰਹੇ ਹਨ । ਤੁਸੀਂ ਐਫ ਆਈ ਆਰ ਦਰਜ ਕਰੋ । ਜਿਸ ਤੇ ਅਸੀਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਲੈਟਰ ਪੈਡ ਤੇ ਲਿਖਤੀ ਕੰਪਲੇਂਡ ਦਿਤੀ । ਅਸੀਂ ਇਸ ਦਾ ਸਖਤ ਸਟੈਂਡ ਲੈਵਾਂਗੇ ਅਤੇ ਇਸ ਦੀ ਕੰਪਲੇਂਡ ਐਸ.ਐਸ.ਪੀ., ਡੀ.ਸੀ., ਹੋਮ ਸੈਕਟਰੀ ਅਤੇ ਜਸਟਿਸ ਟੀ.ਪੀ.ਗਰਗ ਨੂੰ ਕਰਕੇ ਮੰਗ ਕਰਾਂਗੇ ਕਿ ਸ਼ਰਾਰਤੀ ਤੱਤਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਤੁਰੰਤ ਗ੍ਰਿਫਤਾਰ ਕੀਤਾ ਜਾਵੇ । ਐਸ.ਜੀ.ਪੀ.ਸੀ ਦੇ ਪ੍ਰਧਾਨ ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਅਵਤਾਰ ਸਿੰਘ ਮੱਕੜ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਅਤੇ ਜਥੇਦਾਰ ਅਕਾਲ ਤਖਤ ਗਿਆਨੀ ਗੁਰਬਚਨ ਸਿੰਘ ਨੂੰ ਅਪੀਲ ਕੀਤੀ ਕਿ ਉਹ ਇਸ ਦਾ ਸਖਤ ਸਟੈਡ ਲੈਣ ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਸਿੱਖਾਂ ਦੀ ਸੁਪਰੀਮ ਹਸਤੀ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਲਗਾਏ ਪੱਥਰ ਨੂੰ ਤੋੜਨਾ ਕੌਮ ਨੂੰ ਵੰਗਾਰਨ ਦੇ ਬਰਾਬਰ ਹੈ । ਸਾਰੀਆਂ ਧਿਰਾਂ ਦੇ ਚਰਨਾਂ ਵਿੱਚ ਅਪੀਲ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਆਪਸੀ ਮੱਤਭੇਦ ਭੁਲਾ ਕੇ ਇੱਕ ਜੁੱਟ ਹੋ ਕੇ ਇੰਨਸਾਫ ਲਈ ਅਵਾਜ਼ ਬੁਲੰਦ ਕਰਨੀ ਚਾਹੀਦੀ ਹੈ । ਸਾਨੂੰ ਇਹ ਵੀ ਯਕੀਨ ਹੋਇਆਂ ਕਿ ਇਹ ਸਾਨੂੰ ਕਿੰਨੀ ਨਫਰਤ ਕਰਦੇ ਹਨ ਅਤੇ ਸਾਨੂੰ ਹੀ ਪਤਾ ਕਿ ਅਸੀਂ ਕਿੰਨੀ ਜਦੋਜਹਿਦ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਅਦ ਕੰਪਲੇਂਡ ਕਰ ਪਾਏ । 1984 ਵਿੱਚ ਵਿਚਾਰਿਆਂ ਦਾ ਕੀ ਹਾਲ ਹੋਇਆ ਹੋਵੇਗਾ ??See More
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    Parents Saying No

    Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Sangat Ji, I am posting in the Gupt section because I have a very big concern I need help with. Before I divulge into the details of my problem, let me introduce you to myself and my background. I live in Canada, I am a university student, and am kesdhari. I'm in my early 20's and believe to have a good head on my shoulders. I come from a religious family who are amritdhari (I am not at the moment). Alright, now onto my query. For quite some time, my parents have been asking me to find myself a girl for marriage. At first, I never gave it much thought; many of the girls I know and am friends with are already seeing people, if not, they have been in prior relationships and have a "history" if you know what I mean (as far as rumours go - that in itself is another thing). Anyways, about a few months ago, I met this girl online. She's from a White, Catholic family. However, she gave up Catholicism and converted to Sikhism (has not taken amrit, but has adopted the Sikh way of life as much as she can). Her and I have been talking for quite some time now and decided to move our relationship from friendship to dating (I know many of you here may oppose this, however, I am fine with this notion so if you have any comments regarding your opposition to dating, please refrain from doing so). We have not done anything inappropriate at all (no kissing, inappropriate touching, etc). Even before we were dating, I found myself liking her, however, held back since I did not want any negative emotions to overcome me. Therefore, I took a hukamnama from Guru Granth Sahib Ji. In my ardas, I asked Guru Ji to let me know if it was okay to move the friendship further, however (and obviously) to refrain from any negative emotions that may come between her and I. So, ideally, to be in a relationship, however, not doing anything that would make her and I deviate away from Sikhi. The Hukam I received was "Santha Ke Karaj Aap Khaloya, Har Kamm Karavan Aaya Raam" - which comes in Raag Suhi, ang 783. Having read the hukamnama, I believed Guru ji to be informing me that her and I meeting was destined to occur (also, do note I do not consider myself a Sant by any means, however, this was my interpretation of the hukamnama). Now, when my parents ask me if I found someone, I've suggested the idea of marrying someone non-Punjabi (i.e have said White person). My parents flipped out, and my dad went on a huge swearing fit saying he'll never let it happen, and if it does, he'll kick me out of the house and disown me. On top of that, my parents have been really rude as of late, with my dad still swearing at me. I do not know what to do. I have taken 2 more hukamnama's asking for Guru Ji's help, both times Guru ji has said to meditate on Waheguru for my desires to be fulfilled. I do not know what to do. I trust in Guru Ji and believe everything will be fine. However, I do not want to leave my family, or get kicked out, for something that isn't that big of a deal (in my opinion). She's a devoted Sikh, and wants to take amrit in the near future. Sangat ji, I guess what I'm asking is, can you please give me some advice, and also do ardas for me, so that everything goes well and that her, my family, and I can live under one roof happily? I apologize for the long post and for taking your time (though, I appreciate you reading this). Thank you!
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