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I Need Some Serious Help
by Guest confused one- 0 replies
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My friends, does anyone have any information about Bhai Bakshish Singh Patiala Wale?
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I Need The Sangat's Opinions
by Guest Singhastic- 2 replies
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WJKK WJKF, I would like to ask the sangat a few questions about practices my parents try to enforce upon me and my siblings and encourage us to follow them as much as possible and I would like to see where the sangat stands on these issues. I've listed them below: 1. My father in particular says that we must not eat from others as when we do, they take away at least 25 Sukhmani Sahib worth of our pun from all the paath that we do. And that people at our local gurudwara sometimes come with degh which gets mixed into the degh, the gurudwara singhs make and that to take as little as possible. He says that we must take degh but these people will take away all the effort we …
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I Need This Shabad Badly Please
by Guest Tarndeep- 3 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Whahe guru ji ki Phateh I know wrong section buit this is important...I did not get a confirmation email and I said resend so here goes...I need this shabad badly The words I know are putha matha ki asees....I need that shabad and lyrics can i please have them my mom wants me to find them and read it everyday I know it will improve my grades and I want that shabad and so does my mummie ji
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I Need To Go 'Pesh'
by Guest papeee- 1 reply
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vahguru jee kaa khalsa vaheguru jee kee fateh i dont know what to do. ive done stupid things - i dont know what to do. i do ardas evryday , i kno its nt an excuse but i still fell in this trap. ive done stupid things and i feel ashamed even mentioning them. i.e. masturbation. ive had so much bad sangat and away frm guru sahibs sangat i ddin kno what 2 do guru maharaj jis kirpa. im starting 2 improve. my nitnem is becoming stronger and kaam is getting weaker. ive started 2 do sangat with gurmukhs and sorting this out... my question do i need to go pesh? i took amrit when i was young etc so the teen years in bad sangat didnt really help...so should i go to do pesh infrn…
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I Need Your Help
by Guest gupt- 5 replies
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Sangat ji im currently stuck in horrible place. I'm a amritdhari sikh and i'm 16 turning 17 in a few months. I took amrit a few years back when i was 10 years old, and for the first 4-5 years after that i was perfectly fine. Recently i've been feeling absolutely horrible, I feel depressed beyond words. I'm doing horrible in school, im constantly angry, frustrated, or depressed to the point where i no longer want to live. I've become such a horrible sikh that i fail to my nitnem on somedays. My parents are constantly having arguments with me, and i feel like they think of me as a failure. Each and everyday is becoming more and more of a struggle. I've done ardaas countless…
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I Neet Some Advice Plz Sangat Ji
by Guest _gupt_- 4 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh !! im writin this on behalf on a reeli good mate of mine............ well, firstly, ma mate, she is gettin engaged very soon, thing is her parents are very traditonal and so its an arranged marriage wer she wnt get to speak to the guy, she is rely worried because she is reeeli into her sikhi and well this family dnt seem into it as much, she cnt say no she has to go along with the marriage.....also on top of the ma mate got this illnes were she gta take a pill everyday, now her parents dnt wna tell her inlaws.........she jus worried wts gna happend wen it evetually does come out about the illness..... on a separate issue her…
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I once had a dream where
by Guest dazed- 5 replies
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I once had a dream, short one, remember only bits.... I was in this huge hall, there was gold everywhere, the walls, the floors, the the huge cavernous ceilings. The hall was packed with Singhs and Singhnees all running around having fun. There were multicolored gatka Chakrees being spun, people playing gatka, and I say playing not learning shastar vidya because it was like a festival. There was only anand, not meditative but just pure happiness, joyous, bubbling. Everything was so colourful so amazingly vibrant, khalsa orange and blue all mixing with the gold background. I sat down in front of a vaja, with some people as well i think, and just started playing. I've nev…
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I Really Dont Know If I Will Make It Out Alive 1 2
by Guest lostintranslation- 10 replies
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wjkk wjkf hi, okays here the thing i am an 18 yr old girl and am seriously lost right now. i deal with depression, paranoia and anxiety on a daily basis and have no way of controlling it. i am not going to University and honestly feel like i will have no opportunities that will come to me after that, i will be losing all my close friends and will feel so alone. the problem is that because i deal with those things i have negative thoughts, i have often cut myself because i need to let some of the pain go and i often think that i will end up on the streets because i am not worthy of anything. i look at people and think why cant i be happy like that. can someone please help…
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I promised something to God, and I said if I break it don't accept me into this college. I broke promises before bu this is the first time I broke a promise regarding my dream college; I'm afraid I will not get into the college of my dreams! I have apologized before but I'm not sure it will work.
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I Really Need Help!
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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I made a promise to God, and I told Him that I couldn't keep and I broke it. I know I told Him I could not keep the promise, I am feeling very sorry and guilty. This is not the first time, but I have done this many times before. I promised God I will NEVER do it again, and I asked for strength to fight through it. Will God forgive me, will he make me pay and punish me? Will this lead to sorrows and disappointments in my life ie, don't get into college?
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I Really Need Your Advice... 1 2
by Guest Help ji- 19 replies
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WJKK WJKF Okay let me explain quite a long time ago i was sexually touched up by someone i knew. it really did mess with my head in so many different ways. i cant seem to stop getting bad thoughts in my head and i think you can kind of gather which thoughts they are, i have a very big problem with constatly daydreaming, i know this sounds crazy but i daydrream all the time and it is really bad! i do have anxiety and depression but its not a thing where it has been diasgnosed. im finding it very difficult to feel normal and im so afraid hat one day i will just explode or somthing bad will happen. my head does not feel right at all. has anyone else been through something …
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I really want to have darshan of Guru Ji. 1 2
by Guest Kaur 2- 12 replies
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VJKK VJKF My heart really wants to have darshan of Guru Ji. I have been blessed to have darshan of Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaaj but I want to meet my Father. I am a really bad person though so I probably won't ever have darshan but I want to see my Father and I want to talk to Him. I feel as if I need to see Him. Maybe its because I have been listening to Shabad Hazare more. Or maybe its because my Nani has had darshan of Guru Nanak Dev Ji. I really want it. I also really want amrit and with Maharaaj's kirpa it will happen in a few years time. Before I really wanted to take amrit and now I want to have Darshan. My heart keeps longing for bigger things each time. …
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I want to marry somebody religious but im not very religious but i honestly do believe that im a good hearted person who does try and follow sikhism as best as i can. I just dont go the Gurdwara or know everything about sikhism. I come from a fairly traditional family so whilst i dont know everything about the history of Sikihism, I do know what we are not supposed to be doing (dating, smoking , eating beef, hair etc). I just dont really have much in common with the more open boys of my age group.
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I Salute Them Song?
by Guest meeeeeemeemeemeee- 0 replies
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once i heard a song, it was like one of da shaheedi immortality songs, it went sumthing like: "those who died for their faith, I SALUTE THEM!, The great shaheeds, I SALUTE THEM!" etc... Please help me find it,
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I Sometimes Have Feelings Of Cutting My Kes ..... 1 2
by Guest SarabjeetSingh- 14 replies
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sorry if this surprises you . I am basically a 21 year old , 5'5" tall ( short ) low self -esteemed guy who is probably a disgrace on sardars and sikhi spirit . I have a few times been doubted about the authenticity of my "sardarness ." . You can call me a coward . And seeing that our community is always attacked and who knows when 84 may strike again , why not stay in a safe mode with your hair cut shorn with latest hair style . Shave off that bushy beard , I would look Handsome prince charming ...maybe ! Doesn't life has so much to offer to me and me to the world ..! I hate looking in the mirror ,, why take so much hassles . Can't god be realised without kes and…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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