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Refundable Tax Credits And Dasondh
by Guest Singh Business- 3 replies
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VJKK VJKF Sangat Ji got some questions. I recently started a private business. Now as a self employed person when I donate to a charity and get a reciept (gurudwara receipts) then I can get that money back as a tax refund. So my question is am I in a round about way not paying out my dasondh?? By claiming this money in my taxes, I can reduce the amount of tax I would have had to pay that year. I've reasoned it and played with the idea " Guru maharaj is being dayaal because I pay my dasondh, therefore im getting saved from paying taxes" But I'm still kinda finding a hard time coming to a conclusion. Any input is appreciated!!!
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Any Psychologists?
by Guest _RSingh_- 3 replies
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Are there any psychologists on here? I am going to graduate this year and want to know if there are gursikh psychologists that i can confer with? I know it is a white based area (don't mean to be racist). My tutor told me himself (he's white). He said there are not many ethnic minority people around in psychology and that they are looking for more psychologists from different ethnic backgrounds. please help!
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Loving Our Enemies
by Guest guest- 1 reply
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Topic title says it all. I know as Gursikhs were not supposed to have enemies, but how do you build for ppl who dnt seem genuine and don't have your best interest at heart? Yes the most obvious thing would be to avoid them but it is possible when they are family members. I wouldn't describe these few ppl as enemies, that's puttin it harshly, i don't envy them. Tried being normal with them, kind to them, treat them with respect.... I cant help but feel this fake aura around them. Can't avoid them plus shouldn't have to. Do I just toughen up an accept them for who they are on get on with it an nt think too much abt it? Tried that bt doesn't work for long, can…
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Tabla Teacher Required In North East Of England
by Guest Student- 4 replies
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VJKK VJKF Sangat ji I am looking for someone to teach tabla. I am in north east of england, but I am willing to travel once a week or fortnight to take a lesson from a tabla ustaad. Even if someone can teach me basic taals, enough to play with kirtan at home with my family. I don't intend to become some famous raagi, just have an inner thirst to learn tabla.If there is anyone? I will pay for the seva, please help! The gianis at the gurdwara won't teach, due to being 'too' busy and maybe other motives, I've been waiting 5 years for the tabla giani to teach, so i need someone who is willing to help me.
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How To Tell Anybodies Mistake?
by Guest gupt- 0 replies
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA!WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH! kisi nu kisi di mistake kida feel karana chahida ki mistake vi das di jaye taha samne wale nu enza vi na lage ki we are teasing them or we are more superior than them???????? my aim is ki ahagar koi galat kare sikhi toha dur jaye toha uhsa feel karana change tarika naal taki oh ahapni mistake mane taha sudhare. i told everyone in straight away......so they become angry and then some try avoid talking Plz help how to talk???????????
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Be careful
by Guest Gupt- 1 reply
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I just wanted to let the sangat know on this forum that you should always be vigilant about other forum members on this forum. Please do not disclose your own personal information( ie tell your real name, gender, place of birth etc) to someone on this forum just because you think they have gian or have 100+ posts on this forum and you think they are in "chardikala." For example, i once posted a question on this gupt section of this forum and one of the forum members told me to send him a PM. So, i thought this person wanted to help me out, so i created a account on this forum and sent him a PM, and then he replied back and said that it would be easier for him to discuss …
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Trying To Get Back On My Feet Need Help....
by Guest Upsetlad- 2 replies
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Not used this forum before so unexpected of reponse bt here goes... Recently been suffering from a lot of family problems, mood and self esteem has been quite low. Ive recently just ended a relationship with a person who i was helping to come into Sikhi and take amrit but due to her faith her family have stopped her seeing me. I am amritdhari myself. We were together for a year and whilst we haven't had actual sex we have unfortunately crossed that line of self restraint, something which i am quite guilty and upset about. Moving on, recently i feel my Sikhi has gone down quite a bit. I just about get my nitnem done, struggle to wake up to do Simran before my nitnem, f…
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Two satsangis of baba nand singh ji came to do darshan of babaji. One was bhai Surjan singh and the other was bhai makhan singh. While they were talking to baba ji a lizard fell on bhai surjan singh and he came in a sudden motion. Seeing this baba nand singh ji did bachan bhai dont consider this to be a lizard this is your sister who died waiting for you.you were busy at that time and your other brothers had met her on death- bed but before you could meet her she died.Now surjan singh became astonished as this was true. Now surjan singh fell on feets of baba nand singh ji and said please baba ji forgive her now and make her free from this joon. Now baba nand singh j…
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how wud yu pesh infront of 5 pyare can yu give them a note telling about which of the 5 evils that got you or you have to talk ur self ADMIN note: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/69036-beg-everyone-for-help-please/
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I've been trying to find the shabad waho waho gobind singh by bhai joginder singh riar , cant seem to find it. I know there's one up on rajkaregakhalsa.net but thats quite old and the audio aint tha good. Ive heard this new version on the radio anyone know where i can download it form. Thanks in advance Fateh
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Toronto / Canadian Sikhs
by Guest Need Help- 1 reply
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Does anyone know of any reputable trucking firms around brampton toronto that are hiring? I'm asking a member of my family who lives in canada - but he's struggling with work at the minute. If anyone has any contacts please let me know.
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Need Sisterly Advice On Kakkars
by Guest help this phenji- 0 replies
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This Phenji posted the message below to the Gurmat Learning Zone yahoo group. With Guru Ji's Grace she hopes to take Amrit this year. If you or anyone you know (females that wear 5 kakkars) can help her please email her at the address below. lbolger@nyc.rr.com.
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Need Help - Ekta Smgam
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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Admin please do not delete this post. I have not registered on this site so could not post in the correct section. I wanted to ask, does anyone know what happened to the website www.ektasmagam.com? I wanted to download the kirtan but it does not work anymore. :devil: Please help!!
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Have I been an ungrateful person towards my organization and my boss ? feeling guilty
by Guest Prahlaad Singh- 1 follower
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh So I stay in India, and have been working in this organization as a software engineer for around more than 7 years now. The org is somewhat small , with around 150 people I think at most. It has felt really comfortable working with these guys. They're decently nice guys, atleast the boss I interacted with the most (he's director and cofounder of the org). I remember this job was a miracle from waheguru ji. I got it when I needed it the most. And a miracle had happened at that time. HR manager had kind of rejected me in the final round as he had better candidates, then this director guy had for some reason taken c…
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Average Costs Of Sri Akhand Paat Sahib
by Guest GKN- 2 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh Saadh Sangat Ji, was just wondering on average how much does a Sri Akhand Paat Sahib cost in the UK? I know costs varies according to size of Gurudwara but it would be helpful to know the likely costs ... If anyone can help, please post on this thread ... Thankyou :-) Bhull Chukk Maaf Ji Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh
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