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  1. Actually, the panjabi words used in the rehitnamay are very specific. It say roti beti di saanj nahi karni. Which means no exchange of food or daughters in marriage. So we should not marry into them nor invite them over or go to their house for food. I am sure if the meenay owned a restaurant or a grocery store, we could frequent it. We could probably befriend them as we would a person of a different religionBut not to form any associations with them, to remain seperate from them religiously and culturally. This gives us a clue about how we as sikhs are supposed to interact with other rel
  2. Try to understand Sikhi philosophy. You can do.that 2 ways: read gurbani with english meanings so you can understand it. And read sikh history especially about great gursikhs who have lived sikh philosophy. I am telling you this truthfully, no other religion has a great history or philosophy as Sikhi. Sometimes, I too get enticed by other religions, because having grown up with Sikhi, it seems mundane. But other religions look good from the outside but are khokhle, hollow and i have to come back to sikhi. Come on, what other religion advocated for gender equality, freed
  3. Where's the difference? The only difference I see is the different synonyms for reincarnation.
  4. Hilarious. With the Gender imbalance, this will make things worse. There are less women than men in panjab and you want to skew this ratio more by polygamy? Reminds me of the fundamentalist Mormons in America, who believe in mandatory polygamy. They abandon and throw out the young men so that they there are more women for the leaders. Also polygamy was a survival thing with the hindus and sikhs. Not a desired thing. Look at bhagat Puran singh, his mom was treated as a concubine by his hindu father. So it not a good situation to be in to be a 2nd wife. At least the muslims have reli
  5. This is the shabad. JAGAT jot Japai Nis Basur. Ik binna man naik na Anai It is found in the bani 33 saviaye.
  6. Very good point. And in india cow was the most common pet. Only cows were tamed and kept inside houses.
  7. There is definitely a hand of the media. In the US its very biased reporting. The end seems to be a 1984 type society. All must agree with the dogma or be shunned and their livelihood affected. I dont know if this is deliberate to become such a controlling soceity or just a side effect of hatred for the other side and a desire to keep ur side winning. Esp listening to Dr. Gold the ED physician turned anti lockdown anti govt. No dr dares say anything against the vaccines for fear of being ostracized. There is definitely an agenda. However i dont know if she is right about the experime
  8. Lavaan.com. they even had a discount going on for joining. Ask your local gurudwara sangat for help.
  9. Yeah but 1984 is very murky. So is ranjeet singhs downfall era. We need ppl who lived thru it. Their accounts
  10. You should really record these events as told by your family. Either as voice recordings or even better in written form. As we rely on bhangus account so will futute generations. And if you dont tell the real true story and the glory and the fairy tale accounts of 84 will be remembered. About how 200 singhs fought a whole army and the kharkhoos were these supermen. We need the truth with the nitty, gritty details to survive. The plight of the commen ppl must be known.
  11. I have sisters and cousins who as westerners have married indians. So please share ur advice openly. I think it can help a lot of people. There is a big cultural difference. Like i know an indian women and her only condition upon marriage was that yhe husband not yell or humiliate her in front of people. If he wants to yell her or hit her he can do so in private. I was shocked. As a westerner that is such a low standard. Most women here would expect the husband to he constantly asking about their welfare and being kind. And showing his appreciation through gifts and helping with the
  12. Yes. In fact it is the maryada for many jathas and sampardas such as gurmat bibek a type of akj. It speeds up the heart kind of like aerobic exercise. Gets the blood moving stimulates stress response lol. And it really wakes u up and get the simran going. Wahegurrru And look up wim hoff, he made a career out of this. When gore get into something they go all in.
  13. You are doing great. Consistency matters more than quantity. I dont have personal experience but these r some sakhis i have heard. One was a women, who heard the importance of naam simran and told her family I will do all the work but I will not talk. U can write ur requests down. So all day say would go about loudly saying waheguru waheguru. Without pause. Kids and family heard it constantly from the time she woke and to when she slept. She chanted it as she did all housework. This went on for months. Then suddenly there was silence. They wrote why arent u saying waheguru anymore?
  14. Thats why some things are forbidden while some are just frowned upon. There r different restrictions and different types of bad things. The things that are considered the worst will affect not only ur spiritual life but also ur physical life such as health and society and ur family as well: such as stealing, using drugs, lust, bf gf stuff. If u look at people who are poor especially in developed coungries like america is is because they have indulged in these worst things and ruined their life and their families and future generations. Like having kids out of wedlock, stealing and go
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