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  1. is this the gurditt singh that i met at the baru sahib akhand path???

  2. this one is baba sukha singh uk wale doing reciting shastar naam mala and sri bhagauti ustotar. if you want to download it copy the url into the box in this website http://vixy.net/ select what audio format you want it in and download the audio :D
  3. it is definitely worth learning, and yes you would easily be able to defend yourself and more from being taught by niddar singh.
  4. sorry to be a ''party pooper'' but im not a little kid and i did not know what second base was until i asked a friend then i was shocked what second base was lol its obviously not said that often but in my opinion it shudnt be said anyway i wasnt shocked when i found out on yahoo answers, lmao guessed it was something like that, still totally inappropriate to say on a forum where kids like me are getting into sikhi and then seeing things like this, to add more junk into their minds. indeed, i am old enough to legally drink (not that I do, just saying) , it was wrong saying it on this forum as there are kids from young as 13 and they would be shocked reading that crap! exactly my point but there are kids on here even younger than that. im only 14 but i know people at age 9 that go on here :D camps get the kids into sikhi and then they come on here problem is people say silly things like " second base " :S
  5. sorry to be a ''party pooper'' but im not a little kid and i did not know what second base was until i asked a friend then i was shocked what second base was lol its obviously not said that often but in my opinion it shudnt be said anyway i wasnt shocked when i found out on yahoo answers, lmao guessed it was something like that, still totally inappropriate to say on a forum where kids like me are getting into sikhi and then seeing things like this, to add more junk into their minds.
  6. whatcha mean by "second basee" second base........... shudnt hav said that for those who dont know it means when one person gets to "touch" the other this is totally inappropriate for this forum. problems like this can only be solved if you change your crowd, what can we possibly say to help, i mean you must know what an amritdhari would tell u as u used to be one !!!!!
  7. oh ok thanks ji the information was very helpful
  8. so im going to wipe out both my laptop and my computer. one has windows xp and the other vista buisness will puttin the operating system disk in work for both of them?
  9. does anyone know how i can completely wipe out my laptop? i cant do it by formatting the hard disks in my computer for some reason and need a different method.
  10. well maybe if these people start keeping their hair and get into the uni, they might start to like keeping there hair and get into sikhi.
  11. so is it ok to use them. for example. youve got dry skin and you buy some sort of lotion to cure it. it has some sort of alcohol in it. would it be ok to use that for an amritdhari?
  12. wannabe akali

    Ardaas...

    well said bhaji
  13. wannabe akali

    Ardaas...

    tricky situation. this is all my personal opinion. i dont think her ardaas will be answered because she is asking for to be with her boyfriend. it is against sikhi to have a boyfriend or girlfriend as its all kaam. but ardaas does get answered by waheguru if what you want is a good thing. the only thing i see that you can do to help her is to comfort her. im sorry if i have said anything above which is wrong or offensive. if anything above has offended you that please forgive me.
  14. ill try to give a decent answer here if you are not trying to have a child then you shouldnt have sex because its not for a good reason. the only reason would be pleasure. because its for pleasure, it makes it kaam, which is something we are supposed to try and eradicate in sikhi. its anti sikh to have sex for pleasure. even if you are married you still must not have sex for pleasure because it is still kaam.
  15. lmao same here got the leaflet read it n then out of anger chewed it up call me crazy but it just really got me angry
  16. there is no doubt in my mind that it was the committee guys
  17. you have written a good post here but when you wrote One Bhen ji wrote that she feels insecure, that other's are looking at her without make up. To my understanding I believe you are looking for other peoples approval here. The only approval we should be looking for is of our Guru; Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji. Paying attention to what the public feels will drive you nuttz. To accept the way God made you takes courage and this courage to accept is developed by reciting Gurbani. Ciontemplate over the Shabad Guru and this insecurity will depart. i dont really think its fair. i mean she says that she feels insecure which is going to happen and if a bit of foundation is worn to just cover it up then that is not a bad thing, as long as it does not turn into something where you were it to attract males. i am very conscious about the spots and things on my face and hate it when people stare at me because of it and ask me stupid questions about it. i am a male and i also have that problem. but yh i dont wear make up obviously its not that the bhenji above is asking for an aproval from those who look at her but it makes you feel so terrible when you know people are looking at you because spots and things make you look less attractive but dont get me wrong, i like your post sorry if i have offended anyone
  18. this is very good that shelter is being provided for those being terrorised by the taliban but if they are going to do that i think that they need tighter security. if the taliban find out that panja sahib is being used as a shelter for them, there will be trouble from them
  19. You're not being offensive at all but i want you to think about something (just my little opinion too). If a bibi's makeup is her dastar and her panj kakkars, no male would get dirty ideas about her at all? I know from experience that some males still get dirty thoughts even though they see a tyar-bar-tyar singhnee (singhnees are gorgeous!). Yes, it is a job for a singhnee to keep her dignity and she should definately represent herself as the daughter of the Guru whatever way she deems acceptable, even if she wishes to wear makeup and jewelry (thats up to HER not anyone else). If thats what she deems as presentable and acceptable, then let her be, Guru Sahib will guide her eventually, just like he guides us all. We all have a different way of presenting ourselves and everyones opinion is different...that makes us unique hunna? If a male has dirty thoughts and ideas, its doubtful that it is due to the bhenjis eyeshadow or lipstick lol. That dude has some serious issues he needs to sort out because no matter who he looks at, he'll still have those ideas. Now if you want to look deeper into the issue of whether wearing makeup and jewelry is wrong or not according to gurmat? I dont have that much knowledge, just ask Dhan Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, He's your guide to walk on this path. (btw makeup has sooo many chemicals in it, why screw up your naturally beautiful skin...all you need is some natural cleansure and moisturizer everyday and you're good to go...theres tons of products out there that dont have all those harsh chemicals in them...try em!) To all singhnia: make your Guru proud, walk with dignity. Inspire and be inspired. You are jems of this panth. JEMS! -DKaur yes bhenji, you are right when you said that males get dirty ideas anyway but again its my opinion so i hope i dont offend but if bhenjis dont wear make up, then it would be better because it does attract males more. for example, you go into town and you see teenage girls with razer cuts and streaks with so much foundation on they look like plastic dolls. that attracts males in a way that some people cant imagine, i know this because of boys in my school. but in this case if the girl knows that make up can risk her safety and honour but she knows whats right and whats wrong, and can defend herself from predatory males, then i cant argue, apart from saying that make up recks your face and you would look better without it so..... but bhaji, you say in your post that make up doesnt effect anyone. the fact is that it does. its the same with clothes. if a girl wears a tight top and short skirt, well someone is going to start thinking kaami thoughts. and sometimes it can be the same with make up, depending on how its used and to what extent. and yes, it is the singhs problem, but at the end of the day, the girl could get effected emotionally and or physically so it should realy be kept to a minimum i hope i have not offended you in any way here bhaji, i dont want any enemies on this site, just good friends
  20. i watched a video where a singh, who says he was a witness, saw that it was a member of the committee
  21. WJKK WJKF

    Happy Birthday Bhenji

    hope you have a good one!

  22. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh

    Happy Birthday Bhenji, hope you are enjoying yourself on your Birthday :)

  23. Happy Birthday!!!!!!!

  24. WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just cant wait 4 da darbar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if it were my birthday on that day it would be the mozt AMAZING birthday outing!!!!!!!!!!!
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