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But I'm very touched you think I use flowery language. You're making me blush. Lolz Sawere sawere kina kuch parna penda , araam karlo chill all Why don't my emoticons show ??? oh they are now

Wise words @barfi n mithai penji.

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Go as as respectable as you would to a funeral, as long as you don't dress as you are going to a fancy dress party after all it's a funeral not a party. https://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070817184436AAtOzkh

Agree with Singh559, its not a big deal, I normally give store gift vouchers instead of a gift as will save them returning it or if they won't use it, or get a gift receipt so they have that flexibility to exchange. The main thing is that you care and are partaking in the blessings which they will appreciate.

No ji I do not wear a dastaar. I wore a chunni and the person with me had no dastaar. I have only been to this gurdwara once and had no issues, so I cannot comment on the gurdwara itself ji. Do u mean the gurdwara, as you keep writing temple so it's confusing? I have given my solution as that is what I feel would be the most appropiate thing to do.

Sister maybe u should make an account and contact Questioner sister so u can have somebody to talk to.

Seems an odd thing to happen, should be sorted out there and then asking why not and to see a committee member. But I can't see this happening as we have parked there and had no issues.

Well said penji jkvlondon. To Lovepreet, jera Munda twadi parwaar nai karda te hor kudi nal love karda us nal kio viah karna? This is one sided only and is not love. Forget him and do something better. As penji says love de chakar ch na peh. There is nothing you can do to make somebody marry you if they don't want.

Karm from past and present life affect one. But depends on Gurujis grace and the simran they do which can reduce the pain or able to deal with it better, which is also in their hukam.

I think some can but only with the grace of God. But the true ones would be difficult to know as they will not make it obvious, one has to experience it in order to know, and even then one will not realise until after.

Sister try not to cry, it's easier said than done, but keep strong. I haven't read ur posts properly yet but here's some shabads to help u ji http://youtu.be/HBOXmjJZWiI http://youtu.be/zSASouF4jyg Have u considered staying at ur mothers house? What is stopping u from having a break? This way u get space from the problem and to be able to deal with it better.

http://www.sikhhelpline.com/kaurnect So did the above offer any advice if you have nowhere to go, any support for women in ur situation or on their own? Also I would not let people and the community, gurdwara, be ur worries, that will only add to ur problems. We came in this world alone and we will go alone. It is a difficult situation sister, and ur going through a lot, but be strong and whatever you decide, Waheguru is always with you, do what is right for you. Some very gud responses by posters too, good logical advise.

Okji I wasn't going to comment on this topic as any advice may affect a persons life and future, but when ur writing things like u had to sleep on the floor and he says he's going to take u to a pimp, I'm sorry but why are u taking this ? I feel he is not going to change suddenly, u have to also defend yourself from this abuse. Our community gets ashamed and worried of telling somebody which is understandable but u have to show u are stronger. Don't even let him hurt ur soul, either get help from somewhere or u fight this battle in ur own and hurt more. If he's doing it for the permanent residence then he's already showing his true colours. Don't give it to him simple. Akalifaujis answer is good, be away from him then he will realise wat is precious when he misses it. Our Gurus fought for equality and this is how our people behave. Do u have any friends that u can get help from? Wat about his friends wives, do they know ? Just because u are Sikh why do u have to suffer? I'm sorry but our Gurus did not say get urself walked over either. There's always a solution and u have to balance it correctly. Nobody knows ur situation in real but you and those nearest, I feel u should do and think about wat u are to do realistically and for your benefit Ji. Nobody can make the decision for you sister, you have to do that yourself. You can read the advise and opinions to help you see it from a different angle as you are going through so many emotions. The best thing would be to first go to a marriage counselling organisation, is there any that deal with Punjabi or amritdhari families that anybody knows of? I'm wondering if you should approach your Doctor, even thou it's not a medical issue, they can guide you to counselling, you need to keep your mental side strong as you are going through a difficult time. I'm just worried about how it's affecting you. You are an intelligent lady born in this country and you need to also do ur own research in order to get help. And do ardas ask Waheguru to do wat is right for you and to lead you in right direction. And also Questioner penji is a caring soul, not many offer that care without knowing somebody, well done for understanding humanity and being there for somebody that needs help. Good luck Waheguru mehr kare

Thelion ji, they are Gurbani, words of Guruji, from Japji Sahib ji, Pauri 28: "aa-ee panthee sagal jamaatee man jeetai jag jeet. Come as a traveller; All are fellow students; conquer your mind, and conquer the world."

http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/73000-how-to-concentrate-when-doing-naam-jap/ A Mala helps with concentration too. Don't force it, it will happen with Gurujis grace naturally, but above all do with love for Waheguru. "Man jeetai jag jeet - conquer your own mind and conquer the world. "

Sorryji my mistake- Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji *

Amazing, black n white background and stunning colourful foreground focused on the main portrayal. . who are they ji? Guru Gobind Singh ji or Guru Hargobind Singh ji?

No problemo Tusi par sakde a google noodle moogle vich, Leo ji https://translate.google.co.uk/m/translate Chinese vich v par sakde

I used to support Liverpool don't know y thou lolz. It's coz it all about mamjester joonited and Birmingham palace and loverpool and the Skegness.

Wahh lovely

Don't worry, sehaje sehaje. How did it go?

Fatehjit - Victorious Victor Fatehbir - The victorious brave Foola - Blossom Falak - Sky

No problem thanku ji

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