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reicarnation based on one's good bad deed...........if one becomes pure from soul and becomes spiritually high he can be one with GOD and never have to come back....but may come back as a saint or soldier to preach or protect the weak with God's will.....but they are free from the circle of death and birth as they are the special souls with certain jobs asigned to them....... no judgement day or rising of dead.....

In wordly language yes..... to elaborate it's the attributes like selfless love, sacrifice, voluntary service of handicap/old/poor/weak/gurudwaras (seeing GOD in them), sabar, santokh, khima, forgiveness, cotentment, satisfaction etc that makes a person feel like living in heaven Same way, stuff like ninda, jhooth, chugli, nafrat, moh, lobh, laalch, hankaar, pride, greed, worldly attachment, jealousy, revenge etc means one is living in hell.....

waheguru ji its gurbani, says : Jo tau prem khelan ka chao; sir dhar talli galli meri aao‖. Guru Nanak Dev ji's bachans: If you want to play the game of love, come to me with your head on your palm deeper meaning: "sir" or "head" is associated with "pride" / "gharoor" like people say "tu eh kam karke mera yaa family da sir neeva karta" or "kehrha moonh leke jawa" etc, meaning they can no longer raise their head high in "pride" or hankaar/ego.............person with pride and ego will never bow down his head to anybody...... and when you are following the path of love with God, one has to get rid of this pride/ego/hankaar/haume/gharoor....................one can not attain God having these things in him because God HIMSELF is above pride/ego, so one has to be like HIM to be with HIM Hope this helps........bhul chuk maaf

^^ totally agree.........Sant ji had a very tough and hard bhagti jeewan before coming out in the light as sipahi. Giani Thakur Singh ji (was very close to Sant ji) had thrown some light on Sant ji's jeewan in one of his interview, will try to find and post it here. No one can become sipahi without being a sant (meaning saintly virtues) Another thing we can see is Guru Nanak Sahib (akal purkh HIMSELF) started as a saint and ......the saintly aspect was fully incorporated by the time of Guru arjan Dev ji...and Guru HarGobind Singh Sahib ji then introduced the sipahi aspect and Guru Gobind Singh ji brought the sipahi aspect in it's full sense and then combining the both........this sequence shows the saintly virtues coming first to make souls pure or "khaalas" and then they got the shakti of being a sipahi.....(turning into khaalsa) first Khaalas and then khalsa All shaheeds like Baba Deep singh ji etc had immense bhagti before they came out as sipahis........ (bhul chuk maaf......sorry for being off topic) Coming into Politics......one would have saintly virtues and then become sipahi.....but then his bachans will become true sute-sidh........and they have to think twice before uttering anything,,,,,,coz their bachans won't go empty.....and in this profession they have to talk a lot....

Has anyone seen Narendra Modis interview, where he left the studio after being questioned directly about the Muslim mass killings............the look on his face tells that he'll have the interviewer killed. don't think he's a good choice for PM

^^ agree on "not joining politics part"...... On topic I think it will.......coz more spiritual the person is, the heart becomes more soft and innocent (bani makes it)......can't manipulate or diplomat things......doesn't like to talk to anyone except other people on the same level and Guru sahib,,,,,,,coz being spiritual is totally a diiferent world.....(Guru sahiban are akal purkh ji himself, so nothing is impossible for them) just as example like Guru amardas ji......When Guru Angad Sahib's son Daatu ji kicked Guru sahib in Goindwal, Guru Amar Das got up and said in extreme humility,"Sir, pardon me, my hard bones might have hurt your tender feet." After this the Guru left Goindwal and went to his village Basarka. He confined himself in a house outside the town without letting anybody know about his whereabouts.But then we have Guru Gobind Singh Sahib ji (10 Gurus = 1 jot)......... May be there are different kinds of spiritual people....... LIke for Bhai Kanyia ji "sabh Gobind hai sabh Gobind hai, Gobind bin nahi Koi" and Bhai Nand Lal Ji.....more on softer side then Baba Deep Singh ji, Baba Banda Singh Bahadur etc Bhul chuk maaf

^^ waheguru ji I already said I might be wrong.....being diplomat sometimes means to be selfish to some extent or "mauka-prasat", meaning to see one's own good.........Politics is all about twisting things......and sant mahapurkhs are more on "innocence" side....

Sangat please share views.

Also if everything goes fine, Badal and party should be deported from Khalistan or confined to lifetime imprisonment

This is called "diplomacy" which I think is a must for this purpose....................but before getting the Khalistan, we need to have an honest and a fearless leader like Sant Ji who could run "raaj" peacefully and effectively........but on the other thought mahapurkhs like Sant ji can't be diplomatic because of their avastha (I might be wrong as 6th Guruji was running a raaj being a Saint).......so we need a leader like Maharaja Ranjit Singh who could be a Gursikh as well as diplomatic.....also we'll need more gursikhs to act as leaders to take care of the sub-duties.. aslo Khalistan will be formed when sikhs "kehni" and "karni" becomes Khaalas

Sant Baba Balwant Singh ji Tandewale:- "Kade na kaho meri sas marhi, meri nanaan marhi, hamehsa kaho ke mere karam maarhe ne" "Never say my mother-in-law or sister in law is bad, always say that my karams are bad"

Sant Gurdial Singh ji Tandewale:- "Dharam jazbaatan da khed hai"

Op ji.......at the end of the day you have to deal with it.....whatever these hidings, starvations lead to....your body is being affected........one of my friend was at your situation, no support from family......24/7 hiding in her room, maybe just half a roti or no roti a day.....crying, badly hurt, increasing burden on herself.......only help available was Guru sahib....no sisters, no mom, no masi, no freind.........so you are not the only one..........she prayed to Guru sahib for help.....and Guru sahib did kirpa and she became adamant or say strong from inside, kept her unaffected by what others say as she realized nobody except Guru sahib cares and she should not waste her life for those who don't care.............nobody was talking to her in whole family......but she started coming out of her room, making her own meal and eating it, going out to gurdwara and family was surprised to see the change, it was a blow on their ego//how could she do that on her own...and couldn't take it and had to bow down...... you know jadon gheo sidhi ungli naal na nikle, tedhi karni paindi aa..........if nobody cares, then why do you care ( I know many members won't agree, but only he knows who suffers)...... just think tomorrow you get married and will have kids.....this hide and seek, self torture will affect your body and immune system.....you can have some complications later(rab na kare).....so think about that............yaar family can come back to you but your health loss won't.........so be prepared now so you don't have to regret these days........your happiness should't be dependent on anyone or family members...just on Guru sahib......you should be like..."mera ruse na kalgian wala, jag bhawein sara rus jaye" another thing just think of your achievements: 1. where was you 5 years ago? 2. where are you now? 3. where will you be 5 years after? So why wasting your precious life by this childish hide n seek for nobody? Your family members will start saying eventually "eh ta edan di hi aa",, but who's loosing....it's YOU

apni larhai aap larhni paindi hai, koi kise layi nai larhda..... You have to fight for yourself....I know it sound strange but it's true sometimes even parents don't care........I would say don't expect from anyone....just pray to Guru sahib.......as Simran ji said...eat something.....wake up and try going to Gurdwara and listen to bani from heart....

waheguru ji.....I am no one......it's all Guru sahib..(my own life is a ghuman gheri, how can I help anynone)......................start listening to Giani thakur Singh ji's kathas.. http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/index.php?q=f&f=%2F04-Katha%2F13-Giani+Thakur+Singh+Ji+%28Patiala+Wale%29 ....or Sant Baba Waryam Singh ji Ratwara sahib youtube videos...........you'll feel much at ease and your spiritual level will be boosted up..... Guru bhalla kare

Sometimes mahapurkhs can do ardas to Guru sahib for daya ,khima and kirpa....but it all depends on mahapurkhs......nobody can really judge how they work.....for example Once Sant baba Harnam Singh ji Rampurkherha was asked for hwlp by one far relative who had some health issues..........out of daya, baba ji went and started doing path for his wellness by his bed for certain days...but one day while doing path he felt someone holding him tightly.....when asked...they were shaheed singhs...they told tat this guy had done Guru Nanak sahib ji's unbearable ninda.....and we have been punsihing him and you came hear to help him.....from that day baba ji started doing ardas to guru sahib & taking the hukumnama to get answer of moving on for help or not.......many mahapurkh do ardas to seek permission before helping anyone......and on second note.....some mahapurkh just do it and it's accepted by Guru sahib....like mahapurkhs can do sute sidh bachans kise rang vich and God has to follow that.....like in time of Guru Arjan dev ji.... Bhai Lakhu ji's bachan of remaining Bhai Budhu ji's brick raw ...Guru sahib couldn't undo it.....here's the sakhi http://www.sikhlionz.com/Guroo-Arjan-Dev-Jee-and-Buddhu-Shah.htm ...it's all Guru sahib and mahapurkhs....they know how this works......we people with low thinking and paapi karams can't judge or comment ........as neither God nor mahapurkhs are limited to anything....... and never think that Guru sahib won't listen to you....HE always does...... personally I would say...do ardas to Guru sahib going prior to mahapurkhs...like this our application is forwarded to Sants even before we reach there......

9 nidhia 18 sidhia - No, dukh doesn't go away by getting these.....these are mere powers that anyone can get by doing meditation....or even yoga.....like yogis used to do...... 9 Nidhian are 9 types of wealth 18 Sidhiann below - may be not exactly these...but you got the idea. Reducing one body even to the size of an atom . Expanding one body to an infinitely large size. Becoming infinitely heavy. Becoming almost weightless. Having unrestricted access to all places. Realizing whatever one desires. Being undisturbed by hunger, thirst, and other bodily disturbances Hearing things far away Seeing things far away Moving the body wherever thought goes Assuming any form desired Entering the bodies of others Dying when one desires Getting soul out of body and then return at will knowing the past, present and future tolerance of heat, cold and other dualities being at different places at same time remaining unconquered by others These come prior to opening of dasam duar....so yogis sidhs used to stuck here and use these to get name and fame by helping people in good /bad ways.....but these doesn't give them peace of mind......whoever (lets call them Gursikhs/sants/mahapurkh) pass these stage and remains unaffected gets to dasam duar......and these nidhi/sidhis become their slaves then.........Sant mahapurkh follow Guru sahib's hukum on what ever they do (helping others).......they never do things by their own..............obvioulsy they have power to use them....but they follow Guru sahib's raza and hukum..... Dhan Dhan Baba Nand Singh ji - "if a person comes to us (sant/mahapurkh) to get some wish fulfilled, he might have to wait, but if he does ardas to Guru sahib and Guru sahib orders or asks us to help that person with his problem, and this hukum becomes priority for us" Elsyian Tree - paarjaat tree - it's the wish fulfilling tree (same as kamdhen cow)- it's in "heaven / swarag" but Gursikhs don't need this because their bachan come true anyways and also once they are in love with Guru sahib, they have no wishes/desires left, not even "mukti" - "raaj na chaho, mukt na chaho, mann preet charan kamlare" Panch shabad (anhad naad) is divine blissful "rasmai, never-ending holy music" heard after the dasam duar is opened...... bhul chuk maaf.....N30Singh ji can better explain this....

then let them do what they are doing...you should invest this time to make yourself strong from inside instead of asking them to symapathize or listen to you.......their focus is on your sister and her-in-laws....and would be directed on them until they get married.......you won't get any attention......so don't expect at this point........once the trust is broken...really hard to get it back to normal....things never remain the same......it takes time.......you can't force them........... God will settle scores for you with that Guy.....and leave your sister and jija on their "karms".......your parents obviously have the responsiblity of getting their daughter married without any mess up......they'll be back when they are done...and you should work on path and simran to make yourself strong from inside as well as outside.......

decency says that the guy should apologize even though he was not the only one.......he certainly has not matured up yet otherwise he shouldn't have been defensive when confronted, knowing the fact that this is affecting the new "rishta" between two families...........his denial to apologize shows that he knows he did wrong................but it's upto him and grooms family how they ask him.....and your family of course can't pressurize them...........and if nothing happens....you just let your family know that it's going to be hard for you to deal with them as a family.....so please never force me......groom should be aware of your decision and how you feel.....

it's just you got too much into michael jackson thing..............too much researching overpowered your sub conscious mind.................. ........to overcome it, do some research on sikhi and Guru sahiban before going to bed (even though you think you know all of it)........so you'll get positive thoughts n dreams............and of course do the keertan sohila path.....

You have acumulated lots of energy in yourself by not showing off like others,,,,,,you just have to use it in positive way. ................................ you seem to be a reserve kind of person and lack self confidence....first thing first...start reading self-help and confidence boosting books.....and ardas to Guru sahib... Join gym eat fresh and healthy listen to kathas (online availeble many) voluntary work as mentioned above there's so much to do......and most importantly talk to Guru sahib.....literally from heart.....HE'll guide you...... life has so much to offer you.....look there are people who sleep on roads and hardly get something to eat.....they are still living....so we are at much better place.....why should we end our life.... never think of suicide......everyone is here to achieve something and that is Guru sahib's khushi and kirpa......you already know Singhs sacrificed their lives for us....and this is what we'll give them in return.....no.....stand up....you are unique.....get out of negtivity.....not everybody is perfect...... Guru bhalla kare

N30Singh ji.....thanks for sharing such deep thoughts anf facts.......you know this is called" mahapurkha di sangat da asar"......waheguru mehar rakhe

It seems like she didn't do the research for the facts thoroughly or just wasn't intersted to find out more about Sant Ji. She has been heavily criticized for presenting Sant ji as terrorist and the cause of 1984 happenings.

agree, should do ardas and maafi for other small mistakes from Guru sahib and not repeat them intentionally.... self analysis or consiouness or guilt tells us what went wrong.....can check with mahapurkhs/genuine parcharaks or gursikhs (as N30Singh ji mentioned) and going on deeper level...make kraah parshad and do ardas for maafi.....

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