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I don't know my family on both sides had large families mum has five brothers one sister, all my Nana ji's brothers and sisters(four brothers, three sisters (one died in playground accident) had big families averaging six kids , same my Nani's brothers and sisters (2 brothers five sisters). Cannot say the same of my Pard Dada's generation because he died early(he had siblings at least two brothers I know of) but had two kids , the daughter never had kids but my dada ji had four sons one daughter. My Thaiya ji had three sons, chacha two sons and a daughter younger chacha based in Canada planned two only . In my generation I have four which is considered a massive family in UK , my siblings 2,2,1. I think it is to do with aspirations for maya vs. strong cohesive family units , my sibs won't have more because of costs of living . That's where the extended family model shines , built in security of youngsters and elderly, division of labour , retention of family history and faith but Western housing and life makes it harder to implement.

you should keep gutka sahib in rumal size cloth of good quality , when doing paat wear a hazooria around your neck so that if you have to touch your face you can use the hazoorian to touch instead . Hands should be kept clean always and one should avoid getting spit particles from mouth anywhere near gutka so keep at arm's length . Keep the gutka wrapped and in a high , clean place

vadda ghalughara, yeah 90,000 dead in the space of a week ... don't doubt the SInghs married out by bringing in hindu girls into the fold but they would have made sure they were initiated first ... and our ancestry lies in other quarters but we all know that to take on sikhi in full means breaking ties to those dharams and cultures . Unlike RSS I do not see my roots as a problem just a fact of history and it doesn't mean I agree with them that we were a reform movement which provided fighters. what happened to the Khastriyas aren't they supposed to do that for the hindus, I mean all I hear is rajput this marata that but ultimately there were more of them than sikhs so what is the excuse ?

bro I'm not anti muslim - I'm anti-negativity and anti-hatred ...I still have loads of muslim friends and colleagues and my kids still mix with the ill informed and reeducate them to be less idiotic that's how you change attitudes be strong yourself and represent. The rest will fall into place, as people will actually gain real-life experience of sikhs and realise the BS for what it is and drop it

can't say never because the sands of opinion are always shifting ...I live in Uk so the RSS types are not heavily represented on the ground here and the types to go for it are too cowardly to speak their poisoned minds in company . I've only met a couple of Modi fangirls and they struck me as very gullible and because they were Gujrati it was about a fellow gujrati getting into office. The only way sikhs can counter the double threat is getting the truth about sikhi out there and inform our kids about their history and heritage , making them value and uderstad how deep our roots are and why it is important to keep. There has to be a renaissance of our true culture so that the people can see just how positive it is and was for so many people not just sikhs . I mean so many refugees and disaster struck people are being helped no strings attached across the globe by sikh NGOs like Khalsa Aid, United Sikhs .

my sons are at college and have heard the twisting of sikh religious behaviours to mean something threatening towards muslims BY MUSLIMS and they've had to confront and correct the BS propaganda . e.g. kirpans are carried to murder all muslims ...<banned word filter activated> ? if you are a normal functioning benign positive human being you have NOTHING to worry about , the kirpaan is an answer to oppression /violence that is physically happening against innocents and that's it . Sikhs wear turbans and keep hair as an oath which they will only be released from after they have killed all muslims ...seeing a theme yet ? Honestly the violence and threat is being cooked up in over active minds in the muslim youth who have been exposed to unpard opinion makers and salafists/wahabists it is stupid and very very sad

I've met lots of hindu moms married to sikh guys their kids are all more hinduized than sikh , all monay etc ...even an old high school friend gujrati married a SIkh guy and from her description she seems to be introducing more of her culture to the kids than sikhi . I suspect it's because sikhi is low priority to such guys ...

but you forget the 25% who tacitly support such violence , and the silent majority who do not show willing to help ousting troublemakers from their midst , why? I do not believe SYria, Libya, Iraq's populations deserved the treatment they got and I would love for ISIS and other similar outfits to die out but that is not likely to happen without muslims in general opposing them at a grassroots level. Why do muslims believe that Allah needs an empire , does He not own everything already if he is the Master of everything? Why do muslims forget all things happened because it is Allah's Raza therefore all other faiths still exist with the Almighty's blessing, it is nothing to remove galaxies stars etc in an instant, so what's a faith , does Allah need help? threatening innocent parties , this is the side of the faith that most people know and have experienced ...what's the difference between you and the hindu extremists in that case ?

it's already started you have schools within schools , the muslim kids are ostracising any non-faith or other faith kids , the parent governer posts are filling with only muslim candidates , that's what's happening in my daughter's school , that's why I applied for the next parent governer opening because now there is no nonmuslim representation for parents also the school has had their first sexually motivated assaults on students IN the school. My daughter is a caring open person with friends all over the school and of different faiths colours etc so when she had a birthday bash at a local kiddie venue we invited over 7 muslim classmates along with others , only one girl came the others didn't even contact to say anything . My Brother lives over on the west of London and there has been kerfuffles by muslim students parents objecting to standard visits to different faiths places of worship , where one punjabi muslim girl was called kaffir etc by other muslims because she had juice and parshad/langar at gurdwara during a visit , her own Grandfather was horrified at his granddaughter's treatment by the other muslim kids and parents. Now it has become policy there that no muslim has to eat or drink at a mandhir or gurdwara.

do you mean the kirpan di amrit

she just did what her heart told her , Guru ji did so much kirpa on her that she kept full rehit in spite of that and she was blessed with another chance when the sanchar and sangat came to her ... It's all good

hindu infiltration into every aspect of gurdwara management , I remember watching an Italian chef visiting Harmandir sahib who showed him round ? a hindu family and they were quite happy to claim everything as part of their dharam landscape , then when he wanted to donate atta/rice to the langar , who is sitting alongside the sikh recepit writer but a Hindu pandit like he is in charge . My husband just took one look and then said <banned word filter activated> ? what's he doing there (no he wasn't an udasi before someone says it ) . The police is controlled by hindu goon squad ... our strong gursikhs are stuck in the jail system under the mountain of false cases. Why is it the legal burden of proof is not there prior to arrests like the legal system they inherited?? Our state govt is controlled by goons and stifled by central laws and controls . there is zero fight for Punjab's rights even on matters that are illegal in international law. Main way is our kids are not aware of sikhi , they know more about bollywood storyline and gossip and have had they heads with inferiority complex about their roots in language and faith. They would rather blend in like lame ducks by shaving, cutting their hair and being 'okay yaar' coolio dudes..rather than defending females' honours they are now molesting , raping the girls they are supposed to think of as sisters. The 'sisters' think they are clever and modern if they deny Waheguru and get lush every weekend ...fitte muh. Ishq de chakkar with Hindus because they don't want to be like their folks ...it's braindead in the extreme. ANyone in the forces is now on notice to comply with the 'jai mata di' crowd or get sanctioned and probably kicked out. People need to give their business only to sikhs to bolster and keep the money in the local economy , if farmers are not getting good prices for their crops they need to contact a new organisation which has been started by sikh guys to locate foreign buyers direct for the crops . Education and parchaar need to be full on especially in the youth scene. Drug rehab and health clinics too

First link is a wikipedia stub expended by whom and for what reason , the fact that it is part of a list of anti-hindu violence list since partition helps give a context ...i.e. scare tactics of Gandhi regime to keep the attention and justification up against sikhs . Yeah , post Delhi riots zero is mentioned of the homeless destitute, , widowed and orphaned sikhs of Delhi but yet we should worry endlessly for people who chose to migrate to delhi with their goods and money as 'refugees' ...give it a rest ... These were primetime Alam operations . and please note the article mentions that this body count made it the YEAR'S worst terrorist attack and we are in December of 1986 so where are the thousands and thousands of body count ? I think 35,000 is the figure bandied about by hindu people on their opinion pieces these days - 24 lost souls ...

fact : there are zero sikhs, muslims, buddhists or jains in the Indian secret services - so ALL operations were run by Hindus against minorities and pakistan . fact: there was a lockout of sikhs in the forces hierarchy in terms of information preoperation for any and all of the continued attacks planned against the (GUrdwarey starting with Bluestar) and Punjab's populations. fact : Kids schools and many businesses were shut down for over two months whilst operation Woodrose swept the villages and captured and disappeared many many sikh men and boys . Yes some Prominent hindus/ sikhs were assasinated by Sikhs but they have been claimed in toto. but what else the GOI wants to blame us for is not true

why would a post-partition census contain Pakistans data ?

bro that was a GOI operation under Alam using his pseudo sikh Black Cats, be sure before you accuse

well we discussed it and said sometimes it cannot be helped because of the way Uk is made at the street level. Where as every mosque I know has Halal Butchers on site or next door as a fixed thing and to be sure if any person proposed opening a pork selling butchers opposite or nearby there would be vociferous opposition and protests first then threats against the shop owners.(has happened in tower hamlets).

fact is it was the Indian Secret services that did that job , it was investigated and written about in the book 'soft target' by a couple of Canadian journalists ... Alam's Black Cats killed hindus and sikhs during those times to defame sikhs in general . Try not to peddle propaganda of the GOI to cover historical fact... look at the uygurs they were Buddhists until Muslims arrived . Same with Afghanisthan and other nations ... it is simple fact , forced conversions in past centuries are giving their fruit still .

didn't mean it that way , he was positioned rather conveniently don't you think ...jews do not marrying their sons out as Jewishness follows the maternal line ...

interesting how much of the foreign policy portfolio has fallen to his SIL Jared ...and he is the young jew on the block

if they had the heads up why did russian warships move forward to engage with the US navy positions?

refusal to buddy up to putin like the gandhis , putin is a bit too much of a loose cannon for the zionists to handle. However with the way China is going they will be the zionist's pet , remember marxism is the cause of the largest genocides on the planet and is a creation of the zionist movement

my philosophy is no asking, no giving , no taking ...if you are really looking for the perfect mother/father for your grandchildren there are more important things to look out for like honesty, hardworking, caring nature etc.

no , dowry is robbing the girl's family don't make the boy out to be the victim as there is not as much stigma attached to divorced guys as there are girls . A guy can marry , rob, abuse and dump as many times as he likes without much comeback whereas a Girl is traumatised, belittled and dishonoured in society . That's why Bhen ji is still clinging to this excuse of a man even though he has beaten and tried to get her arrested.

I blame stupid people who look to Indian TV and Films for acceptable coping mechanisms ...usually they are told to either drink or drug their problems away or kill themselves , never to fight back and conquer the odds. My own cousin gassed himself whilst his family went out to a wedding , they returned to find the body in the car . I suspect the girl who was getting married he had a thing for but was too shy to say anything to his brash Dad. It is such an unnecessary waste of life and for what ? Another kid commited suicide in University halls when I was sitting finals by jumping from top floor kitchen window because he thought he had missed a question of the exam , his father was a barrister and the pressure of failing was too much for him to bear. If only he had talked to someone they could have got him out of that panic moment and saved him. Turns out he had passed with great marks ...