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jkvlondon

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  1. you know what ,any time you have come onto this forum it has been to bash 'western' sikhs How do we know you are even a sikh . Funny how you accuse us of sleeping when we have had a country wide agreement against the misuse of Anand Karaj on top of following the 2007 Akal Takht Hukam. What about India ? because of course bibi ji interfaith marriages NEVER happen in India, I think you should stop believing everything you read in Hindustani sponsored (via the uk conservative government) newspapers . It was ONE corrupt committee who lied to police officers about a hostage situation which lead to armed police turning up who only saw people doing naam simran in the foyer . It is only racist if you think Indians and Indian sikhs are seperate races so think or even ask before slinging accusations . Where is your Indian sikh press association ....oh yes there isn't one ... who started one?... the British Sikhs and why because of gutter dwellers spreading filth about Sikhi where were you all last week ??
  2. Bhainji he's the attacker of the interfaith groom ... No Brother if you haven't got it .... did you not suggest them doing a sukhmani sahib program instead and do the bhog and Ardas for the couple after they've had the court marriage in the gurdwara? I understand your frustration but now you have done something which will spoil your family life ,and also reputation of SInghs and Kaurs . I think we need to name and shame the gurdwarey and their management teams so we as a panth refuse to have anything to do with them i.e. cut off their money , cos that is where it will hurt them . I think it is worthwhile that the sangat start a court case against the committee member of Leam Gurdwara who sold himself the Gurdwara Hall to make a club , he abused his position to embezzle from the sangat .
  3. How well do you get on with your Mum ? if you are close share what you have learnt about sikhi with her , maybe show her sikh websites/channels you follow , tell how you feel about sikhi , I'm sure she'll understand you are not going through a phase and support you. It might not be her cup of tea but she should be able to empathise wanting to be a better sikh (most women are spiritually inspired very few are not) . Get her on board first , then tackle dad ... Of course if you get on better with Dad go the other way around , most people want their kids to be good humans so I really cannot see them being so hard on you . Keep on touch ... stay in Chardi Kala
  4. Jasleen would be another way of saying the same one who is engrossed in Prabh di bhagti
  5. jasmeen jas matlab prab ka gun gai-in meen machli like gurbani example where macchli is in sukh sagar that is Akal Purakh Bhainji ?
  6. jesus taught about joons as well , its in dead sea scrolls but guess it didn't make the edit of RC (seem to remember that there was burning of first hand materials (apostles) by Romans that why DS Scrolls were buried )
  7. Little Brother Waheguru ji ka Khalsa ,Waheguru ji ki Fateh, The mind is very mischievous it wants to take you away from your bhagti because it knows the closer we get to Waheguru through Gurbani , naam and sewa the less power it will have . The five chor steal your good qualities and efforts away don't let them spoil your life , do an ardas to Guru Pita ji to help and protect you from these bad influences , he is always there for you just call out .
  8. the whole creative team is gora what are you expecting ? The younger brother of this girl is called Sandeep 'Sonny' and wears the typical patka ...so it is more indicative of outsiders of sikhi viewpoint of sikhs.
  9. check out live stream seminar on Dasam Granth at the mo on Chandi Charitar 09:50 http://livestream.com/SikhInside/darbarpatsahi10
  10. honestly you believe cramming for thirty minutes is going to get you to goal ?? I think like your namesake you need to mature your attitude . you like wearing turban ??? that is not held up by the words in the first paragraph . Hardened spot ? I have worn a dastar over 30 years and I am yet to achieve that , learn to tie your dastar a different way wear a smaller dastar to protect you skin before tying the outer one. Ask someone who wears a style which you like for help or again watch Youtube videos and practise . With Guru ji behind you what dreams are not achievable ??
  11. if they want to stop following sikhi then they should found their own place without Guru ji and vacate the property paid for by the sangat . I'm sure everyone by now has read how because they were thwarted in their plan to have a party hall where they would serve meat and alcohol , the main ringleader sold the hall to himself and reapplied for the same stuff and now they have the cheek to suggest that the gurdwara's carpark be used by people going to that venue .
  12. probably because more than 50% will be found out ... to S Asians image is more important than anything else
  13. those who helped saw Akal Purakh in Guru ji and likewise Guru ji knows their innermost thoughts for instance Guru Sahiban knew who was going to do what and when so he never was hairaan parishan at others' actions. Guru Pita ji actually advised us to never believe anyone who swears an oath irrespectively of faith.
  14. those committed the atrocities lost and those who were attacked lost because they Forgot Waheguru ...whatever pooja or namaz that passed was ground under the foot of Maya . 30,000 were killed in this invasion of Delhi . But Guru ji wrote about the slightly earlier invasion Saidpur which he witnessed and then went to Delhi to confront Babar. Honestly I believe if sikhs read Guru Nanak's babarvani they will see Nanak Dev as Gobind SIngh i.e. young jodha/revolutionary not just an old saintly guy. They will see the one jot easier
  15. fitte muh ...there the troll then you turn up to join his gang ...
  16. it can cut the other way if he is earning less than her because she may have to pay him alimony , according to Uk law this is an issue most don't realise ...happened to a friend I know . SO please leave your anti-kaur attitude at the door .
  17. education for a woman is pure common sense , it follows on from being self-reliant as a Kaur , if the marriage ends suddenly for whatever reason she can still pay the bills , feed her kids ...also if the 'SIngh' is abusive/violent she can have a choice to remove herself and the kids to safety .
  18. bro so are you saying perhaps becoming a sexual slave is non-issue ? then answer me why did our Ancestors put life and limb at risk to save women and girls being dragged off to their fate in Ghazni? what is wrong , is wrong ...oppression is not a laughing matter but a bugle call to your conscience as a human
  19. Plus the fact that Guru Nanak Dev ji went to Rome with Bhai Mardana ji (evidence in vatican archives) to admonish the roman catholic church for committing THE SIN of enslavement of fellow humans should give you some idea what attitude we need to take .
  20. what you are forgetting is that is Guru Nank Dev ji , Guru Angad Dev ji, Guru Amar Das ji , Guru Ram Dasji, Guru Arjun Dev ji , up to Guru Gobind Singh ji sitting there in Darbar would you have the besharami to try telling them this stuff about numbers ? Who is to say that people will become less sikh ? Maybe for once, you could realise the sikh panth is not any different from other paths in this respect , in fact if our bibian do marry to those or hindu muslim faith they are than likely to never have sikh children as opposed to those marrying a christian (who have no strict rules on children, they too have to pick and submit) . There are many people who are of other faiths who have said what happened wasn't any different to theirs so what's the big deal . If these people have no concept of respect for Guru ji they are better off going to a registry office. an atheist will not be signifying joining sikhi, neither will a muslim or a christian or any other faith unless they are explicit and go through learning and attending gurdwara weekly for say a year ....should sort the wheat from the chaff. (most guys aren't that good at acting)
  21. try reading sometime ...they turned up for morning nitnem before 6am and stayed doing naam jap ...there was no wedding to be crashed ...plus which person in that couple was going to make Guru ji the centre of their life ?? neither cared about or tried to understand the numerous refusals they received in other gurdwarey but just kept hammering on until they found a committee member who put paise above Guru ji's maryada. both of the families knew they were doing something which most gurdwarey in their neighbourhood refused to do, that's why they had to go outside their hometown to find a place . They could have tried to explain to their daughter and her fiance that a registry marriage would be best and then do a sukhmani sahib paat and get hukamnama but they didn't because they also didn't respect Guru ji just worried about face.
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