dallysingh101

It's probably a dysfunction or genetic condition which makes their amygdala and prefrontal cortex areas of their brain (or other areas that process emotions/empathy) not fully functioning. So they mimic grief because they can see they are supposed to, without feeling any.

The way Doaba sounds, it seems like you'll be one of the few Sikhs left there if you go back.

Cocaine addicted killer, 31, strangled his 76-year-old churchgoing grandmother before having sex with her corpse twice then told paramedic, 'I raped her', court hears Donovan Miller choked Phyllis Grant, 76, in her home in Plaistow, east London The 31-year-old then had sex with body of Ms Grant, who was his grandmother He later told paramedics 'I raped her as well' following her death in March 2021 He admitted manslaughter and sex with a corpse and will be sentenced in March https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10535047/Phyllis-Grant-killing-Donovan-Miller-strangled-grandmother-sex-body-east-London.html

That's the problem though, because not all such men who get this attention are worthy in the way you state. It's something more than what you're saying I reckon?

Is that the one where they leave thousands of toy aeroplanes as gifts to persuade Waheguru to help them to leave for abroad? lol!!

When you start doing it, it's like an avalanche of thoughts pop up. Some are evidently from your deepest subconscious, (desires, fears etc.) some things are what your brain is trying to process in life (whether you are aware of it or not) so - so all manner of things pop up. I think this is normal and many if not most people experience it. People use the word abiyaas or in english 'practice' and I think this is really the key. The thoughts don't ever fully go away for most people, but what regular practice can do is turn the volume down on them, as you learn to let these things waft away like wisps of smoke and focus on the gurmantar. It is like retraining your mind to pay less attention to the incessant babble it comes out with. When you try this, your mind will try and revolt against you because it gets scared that you have become conscious of it, and doesn't like it. It likes to operate secretly, hidden in the background. I think another mistake people make is going in for long sessions at the beginning. Just start small. Even 2 minutes is good. And build up from then. 4 minutes for a while, then 6, then 10. Try before paat, and try after paat, see which suits you better. Those thoughts might never stop coming, but you'll learn to over ride them and not be completely driven by them.

CPS backs down in Wayne Couzens secrecy row: Three officers are FINALLY named after being charged over swapping grossly offensive messages with Sarah Everard's murderer Officers are accused of sharing offensive texts with murderer Wayne Couzens Sent on WhatsApp between April and August 2019 - two years before killing Named as Pc Jonathon Cobban, 35, Pc William Neville, 33, and Joel Borders, 45 The three Met officers charged for allegedly sharing grossly offensive messages with Sarah Everard's killer Wayne Couzens were today finally named by the Crown Prosecution Service as it backed down following a secrecy row. The three officers, two of whom are still serving, are accused of sharing racist and misogynistic texts with the former protection officer about two years before he abducted, raped and murdered Sarah Everard. The CPS announced the trio were charged with sending grossly offensive messages over WhatsApp between April and August 2019. But their names were withheld by the CPS for 'operational reasons' - prompting claims they were receiving 'special treatment'. Cobban and Borders have both been charged with five counts of sending grossly offensive messages on a public communications network contrary to S127 of the Communications Act 2003. Neville has been charged with two counts of sending grossly offensive messages on a public communications network contrary to S127 of the Communications Act 2003. The CPS announced earlier this month that trio had been charged with sending grossly offensive messages over WhatsApp between April and August 2019. The decision to withhold their names followed after a Supreme Court ruling confirming criminal suspects have the right to privacy, meaning they cannot be named by the press before they are charged with an offence unless there is a proper public interest justification to do so. Despite this ruling defendants, including police officers such as Couzens, are identified when they are charged, so the decision to withhold the names was highly unusual. The decision to withhold the identities was not thought to have been made by Scotland Yard or the IOPC, and a source said both bodies disagreed with the anonymity. MPs and lawyers slammed the decision as 'ridiculous' and 'a charade'. Nazir Afzal, former chief prosecutor for the North West, said naming the defendants could not risk prejudicing a trial as details of the officers' relationship with Couzens would inevitably emerge in court. He said: 'I think it is ridiculous. As soon as these officers are in front of a magistrate or judge they will say of course you should be named. 'We don't have secret justice in this country for good reason and it should not start now. 'Regardless of the crime said to have been committed, the identity of the accused should not be kept a secret.' Andrew Bridgen, MP for North West Leicestershire, said it appeared as if the officers were receiving special treatment. He said: 'This will only exacerbate the public feeling that the people in charge of the law feel like they are above it. 'There can't be special treatment for police officers. They are people in trusted positions so if they are accused of something the law needs to be seen to be done.' Detectives investigating Couzens after Miss Everard's murder found the allegedly grossly offensive material on one of the killer's old phones. The two serving officers were placed on restricted duties but Scotland Yard confirmed they have now been suspended. After an investigation the IOPC sent a file to the CPS this month. The three officers will appear at Westminster magistrates' court on March 16. Former parliamentary protection officer Couzens, 48, was handed a whole life term at the Old Bailey last September after pleading guilty in July. Miss Everard disappeared while walking home in south London last March and was later discovered on waste ground more than 50 miles away in Kent strangled. Couzens used Covid curbs at the time and his warrant card to stop his victim in the street and get her into a hire car. Rosemary Ainslie, head of the CPS Special Crime Division, said today: 'Following a referral of evidence by the Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC), the CPS authorised charges against two serving Metropolitan Police officers and one former officer. 'PC Jonathon Cobban, 35, PC William Neville, 33, and former officer Joel Borders, 45, will appear at Westminster Magistrates' Court on 16 March for their first hearing. 'Each of the three defendants has been charged with sending grossly offensive messages on a public communications network. The alleged offences took place on a WhatsApp group chat. 'The function of the CPS is not to decide whether a person is guilty of a criminal offence, but to make fair, independent and objective assessments about whether it is appropriate to present charges to a court to consider. 'Criminal proceedings are active and nothing should be published that could jeopardise the defendants right to a fair trial.' The IOPC said: 'The IOPC's investigation began following a referral from the MPS in April last year (2021) and was completed in December when we referred a file of evidence to the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS). 'The CPS has taken the decision to authorise charges against the officers.' The three suspects will make a first appearance before Westminster Magistrates' Court on March 16. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10535255/Three-officers-FINALLY-named-charged-Couzens-messages.html

Yeah, and please remember when you sound hopeless, it makes other Sikhs feel demoralised. So keep it cool and calm. Simran helps big time.

Making other females envious also seems to be a big thing.

But many don't even seem to be able to make good choices about what they do to make themselves more attractive. A lot of the time the plastic surgery makes them look worse, not better. Then some (especially Panjabans) look like they pile on the make up blindfolded, with a garmala not doing themselves any favours either.

A lot of people (especially females?) have FOMO (fear of missing out) which influences their actions. Maybe introverted ones can be a bit more immune to this. But extroverted ones need to be in the right places, with the right people, to feel whole.

Women also start perceiving a bloke differently if other women give that bloke attention. They might not find a guy attractive at first, but if they see other attractive females giving him attention, their whole perception of the bloke changes???

It seems to be based on how much attention you can get from blokes as a female?

Bucket baths.

Just finished season 2 of Amazon Prime's The man in the high castle. Shockingly good so far. Been binge watching it.

They utilise social psychology research to manipulate females through media to make them insecure and consume. It's insane, even an otherwise beautiful women will end up having teekay in her bullh, chittorh inplants, benauti plastic chaathees etc. Mental.

I'm talking about even people who've settled here for decades and weren't over there when all the extra judiciary killings were going on. They seem to get over the death of a loved one super quick. Also, they might not like and sl@g off a certain relative all the time but when that relative dies, they put on Oscar winning performances of grief in public. Waterworks and everything. Cringe. I think MisterSingh was more on the ball. It's like some sort of sociopathy.

I want to see how the local sangat and his family react when he comes back home. Heard he was married to an amritdhari women as well. Poor thing........

You notice that as well. Makes me feel like a pu55y because a death of a close one can f**k me up for ages.

It's not just the police. Social services have been covering it up as well.

Marcus Garvey too. But I haven't read up on him yet.

@shastarSingh This is a must read too: Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave (Oxford World's Classics) https://www.amazon.co.uk/Narrative-Frederick-Douglass-American-Classics/dp/0199539073/ref=asc_df_0199539073/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=311043828655&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11793349962641906543&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9041106&hvtargid=pla-463986680347&psc=1&th=1&psc=1

Only vaguely because I think a book was written about him recently and I read the review. Looks like a very interesting figure. Would like to learn more about him.

@shastarSingh All that said, I found Jagjit Singh's book The Sikh Revolution really informative and inspiring. Especially after I learned one of his mentors was the true living shaheed and revolutionary Sohan Singh Bhakna of the Ghadar Party.

Veer ji, check those above out. I'm also watching a series on Amazon Prime called The man in the high castle right now. It's fiction, and set in a world where the nazis and japanese won WW2 and have conquered america. I'm upto season 2 now, and I think it's really good in terms of the themes it covers. Including why some people fight revolutions and why some don't. Check that out if you can. It weaves in metaphysics and spirituality as well as eugenics in the narrative. I've heard about this film Hacksaw Ridge, but haven't watched it yet. Although I doubt it's inline with Sikhi because the main character (based on real like) is a pacifist. But looks interesting. It's a Christian film I guess?