Singh1989

Good luck and wish you two luck. Hopefully yer mentally prepared for marriage. You have to listen to yer wife, treat her with maximum respect n see her as a human being first.

Am afraid you were too young for Amrit? If only you waited after 25-26 BUT deed is now done. It sounds like you need advice? There are two. One is to electrically remove them so they won't come back and go pesh. You'll feel better! Think of the paranoia no longer there!? SECOND! Read article / listen to katha much as possible esp on Bhai Taru Singh, Bhai Manni Singh, Why did the Tenth Guru walk out of Gwalior Fort barefoot? Why did the Tenth Guru turn his back on a Singh he loved as a friend and brother? Bhaji, I have given you two options. Rest is up to you.

Hmm. It's possible Anarchy and war has got to Arabs. Notice Iraq and Lebanon stats? WAR in those country. People will q "where's God? God's command? Hye! Ehdn da Hukam? Ehna kathrnaak??" Stats could've bern different if war didn't exist in those countries.

Sangat Ji, I'd like to know your views on the old case, concerning Suleman's Ghost ? was it all made up despite evidence and Sant Isher Ji involved? Was there some kind o rational explanation? Or... Was it all 110% true? Let me know YOUR views.

It is possible you bring your kids up in Sikhi but they turn 18, become mone and marry Gora or another Religious / atheist being. But this is not about that!!! Kids require YOUR attention as toddlers. By the time they're 13 they think about YOU as a parent. By the time they're 18+ they will do two things. Point the finger at YOU! or turn to YOU! (you want YOUR kid(s) to do the latter)!!! Now, poor people's kids turn n look up to their parents. In some rich families, kids may have resentment and hatd feelings towards their parents... So, poor or rich is NOT an excuse here. Do YOU show yer kids support and encouragement? Say to them positive things like "You can do it. Put your mind to it. Never give up. Today you're good at cycling tomorrow footy?" OR the negative??? "You'll never b good in life. So n so has more achievement than you. You'll never mount to anything..." If YOU are doing the latter then 15-20 yrs down the line , YOU will pay the price. YOU will have YOURSELF to blame. Your kids will have resentment, disrespectful feelings and not turn to you. YOU CANNOT EVEN SAY I TRIED! YOU DIDN'T!!! Even if your kids don't become religious they will turn to you IF YOU GIVE THEM POSITIVE UPBRINGING! So any new Parents / parents with younger kids, spend time with YOUR kids. Sit, talk n listen to them. They need YOU, YOUR ENCOURAGEMENTS and YOUR POSITIVE VOICE! So many families where everyone's an Amritdhari but no love is there. So many families where only parents are Amritdhari, kids are not BUT... Kids look up and turn to their folks for advise or emotional support. Why??? From a young age these parents taught them Sikhi (but they chose not t follow), gave them positive advice, encouraged and limited the criticism. Positive energy starts when your kids are YOUNG! FIVE OR SIX! Anything after 13's pushing it. DON'T EXPECT A MIRACLE ONCE THEY'RE 18+! It'll b like sum1 did an atrocious job on the varnish only to do a fantastic paint over it. Any DIY expert will kno wha that'll end up as. SAME PRINCIPLE apply. Do it right when they're young they'll look up to u even once they're adults. To sum up DO encourage kids in Sikhism path. DO be their positive energy and support. DO teach them about the world around them. DO take an interest in their activities.

Yes day time. A Sant (Herkowale I believe)?? Started it at late evening. 2 Sant Sipahi's soul came (actual aatma) n told him off, stating this Baani for day time or continue it all night.

Hmm... Interesting.

I suppose this is reason 3rd Guru Ji stated "Men should control their eyes." More than media it's the idea of corporations to manufacture n produce clothing as such. People buy whaeva selling the most. Nothing to do with Media n superstars.

Don't think he's right to simply ban them. However, I admire him for his brute honesty. Unlike any other leader he'll say it to your face.

OH NO! U clearly know this guy's dirty secrets! What is it this time? Things with kids or going off with others wives? Targeting Sikhs to worship him?? MINUS the fact he's not religious. I know only that much. Please share it with us @BHForce Let's separate opinion from facts. Cause my post's opinions only.

Though I never met him I think he's a guy with great Charisma n personality. So, from his vids and sweet voice I'd say he definitely practices wha he says n knows his capabilities. He talks about finding peace n happiness within yourself, internally. To love all there is. See from different perspective. Hor k chaeeda?? And he praises Sikh Soldiers' / bravery in one of his vids. Tells it how it was as well as wha the need was for them.

Vasectomy itself is a no for the human kind, let alone Sikhs. Gurbani states not to have kaam in mind. No kids but sex is kaam. It's like a diabetic asking for sugar free jalebi... We all kno (or should imagine) the taste... Oh yaar sutha t Sugar wich rehni aa! So control desires and vashna.

Very good thought. Sants and Brahm Gians know the truth... But to realise wha God is actually thinking? *Thinks* thas too to big for any human to comprehend. Whatever the i.q. Gurbani will incline what pleases/ displeases God. If we follow n understand Hukam ehna we bahoth aa. "Ko butaan ko poojth hai, ps, kau mridan ko poojan dhio. Kood kria aurchio jagt, Sri Bagwaan ko bedh na paio." This verse gives an idea wha displeases God. And "Jin prem kio, tin he prabh paio." So God can be obtained... But knowing his secret? Thas seriously big.

Don't get me wrong... If this sort o thing happened to Darbar Sahib or Hazoor Sahib then yes, I'd b infuriated too! However, 2 things. 1. These 2 will never ever be demolished. 2. Everything not constructed by Guru Sahibs themselves will be demolished. It's natural to construct and demolish - eh t chaldey rehnda.

With Kirpa am finally married. Wife still in Ludhiana need to sort out spouse visa. ANYway... A low educated guy with no decent job (please don't start with the "Sacha kirt atleast" nonsense) GETS MARRIED! So far one thing pushes me far in life. My Confidence. I confidently got married at 29 last month. If you're aged between 28-40 you need that confidence! I understand you may think "What if I get divorce?" Or "What if he/ she changes?" Of course I too had these insecurities but you'd be surprised the joy it brings knowing someone's in your zindgi. New relationships open up also (In laws, cousins) etc. Of course it also depends on your demands. For foreign Sikh women it Might be, the baptised Sikh must be highly educated. BUT... How many such men came to see you and wha happened? Why are you still single? Personally, I had zero demands. My wife took Amrit 2 months b4 marriage I did not even demand that!!! I let life take its course where it goes, it goes. I have the confidence to know I can make this rishta work for life. My wife can work or we can move out from parents if she says so. Of course I had one drawback last week but I learned from it n moving on with it. So if you're highly educated, life is good, financially sorted, let go of the insecurities n think positively about a future with your spouse, women. Men, learn to understand feelings and look at positive points in women over the negative ones, once you're in front of her during pre engagement meeting. Is she A. In same educational level B. Lives with family C. Gurudwara goer? NOTHING else should matter. Your confidence might wayne you from seeing only 3 positive points. Don't let it!

1 Hukamnama states to learn other Religious texts. Take full advantage!

I kno you heard of Mahakaljug and too many theories "Apocalypse, Kalki, no religion at all..." But according to theories ""People's goal will be to fill their bellies, people will fight over small pennies, famine, severe depression, fake Kings who will start their own religion every other day..." Look around you it is beginning. However, on a very very small scale. Siblings fighting n killing over land, depressed folks, obese problems, Jedism (can Jedism reach God with Sharda? Who's to say)??? Reason this is on a very, very small scale it is law of nature usually. Start slow then things evolve rapidly. So this Jug is actually best to reach God. We have principles of Religion, texts, saintly folks n you see them around every corner. But, about, say, over 400,000 years from now? Disaster, apocalypse etc.

Just burning alone will suffice. Another method's setting them in "clean" running stream but thas got complications, ranging from "litter" to where you are. Third method's burying them but who gonna dig a hole deep enough?

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Let's talk about good things now... Kids, educated or uneducated, must leave parent's home once 20-21 of age. Parents do not do "Hai mera baccha" "Shaadi kar! Neyta ghar shad!" We can learn so much from this! "Tu Amrit nhi shkna/ baal cutting? GHAR SHAD!" Whites, "Do whatever you're old now." BTW OP! You forgot! Whites and Political correctness! "Disabled" and "Retard" are regarded the same... "Special Needs."

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1-2 t chalda 8.4 million lamba chaura kam lagria ?

To this I'd like to add, it is rehat to study n learn from Quran, Bible n Gitas/ Puranas. And in SGGS "It's a great sin to slander other faiths," "Puran, Quran are not false but the preachers are." Harnaam Singh's vision is proof Jesus, Mohammed were saints. I doubt they would've been blessed with a spiritual form if they wont. I often wonder who started rumours "Mohammed pedo," or "Jesus not fully blessed" etc. Thousands of years passed since their time. It'll be interesting to see how our history of Guru Sahibs will b portrayed in next 1000 years! (Started by our "Sikhs" bro n sis, of course).

Sikhyoursoul seems good. My only advise, ignore haters not critics. Keep going n spread knowledge. Better than wha haters will do... Jealousy n do nothing. Be sure to promote your project. Gurudwara, posting leaflets of website etc.

I must agree! Also 3rd Guru Sahib stated "Learn to control where/ what your eyes are staring at..." Ehna simple hukam we kithna aukha aa ?