Guruguruji

Thank u so much for ur msg, I've learned a lot and your blessings have made me feel even more confident. I've been reading a book my bhai ranbir Singh ji bir called the power of ardas. It speaks about how draupati did many ardas' but it was only at the end (when she had no hope from anyone or confidence in herself at all) krishan ji saved her honor. I have faith in waheguru ji, he's joined us for a reason, it's kalyug which is encouraging things like divorce so we've just got to do more paath to fight it off. I heard a katha by sant waryam Singh ji and they explained how kalyug came to guru nanak dev ji and tried offering jewels and riches but guru sahib was committed to naam japna at the end kalyug promised guru sahib that whoever recites gurbani he won't be able to harm/touch them. Guru gobind Singh's jis bachan about its being a paap to even think about anyone but your wife keeps my mind grounded to my hubby because my parents try saying I'll end up with someone better etc but dhan dhan guru gobind Singh jis bachans don't let my mind drift. I hope guru sahib has pity on me and cuts my bad karam in my dreams ( as I have read in many saakhis) I am definitely going to try and do chaupai sahib daily with waheguru jis kirpa, I hope he'll keep my mind in his lotus feet as currently I'm doing paath but I'm mind isn't resting. I know we have a karma account and some things may not be good for us etc If we turn our worries into prayers then guru sahib can make anything happen. I mean if we spoke about the lockdown last year it would've seemed crazy/impossible but guru sahib made it happen. Similarly, although logically/looking at the facts it may seem that me n my hubby have no chance getting back together - if guru ji wants he can make it happen. I seem stupid sometimes, I say all of this but then I still cry.... May waheguru ji have pity on me, I try to keep faith but doubts still come into my mind, I try to focus on paath but my mind still wonders, I try to accept his will but my heart still tells me to hope.... I feel useless, waheguru ji is my only hope. I hope he blesses me with either a reunion with my hubby or death...

Almost coming to an end with 'the power of ardas' Do u know of any books on Baba deep Singh ji in English, I've been searching but can't find anything?

Pen ji thank u so much for ur words. Honestly at this time of dukh every word counts. My hubby has been mislead by his family who all have had love marriages. ? I just don't know what to say. We are both amritdahri. I just feel like our laavan must have some power otherwise guru sahib wouldve just suggested a court marriage. I have full faith in waheguru ji, I know our karam and kismat play a big role but listen to this; And guru sahib made reete mitte, he made sajjan thag into sant sajjan. What can guru sahib not do? We just need to have unbreakable faith. It's been 5 month since my hubby has contacted me and he's blocked all ways of contact so I can't contact him but look at the power waheguru ji has put in me - I still have faith (I couldn't have this on my own- it's guru sahib) I have read bhai guriqbal Singh jis book on power of sukhmani sahib and I'm trying to do 2-3 sukhmani sahibs daily but my target is to do 5. Waheguru ji can do anything....here's an example I just feel that Dhan guru ram das jis laavan can't be that weak. Our marriage is like a triangle with guru sahib at the top and me n my hubby at the bottom. He has more responsibility than us. Our souls have been joined with him, dhan guru ram das ji will keep my laaj. People laugh at me and say I'm not being realistic, I'm not thinking logically, it's 2020 ..... But I know that logic and and are two separate poles, if i use my brain and logic - guru sahib won't use his powers. What dasam bani do u suggest. I used to read brahm kavach but the sucham scared me a little. Please I heard in the katha that the only thing above the guru is the sangat. Please as the roop of the sangat give me blessing of a happy marriage and gursikhi jeevan with my hubby. Please I beg u

Found this http://sikhbookclub.com/Book/Power-of-Prayer3 Thank u sooo much - should keep my monkey mind settled

This is true. Bani from GGSJ makes us a saint and bani from dasam granth makes us a warrior. This is really important as we're in kaljug and all sorts of things will try attack us and to live as a ghristi/being part of the world you definitely need the sipahi aspect otherwise kalyug won't let u walk on the path of dharam

I've been praying for my broken marriage and as I've been listening to katha I've noticed the concept of praying for something and believing/having faith that God has the power to bless u/save u quite similar to the law of attraction. Apart from they pray to the universe and we pray to the master of the universe. It's all about believing in the higher energy and acknowledging the power we have as humans to connect to that higher energy. I see guru maharaj ji as my master because whenever I'm feeling low some katha or saakhi or comment will pop up which rebuilds my vishwas and lifts me up. I haven't heard of the reaction, what's that all about? ?

Ardas Karan Dian 13 Jugtian - Book By Bhai Guriqbal Singh Anyone know where I can find a PDF for this- possibly English but if not Punjabi will do. Thank u

U seem to read some really interesting stuff. I've read the sukhmani sahib book u recommended by bhai guriqbal Singh ji. Are there any other books u recommended. I'm looking for something that'll help me build faith in waheguru ji/that he listens to our ardas etc as I'm going through a struggling time myself

I'm really interested in the law of attraction and a lot of the videos I've seen link back to teachings that these people have had from their 'master's' Rishikesh. Did you experience or gain any teachings related to this?

Waow how lucky! Could you possibly share some key things that you've learnt. Something thats always stuck with you/helped you out in life. Thank you

You can realise how much kamayee they have when u listen to their waheguru simran, theres not musical instruments but it's so elevating ?

Thank u Yes, if you look closely u can see other Ill people sleeping in the background. Dhan guru Arjan Dev ji maharaj

Thank u for sharing it anyway. Reminds me of how benevolent guru sahib is- you sometimes forget that when we look at the typical paintings of just guru sahib sitting.

Wow such a beautiful photo. Do you know the saakhi behind this picture

Not every amritdhari girl has excessive facial hair. Sometimes it's a good idea to just get to know the person first because you might just click and you might not even notice the hair anymore. Looks fade away but if you really feel that you can't look past the hair, it's probably best to marry a non amritdhari or an amritdhari who has the same views as u

A massive thank you for recommending this book, really has helped build faith and dedication, I've almost complete this book and am looking to read 'Shradha Diya Gyarh Nishaniya'. I've found a punjabi pdf which i can read but i'm hoping to find an English version as it just speeds things up. Any idea where I may find it?

The vichole have been trying but they've blocked them off, changed their mobile numbers. We even tried contacting his aunties and uncles but they claim to be 'too modern' to get involved. I'm really hurt that not one person has stood up to say it's wrong that it's not only the boy who got married the girl did too therefore she should get an equal say/chance to speak up. This is the truth of our society ? I've been spending a long time this morning reflecting and I'm trying to explain to myself that no matter what we do or say or even pray waheguru will do what he wishes. The more I wish, hope for this marriage to work out or even listen to my family saying 'gods made someone better for you' the more I'll struggle because only God knows his plans. I've grown up in a gursikh family and I've loved reading saakhis from a young age and I know Guru gobind Singh ji taught us to be thankful in every situation but I've read hundreds of saakhis where guru sahib listens to ardas, the bad karam are boiled down into dreams so the gursikh doesn't have to live through them. These saakhis don't let me lose hope but Im scared incase I lose faith in the saakhis in the end.

You are right, I have been fighting for our relationship as I could've easily just signed off the divorce papers and claimed my gold etc but I truly believe that waheguru ji joins souls together when we have laavan hence it's been almost 6 months of no-contact from his side and I'm still standing for this relationship. I am praying to waheguru ji because I truly feel that we did not only marry each other but God too, so I'm praying to ask waheguru ji to play his part in our marriage, forgive our previous bad karam. Tbh if a prince was in trouble and didn't ask the king (his father) for help he'd be seen as silly as the king is so powerful he can solve the prince's problems within seconds.

Do we have descendants of Guru nanak dev ji alive? Or any other guru sahib

I'm trying really hard to reduce my thoughts about my husband because the more I think about him the more I die inside thinking about how we got to this situation. I'm really struggling on controlling my angry thoughts towards his family and this is becoming a problem during my meditation. I just feel like because I was always kind and respectful towards them I feel really hurt with the way they treated me. This anger isn't good as it's just angry thoughts which have no impact on them but are burning me inside. I plead to waheguru ji that he fixes our relationship. I know it seems unrealistic and silly but if we had thought about this lock down situation last year we would've thought it was unrealistic and silly too. I just remind myself that if waheguru ji has written him in my kismat no matter what he does we'll end up together similarly if he's not in my kismat no matter what I will do we won't be together. I admire you for staying firm with your beliefs, if I did end up divorced (I pray not) I would want to remarry because it's really hard for girls in our Indian society. The problem is finding amritdahri boys who want amritdahri girls is a mission for singles, I don't know how that journey will be for me.

Thank u for your reply, I think especially with the carona virus going on, it's allowed me to stay at home and just relax but at the same time I'm so used to staying in I don't really want to go out. I've been trying to do more paath and listen to katha. I know from experience that everyone wants to move forward and will expect you to 'get over it'. The only person who is there is waheguru, I know if my husband doesn't change his mind the upcoming time will be very emotional- I just pray that I never forget waheguru jis name because it is only his name that's kept me out of depression so far.

Why is Baba shri Chand ji blue in pictures?

Awesome this will keep my mind occupied. Thanks soo much

Thank u so much, I've been doing sukhmani sahib daily for a week or so now. Today I was feeling a bit demotivated but thank ur msg ni aya has inspired me again. Thanks once again. Have u had any experiences with sukhmani sahib?

Thank you so much for your reply veer ji, Ive been keeping faith for many months but keep finding myself with negative outcomes i.e. receiving divorce papers. My heart still keeps telling me to trust Guru ji and saakhis like your post encourage me but not seeing physical evidence of Guru ji helping me is causing my anxiety to go crazy. ? i just want to find a way to know guru ji is listening and is on my side. I have took hukamanmas but they all vary. I feel so lost with what to do