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  1. why only pointing out cow? just a word which is given as an example? guru ji have treated everyone and everything equally. Gurbani teaches us about humanity and REHAT maryada in many shabads, lets have a conversation about that instead of cow. mate!
  2. its just an artist's point of view or imaginations and he copied or imagined with his painting! many different paintings or picture are getting made by different artists nowadays too. I don't see anything wrong with it.
  3. this is only for useful for people in the uk, I guess
  4. its cold! get a heater mate! no need to be stressed.
  5. wjkk wjkf ji Try gurmat .com or new paper advertisement! I am not perfect! my experience: I came Across many families who are Amritdhari and daughter's aren't! they said exactly the same thing as you said "its hard to find an Amritdhari boy so she didn't take Amrit yet!" but when I spoke to few girls from Amritdhari families, they have a different opinion than whole family (not willing to marry an Amritdhari boy and still wanna go to the parlours and do hair cut and waxing etc) they don't talk back in their families. note:- one thing I don't understand! why people take Amrit ? for matrimonial purpose or for their own spiritual growth? if we really believe in Guru ji then why we need to wait for someone to take Amrit? or is it only to suit our purpose? bhul Chuk maaf
  6. Good work ji! we understand, it can be tricky to filter them. They might be coming back with Sikh names and email id after rejection!
  7. I personally never liked him. I believe he is well trained and highlighted for a bigger agenda. his job is to divide people and de-fame current protest. I understand many people might not agree to it but this is I observed. note:- I am only talking about Kissan morcha and please do not try and divert to any other topic. for any other issues we have we will have to do even bigger Morcha different time. bhul chuck maaf!
  8. wjkk wjkf bhenji I was just trying to motivate the original poster and yourself. I was just trying to say about the current situation that you guys are in it and obviously its not a pleasant situation but it is what it is. lets just accept it and try and find happiness for yourself and you have a total control on your mind and we can't change someone's mind. so please be strong and do your nitnem and ardaas. one more thing( its only my opinion):- please start or set up a short term goals month by month and deal with them (with Guru ji"s blessings), because due to current situation, you might be seeing your life is just stuck with it. so please don't go too far thinking about it just concentrate on current situation (daily basis and monthly) and try and achieve it with ardaas. I am sure Guru ji will do kirpa soon. and many brothers and sisters are here for you, you are blessed with Guru Ji's big family. bhul chuk maaf ji.
  9. wjkk wjkf bhenji I think marriage is a compromise where two people share life together in a best way possible. when they have a children then they start living their life for children. if you are chasing or seeking happiness from just being married or having kids, its a pure lie. happiness comes from within. or you create happiness for yourself not demand from other. my suggestion please stick to guru ji and Gurbani and try and live accordingly, everything will work out good eventually.
  10. wjkk wjkf bhenji I think marriage is a compromise where two people share life together in a best way possible. when they have a children then they start living their life for children. if you are chasing or seeking happiness from just being married or having kids, its a pure lie. happiness comes from within. or you create happiness for yourself not demand from other. my suggestion please stick to guru ji and Gurbani and try and live accordingly, everything will work out good eventually.
  11. wjkk wjkf ji people don't realise that the purpose of going to gurughar or Sikh camps for learning and to make our root strong with sikhi. they have plenty of time to find their partner (wife or husband) after their Uni degree. age 15 is way too young to get into it. I probably had no clue what boyfriend or girlfriend meant at the age of 15. so keep doing what you doing. stay with Guru ji and you will have a successful career as well as a family life.
  12. do you think guru ji believed in caste system or support caste system?
  13. my view, you have a problem with facial hair, and that's fine, its your choice but what if non-facial hair girl has a problem with your beard, then? it goes both way. so wait and continue your search until you both need to find each other attractive. note: parents tent to force in our culture. make them understand that there is no point marrying and getting separated if you don't like each other.
  14. canada aale bassi da munda lagda ehe. ( awful content)
  15. just an idea! making ladies suits or Punjab suits from home or shop would be a good job. I am sure there is a big market for Punjabi suits in Mumbai and ladies always prefer to get it stitched. she can sell raw marital as well as stitching.
  16. sorry to hear this bro! I understand, as a Sikh we shouldn't believe in a caste system. people still believe in a caste because they have been living in a society which believe in a caste system for a long period of time. I know its wrong but as a parents, they think that their society will not accept it and they will have to face a lot of embarrassments in a society on everyday basis. As a Sikh we try and do everything Guru's way but there are certain things we do our own way and we still consider ourself as a Sikh. similarly older generation maybe aware of this caste system issue but they still stuck with it and doing it their own way. note:- keep your focus clear and do not get distracted with these issues and I am sure you will find someone soon. chardi kala.
  17. spirituality is not about changing your religion or hate others. surely she got her facts wrong but if she finding a peace of mind changing it then let her free. I am sure many has done it in the past. our duty is to be a learner and try living with Guru sahib's teaching.
  18. we will get to see this more and more in a globalise world.
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