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wjkk wjkf bhenji I think marriage is a compromise where two people share life together in a best way possible. when they have a children then they start living their life for children. if you are chasing or seeking happiness from just being married or having kids, its a pure lie. happiness comes from within. or you create happiness for yourself not demand from other. my suggestion please stick to guru ji and Gurbani and try and live accordingly, everything will work out good eventually.

wjkk wjkf bhenji I think marriage is a compromise where two people share life together in a best way possible. when they have a children then they start living their life for children. if you are chasing or seeking happiness from just being married or having kids, its a pure lie. happiness comes from within. or you create happiness for yourself not demand from other. my suggestion please stick to guru ji and Gurbani and try and live accordingly, everything will work out good eventually.

wjkk wjkf ji people don't realise that the purpose of going to gurughar or Sikh camps for learning and to make our root strong with sikhi. they have plenty of time to find their partner (wife or husband) after their Uni degree. age 15 is way too young to get into it. I probably had no clue what boyfriend or girlfriend meant at the age of 15. so keep doing what you doing. stay with Guru ji and you will have a successful career as well as a family life.

true bro

I respect your thinking bro

do you think guru ji believed in caste system or support caste system?

my view, you have a problem with facial hair, and that's fine, its your choice but what if non-facial hair girl has a problem with your beard, then? it goes both way. so wait and continue your search until you both need to find each other attractive. note: parents tent to force in our culture. make them understand that there is no point marrying and getting separated if you don't like each other.

canada aale bassi da munda lagda ehe. ( awful content)

just an idea! making ladies suits or Punjab suits from home or shop would be a good job. I am sure there is a big market for Punjabi suits in Mumbai and ladies always prefer to get it stitched. she can sell raw marital as well as stitching.

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sorry to hear this bro! I understand, as a Sikh we shouldn't believe in a caste system. people still believe in a caste because they have been living in a society which believe in a caste system for a long period of time. I know its wrong but as a parents, they think that their society will not accept it and they will have to face a lot of embarrassments in a society on everyday basis. As a Sikh we try and do everything Guru's way but there are certain things we do our own way and we still consider ourself as a Sikh. similarly older generation maybe aware of this caste system issue but they still stuck with it and doing it their own way. note:- keep your focus clear and do not get distracted with these issues and I am sure you will find someone soon. chardi kala.

spirituality is not about changing your religion or hate others. surely she got her facts wrong but if she finding a peace of mind changing it then let her free. I am sure many has done it in the past. our duty is to be a learner and try living with Guru sahib's teaching.

we will get to see this more and more in a globalise world.

surely it can be an expensive lesson. my opinion: there are two ways of leaning thing. first learn from others experiences or mistakes, second you learn from your experiences or mistakes. most parents actually try to guide their children with their experience so they don't suffer in young age but its the "teen age" where we don't listen much and fall into the difficult situation.