I am sorry, but i dont really know how to paste in gurmukhi. So here is some guidance from Bhai(Sant?) Gurdas Jee in english with STTM2 translations.
gurasikh bhalakae outh kar anmrith vaelae sar naavandhaa|
The Gurmukh getting up in ambrosial hours of the early morning takes bath in the sacred tank.
gur kai bachan ouchaar kai dharamasaal dhee surath karandhaa|
Reciting the Holy hymns of the Guru, he moves towards Gurdwara, the central place for Sikh.
saadhasangath vich jaae kai gurabaanee dhae preeth sunandhaa|
There, joining the Holy Congregation, he lovingly listens to Gurbani, the Holy hymns of the Guru.
sankaa manahu mittaae kai gur sikhaa dhee saev karandhaa|
Effacing all doubt from his mind he serves the Sikhs of the Guru.
kirath virath kar dharam dhee lai parasaadh aan varathandhaa|
Then by righteous means he earns his livelihood and he distributes the hard-earned meal among the needy ones.
gurasikhaa no dhaee kar pisho bachiaa aap khavandhaa|
Offering first, to the Sikhs of Guru, the remainder he himself eats.
kalee kaal paragaas kar gur chaelaa chaelaa gur sandhaa|
In this dark age, illumined by such feelings, the disciple becomes Guru and Guru disciple.
guramukh gaaddee raahu chalandhaa |11|
The Gurmukhs tread on such a highway (of religious life).(11)
gur sikhee dhaa sikhanaa gur sikh sikhan bajar bhaaraa|
Learning of the Sikh way of life is as tough as the thunderbolt and only the Sikhs of the Guru learn it.
gur sikhee dhaa likhanaa laekh alaekh n likhanehaaraa|
Writing about the Sikh-life is also beyond all accounts, none can write.
gur sikhee dhaa tholanaa thul n thol thulai thuladhaaraa|
No scale can weigh the Sikh way of life.
gur sikhee dhaa dhaekhanaa guramukh saadhasangath guradhuaaraa|
The glimpse of the Sikh life can be had only in the Holy Congregation and the Gurdwara, the door of the Lord.
gur sikhee dhaa chakhanaa saadhasangath gur sabadh veechaaraa|
Pondering upon the word of Guru in the Holy Congregation is like tasting of the Sikh way of life.
gur sikhee dhaa samajhanaa jothee joth jagaavanehaaraa|
Understanding the Sikh life is like kindling the flame of the Lord.
guramukh sukh fal piram piaaraa |7|
The pleasure-fruit of the Gurmukhs is the Love of the dear Lord.(7)
It appears that a gurdwaras(dharamsalas) main aim is to provide sadhsangat that will encourage us to sing vaheguru's praises, do veechar, do seva etc... If a bunch of people sit and do gossip/nindea/chuglea thats not exactly going to inspire anyone to join with parmaatma.
Weekly catchup is not a bad thing, but there is always a time and a place. I doubt many Sikhs would have been having their own conversations whilst Guru jee were singing Gurbani and giving guidance.
I personally find it very disrespectful, distracting and insulting. People matha tekna and in doing that pledge their head to the Guru and accept the Guru as the master and as the ultimate giver of knowledge. They then turn into hypocrites and talk over the teachings from the Guru while they distract others as well.
Inside divan hall(within maharaj's hazuri) ==> simran, kirtan, veechar, etc
anywhere else ==> catch up with the weekly (daily for some people) gossip