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ik i got another one..........it aint that funny but more wierd (cos i was one scary child) when i was bout 8-9 yrs old all i used to eat was ketchup.........(i knw how wierd is that) and my parrents and to go take me to see a child psycologist cos i was realy hyperactive so we went and i got into the massive playroom appearntly the people observe how kids interacte with each other etc etc and there was this realy cool rocking horse i wanted to go on so i sat there patiently waiting for this fat kid to get off and i must have sat there for like half hour and i remember my mum saying "she never sits this still for anything" and as soon as the kid gt off i jumped onto it and started riding it sooooo fast that i broke it, i went flying off and fractered my elbow................lol..............the worse thing was wen i recovered my parents took me again and i wanted to go back on the horse but the wudnt let me so i cried and cried and cried and my mum was ready to beat me.............then i wet myself cos i was crying so much.............for some reason my folks never took my again......lol.....

thats such a good idea having a simeran buddy, but none of my mates are realy that religios so i got no-one to work with...........i used to realy good and get up every morning but now im lucky if i can manage 4 days in a row....................my day just dont feel right...................1 technique i use is by putting my alarm clock somewhere realy far away so i gotta get outa bed to switch it off....................see if that helps......

SO true definatly a great post............its amazing how with such clarity this woman decided hw her last rites should be conducted in adherence to sikhi...............how many people actually think about dying.............death is simply taking us to our next journey.............whether that jouney is good or bad, only our actions and karam decide that................ Beautiful Post JustME xx

laughing at your ownself ? :umm: i DONT cut my hair nor am i weak! hey hey hey just calm down everyone seems to be getting just a tad bit workd up and this is taking us away from the ORIGIONAL TOPIC!

well cos im not from that part, i wish i cud help but if some of you guys get together, (i mean ALOT of you guys) and go down to the gurdwara and force them to give you guys one of the halls and one evening a week and im sure a group of you guys can get together and put together a presentation and adverise in all the local colleges, unis youth centres etc so that sangat will attend? summat like that sound good? CUMON ALL YOU LONDON SANGAT GET TOGETHER AND HELP MAKE A DIFFERENCE!!!!! :umm:

totally agree..........................wots the sangat down south like? i mean do the gurdwareh have things set up of the youth generation? i would be interested to know how many gurdwareh actually at leastr attempt to education the youth of today.............i know it was virtually non existant wheni was younger (outside ur punjabi classes of course)

lol................feel sorry for the woman who ends up marrying him...........

a muslim is not born circumstised pahjee.........................i dont believe conversion is a bad thing.................it is the intent........if you got pyaar for god then it dont matter wot faith u are cos no faith promotes evil and discrace, its peoples interpretation of it...........remember we all worship the same god just in different ways

to be with him and not to follow the rehats and principles of Sikhism????...........lol................thats making a mockery of Faith itself

thats exactly the sikhi we talking about............with comments like G I Jatt thats makes a gal hesistant of her family, culture, and adding to B4nd4r jee's comments make women even in our society oppressed...........the REAL sikhi doesnt differentiate between men and women.............we shudnt compare to other religions so this problem is across all faiths and not just Sikhism...................this inequality and lack of moral responsibility of older generations..................my folks always sed to me, be honests with us and you'll never have anything to worry about cos my folks were open with me..........i never felt the need to rebel...........im not perfect i know that but knowing i had the choice allowed to choose the right path.........ive made my mistakes but its thru them ive become the person i am now...........whether that good or bad only God knows but now trying to find my Sikhi path.............

same goes to the men i'd say...works both ways pahji , the guys are goin the same way nowadays. but erm yeh thats what they say isnt it 'get em young' we need to teach kids more than just punjabi in gurdware - we need parchaar- perhaps from the youth? that way they got inspiration at least wjkk wjkf i totally agree wid you, like i sed earlier guys are treated differently to girls...........always have always will..................gals ahve no way of knowing whether a guy has been untouched but gals.............lol.........

it was the saint soldiers forums guys that did the Talk for our gurdwara and they highlighted this muslim conversion...........realy we need to target colloeges and univeristies, with regards to the money grabbing buddeh........lol....................if you can at least get one of the committee members on ur side then im sure they will give some consideration to the idea..............more and more youth services need to be opened up............this forum is the best way of hightlighting the issue...................and through this if events can be set up, advertising needs to be targeted at the vunerable so they know they got somewhere they can go

Some great feedback i agree that women need to step forward in gurdwaras so that young girls have someone they can look up 2 and go to for advice............... Im from wolves inWest Midlands and my local gurdwaras has "Youth Forums" every thursday, maybe also using such mechanisms like advice and counciling services or helplines where people can remain annonymous?

wow that was amazing.............thats realy made me think.............to think im wasting so much time caught up in this nonense when i need to by with my Guru thank you for sharing such inspiration..................i would class my self in the 2nd stage trying to come out of the vice of these 5 evils....................may Waheguru bless all those coutless individuals also to cross the terifying sea of suns and corruption and find a place at Satguru's charan wjkk wjkf

a very good comment.................our sikhi is slowing dying as the generations progress........only our generation, you right instead of finger pointing shud begin to take steps to undo the damage that has been done..............only we as a community can do it................if Guru Nanak, can give birth to sikhi then surly the few who still value their sikhi can help brings todays generation back to how it was.................. also just my humble opinion...........bhul chuk maaf JustME xx

i guess we sikh women who dont drink sleep around feel the same when we are attached to this label the same as you guys...........take me for example.............i dress very unconventionally..............people may say shes fashionable or she luks like a <admin-profanity filter activated> but unless the know me, speak to me, im being simply judged on my looks and appearance..........witch in my eyes is wrong.........maybe appraoching she types of women is wrong but by showing our society as being tolerant and supportive maybe these girls would realise that "yeah there is a place i can go to speak to someone about it" rather than thinking im gonna be judged and persectuted..............maybe some of these girls are too frightened to deal witht the consequences of their actions bcos of fear of how they will be treated afterwards so they continue on this path of destruction............if we show we are willing to understand we can bring our women back off this path and get them on the straight and narrow..... again this is just what i think but i know in reality this is much harder to achieve............. :umm:

Sorry paajee i wasnt directing my comment specifically at you i just became distressed at some of the comment made by afew of the board members, your comments are fair and just......me just expressing some of my views so plz forgive me if i have cause you any offence JustME xx

paajee i totally agree with you but witch sex get persecuted the most men or women.........if a guys sleeps around society somehow acepts it but when a woman does shes is labled as disgraced.................both sexes commit paap and no sex is given special treatment in the eyes of GOD......... A man is not labled a sluts or slapper but girls are................this i feel can be a contributing factor............if a gal or guy vmakes a mistakes we as God's made human being show so people the error of their ways and and help them overcome their problems and not make them feel worse than they do........................ again this is just me opinion, my sincerest apologies if i offend anyone it was unconsiouly done JustME xx

Hey i dont get this sikh <admin-profanity filter activated> thing....................as if men are perfect i think its very unfair that the main cause of the conversion is as simple as "OH ITS COS SHES SIKH <admin-profanity filter activated>" :umm: yeah i agree that there are loose women out there who allow themselves to be taken advantage of but the main way to find a solution is to discover the underlying cuase of why a gal feels she needs to be like this...............has something happend to her in the past? is she from a stable background? some of these gals are crying out for help, i admit this is not the best way but before any of us can judge............DONT GO CALLING SIKH GALS SLUTS................cos there are other reasons why gals act like this and only GOD judges our actions...............NOT US MANMUKHS peace out xx

infatuation is both blind and stupid soooooooooooo tru

ooooooooooooooh veerjee i think its a tad-bit harsh to say women never listen to men :umm: .............imho men are the cause of this issue cos these gals cant stop listening to these aminals that call themselves men...........i think the the RIGHT sort of man can also show these woman that what they are doing is degrading.............they will soon listen to a man cos women can sometimes see women as competition and rivals.............u knw what our generation of aunties are like but you are right in the sense that women should be more supportive of other women and help guide them along the right path instead of living in this imaginary bubble where everything in right in the world and that what isnt, they like to bury their heads in the sand........... bhul chuk maaf

lol.........for a woman her virginity is her vaunerability......she feels as soon as she has lost it out of wed-lock she must remian with the person she gave it to to secure "honour" but what they fail to realiase once the paap is committed there is no going back................that is why guys like this prey on young virgins................its horrific bhul chuck maaf (this is simply my opinion and in no way am i saying that ALL gals are like this so plz forgive if this has caused offence)

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw sitargirl that was realy sweet........... heres one......................lol.................my grandad was ill i hospital and i used to go visit him everyday at the hospital and he had a bandage on his leg...................(he was very particular about that way it was tied) so i got to the ward an i was horrified to see my nana shouting at the nurse waving this bandage around...............lol..............................i believe his exact words were (you can tek dis pocking badage up the ar*e, you no tied my pocking bandage teek taak) so i quickly ran up to the nurse who was on the verge of tears and kindly explained that it was cos he was in pain, that why he was snapping and i had to sit my grandad down and tell him off, i swaer it was like i was the gorwn up and he was the child...............i made him go an apologise to the nurse.......

i agree wid you to point veerji but at the same time you gotta put urselves in some of these gals shoes, many of them have low self-esteem or come from troubled home and backgrounds, have you noticed the pattern with these events that these are the kind of gals that become thier victims.......but i agree with you in the sense that at the same time these gals must take responsibilty for thier actions....... its so sad what is happening.......................imagine the torture and sufffering and these gals thinking this is as good as their lives are gonna get.....................i knw this mite sound bimbofied but why cant this world live in peace and tolerance................this is the outcome of giving to desires...........causes nothing but pain...................... :sady:

lol aaaaw sitargirl ive done that loads of times.........lol................ well this is a recent one, i went to one of my workmate wedding last week and they had a catering crew so refiled our drinks and food etc....................a few somosas and penner later i was very thirsty and our coke had finished........i serached the rntire joint for a waiter and finally found this samrt looking guy and asked him if he could get us some coke forour table.................the guy looked at me wierldy adn hesistatly sed ok.....................then he brought some ckoe for us and then it was time for the bride and groom to cut the cake and to my horror they guy i though was the waiter was actually the groom..............lol..............i hadnt seen him so i had no way of knowing.............but i went up to him afterwarfds and apologies