Yes, I think it's the new way forward, a lot of blokes would be relieved with the idea of not having to visit the grumpy mother in-law lol
But yeah it comes down to keeping face and visiting because "it's the right thing to do"
White people have it so much easier lol
I used to work with this older white bloke he was in his late 40s he was english and his wife was german. Most the people working in the store were asians so someone was off every week because of a wedding, funeral, party, asian stuff basically etc
And he used to get a little annoyed. One week a Pakistani ladies father in law died and she had to take a week of from work to go Pakistan for the funeral. And the white guy was so confused, he was like why does she have to go the funeral? I wouldn't go Germany for my father in-laws funeral"😄
Me and my punjabi mate were laughing our heads off, thinking of what he said in a punjabi context.
I was just thinking you white folks don't know how easy you have it.
Or maybe it's just that age, where your young and h0rny and just don't care.
Some females manage to restrain, while others spend the whole 3 years at university with their knickers around their ankles. Same with the guys some just can't keep it in their trousers while others can.
In these situations your upbringing is irrelevant, it's all comes down to and what feels right.