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Dear all,

i was hoping you could help, i am going through a hard time at the moment, many people who i thought was my friend are abonding me, i am being left alone, people are gaining a stronger dislike to me and it is so distressing i could cry. Why does it happen to me?!

Just thought it would be best to relieve my emotions - WJKK WJKF

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

Daas had the same problem as you

but Daas found out its just a way of telling you that Guru Ji is your only true friend

Just Jap Naam and recite as much bani as you can Ji

Naam Japu :umm:

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

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WJKK WJKF!

Dear all,

i was hoping you could help, i am going through a hard time at the moment, many people who i thought was my friend are abonding me, i am being left alone, people are gaining a stronger dislike to me and it is so distressing i could cry. Why does it happen to me?!

Just thought it would be best to relieve my emotions - WJKK WJKF

Gurfatehji,

Veerji / Phenji... please do not let the others attitude towards you bother u so much. I agree it is only human but then.. well.. just think that people who are abandoning you.. there has to be a reason and the biggest reason could be that the lord wants to draw you nearer to him and the best way is by being *udaas* or *disillusioned*.. these are HIS ways and HIS will..

Bhul chuk maaf karni ji!

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Just want to say you shouldnt be Wahegurus servant you should be Wahegurus slave!!!!!!!!

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

A slave is when you dont get anything in return

a servant is when you get something back in return

we are Vaheguru Ji's Servant becouse we get Mukti in return

By Japping Naam we can get whatever we want

Naam Japu :umm:

Japu Hari Japu Hari Japu Hari Japu Hari Japu Hari Japu Hari Japu Hari

Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari Hari

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

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we all come in this world alone, we go out alone. I understand that we all only human BUT the amount of time we spend on attachments (materialistic, relationships) takes us further from Akhal Purkh. You shouldnt feel alone knowing that Vaheguru is always with you.

also, forget friends - worst enemy is someone who takes you in as their own, you build you trust with them and they stab you in the back. Im not trying to give you the 'bring out the violins' joint here but we only on earth as guests we got to learn to step back and let things be.

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what if i were to say

we are slaves because we are in this world, and we have to escape the shackles of 8.4 joon

we are slaves as we are tied and stuck in this kalyug jeevan from which we have to escape?

You see this point is arguable.

So, you shouldn't pick on people on little things they say but say what you want to say without bringing someone else's view in as wrong or right. Worry aout what you have to say, say it, and let the other person take it in a good way or a bad way, thats up to them, as long as yuo say it clean it is ok.

Fateh.

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Just want to say you shouldnt be Wahegurus servant you should be Wahegurus slave!!!!!!!!

A slave is when you dont get anything in return

a servant is when you get something back in return

we are Vaheguru Ji's Servant becouse we get Mukti in return

By Japping Naam we can get whatever we want

exactly so be SLAVE not a servant, the whole point of serving guru sahib is not to want something from him. because he has given us so much without us ever asking for it. the ponit is to reach a stage where we dont want anything in retrun, we just want to be in love with guru sahib

rwju n cwhau mukiq n cwhau min pRIiq crn kmlwry ]

raaj n chaaho mukath n chaaho man preeth charan kamalaarae ||

I do not seek power, and I do not seek liberation. My mind is in love with Your Lotus Feet.

that is the sikhi way

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Just want to say you shouldnt be Wahegurus servant you should be Wahegurus slave!!!!!!!!

A slave is when you dont get anything in return

a servant is when you get something back in return

we are Vaheguru Ji's Servant becouse we get Mukti in return

By Japping Naam we can get whatever we want

exactly so be SLAVE not a servant, the whole point of serving guru sahib is not to want something from him. because he has given us so much without us ever asking for it. the ponit is to reach a stage where we dont want anything in retrun, we just want to be in love with guru sahib

rwju n cwhau mukiq n cwhau min pRIiq crn kmlwry ]

raaj n chaaho mukath n chaaho man preeth charan kamalaarae ||

I do not seek power, and I do not seek liberation. My mind is in love with Your Lotus Feet.

that is the sikhi way

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

we dont want anything in return

but we still get

becouse that is how kind our Guru Ji is

he gives us stuff even when we don't want it

so no matter how hard we try to be a slave we will allways be a servant

Naam Japu :umm:

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh!

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