Marriage... And What Follows

[Papi]

not everyones an "eager beaver" when it comes to this act..idk his reasons but thats a fact

Now the question is how do you know this?

OP: What do you think should be done?

PS I would give my personal opinion, but a certain someone will get mad at me for doing so. So this time I will keep it to myself...

[Guest singhing]

It's your responsibility to have kids and live the sikh way of life like our gurus did. It's the easy way out not to.

[Guest ?----?]

well me put it this way

if u dont get a kid within the first few years of your marriage - people will say your impotent !!!!!

just a thought

[Dev1975]

well me put it this way

if u dont get a kid within the first few years of your marriage - people will say your impotent !!!!!

just a thought

So what if people think that? What narks me off is when couples decide they're not going to have kids for x amount of years because they want to be in a better position financially for the child's benefit or whatever, yet it doesn't stop busy bodies talking absolute twaddle.

That aside, the purpose of marriage is procreation, so surely consummation of the marriage is a bit of a no brainer, unless you'd much prefer using a turkey baster, no??

[Jaspaul Singh]

well me put it this way

if u dont get a kid within the first few years of your marriage - people will say your impotent !!!!!

just a thought

What people say should be the LAST thing on ones mind!

[Guest _?----?_]

well me put it this way

if u dont get a kid within the first few years of your marriage - people will say your impotent !!!!!

just a thought

So what if people think that? What narks me off is when couples decide they're not going to have kids for x amount of years because they want to be in a better position financially for the child's benefit or whatever, yet it doesn't stop busy bodies talking absolute twaddle.

That aside, the purpose of marriage is procreation, so surely consummation of the marriage is a bit of a no brainer, unless you'd much prefer using a turkey baster, no??

IT WAZ MENT AZ A JOKE !!!!!!

I THINK PPL ON THIS SITE HAV NO SENCE OF HUMOUR ?

[TuhiNirankar]

Waheguru ji!

Have kids whenver u want who cares what ppl say

do what makes u closer to Guru Sahib

Dhan dhan Guru Tegh Bahadur Sahib ji waited 30 years be4 they had Guru Gobind Singh ji!!

WOW