Eager To Get Married Or To Get Someone Who Loves Me

[Guest --gupt--]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh!

Sadhsangat ji plz if u feel bad after reading these then i am sorry.But i need to share my feelings with someone who understands me.

Kalyug hai.Kitha sade guru ji karam karne vicha lage rehanda si aur kitha ahaja sade jaise youngsters nu lagda kasha koi hotha who loves us.

Some one special.

But career is also equally important.What i do?

I feel that if someone comes in my life then i will feel good i don't wAnt to marry now b'coz marriage is a big responsibility but i want to get engaged for 3 years so that until that period i can read gurbani,stand on my feet,do smth for my parents & make our relationship strong.

But i have done lots of mistakes or sins in my life.

There is one of my friend who is very nice but i am bad.I prayed that atleast i got my soulmate.But i didn't got i am smaller in my family & in start of 20's.But my friend who is elder in the family.She got engaged & after 2 years there marriage will take place.

I am very bad.If i will like these only then everyone will hate me.I won't be able to stand on my feet.My parents will also be tensed.

plz forgive me...................

help me....................

i need my friends(sadhsangat) support.................

Bul chuk mafa!

[Jag_Singh]

You talk about the countless sins you committed in this life......have you forgotten about the ones you committed in your previous life ??

Your still young. Don't put extra pressure (which you cannot handle) in your head/mind. It's great you have thought about your life quite thoroughly, but don't get caught up in a fantasy. What others have achieved and gained is purely on their own will. Pick a new hobby, don't give up, keep going. If your studying then, focus on it. If your working, then focus on it. Do not waste spare energy.

Have you even considered talking to your parents?

[sherlsurj]

how old are u???pm me ill tell my mum to look 4 ya. best way get sum auntiya involved.

[london001]

I know a few guys who are looking for wives; down to earth girls who know about sikhi - pm me.

[Guest --gupt--]

You talk about the countless sins you committed in this life......have you forgotten about the ones you committed in your previous life ??

Your still young. Don't put extra pressure (which you cannot handle) in your head/mind. It's great you have thought about your life quite thoroughly, but don't get caught up in a fantasy. What others have achieved and gained is purely on their own will. Pick a new hobby, don't give up, keep going. If your studying then, focus on it. If your working, then focus on it. Do not waste spare energy.

Have you even considered talking to your parents?

Guru fateh!

I can't talk to my parents directly.I am very shy kind of person.I have one elder sibling.I am younger one.

I get hearted when someone had said me that because my friend is clean from heart that's why my friend got engaged & got happiness.I am happy for my friend.But what does these mean that i am not clean from heart.I am bad rite.

When my friend get engaged.My parents understood my feelings from my expressions but what can they do until my elder sibling get married.My studies is also not completed.

Bul chuk mafa!

[Guest --gupt--]

guru fateh!

jag_singh ji i am waiting for u'r opinion.

I don't know but i am not getting inner capacity to do studies nicely my memory had became weak.

I love to do patha.But studies?????????????????

Waheguru manu bacha lo maha ki kara..............

I have to complete my studies.

Renouncing parents is a big sin.