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I have been noticing a recent trend among sikh girls to marry outside religion. This is making me very sad as I do not understand what are sikh men missing that girls are not even looking at them. This is really disheartening as even my cousin sisters decided to marry hindus. I don't mean hindus are bad, but if you were born into a religion gifted to you by your parents and god why not follow it and have a life partner from the same religion. Whenever I see a sikh girl marrying outside I feel like slapping myself and sometime cry as why has our religion become so weak. What could be done to solve this? This will definitely become a bigger issue in the community going for…
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India Flight Tickets 1 2
by Guest ukwale- 16 replies
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WJKK WJKF! Hi does anyone know any agents which sell good value flight tickets to Amritsar/Delhi ??? Contacts/Numbers will be greatful for the information. also need the max baggage 40kg + Thankyou!
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who is your best friend ? 1 2
by Guest sikh- 10 replies
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I need a friend ,with whom ,share my mind secrets ,my feelings ,I have many friends and fiance ,family ,relatives and some loves me and some normal hi hello ,but still I feel alone when I m hurt ,insulted and I see no one with me ,I just wanted someone who would tell me they love me no matter what ,never feel embarrassed ,with me ,understand me and that they will not laugh at it ,I'm 21 male P.s. with whom u share ur secrets and feelings .
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Urgent: Questions to Ask Sarbjit Dhunda
by Guest Love-Dasam+Sarbloh-G- 7 replies
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I don't want to create an account to just ask these questions. I have major doubts on the answers that he will give already before he even is asked the question. Because Dhunda and his group is very tricky and clever. Anyways, here they are: - What are his views on the Shabad: Deh Shiva Bar Mohi Ihaa Shub Kar-Man Tey Kabhoo(n) Na Taro? Does he think that Shiva actually means Shiva? Or Shiva means God? - If Raam can mean God in Guru Granth Sahib, why can't Shiva mean God in Dasam Granth. Why the double standard? - If Muraree (which is attributed Krishna) can be God in Guru Granth Sahib, why can't Kaal, Mahakaal, Bhagauti, Durga, Devi, mean God in Dasam Granth? Why th…
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gutka sahib beadbi
by Guest beadbi- 7 replies
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Im going to get straight to the point, I used to be a mona, not interested in sikhi at all then three years ago I got good sangat and kept my hair and dhari and have also take amrit during this time with maharajs kirpa, one day while cleaning out my cellar room which is always ridicously messy, I found a a gutka sahib in there which was in very bad condition, the cover was not there anymore and there were loads of angs ripped in half, I also cleaned out my ktichen and in one of the top drawer there was another half of the gutka sahib, The gutka sahib is in bad condition with lots of angs ripped and I don't think all of the angs are there I will look properly tomorrow as I…
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how wud yu pesh infront of 5 pyare can yu give them a note telling about which of the 5 evils that got you or you have to talk ur self ADMIN note: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/69036-beg-everyone-for-help-please/
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crazyyouth 1 2
by Guest whattodo?- 17 replies
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Fateh| i know people are going to say that this has been discussed alot but im afraid people STILL take Sikhi and Amrit as a joke. Ill be short and to the point. A close friend of mine is bad. Shes amritdhari and does very bad stuff. She has been with boys but this isnt the problem. Im not really fussed about what she does because its her life and i have spent ages trying to sort her out, in the nicest way i can. Recently she started talking me into this kala. Im obviously not stupid to listen to her but shes acting like a vichole when ive told her i do not want to be associated with boys. This kala has been asking me out for quite some time and i try to but canot avoid …
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Eating At All Veg. Resaurant..Brar Buffet in Canada
by Guest 2he2- 9 replies
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I was In Canada over the Weekend, Coming from usa to Canada is like going to Punjab.. All you want do is eat all the punjabi meals you can.. I See Lots of Amritdhari eating at Brars Buffets.. they don't serve meat or alcohol .. I eat there and when i was coming out I see this guy smoking outside.. and I was thinking to myself now he is going to eat at this place touch the serving spoons..
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Toilet
by Guest Toilet zz- 8 replies
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Hi I was just wondering b4 u take Amrit and do chaur sahib etc you can't go number 2 unless u have a shower after, so what about when doing path at home, for example if after a number 2 you want to do path shud u have a quick shower or jus do the path anyway , I normally wait about 20 mins and then start path, what are the sangats views on this
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Sartaaj
by Guest Shakespeare Sartaaj- 0 replies
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I got into a debate today about satinder sartaajs dastaar i personaly like it but my freind doesnt like the fact hes got hair flowing through the back what are your thoughts thank u
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R u concerned
by Guest Samsher- 3 replies
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Sat sri akal,sangat for the past couple of months i hav really engaged in sikhi im so proud of our heritage and im proud of our rich history and current present but it really gets to me about our future i have relatives in the punjab adopting to the bollywood ways n the hindi lingo n then bak here in the uk the majority of the girls just want to go clubbin n act like they are kim kardashian i see some apnia who cudnt give a toss if their with a mohhamed steven or a toby im not being sexist or anthing like that but im jus being honest i see the sikh men doing more for our community y is this n y are the women just not bovered sorry if i am offending anyone ps im talking ab…
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by Guest abc- 2 replies
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There was once a little girl. She had no name, she wasn’t important enough for that. She was alright to look at, not startlingly anything really. Plain. But inside she wasn’t alright. She lived a deep, dark secret that no-one else knew about. Until now. Sometimes she felt like other people. She played and laughed and sang and the deep, darkness in her was contained. But then at other times she sang and laughed and played but it was an act. A cruel act. For when she went away, went home, went on her own the demons came and ate her up. Outwardly there was no sign other than two bright lines on her arm. She looked like a normal person, she spoke like a normal person, she e…
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i hav made the biggest mistakes in my life i masturbated at the church wearing a shri sahib when i did it i wasnt thinking about what i was doing and many times i did this at my house as i was a small thaga shri sahib the little one yu wear outside will satuguru ji ever forgive me i was 19 and 13 or something when i took amrit i kaam has made my biggeest mistakes i feel so sorry please i beg you good people billions times better than me to ansswer i beg you
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i hav made the biggest mistakes in my life i masturbated at the church wearing a shri sahib when i did it i wasnt thinking about what i was doing and many times i did this at my house as i was a small thaga shri sahib the little one yu wear outside will satuguru ji ever forgive me i was 19 and 13 or something when i took amrit i kaam has made my biggeest mistakes i feel so sorry please i beg you good people billions times better than me to ansswer i beg you
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I recently have been to a wedding at a Gudwara and was amazed to see so many Sikh women wearing the wrong type of clothing inside the Gudwara. I saw many women wearing low cut tops, sleeveless suits, sarees suits, low cut suits on the back, tight trouser suits and also when sitting in front of the Gurugranth Sahib their heads were not covered or half covered. I very much thought this to be extremely derogatory and a huge lack of respect to our Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. Its not a fashion show to go to the gurdwara!! I wanted to know what are the sangats views on this and what can be better done to put sense into these people who do these things. Is this the modern Sikh…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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