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   Kashera Question

   April 2, 2009 by Guest Guest

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   Dear sangat ji, i hope this is not embarassing to ask. What to do when we have sex? should we remove kashera? please advise

   

   Last reply by Guest, April 24, 2011

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   Seva

   May 14, 2011 by Guest guptbenji

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   WJKK WJKF I asked a mahapursh about my health, they advised to do seva at gurdwara as my health is not well. But I am physically unable to do it, and for the amount of time they said, neither am i able to go to gurdwara by myslf. I tried one day but there wasnt any seva that i could do because of my weakness. If a mahapursh advises somthing and one is unable to do as they said what should one do? I know everything is in the hands of god, then thought if waheguruji wanted me to do the seva then would have made it possible. But now i think about it, why is it so hard to do somthing a mahapursh suggests, and I worry about it sometimes, if i cant do what they say the…

   

   Last reply by Guest, May 16, 2011

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   How Do I Become More Religious Sikh?

   May 14, 2011 by Guest Harvi

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   I'm a British punjabi sehajdhari mona Sikh guy but want to become more religious and find a suitable religous Sikh female i want to settle down and get married but the calibre of desi women I come across who are so far westernised its off putting and scares me so I want a religious Sikh lady who has kept clean and chaste for her husband to be, but i find approaching religius Sikh girls a problem I feel shy and think of them as a virtual sister....I want a religious Sikh female (doesnt have to wear a turban) but just someone who can bring me closer to my faith basically with a view to marriage and raise a family in a good environment. How do I find one? and how do I begi…

   

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   Dream

   July 9, 2011 by Guest guptbhenji

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   WJKK WJKF Had a dream last nite and worried now. As not been well for long time now, a mahapursh in dream said let her die if shes going to die. This has got me thinking, is it some sort of baduba?

   

   Last reply by Guest, July 11, 2011

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   Amritwela

   August 20, 2011 by Guest gupt

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   Amritwela means the time between 12-6 in the morning? I am a amritdhari person getting problem in making amritwela. When i wake up early, i can't do paath nicely because i feel sleepy. Whereas while when i wake up according to my health permit to me then i can do paath very nicely and concentration and I feel this is amritwela for me. But amritwela is between 12-6 in the morning rite. So what should i do? make a habit of waking up early, then slowly i will adopt it and will able to do paath nicely????????????? Do advice according to GURMAT.............

   

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   Bhagat Surdas Jee

   February 19, 2011 by Guest gupt

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   i was just wondering if anybody can post a SGPC version of the sakhi of Bhagat Surdas Jee? I just want their version because i want to compare this sakhi to the one of other sampardas. thanks in advance..

   

   Last reply by Guest, September 10, 2011

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   Meeting Someone

   September 13, 2011 by Guest guest

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   i had this one question......i worked with someone a year ago and i swear, working with that person for a month and it feels like i've known them my whole life. i can't explain this feeling but it just feels like wow, i am more close with this person than i am with my friends since childhood....is this something to do with past lives? i really have a lot of things in common with this person too, its weird!! this person is from the opposite gender but this isn't one of those "i think i'm falling inlove" posts but i'm generally curious, how could have this feeling of it feeling like i've known someone my entire life and beyond be explained?? from deep down it really feels …

   

   Last reply by Guest, October 10, 2011

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   Visually Impaired

   October 20, 2011 by Guest Singh

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   Some of you may know me from my previous topics about my sight problem. basicaly I am completley blind in one of my eyes. Ive always struggled in social situations due to this. But have only recentley started to realise just how big my sight problem has affected me in every day to day social situations or work. We as humans communicate 80% through body language. this is mainly in the form of body language . which is mostly related to eye movements. infact we potray our whole chracter through eye movements nods ect. especially making eye contact. ect. when you have only one eye. you come across as a bad person. this is due to not having the ability to express you…

   

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   Sangat, I Need Your Help! Wearing Dastar To School

   December 24, 2011 by Guest YoungSingh

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   i am 16 years old in 11th grade. I want to become more involved in sikhi as my new years resolution, I want to start of with wearing a pagh to school. I wear patka and every other sikh wears a patka. I want to change that and start wearing pagh, But i am slightly afraid how people will take this change. I know some people are going to laugh behind my back and it will be hard. How can i make up my mind of wearing a pagh to school? I have seen sikhs cut there hair and go to school with it. My school has around 10% indians and rest are whites and blacks. So how can i get the confidence and courage to start wearing it to school? because honestly i think patkas look silly, but…

   

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    How Can I Help?

    January 2, 2012 by Guest hkaurs1

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    Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh Hello everyone, I'm a high school student in Canada and I really want to do something about the issues in Punjab. Whether it's the farmer suicides, female feticides, drug problems... ANYTHING. What can I do? Is there a way to sponsor a family in Punjab? Or any reliable liaisons where I can donate money? I want to start an organization with other youth in my area because I know they would be interested in doing something like this as well. Do you know of any way that I can make A DIFFERENCE? Thanks for your time, I look forward to hearing some replies soon! - H. Kaur Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh

    

    Last reply by hardeeps1ngh, January 10, 2012

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    Can We Or Carnt We

    January 6, 2007 by Guest curious singh

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    plze dont close this topic, becuz it has been on my mind for a number of weeks, are.. [edited] Note- Veerje we do not approve such topics because of the presence of Chootay singhs/kaurs on our forums.

    

    Last reply by scooter, February 5, 2012

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    Confused About Hukamnama

    March 18, 2012 by Guest Singh23

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    I've been feeling low about my sikhi b/c i havent been doing my nitnem properly and stuff....im trying to get it together and i asked guru sahib for some guidance via sikhnets cyber hukamnama. This is the shabad i got...Im a little confused as to how to intrpret this... Im thinking it has to do with the fact that, through family, i've just started talking to the girl im going to most likely marry... Some fresh eyes on this would be most welcome: Maaroo, Solahas, Fifth Mehla: One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru: The body-bride is attached to the Yogi, the husband-soul. She is involved with him, enjoying pleasure and delights. As a consequence of…

    

    Last reply by Guest, March 19, 2012

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    What Do To After A Girl Gets Married And Lives With In Laws?

    February 21, 2012 by Guest Gupt

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    Hello, im at the point where i will get married and live with the in laws, and maybe other family members. I was wondering i dont come from a big family so im nervous on how to behave in such a big setting. Im a shy person anyway but doesn't mean im less confident just means i dont like talking too much. also if you had to live with extended family such as brother in law n his wife how to cope with that? how do people cope? what do i have to do? is it normal to feel so nervous about being married? I dont like this step in life, i wish i could stay where i am

    

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    Help Needed

    January 30, 2012 by Guest gupt10

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    WJKK WJKF sadh sanagt ji I need your help, I took amrit about four months ago and I just realised that for the past two days I have been using my brothers toothbrush, he drinks,smokes and eats meat and I used his brush by accident, now do I have to re-take amrit as this is jhoot or do I have to go for pesh as it wasn't intentional, please advise BHUL CHUK MARF

    

    Last reply by Guest, March 21, 2012

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    Is It Bad To Be Good?

    April 26, 2012 by Guest simran singh

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    i am a 18 year old guy living in amritsar, i am not amritdhari but i wake up at amritvela and do paath. I was fully contented with my life and my life was going good,also i dnt drink or eat(alcohal and non veg). But right now i am feeling sad and rebellious and thinking of doing bad thing.now i am feel corrupted and ruined. Today,just a couple of hours before, two people came at our home,at that time only me and mom was present at our home.one of the person said that they are from some gurudawara and want sewa.i gave them some money then other one came and then he says look at my eyes,and he said that i am a very lucky person and guru di kirpa va mere te,then he told m…

    

    Last reply by KARKOOSINGH23, April 30, 2012

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