GUPT FORUM
Need Privacy? You got it ! Discuss and share your views without revealing your identity.
7,429 topics in this forum
-
Social Agrophobia,shyness
by Guest _Gupt_- 8 replies
- 4.6k views
SSA I really think I need help. I am not sure where to begin because so much has happened due to my problem. Basically I have a social Phobia Shyness problem. Whatever you want to call it, I have it. Its taken me a long time to admit that I have this problem. But I know now its time to seek help. Let me start. Ever since i can remember from the age of 7 I have been a extremely Shy person. at school I was probably able to mask it. Because most youngsters are kind of shy. But mine has always been on the extreme side. i have always been very withdrawn. Not speaking to other people or laughing and joking like most people. But have been the opposite. I.e. keeping to m…
Last reply by harsimran kaur, -
Social Anxiety
by Guest SINGH- 2 followers
- 6 replies
- 699 views
Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 17 year Amritdhari boy. I have Social Anxiety Disorder and i also have shyness since as long as i coukd remember . This disorder disables in almost every walk of my life. 😭 I am just anxious all the time whether while speaking, socializing or even just standing in people. It is so hard for me to practice Sikhi like this. I cant even attend Gurudwara Sahib as i feel so much anxiety meeting people there. I prefer to remain quiet, and alone . But i dont want to spoil my life like this. Any Gursikh , please suggest me or advice me what should i do to start bringing a change in my life . I want to become a Sikh . Ple…
-
Social anxiety and shyness
by Guest Sahib- 1 follower
- 6 replies
- 808 views
Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh I am a 17 yr old amritdhari sikh boy . I have been struggling with extreme shyness, social anxiety and introversion as long as i could remember . I was always insulted by school seniors , students and other people. I never said anything wrong to anyone but still had to suffer from all this stuff. Nowadays, i am even so scared to leave my house . I always remain tense and anxious whenever am in my house or outside . Everyone of my neighbours , relatives seems like hating me or thinking weird about me . I dont know what to do . I recently have completed my 12th class . Now i would have to go abroad for higher education . …
-
Social Workers?
by Guest gupt- 1 reply
- 624 views
Gurfathe jio is anyone here a social worker? I'm considering it as a career. Right now I'm studying an undergraduate degree in a different subject which according to my research is accepted as being related enough to get onto the postgraduate social work course... If you work as one could you please share which field you work in and generally how you find the job, especially as a Gursikh, and is there anything that an amritdhari Gursikh may need to know about the job role, eg. do any aspects of the career conflict with Gursikhi at all? Also, where did you study? Finally, whats the starting salary and progression in pay like where you are?
-
Society A Burden
by Guest --gupt--- 1 reply
- 610 views
Guru fateh! I believe in guru ji very much.I love to do patha but my behaviour towards society is very different.Sometimes i feel that these behaviour towards society as a religious person is not correct.I don't like society where everybody wants to see a nice dress,rich person & if they are not see like these then say that the person is gavar(godhi). Also i don't like society where people talk so much,there are so much formalities,like these they waste time. Jooth jooth duniya guman............ I love sadhasangat.But sadhasangat nahi mildi. Bin bhaga sadhsang na mila........... I have nice friends they all believe in god,chant god name but fashion sa koi nahi b…
-
Socks In Darbar Sahib
by Guest ??- 4 replies
- 1.5k views
I know we are nt supoose to wear socks in darbar sahib,bt how can u xplain dis to sumone who ses it dusnt mata ??
Last reply by japmans, -
Soho Road
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
- 1.6k views
I don't know how many of you have been to Soho Road Gurudwara recently (GNNSJ) but they have an exhibition in the new nishkam centre. In there, I saw something which shocked me yesterday. There was Baba Deep Singh Ji's Khanda and me and my friend were debating whether it was the real deal. Anyone got any info? It looks too light to be the real khanda but it does have the leather sheath which loooks old maybe indicating it was his. Please shed some light sangat ji..
Last reply by Akritghan, -
Soho Road Amrit Sanchaar
by Guest jajik- 3 replies
- 825 views
fateh, n e 1 knw wen nex soho road amrit sanchaar is? And time? Thanks
-
Soho road gurdwara simran
by Guest GuptSingh- 1 reply
- 626 views
Does anyone know when and where they do simran at soho road gurudwara? Is it mornings or evenings? Once a week? please i would like to start as i have longing for simran
Last reply by simran345, -
- 3 replies
- 1.2k views
After reading through a number of masturbation and lust problems, I was reading through a website when I came across a message which could be highly helpful. http://satnaam.info/2005/12/02/2-overcoming-the-effect-of-past-lives/ Practicing what this page says should help to put you back on the right path. May Waheguru help you.
Last reply by sikhni777, -
- 2 replies
- 2.5k views
I found this but dont know which sants bachan is this 125.000 Sri Jap Ji Sahib Jivan Mukt → and Brahm Gian Avsta 3.600.000 Mool Manter (Ek Onkar – Nanak hosi bi sach) → Jivan Mukt 25.000 Sri Sukhmani Sahib → Jivan Mukt 125.000 Sri Shashter Naam Mala → Dib Shashter of Vaheguru, all Sins get erased 125.000 Sri Brahm Kavich with Sampat → Vicotry on Mind and in all other battle, beant Shaktia 125.000 Mool Manter with Sloak (Kam Krod ar lob moh bins jai Ah'mev..) → Kam Kord Lob moh Ankar come under controll 125.000 Mool Manter with Sloak (dharam arath ar kaam mokh mukath padhaarath naath | sagal manorath pooriaa naanak likhiaa maath |1| (Ang 927) → all 4 cardinal will be rece…
-
Somali Immigration 1 2
by Guest Concerned- 13 replies
- 2.1k views
So why do african muslims have tons of kids when they move to a new country and get free government money? Today I had a 40yo somali man ask me for "any medicine to help him in the bedroom". He had what looked like a 3 year old in a baby carrier and his wife with him. These people have no job and they want to shoot out kids because they get free American money? I don't understand why they pollute every nation they enter. Italy, France, US, Estonia, etc. I am completely full of rage!
Last reply by Torontobboi, -
- 8 replies
- 1.1k views
Vaheguru je ka Khalsa vaheguru je ke fateh jeo I'll try keep this short. Basically recently iv been asked to stay overnight with family. But I don't know if I should due to this following. 1) before I was became Amrithari I used to stay away from home all the time but since taking Amrith iv got myself into a routine so I'm scared it'll mess up my routine 2) I don't want to sound rude or "militant" by waking up before everyone else or goin into a different room to do my paat at certain times (eg for rehras sahib).. Sorry if this topic seems daft. lol Feedback and ideas on what to do pls Guru kirpa Vaheguru je ka Khalsa Vaheguru je ke fateh jeo
Last reply by PAL 07, -
Some Advice...please
by Guest _GUPT_- 4 replies
- 1k views
Dear all, Recently, i was offered a lift by a collegue from work.... normally i catch the train but as we live near by...i accepted, no problem....until I spoke to my fiancee and mentioned it ...there was nothing init but he has got quite upset over it...and has said to me that it is not acceptable...because my collegue is not an amritare....gursikh......and so i should n't trust him... I was too shocked to reply...it's not as if i accept lifts regulary from anyone...man/woman/other....i told him i would never sit in the car with him if i thought he was an untrustworthy person and secondly (maybe not so valid these days) he has a partner... Sangat jee i want to does my…
-
Some Concepts Hard To Comprehend
by Guest gwacha- 4 replies
- 1k views
Sat Sri Akaal Dear Sangat, I have always had some thoughts in the back of my mind that I have never been able to comprehend or attempt to even successfully comprehend and I was wondering whether anybody was able to share their wise wisdom with me of this spiritual journey of enlightenment we are all on. I hope my questions do not cause offence and I apologise for any ignorance on my part for any of the questions posed. 1) Still confused over the concept of guru's and waheguru, we worship towards one god. Yet the gurus themselves are contemplated upon through prayer. Does this mean we accept that as we all are extension of god and his energy/creation that the gurus are t…
-
Posts
-
back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
-