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My Lying Dad! :(:@ 1 2 3
by Guest krodh- 27 replies
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sangat jio i think..well actually im kinda positive my dads having a affair :lol: and its making me maaadddddd!!!! mad like you dont believe! ok the hole situation at home has been goin on for a couple months since about september, he started coming home realy late at night and stuff whereas before he used 2 come at about 7 in th evening and sit watchin bollywood films :lol: @ and his excuse then was ohhh im rly busy at wrk... yeh yeh thennnnn he started cumin bak and goin bak out late and night and used 2 tell my mom that he was helping sum illegal immigrant guy who needed help cuz sum flippin goondas were after him..like wthhhh how is that his problem? and we never …
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Good Or Bad, Who's To Blame?
by Guest Confused Singh- 5 replies
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Why are all the good deeds human seem to do credited to God and all the bad things not? Meaning that if i save someones life it was God that made me do it, and all credit goes to him, but if i take someones life it would be blamed on me and not God. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh
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Kirtan Sohila 1 2
by Guest _Gupt_- 13 replies
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WJKK WJKF Sangat ji i just wanted to know whether you have do kirtan sohila paath everytime you go to sleep (even in the daytime sleep) or only once when you are about to go to sleep at night ? WJKK WJKF
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WJKK WJKF!!! Does anyone have audio of loud gunshots or anything else interesting?
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How To Tie Dastar 1 2 3
by Guest TAKING AMRIT SOON- 21 replies
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wahiguru ji ka khalsa, wahiguru ji ki fateh EVERYONE, i need your help more than anything right now. Amrit sanchar is taking place at the end of this month and I want my dastar to look neat! I have been wearing it at home for the past 2 months but i dont understand why it is not getting neat? Mum can't really help because doesnt wear one herself but bless her for trying to help me! I watch the womens turban #1 on sikhnet everytime i tie it and admitedly is different every day but no where near as neat. It MUST be neat I know some people going to say its not about looks, etc BUT in terms of my family acceptance - IT IS! I want to make them proud and also, nice dasta…
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Funeral Colours
by Guest HELP KARO- 2 replies
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What colours should a Singh wear at a funeral..? black? white?
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Help
by Guest wsikh- 3 replies
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wjwf hi, i'm a teen sikh in cali (female) and follow sikhi. my friends know about my relegion and all but when some young teachers ask me about my relegion i kind of freeze up. they ask me what it is, what do we follow, why don't i cut my hair and about the gurus . can someone maybe pleaze post some easy facts that i could explain to them.. thankx :
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Egg Products In Sikh School?
by Guest dedicated kaur- 5 replies
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im so shockd i dont go to guru nanak school in the uk but i have discovered that they serve egg products there when they have sri guru granth sahib ji there we must put a stop to this it is beadbi
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Members Moving, Disapearing 1 2
by Guest -?????-- 12 replies
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why are there alot of high profile members like PSK disapearing from SS.com? I have noticed that other users are not posting here, what's going on?
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Fateh jee to all. Please i need help with a friendship. I have a friend who seems to have changed so much, like doesn't want to be my friend anyomore. I don't understand as i beleive i have done nothing wrong? The person may not want to be my friend for whatever reason, if they don't i wish they'd tell me.
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What Does It Mean?
by Guest _gupt_- 8 replies
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fatheji, what does pesh mean....like sometimes people go to take amrit and say they got choola/choolae ....is it another word for amrit, or is it something different?...and whats pesh, i think thats what its called? fatheji,
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Cali Singhs At Khalsa Camp 1 2
by Guest Uk- 16 replies
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when i heard the cali singhs were coming to khalsa camp i was soo happy as i really admire there seva on various websites. i thought they would be great singhs who would wake up the uk sangat. boy was i wrong. i don't understand why the cali singhs came to khalsa camp, they seemed like they didn't even want to be there They seemed ego filled not talking to anyone a number of singhs have told me how they tried talking to the singhs and they just ignored them. it was a waste of money paying for them to come to the uk organisers should have spent the money on more food or something. on the other hand tapoban singhs !! i could not singh enough praises about these down to…
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Death Speech
by Guest speaker- 4 replies
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okies so i have been asked to speak about my cousin sister (who passed away last week) at her funeral (which has not been arranged yet due to post mortem etc) anyhow i am fine with talking about her as in the person she was etc buttttt in my family there are like many atheists (however you spell it) and like people who have come away from Sikhi and follow other stuff like some sort of cult thing maybe i don't know to many details anyhow they keep questioning as to why this happened. why did she have to die? why did she die so young? (22) what did auntie and uncle do to deserve this because they are good people i.e. religious etc etc etc sooooo like im trying to explain i…
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Since the day i joined SS i have seen more guests browsing the forum compared to the registered members. I have a few questions regarding that. 1. why don't these guests signup ? more sangat means more things to learn...k nahi ? or 2. they are registered members too lazy to sign in?
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Is My Sikhi Going Down?
by Guest _Gupt_- 4 replies
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well basicly my problem is i feel my sikhi is falling. lately i have been having my mun (mind) saying to me why do u want to be a sikh they all just argue over jathebandis and minor stuff, they make lil problems into huge , they fight each other. also my mind has been as been urging me to cut my kesh and go bck to being mona its really frustrating i do abhyiyaas wake up amritvela and read bani but still this voice keeps pestering me to go off the path of sikhi
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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