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^ you know the meaning of the word SANJOG ?? oh and also, u can chat with the person on phone/msn etc... no need to see them.

even better then :lol: will watch at home

^ if someone can ignore the physical aspect, they have a very high avastha. other people like myself, can't do that. knowingly or unknowingly, it'll effect my decision. so ideally, i would like to not see the bibi until after viah. but ofcourse thats probly gonna be impossible because of all the westernized crap people tend to follow these days.

gurmuK jnm svwr drgh cilAw] guramukh janam savaar dharageh chaliaa|| Spending this life fruitfully gurmukh goes to the other world. scI drgh jwie scw ipV milAw] sachee dharageh jaae sachaa pirr maliaa|| There in the true court (of lord) he gets his true place. gurmuK Bojn Bwau cwau AlilAw] guramukh bhojan bhaao chaao alaliaa|| Repast of gurmukh is love and his delight is devoid of flirtatiousness. gurmuK inhcl icq n hlY hilAw] guramukh nihachal chith n halai haliaa|| Gurmukh has a tranquil heart and remains steadfast even in ups and downs. gurmuK sc Alwau BlI hUM BilAw] guramukh sach alaao bhalee hoo bhaliaa|| He speaks truth and good of the good. gurmuK sdy jwn Awvn GilAw ]ñô] guramukh sadhae jaan aavan ghaliaa ||aa|| Only gurmukhs are called to the court of the Lord and they come to the world only when the Lord sends them.

life is not one of them bloody "soaps" on TV. there is no "perfect" match

are you sure these are highlights? :lol: part 1 is like 45 mins even an entire one day 50 over match dont have highlights for that long

^^ and what did you learn from that story? wear a longer shirt/tshirt (duno what a "jumper" is) especially when u goto gurudwara :TH:

*cough cough* COVER STORY *cough cough* :nihungsmile: i admit, sweat does your body good :cry:

it is easy to just cut our hair so we dont have to tie a dastaar. it is easy to eat whatever one can get a hand on due to busy life. it is easy not to do paath, and go onto work or school and spend more time there ..... it is easy to sleep with someone for lust it is easy to talk behind people's back for kan rus it is easy to look at other's in a lustfull way in case you haven't noticed, usually, "easy" way is the wrong way. and before anyone lectures me on physical disability, i'll have you know that i've had such a severe back injury that i wasn't able to walk for 2 days. exceptions can be made for special cases, elderly and physcially disabled.

ya ya, just keep arguing. i'm sure you guys are encouraging the bibi a lot :lol:

somebody post highlights on youtube man

i'll tell you, guru ka sikh needs to wear a chola with a 3 foot kirpa by him at all times, have a HIGHHH dumalla with shastar. and khula dharah ofcourse those people who are criticizing this, what are you lot doing to promote sikhi saroop think of the situation punjab is in now, this could do some good for sikhi saroop PS. in the 2nd last pic, i like the singh in blue pugh man nice kundi musha :lol:

http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=30945

:lol: i admit.............phew!!!! u had me seriously worried then.............. :cry: *cough* "clarification" *cough* ehhh :ans and maybe i was, maybe i wasn't

^^ wake up. why do you think family puts pressure on you? its cause of what's considered as "norm" in society. the fear is, "hai rabba, if we dont do it, what would peeople say" :lol:

a lot of pressure from family, society, one person can only do so much. if we oppose too much then there's kalesh, which is also not good. basically, i'm clueless in dealing with the pressure in such situations. :lol:

gauVI mhlw 5 ] gourree mehalaa 5 || Gauree, Fifth Mehla: pRB imlby kau pRIiq min lwgI ] prabh milabae ko preeth man laagee || The loving desire to meet my Beloved has arisen within my mind. pwie lgau moih krau bynqI koaU sMqu imlY bfBwgI ]1] rhwau ] paae lago mohi karo baenathee kooo sa(n)th milai baddabhaagee ||1|| rehaao || I touch His Feet, and offer my prayer to Him. If only I had the great good fortune to meet the Saint. ||1||Pause|| mnu Arpau Dnu rwKau AwgY mn kI miq moih sgl iqAwgI ] man arapo dhhan raakho aagai man kee math mohi sagal thiaagee || I surrender my mind to Him; I place my wealth (of breaths, of body. NOT money) before Him. I totally renounce my selfish ways. jo pRB kI hir kQw sunwvY Anidnu iPrau iqsu ipCY ivrwgI ]1] jo prabh kee har kathhaa sunaavai anadhin firo this pishhai viraagee ||1|| One who teaches me the Sermon of the Lord God - night and day, I shall follow Him. ||1|| pUrb krm AMkur jb pRgty ByitE purKu risk bYrwgI ] poorab karam a(n)kur jab pragattae bhaettiou purakh rasik bairaagee || When the seed of the karma of past actions sprouted, I met the Lord; He is both the Enjoyer and the Renunciate. imitE AMDyru imlq hir nwnk jnm jnm kI soeI jwgI ]2]2]119] mittiou a(n)dhhaer milath har naanak janam janam kee soee jaagee ||2||2||119|| My darkness was dispelled when I met the Lord. O Nanak, after being asleep for countless incarnations, I have awakened. ||2||2||119||

one day, a sikh outta love for guru sahib made up his mind that he would like to give something to guru sahib, after all guruji has given so much to him. so he sits in deep thought, trying to figure out what he has that is worth giving to guru sahib. what is really his, that he can give. first, he thinks he would give money. thought comes, you fool, there's more money offered at guru ghar than what you make in a week. your offering is nothing compared to that then, he thinks ok. i would give my body there, i would do as much seva as i can. soon he realizes that the body he so proudly wants to give to guru sahib is not his either. it's already a gift from guru sahib. then he thinks that he would give a rumalla. again, the thought comes, how are you going to buy a rumalla? from the money that you have earned using this body that guru sahib has gifted you !!! thinking for a long time, he came to a conclusion that there is nothing he owns that he got all by himself and thus couldn't give anything to guruji. a beggar cannot give anything to king of kings. he can only put forth what little he has, it is then upto the king to decide if he accepts beggar's offering. can one ever offer a drop of water to an ocean !!!

sUhI mhlw 5 ] soohee mehalaa 5 || Soohee, Fifth Mehla: ikAw gux qyry swir sm@wlI moih inrgun ky dwqwry ] kiaa gun thaerae saar samhaalee mohi niragun kae dhaathaarae || What virtues and excellences of Yours should I cherish and contemplate? I am worthless, while You are the Great Giver. bY KrIdu ikAw kry cqurweI iehu jIau ipMfu sBu Qwry ]1] bai khareedh kiaa karae chathuraaee eihu jeeo pi(n)dd sabh thhaarae ||1|| I am Your slave - what clever tricks could I ever try? This soul and body are totally Yours||1|| lwl rMgIly pRIqm mnmohn qyry drsn kau hm bwry ]1] rhwau ] laal ra(n)geelae preetham manamohan thaerae dharasan ko ham baarae ||1|| rehaao || O my Darling, Blissful Beloved, who fascinates my mind - I am a sacrifice to the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan. ||1||Pause|| pRBu dwqw moih dInu ByKwrI qum@ sdw sdw aupkwry ] prabh dhaathaa mohi dheen bhaekhaaree thumh sadhaa sadhaa oupakaarae || O God, You are the Great Giver, and I am just a poor beggar; You are forever and ever benevolent. so ikCu nwhI ij mY qy hovY myry Twkur Agm Apwry ]2] so kishh naahee j mai thae hovai maerae t(h)aakur agam apaarae ||2|| I cannot accomplish anything by myself, O my Unapproachable and Infinite Lord and Master. ||2|| ikAw syv kmwvau ikAw kih rIJwvau ibiD ikqu pwvau drswry ] kiaa saev kamaavo kiaa kehi reejhaavo bidhh kith paavo dharasaarae || What service can I perform? What should I say to please You? How can I gain the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan? imiq nhI pweIAY AMqu n lhIAY mnu qrsY crnwry ]3] mith nehee paaeeai a(n)th n leheeai man tharasai charanaarae ||3|| Your extent cannot be found - Your limits cannot be found. My mind longs for Your Feet. ||3|| pwvau dwnu FITu hoie mwgau muiK lwgY sMq rynwry ] paavo dhaan dteet(h) hoe maago mukh laagai sa(n)th raenaarae || I beg with persistence to receive this gift, that the dust of the Saints might touch my face. jn nwnk kau guir ikrpw DwrI pRiB hwQ dyie insqwry ]4]6] jan naanak ko gur kirapaa dhhaaree prabh haathh dhaee nisathaarae ||4||6|| The Guru has showered His Mercy upon servant Nanak; reaching out with His Hand, God has delivered him. ||4||6|| =============================================================== Awsw Gru 8 kwPI mhlw 5 aasaa ghar 8 kaafee mehalaa 5 Aasaa, Eighth House, Kaafee, Fifth Mehla: <> siqgur pRswid ] ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh || One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru: mY bMdw bY KrIdu scu swihbu myrw ] mai ba(n)dhaa bai khareedh sach saahib maeraa || I am Your purchased slave, O True Lord Master. jIau ipMfu sBu iqs dw sBu ikCu hY qyrw ]1] jeeo pi(n)dd sabh this dhaa sabh kishh hai thaeraa ||1|| My soul and body, and all of this, everything is Yours. ||1|| mwxu inmwxy qUM DxI qyrw Brvwsw ] maan nimaanae thoo dhhanee thaeraa bharavaasaa || You are the honor of the dishonored. O Master, in You I place my trust. ibnu swcy An tyk hY so jwxhu kwcw ]1] rhwau ] bin saachae an ttaek hai so jaanahu kaachaa ||1|| rehaao || Without the True One, any other support is false - know this well. ||1||Pause|| qyrw hukmu Apwr hY koeI AMqu n pwey ] thaeraa hukam apaar hai koee a(n)th n paaeae || Your Command is infinite; no one can find its limit. ijsu guru pUrw BytsI so clY rjwey ]2] jis gur pooraa bhaettasee so chalai rajaaeae ||2|| One who meets with the Perfect Guru, walks in the Way of the Lord's Will. ||2|| cqurweI isAwxpw ikqY kwim n AweIAY ] chathuraaee siaanapaa kithai kaam n aaeeai || Cunning and cleverness are of no use. quTw swihbu jo dyvY soeI suKu pweIAY ]3] thut(h)aa saahib jo dhaevai soee sukh paaeeai ||3|| That which the Lord Master gives, by the Pleasure of His Will - that is pleasing to me. ||3|| jy lK krm kmweIAih ikCu pvY n bMDw ] jae lakh karam kamaaeeahi kishh pavai n ba(n)dhhaa || One may perform tens of thousands of actions, but attachment to things is not satisfied. jn nwnk kIqw nwmu Dr horu CoifAw DMDw ]4]1]103] jan naanak keethaa naam dhhar hor shhoddiaa dhha(n)dhhaa ||4||1||103|| Servant Nanak has made the Naam his Support. He has renounced other entanglements. ||4||1||103||

just remember, we are not Guru Nanak Sahib Jee !!! Guru sahib also wrote bani :lol: we certainly cannot do that.

jg Bwvy swrw rus jwey pr rusy nw myrw klgIAW vwlw

hanji, giani thakur singh ji is from patiala

just to clarify, i was talking about my dhidh (stomach) man

old topic, but i feel more people should look at the videos