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  1. Also protedts arent a good idea. We were doing one in san francisco n the protest temporarily blocked a road as we were walking. N some guy gets out of his car n starts telling. We dont care. Get off the road. The other ppl also looked angry. Also we dont know how.to do protests. Its always too coloful, too much food n music at the 84 protests at least, n no one explaining wat the protest is about. Also u cant say palestinians are violent and it works for them. They also had thousands of dead ppl including children and graphic pictures and this has been going on for a long time. Plus even with world support they dont achieve anything. We have two dead and even then instead of mentioning that we say 'our Holy book was ripped' we shud just say two ppl killed and massives wounded in peaceful protests attacked by police. Punjab in shutdown etc...
  2. Yes please lets use some logic. No army that fights on multiple fronts wins. A morcha is a front. So we r doing this to get media attention. Is that it? Will media attention solve our problems? Only if media n ppl n govts r willing to put pressure on india. If modi is coming to uk, it might be best to lie low until he gets here. Protests that r done when hes here might have more effect or might be suppressed harder. So we should think about which is better. Also i dont want to do anymore protests. Yes rajoana protest worked but how many havent. Tara Singh protest, 84 protests, bapu surat singh n darshan singh havent, why? Cuz a protest is not solution to anything. For darshan singh protest, he broke his fast, n we were protesting for his behalf n if he stopped then our protest uselessly without purpose. So in that case our priority should have been to encourage his fast, the visits ppl paid to him should have been done to tell him u did an ardaas, stick to it. U invoked the sikh panth, it is Is here, dont let it down. Instead the jathedars n sangat were ordering him to give up n he gave up twice cuz of them! Now no faith or trust or leverage left in hunger strikes...so our jobs should have been encouraging him, n as a sikh brother keeping him from faltering n going back on his ardaas and also constant media attention AND to prepare something drastic in case he becomes shaheed in his sangarsh. Only at that time a massive protest or unlawful behavior is acceptable, when something dreadful has happened. Not for prevention but for retaliation. For example there was a woman reporter in Ireland who wrote about drugdealers. Nobody listened to her, she was even roughed up by them and was on news. But some ppl thought she was making stuff up to get publicity. Then she was gunned down by drugdealers. Then ppl rose up against drugdealers n there were peaceful marches, but ppl also kicked out drugdealers from their neighborhoods, and there was lobbying and laws were passed. This eliminated drugdealer problem in country. This is a movie based on a true story...
  3. Ahh, yes i agree. Swiss are famous for their chocolate. And it would sound better to say swiss chocolate than belgian chocolate.
  4. I thought he was saying milk chocolate. That belgian chocolate is better than milk chocolate...
  5. Thanks. I need a lot of ammo to convince my dad. Any argument i bring he has an answer. His main argument is that congress is responsible for all atrocities n they are still harboring all the evildoers. And if we dont vote for akalis, congress will automatically win as these are the biggest parties in punjab. And he says if sikhs are stupid enough to get congress elected they should die of shame. This is the congress who attacked darbar sahib and if sikhs allow them to ever win in punjab they are besharm idiots. Hes also afraid that if we try to elect a panthic person or new person, he wont last in politics and like Maan will be exchanged for Beanta.also that badal has done more for the poor and farmers than anyone. Free electricity for farmers, and free dal n roti for the poor. Also that badal intercedes on behalf of sikhs like for rajoana and other sikh issues. When i told him, Badal only does it when sikhs protest alot and he just does it to get votes and be seen as the good guy. My dad goes ballistic and says exactly! We as sikhs have some sway over a sikh politician no matter how corrupt. If u dont vote for him n a hindu or traitor congressi wins, he will have no sympathy for sikh protestors. Instead they will be ruthlessly suppressed like beantas time, either shot or picked up. And if i point out how now sikhs got shot in protests. He says the police got out of hand or were paid by someone else to do this to defame badal. Badal put a stop to police and now badal is letting punjab be closed.for days without any interferance from police. I dont know how to answer his arguments, especially as they seem true. He says badal knows how to compromise which is impoertant because after all sikhs are only 2%of india. In parliament they have barely representation. What are your darshani sikhs, which is wat he calls modern youth, gonna do when all power is within central govt hands, and they see being CM is very limited. Just give up? While badal is keeping punjab float n trying to get businesses to start companies in punjab. But by protesting u keep making punjab seem too unstable for new businesses. And while u darshani singhs live bahar in other countries, u make punjabis suffer with ur protests....etc etc.and he is not a communist...just got really practical n pessimistic recently...
  6. Its a great song. Im glad he mentioned islamic slavery too. Do you know who the black leader in all white is? the one who does speeches in the beginning...
  7. Why would the british try to favour Sikhs? They either did it to appease us so we would not revolt against their raj. Which is a not so bad reason, as they are trying to be nice to their subjects. But it has a ulterior evil motive to keep us complacent so we would not want to fight for our raj. Also the british took our raj with the most reprehensible treachery and trickery. I would almost prefer the mughal invaders outright raiding than british trickery, however mughal invasions caused more pain to the subjects/innocent people. But you have to admit the Khalsa spirit was much stronger and Sikh ideals much purer during the Mughal invasions than during British raj even though they encouraged sikhs to practice sikhi( like making it mandatory to be an amritdhari fauji). Of course this dhil could be attributed to our depravity during sikh raj. You tell us not to think like an indian. However up to that point, and later due to ghadar lehar, sikhs had made it their goal to protect their homeland, Punjab and by extension India from invaders. And now ur telling us we never had any similarities with the indian? Yes we had our own seperate empire, but we considered ourselves south asian rather than central asian. That is why we stood up against any invader from central asia. We also invaded central asia and not south india because we considered it, not foreign,at the very least. The british at first did everything to suppress sikhs. They kicked out nihangs from punjab. They confiscated all weapons especially 3 ft kirpans from all sikhs. Many sikhs became dakus, highway robbers during this time hence u get the movies jagga daku etc. Because they refused to give up weapons or their sovereignty to the british. Also because sikhs had a soldier profession for a long time and could not get a replacement job. Also when british finally allowed sikhs to join their army again, they tried to make sikhs wear helmets. Sikhs were beaten up daily n tortured but they refused. In the end the advent of World war 1 made the british give up. Then soon after the british changed their mind and wanted to make all faujis be amritdhari. Probably due to the fact that sikhs especially amritdharis fought and died brilliantly on the battlefield. So they wanted a person they knew could not turntail on the battlefield cuz sikhs in those days thought fighting bravely in battle equivalent to a religious act and probably a religious contract as per the shabad deh shiva bar mohe....so they enforced the amritdhari rule not as a favor to sikhs but to themselves and it sort of worked. When kartar singh sarabha and others were trying to recruit faujis to their cause...sikhs felt it would be a religious violation or at least going back on their word as sikhs. The british also tried to change sikhi to make sikhs accept them. They commisioned many people to study and write about sikh history. But when writing they would twist things. As mccaughliff points out about trump. Also sao sakhi was repressed during this time.and when it reappeared we dont know if it is the original or not. These tricks by the british does not even include their treachery to dalip singh, cruelty to rani jinda, breaking contract with raja ranjit singh, jallianwalla baag, countless people shipped to kalan pani, countless hangings, treatment of political prisoners, racism in punjab in peoples own homeland, exploitation, siding with mahants, favoring ppl who were useful to them, amd most importantly creating an inferiority complex within the punjabi, sikh, and south asian community by enslaving us for a centuary. I think south asians have gotten rid of their inferiority complex but we havent. Many people still want fair colored children and applaud and reminisce the british raj when our forefathers gave blood n other sacrifices to get rid of these scheming invaders. But yes, i concede they were better than the hindu raj that we are shackled in now. They also had humanity or like to keep appearances of being humane so protests sometimes worked with them. And they did favor and think highly of the sikhs. But not because they were generous but because we sikhs worked hard and poured blood n sweat to accomplish things which begrudgingly win their admiration. And like i said the british did favor those useful to them. So they gave us some rights, let us settle in some countries. But this too was part of their divide n rule strategy. Alienate some and embrace some. The favors that we think the british did bestowed to us were fairly earned by our hardwork and bravery. we do not owe them any gratitude. Though if one happens to live in their land, uk, it is right to acknowledge their hospitality(figurative) n respect them n not be noon <banned word filter activated> up to a certain point. Also u are right that by forgetting that we were a seperate empire, we got shackled with the hindus and are paying the consequences of letting another faith rule over us which the tenth guru warned us against. But we probably forgot that we were sovereign n had our own empire due to the british. In whose best interest it would have been if sikh forgot that and learned to live under their rule.
  8. Wow! That is exactly what my dad thinks. He hates simranjeet singh maan cuz after singhs went to the trouble and got him elected. He stepped down using kirpan issue to step down. Then sikhs boycotted the polls n beanta won with less than 10% of votes....n oppression n tyranny ruled in punjab...i never knew anyone else would agree with my dad and his too practical politics. Wat my dad says makes sense but nobody else agreed with him so i was always conflicted...so my dad thinks badal is a good guy who actually cares about punjab n knows how to navigate the corrupt indian politics ( by being corrupt himself i guess). He always says its better to have a sikh N akali dal rule punjab than a congress puppet like beanta. He also thinks bjp is trying to take over punjab by propaganda...which will be horrible cuz rss will rule n all the fake babas which my dad says are banned from punjab due to badal, will have freedom to do watever.now my dad has changed a little n he thinks we shud demand that nri get positions in sgpc. Based on population in.each country.outside india that way we can control wat happens...So wat are ur views on the above? Especially about badal? At home my dad wont let us speak a word against him n outside everyone hates him...so i always wondered wats the reality. Is my dad being too dimwitted to see badals slyness n twofacedness n how having apna banda on kursi is blinding him or us everyone else being dimwitted by thinking having some other sikh will be better when in reality as indian states have very few power it wouldnt matter?
  9. So true. People are so crazily inflicted by this hindu backwards ideology.Everyone is trying to proof they came from somewhere else .Even if we, jatts, are from central asia, so wat? Does that mean cental asians are better than us? Cuz they still live in central asia n are pure central asains n were mixed? We will never win this game of one upmanship. Fact is we were all indians but got conned by brahmins into thinking one is better than the other and their divide n conquer strategy worked so well we cling to these labels long after the brahmins rule was destroyed... Wats wrong with being olden day indian? Present day indian is another story.... Our ancestors who ever they were thought india was a good place to settle n indians good enough to intermarry then who r we as ethnic punjabis o to deny our punjabiness or indianess and claim aryan or central asain heritage? Even if we had that ancestry,its been diluted out of us a lobg time ago...
  10. Sikhs can only guide whole of humanity and get their homeland if they work for it. There is no chosen people, no one God treats more special than another. There are rules to this universe that apply to all. So like everyone else Sikhs must work for any success. That means firstly being Sikhs following sikhi no matter how hard and secondly we have to work to get our homeland such as using politics etc. We can be monotheistic and worship the gurus the same way Christians can believe in Jesus and God,the same way the Catholics can believe in holy triniy and God same way islam can believe in Satan n God. Basically compared to these believes we are monotheistic. We Believe Everything is God and also that he has no one like Satan opposing him. On the other hand we can believe that there is 1, and he is in charge but he is not the only 1. There are others below him like the devtas n he can also manifest in many forms such as the gurus. So if u dont believe in sargun nirgun, do u believe god lives away from this world. Maybe up above in some castle? He decides not to intervene at all, no matter the attrocities or requests n begging n praying? The famine has to be due to karma but the holocaust could have been caused because we have free will. So hitler will be punished for it. Or it could be karma. How would we know what they did. There could be many explanations. Maybe they were the army of ghenghis khan or other invaders that looted n killed n pillaged ppl for greed. Famine could be same thing, slaveowners who starved the slaves or peasants while making them grow n collect food for themselves. Who knows? Who cares? Justice has been served or of this is a atrocity comitted by free will not caused by karma then justice will be served. But who r we to judge ppl n leave them to their fates? We ourselves we dont know wat we could have done so we are in no position to condemn others. Also if u treat others good no matter who they are or who they were, ur karma will become good. Also we can never be sure if somethings happening due to karma or freewill. Our souls and the universe had a beginning. Maybe even multiple beginnings n endings. When our soul was separated from the Primal Soul ie God, our souls came into existance. When God chose to manifest the universe with the big bang, it began. N it will end the same way, by merging back. Only the immortal one is Eternal. (Sat Sri Akal As to the gurus sons.The gurus didnt give out enlightenment for free. All have to work for it as per the law of the universe. Nothing is free. So the sons had to work for it, but they probably took it for granted.Why woud the gurus play favortism n make their sons automatically elgible for liberation. No all have to gain it by personal effort.
  11. Ur in a tough situation kid. If u hurt the other kid badly..u will be in even bigger trouble. And yet if u let the kid bully u...thats horrible. So ignore the kid if he just name calls. Then hes gonna start calling u a coward and spreading around how u scared of him now cuz of the fight. Still ignore him. But if he tries to hit u or ur friends wait for the first punch only then fight. That way ur fight can count as defense. Also try ganging up on him just him against u n ur friends n try to scare him, dont hurt him..just threaten but idk if this will work cuz he can do the same.u can also try to do truce with him....eapecially if he asks u to pass him stuff like scissors or watever. Be like u have to stop being an <banned word filter activated> n calling me names.
  12. I dont have a problem with him. Its just parchar sounds so Christiany. And it sounds like were always bigging ourselves up and bragging about langar and how khalsa is supposed to stop tyranny n help the poor. And constantly having to say oh were not trying to convert u. It makes me cringe. Cuz not only does it make us sound like some jehovah witness. But how many sikhs follow these ideals? Who have we saved from tyranny? Poverty? Khalsa aid. Yes but its a charity n charities from all religions r good. U know it just sounds like we only telling about our good idealistic stuff. N that makes me cringe. Even tho i know we have to do it. And we shud do it cuz ppl still think we r muslims n stuff....but its just a personal reaction. Thats why i woyld rather watch other videos of BoS than streer parchar
  13. Well u seem to know the answer....i would say have guru granth sahib ji recording playing all time and use dasam granth for special times when u need the josh or need extra help or need cheering up. U wouldnt want to be pumped up 24/7 which is the effect Dasam bani has....
  14. I really liked it. Usually i hate watching the street parchar videos. They made me cringe. N were boring with same repeated info in an excited way when audience usually dont care. But this was fantastic. The arguments from the audience and Jugraj Singh were great. There was a real connection and real learning going on.
  15. Guruji is antarjami. Do ardaas whenever. Also when problems of ettiquette arise like respect or manners. Sikhs should have utmost respect but should be able to rise above nitty gritty details.so u feel u shud do ardaas when rumala sahib is covering and no is reading. Fantastic. U shud do utmost to follow this as it seems respectful to u. However when u go to gurudwara, always someone is reading. So there is a dilemma. In such a case decide which is worse. U keep waiting for ppl to stop reading,u get impatient n maybe mad or anxious. In the end u have to leave n u didnt get a chance to do ardaas. U leave very sad. U leave without having a chance to talk to ur guru. U leave unfulfilled. Is this right? Should a sikh ever leave the greatest gurus house feeling sad or unfulfilled? Nobody is supposed to leave guru jis house sad and yet unr a sikh.... On the other hand...u go to gurudwara n u see someone is reading so u decide i have to go in 30 mins. If someone is still reading when 20 mins have passed. I will do ardaas anyway but i will wait 20 mins now. I can wash dishes while i wait. U come back 20 mins later n someone else is reading. So u begin ardaas with an apology. Guruji please forgive me i could not wait. If i have done beadbi please forgive as i am ur child n tried to wait. Then do ur personal ardaas. Do u think guruji will not forgive u? He who is the greatest forgiver the most merciful? He who asks for faith sharda n love not empty rituals? He who did not bat an eye when in his sixth form an old lady asked him to her house n gave him roti to eat with sharda and prem and she kept saying you are the paapi and i am bakshanhaar. To guruji she said this n guru ji kept eating his roti enjoyably. The sikhs could not soo themselves and told her to stop spouting nonsense ...but guru ji stopped the sikhs n said it is ok. Even her twisted words are acceptable to me....so when faced with a minor etiquette dilemma dont let a small detail keep u from connecting to ur guru.askfor forgiveness and all will be right
  16. This hatred against muslims is going overboard. Today my Muslim friend had to skip college because there is going to be a protest against muslims an the provost of the college advised muslims not to come and told professors to excuse muslim students. Ur hatred +proactive n others has twisted ppl n created ppl like genie who think its ok to forcibly convert ppl n totally ok to go on a conquering frenzy in the name of religion. If we do this +genie wats so different against us n islam. That we would be more tolerant towards minorties after we forcibly converted them? Of course that doesnt mean islam or muslims arent a threat. But key is balance.Bandha singh bahadur did kill muslims but only those muslims living in castles that were part of the evil government n had a hand in killing sikhs. In fact banda singh bahadur also killed hindus such as sucha nand. There were never force conversions. Anybody who believed in guru tegh bahadur would never consent to that. Also sikhs were fiercly proud n loyal they would never accept that anyone who was forcibly converted could ever be a Sikh nor would they allow anyone so cowardly into their ranks. Yes during raja ranjit singhs time and 1947 there was a frenzy of conquest. But who ever holds up sikhs of that time as role models? During 1947 innocents were butchured for revenge n land and raja ranjit singhs time we conquered kabul kandhar but of no use since we allowed fake converted sikhs like dogras into our ranks. So conversions whetner forcible or political were of no use instead were harmful. And conquering all the way to kabul kandhar not much more useful, when we couldnt even keep punjab. Balance. In india helping muslims is ok. They r not a threat. In uk, muslims r a threat but only to weak sikhs. Girls who dont know anything about sikhi. Dont dilute sikhi or its message just because of these weak sikhs. One of u was right. In the past and even now muslims couldnt convert/ subjugate sikhs. They tried then n they try now. If some r successful now that doesnt mean sikhs message of humanity is outdated or wrong. It just means some sikhs are sikhs in name only. We r supposed to be able to be free n openminded n kind while amongst oppression. And also be free n openminded n kind without being taken advantage of like the west.so balance. When muslims go from being weak to being oppresers we can deal with it then. But that doesnt mean we kick them when they r weak. Whole world is against muslims now. So we stand by them When muslims r against whole world we will be against them. Our priniples should stay constant not our enemies. So dont be like they were our enemies before n so still are. But do be aware, guruji said not to trust them.
  17. So if it is arabic it came to india during mughal raj startin 1400 or 1100 when mongols attacked. Does anyone know why mughals who were supposed to be mongols spoke arabic n why were muslim. I mean i can fathom them being muslim the ottomon empire n other muslim conquests but how could mongol ppl lose their language and adopt arabic completely?
  18. Sahai might be an arabic or Persian word. Search for it online google translate or arabic englis h dictionaries. It follows arabic rules three syllable/ consonants/sounds as well as using a lot of s and h sounds.
  19. U could do role of women in 1984 or people of non-Sikh background corroboration of the events like the general who refused to lead army in operation blue star n ak darshi who wrote gallent defender and many other hindus. Also there has been a lot of research done on 1984 by cynthia mehmoud and joyce pettigrew n many others. Or u could focus on delhi pograms n compile info about preprators who r still not jailed. Maybe u could collaborate with Ensaaf they r trying to collect n record info from 84 survivors before they die off. Choose a small angle. Like response of western sikhs after 84. U could also do it on other sikh issues. If u r in america then so it on start od ghadar in america if in canada then kamagata maru. U could also do it on amount of asylum seekers denied by germany or handed off to india n wat happened to them. This shud be easy to compile research on if it isnt protected info about asylum seekers....like davinder s bhullar
  20. You know all the yogi things like kundalini opening, chakras opening, the lotus turning up right, nirvaana, ridhi sidhis. While we r not supposed to strive for these things. They do exist and do happen to meditators. So bani talks about these a little especially lotus turning upright. When doing simran many mystical things will happen. Even out of body experiences. A singh told me that he knew someone who did a lot of simran n oneday he saw his body lying on the sofa. He got so scared like i am dead omg wat do i do? When he finally entered his body he was still terrified. So he watched a lot of tv and played on computer n never did simran. So it would never happen again. He should have asked guru sahib to guide him through this obstacle in his meditation or mind. Cuz its really his minds problem. He should have learned that i am not a body but a soul from this experience. But he had too much moh attachment to his body. Some other things happen too, people float, see ghosts many things but main thing is to have faith in waheguru. He created everything so it must be right n he will lead me right. Thats why a guru is needed. Path of the bhagats is hard full of many obstacles. Anyway i know wat programs u r talking about. They wear blue n do simran or bani all day. Its not naamdhari or tarmala. These ppl as far as i know r good ppl. The ppl who scream or <banned word filter activated> maybe having their kundali opened. Or who knows? But just do simran with love n guruji will guide u through these mystical experiences gently so u dont have to scream n <banned word filter activated>. Of the traditional sants, i have only heard one sakhi of a sant with these experiences. He was doing simran n he started to feel free n light as a flower n very blissful.when he opened his eyes he was floating his head touching the ceiling. He immediately closed his eyes n started praying to guruji to please set him down. Please. Cuz if someone saw me they will think im a sant n i am not worth that. Please set me down. Please. Please. N when he opened his eyes he was on the floor n but his body felt heavy always afterward. Like his body was a burden he carried. N the body was not him. Anyways i think this or similar things happened to other sants too. But maybe thats why they all meditated in bhauras secluded places
  21. Gosh u guys r so patriarchal. Mother carries egg which contains life, soul, nutients, body everything needed for life. Father just activates it. But in reality. It would be neither cuz ur genes make u up. N ur genes/dna is probably determined by karma. So if different genes then different karma n so different person physically n mentally n spirit/soul wise. But in actual actual reality. It doesnt matter wherever ur soul is placed. In whichever body made from whichever parents. Because we have changed bodies n parents thousands of times. Ur soul is u n the body it resides in has no significance. So in the above scenario. Whichever body ur soul is placed in.
  22. Not true. Bibi Sukhmani Kaur, the wife of bhai jugraj singh, was an amritdhari Sikh when she married. She got introduced to Sikhi in Russia and even spent a year in Punjab learning Punjabi and about Sikhi. She visited the gurughars, took amrit, and learned to wear suits. This was before she got married. So on her wedding she was NOT a christian!
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