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  1. waheguru ji.....make her read the jeewans of our Guru Matas......how high and characterized they were moraly and spiritually.....their jeewans are example sfor us to follow.....bibi Bhani ji, Bebe Nanaki ji, Bibi Beero ji etc http://www.sikhs.org/women_h.htm http://www.allaboutsikhs.com/great-sikh-women/great-sikh-women also tell her Daswe paatshaah has said ke apne husband to bina bakiaan nu pita, bhraa ya putt samjhana, same for men apni wifr ton bina sareyaan nu ma, bhain ya beti samjhana........
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    Vaak

    Mokham Singh ji right...........it's like we go to guru ji ...do ardas.....ask for the solutions of our daily problems and then Guru ji gives us hukumnama as an answer to our quiries.....or a bachan to depict our inside condition...... ........it's surprising that one mukhvaak answers everyone's quieries....jine vi sangat ch bethe hunde ne....everyone feels like guru ji did bachan to answer his or her query or to show them right path...... kararha hukumnama means Guru ji doesn;t want us to go ahead with what we have asked for..........a happy hukumnama gives permission...... waheguru ji sabhnu summat bhakhshan it's optional....if you don't understand anything in the hukumnama then translation helps......but if you do understand everything, no need if you don't want......
  3. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh..... self help and self healing book....... http://josephmurphy.wwwhubs.com/ DR. JOSEPH MURPHY wrote, taught, counseled, and lectured to thousands all over the world for nearly fifty years. Born in 1898, he was educated in Ireland and England. Years of research studying the world’s major religions convinced him that some great Power lay behind them all: The Power is within you! Understanding your subconscious mind as a photographic mechanism removes the emotion and struggle from changing your life, because if it is simply a matter of replacing existing mental images with new ones, you begin to see the ease with which you may change. The subconscious responds to habit and habitual thinking. Being totally neutral in a moral sense, it is happy to adopt any habit as ‘normal’ - good or bad. We blithely let negative thoughts drop into the subconscious every minute of our lives, then are surprised when they find expression in day to day experiences and relationships. While there are some things that will happen to us that we had no role in creating, these are in fact rare. Mostly, the bad that happens is in us already, waiting for the light of day. Whatever you give your subconscious – false or true, good or evil – it will register as fact. Be careful not to joke about misfortune, as the subconscious has no sense of humour. waheguru ji bhala karan........... The-Power-of-Your-Subconscious-Mind-by-Joseph-Murphy-SMSE-2010.pdf
  4. waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki Fath ji... Babaji's deewan time has changed to 7.00 pm to 8.00 pm at Malton gurughar. Deewan can be watched live at http://www.srigurusi...abhamalton.com/ waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ji
  5. waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh Baba ji's deewan's have strated in malton Gurughar till 2nd of June. Baba ji will be ariving in BC on June 3rd till around 15th of June. Baba ji have deewans in surrey and abbotsford during this visit. After BC Baba ji will have one week in Edmonton and one week in Calgary. Then Baba ji will be In Toronto for the last one month till the end of July, one month deewans at Malton Gurughar. Waheguru ji Ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji
  6. Waheguru ji ka Khalsa, waheguru ji ki Fateh jio Mahapurkhan de deewan aaj ton may 25th ton shaam nu 7.30 pm - 8.30 pm Malton gurghar vikhe shuru honge.
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    Dowry

    to add........ make a video of the conversation......as the girl named "Rani' (satyamev jayate show) did ........really inspiring and hats off to her and her courage......
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    Dowry

    waheguru ji...watch Aamir khans's "satyamev jayate: episode # 3......on dowry...how in laws come up with the ideas and tortures to get dowry..... you should ask just one question to boy...why do they expect so (financial crisis).....if they are not financially strong....why her parents should give their daughter to them ? and if his sister's to be inlaws aks him to do so, would he go ahead ? personally if situation like this arises in my family, i won't support it..........seyaane nu ishara kaafi........tomorrow they'll say already we told you...and you don't even know how much would they be looking at while seeking this "help" say dowry..... another thing you need to know if they give or plan to give dowry in his sisters (if any) wedding, if yes... so this is clearly a dowry....they might come up one day before wedding and ask for this help,,,,,,,
  9. to add mukh sewadaar is also called " mahant" at some gurudwaras person doing katha is "kathavachak or giani " person doing keertan is "raagi"
  10. thank you very much waheguru ji.... satguru tuhanu chardikala bakhshan.......
  11. waheguru ji... Due to Air India pilots strike, Baba ji's flight was cancelled on 21st, now rescheduled for this Thursday or Friday. Info will be updated once received. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh
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    Lost Hope

    waheguru ji......read Bhai sahib bhai veer singh;s book called "Satwant Kaur"...................willl tell you waht religion is and what does it do.......to siimarize...it's a story of a sikh girl abducted by muslims during those mughal times....when sikhs used to live in jungle........it's surprizing and shocking how she survives and become a winner in that beastly time period.................how guruji and this religion helped her........ ........also try reading sakhis.......and jeewans of gursikhs and mahapurkhs Dhan Dhan baba nand Singh ji Sant Baba Attar Singh ji Reru Sahibwale Sat Baba Attar Singh ji Mastuana sahib wale hoti mardan wale mahapurkh Sant baba Harnam Singh ji Bhuchowale Sant baba Harnam Singh ji Rampurkherha Sant baba Isher Singh Rarha Sahib Sant Baba Isher Singh Kalerawale Bhai Sahib Bhai Veer Singh ji's jeewan and there are many more......the jeewan is a sequece of amazing stories which makes us understand our Guru sahib and whatever he did and why he did that.... waheguru ji bhala karan
  13. sure waheguru ji.....you can also call malton gurghar to get schedule......
  14. yes waheguru ji....for 3 years...... to add when mahapurkh ji was having his last breath his sir was at the foot of Guru sahib's saroop......and almost 5 chardikala singhs sacrificed their lives with mahapurkh ji, as mentioned before 2 of them jumped into the chita.....because they could bear the vichorha..... their history - names, pictures.......can be found at Tanda urmur dera....which Baba Gurdial singh ji is taking care of....also they have hospital there, all the equipments are imported, dukhiyan da free ilaaj hunda.......baba ji ne dakha mulapur, ludhiana de nehre baut vade college da neenh pathar rakheya last year......it;ll be a very big college covering the expenses education....nursing...it, etc....for poor people who can't afford to go outside their home... baba gurdial singh ji is very polite, i can say mith bolarha....once you sit by him...simran starts by itself....and you don't feel like getting up....one doesn't remember any dukh......he always say do nitnem......nitnem naal koi ghaul nahin honi chahidi..........oh sangat nu guru sahib de larh launde ne....... tande har saal around sept...oct ikotari da smagam hunda, jithe bahut mahapurkh aake hajri bharde ne .....101 akhand path naal naal chalde ne 21 din.......end vale din nagar keertan hunda.........also every month pooranmashi is celebrated at tande
  15. yes waheguru ji..... http://derabababalwa.../contact_us.htm this is the site......Baba Balwant Singh ji urmur tandewale......you can watch videos on youtube...... history i am going to tell...many won't believe..... Mahapursh ji was munakhe by birth...akal purkh ji sent him for a specific purpose...I've heard.....akaal purkh ji knew there was going to be blood shed in 1984.......Akaal purakh ji asked the all the avtars that one avtar needs to go on dharti and give kurbani but there's one condition......the avtar nu ninda krauni peni aa....all other religion's reps backed out....pher guru nanak de ghar ne jumewari layi......that;s why you'll see mahapursh ji always has gold jewellery and royal clothes on and people used to point out and do ninda......only the ones who were true did babaji's sangat.......when baba ji was child may be 5-6 yrs.....there was Sant baba Isher singh ji rarha sahib ji's deewan......Baba Isher Singh ji knew from inside he send one of his sewak with car to bring mahapursh ji....Sant Isher singh ji take him inside....and did matha tek......and did some bachans and then asked sewak to drop him back............ Baba balwant singh ji tandewale was good freinds with baba balwant singh ji sihorhe wale they have spent sometime together in their early days......... Baba balwant singh ji tandewale used to sing this dharna "mera sir tere charna ch howe jadon meri jaan nikle"....and when he had his last breath he was singing the same dharna .......the land where this shooting by terrorist happened was somebody else's...baba ji knew everything....just one day before his last day he bought that land and made the arrangements for the deewan and usually some singhs used to have guns and do security on the out of the deewan but that day...baba ji asked them to shut off the outside lights and drop guns and sit in the sangat.......sangat was surprised because that was something unusual......one goli went through guru sahib's saroop and another one through baba ji, couple of singhs.....then later couple of singhs jumped into the chita when baba ji was being cremeted...... there are many other sakhis about mahapurkh ji that Baba gurdial singh ji tandewale (who was in airforce), how he met mahapurkh ji sometimes share in his bachans....... hope this shed some light.........
  16. waheguru ji read the full paragraph...which gives the explanation .... I think it was Sukhmani Sahib (not sure).......heard couple of years back...
  17. Here's Sant ji's interview with Canadian radio (click on the "click here" to listen to the 45 min interview).....and the video of 38.00 min of Sant ji...... http://www.parmeshardwar.com/first.htm
  18. Giani Thakur Singh Ji Patialawale, taught sudh santheya of path. He starts from the "urha" "aarhaa", teaches in very easy way. http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/videos/index.php
  19. waheguru ji...yes madh da bhod pauna jaroori hai.... I have the maryada (for sampat path) written in word format but don't know how to attach it here. Any help ?
  20. another question us whether to do chaur sahib sitting or standing.......... I have heard this story (don't remember where) a singh(chardikala gurmukh pyara) was doing the chaur sahib and he was standing, when he got tired his arms lifted down a little bit and he heard the voice, bhai sahib thorha uper karke, sadi dastar naal khenda.........that was Guru sahib speaking to him..... we have to have bhau (darr) and bhaao (prem) at the same time.....so the chaur doesn't touch guru sahib as if Guru sahib is actually birajmaan there........
  21. I've heard of this first time.....I think no taksal follows this standing lavan procedure.......it's always sitting after every laav while the bhai does the path and then stand and walk when ragi singhs starts the keertan of lavaan .....and pathi does tell this to the couple when they have to sit and when they have to stand and start lavan.....
  22. Waheguru jiu Ka Khalsa Waheguru ji ki Fateh ji... Sant Baba Gurdial Singh Ji Tandewale is coming on Canada Tour. (http://derabababalwa.../contact_us.htm) Deewans would be starting on 21st May from 7.30 pm to 8.30 pm at Sri Guru Singh Sabha (Malton) (http://www.srigurusi...abhamalton.com/) Please call Malton Gurdwars @ 905-671-1662 for info on deewans at other places. Malton Gurughar management sometimes changes the schedule due to some unexpected programs, please check with them before leaving. Live deewan can be watched at Malton gurughar website. Following is the link of some of Baba ji's deewans: http://www.gurmatvee...gh_(Tande_Walae) Waheguru ji Ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh
  23. very nice views above......love marrigae or arrange doesn't matter, what matters is the partner to be........every individual is different...our father, mother, brother, sister and we.....although living in one family, have different views on different aspects...what we do is ...adjustments with each other......but living with your partner after wedding is not the same relationships as living with your parents and siblings........it's a totally different life........it's very hard to do adjustments whole life........when married life go with adjustments....one person will be living with a pressure on their heart just to keep peace in between them....................there shold be understanding between both......so both can talk and respect each other.... I want to share this real life incident of very close freind of mine......she's amritdhari / spiritual....parents gave add in the newspaper for a year..didn't find any suitable....then they found one on student visa.....not an amritdhari but a boy from a very innocent, polite, amritdhari, and sant sevi family....both liked each other as they shared their views on gursikhi and boy said he'll be an amritdhari in near future....he doesn't want to do that because of anybody's presure....girl respected his views and did ardas to Guru sahib if this is the right person, please let the rishta go ahead.....engagement took place....parents make (point to be noted they didn't do it themselves) them exchange their phone #s, so they can understand each other better.......they were happy to know each other and felt comfortable and saw a life time relation of gursikhi and an understanding in future........then jiwein guru nu bhawe...after a month girls parents/siblings for some stupid childish reason....said they want to break the rishta....but the girl knew that her family is being selfish & rude and doing wrong to boys side.......so she stood for her rights......her family presurized and forced her with every possible way so she can say "no" as well...........boys side were obviously shocked and sad.......girls used to cry and do ardas benti before guru sahib that if she is right, give her strength to fight and fix things up.......she talked to a mahapursh about this and he said "apni larhai aap hi larhni hundi hai, koi kise da sath nahin dinda, apna mann na dulawo, Guru sahib tuhade ang sang ne "...these words gave her so much strengh that her family has to back out.......after trying for 6 months girls family asked her if something happens tomorrow they won't be responsible......girl said fine......she knew Guru sahib fixed this rishta and "HE" will be there for her always.........it was what she asked for from Guru sahib...a sant sevi family......and today she is very happily married for 2 yrs...I haven't seen any married girl so happy in my life so far..... the point I wanted to make is that parents can not always be right...."vade hamesha theek nahin hunde, coz they care about smaaj more than their childrens happiness"....I am not saying we should not obey or respect parents....but we should stand for the truth .......as an individual and every individual's relation with Guru sahib is different, even parents are out of this relation..........(coz it's the union of two souls) love or arrange, it should be an understanding, honest and true relation, so both can make their way to sachkhand by following gursikhi jeewan....
  24. waheguru ji amritvela starts after 12.00 am.....many mahapurkhs start their amritvela at 12.15 am...... FYI........sachkhand de darwaje 6.00 vaje tak khule hunde ne.......better to do it before that.....
  25. waheguru ji I heard the same thing from Giani Thakur Singh ji, if you want to know more....listen to his kathas...especially Sukhmani Sahib katha........which can be downloaded from any sikh site......
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