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Pick a girl over here near you so you can see her face when she talks , bcos anybody can pretend over the phone . This girl does not want to get married for WHATEVER reason . The fact that it's the mother who is calling you means she doesn't even want to dial you . She's a grown up and sorry to say hostel girls tend to fall in ishq wishq chakars . Your gut instinct was right last time but you overrided it because of your folks , this time don't make the mistake in the first place. Like Bhain ji said refuse to call and see where the chips lie.

you are so lucky , when I was a kid very few books were available in english ...to learn from

I'd add gurmat bibek has loads of questions answered and helps with picking up vocabulary , full subtitles in english

live in 'burbs but would not mind rural life , lived in Urban setting before not all that

they are all excellent as they compliment each other, enjoy all of them keep adding more

harsh ...

some times we have deal with difficult people and they can often say hurtful things or act inconsiderately , this may be because they were never shown love and respect (often the case in bullies), my advice is to not go seeking them out, don't ostracise them, but when you do deal with them give same love and respect you would any other member of the family . Don't stop being your good, open, caring self, try to be the best daughter/son of Guru ji you can be and lean on him when you need support and help . Follow Guru ji's example though Prithvi Chand was not a good person he still gave love and respect as brother to Prithvi Chand , Guru ji never wish Bad for him even though he tried to do so many wrong things to both himself and his son. ultimately, though they don't seem it they are part of Akal Purakh too , maybe look on it as doing sewa of/ showing love to Akal Purakh instead of those unaware minds.

number one thing to note is this one of a series of articles bashing religious faiths , so the writers are out to character assasinate all people of faith by tarring them with same crime as these examples when they admit that the two faiths frown and say clearly that misusing females leads to hell. manusmitri is the bane of all humans in India not just hindus , as the majority's attitude poisons those whose faiths have better concepts such as equality of man, non-abuse of females, education and promotion of individuals based on ability and talent not gender i.e. sikhi

and some even refuse to read hindi on principle... like me

be specific certain dogrey were trustworthy but the most of them were conniving bhekhi sikhs who always dragged everything back to honouring their brahmin heritage e.g. changing colour of flags to hindu colours to ripping off the nation to feed their fellow brahmins e.g. refusing to give monies to sikhs and muslims from treasury for their festivities under orders from the Maharaja and Maharani but insisting on brahmins being given double . They are the ones who murdered the loyal dogrey and Ranjit's sons ...so no they were never sikhs they didn't wear shastar etc they helped Ranjit mentally justify disbanding sarbat Khalsa standard of deciding panthic issues.

it means you change your perspective to not be swayed by their attention-seeking drama baazi , in other words keep your balance . They are the ones with issues , you stick to your guns Guru ji's got your back so why be scared ? SOme are so mayadhari they cannot see the wood for the trees , gurbani or good salaa goes whoosh over their heads e.g. my MIL cannot see how eating maas is berahim , that daya is in choosing other things instead of killing other creatures to satisfy her tastebuds . Chal that's her karam to answer for , I'm not about to change my household's niam -langarsuitable foods to supply her wants . If she's desperate the whole town is full of restaurants. I am still looking after her , doing her sewa but i am not staunching my beliefs for her manmat... left it to Waheguru ji to bless her with sumat because it is clear the good flowing towards her from me isn't enough to change things .

no Missionary command so he can undermine sikhs undercover ...there loads of these bemukhs sneaking around trying to snag aam sikhs by creating doubts against saroopwale.

nobody makes you happy/sad/anger/calm these are all cooked up yourself in your mind ... by your interpretations and your reactions, so what can you do to change your state of mind ? Did you have an unrealistic view of what married life was going to be , many parents promise their girls that they will have total freedom after marriage to do fashion travelling socialising etc etc? Truth is adults have loads of responsibilities to themselves , their elders, their children, families and friends ...freedom is about doing what's right and being able to enjoy life too . Think about it life doesn't screech to a halt in either case of happiness or sadness the necessary still needs to be done , your husband probably feels as disappointed by the pressures of really being an adult too , maybe talking with him will bring better understanding and cooperation. You BOTH want a good happy life but you have to work together for it . WAHEGURU JI never forsakes anyone IT/SHE/HE is with you always , there is nowhere where Guru ji is not , just ask for help

bro please don't ...

i think Tisarpanth is like a bucket of freezing water over the sikh's head no matter what affiliation , it wakes them and makes them pay attention , in some ways i'm glad there is someone out there doing it because it makes ones think what am i doing , am i like this - lazy in introspection, action and rehit? the Sanataan-ist movement may give history a context but the average Jatinder is not well-read enough to differentiate between true ithihaas and misinterpretations to suit certain agendas e.g. a kind of backing off from rejecting mythologies created to link sikhi to hindu deities like the chaar sahibzahidey thread recently . I guess the best way it to read with a pinch of salt until we put it up against kasvasti of Gurbani and Gurhukham .

it is not a mystery how jammu and kashmir was given to the dogrey kuttey ...that was their payback for stabbing the sikhs in the back they were brahmins who had taken amrit to gain Ranjit singh's confidence and thus wheedle themselves into power positions against Gursikhs including Maharani Jindan

bro it's always better to more than less ....go with what your heart says

it is not by sunny but thepck themselves who Taljit Singh is , another person rounded up and tortured unfortunately an indian citizen from Jammu so no hope of rescue

as far as I know he has many streams of making money so no i have no problem with earning it's how he earns , if it brings pointing fingers on sikhi roop or does beadbhi of Guru ji, there are already too many others doing that for someone who knows better to start. As for my comment it was because the sangat of these yoginis seems to encourage the Singhs to do things which are frowned upon , like dragging Guru ji's saroop to places which are not suitable to host Guru ji or to monetize Gurbani kirtan and their roop(before you say it kirtaniyas perform in front of Guru ji and Sangat, not music festivals in concert halls) .3Ho have links with RSS swamis/guru so you can bet there is influence as we have seen in Niddar's case , probably again there will be something brewing will which show itself soon. i where anti ? they just said they recognise their own failing to be impartial because of influences and their need to distance from said influences as it was skewing their output . What they said about Dal UK was even handed in terms of pointing out that backing up certain individuals meant they were trapped by it. Anyway calling on people to not rest on laurels of others' achievements is hardly against anyone it's just asking them to live up to their aspirations.

but sis whenever somebody has to tried to lay into our sikh brothers the white folks have jumped in to correct the racists remember the arsenal bomb tweet involving the manchester sikhs ? Uk has a lot of awareness of sikhs because of numerous local gurdwarey rolling out community programs and school visits ... The truth is our people have been ignored so many decades since 1978 about grooming , so pardon us if we have our full say now . Racism is from ignorance and that is going down due our efforts as a community ....in fact we have probably the best profile due to us following our sikhi , I was born here and physically went through the rough years ...seventies when open racism was the default I am not foolish enough to believe I am an English woman , i will always be 'other' but my view is sikhs are destined to be universal citizens and thus should be mentally tough enough to preserve their own core values no matter where life takes them.

even people are turning their backs on sikhi because they are not getting help from their Khalsa family: interesting comeback to punjaban paagal woman who did beadbhi of Gurbani on SM:

SGPC has been caught making donations to churches in Punjab .... says it all our daswand is being used to cut our roots . Harmandir Sahib has been a haunt of regular christian missionary groups , and they have even assaulted sikhs , the response by task force kick out the sikhs ....

you forgot to mention that Sikh Youth Bham also fundraised, made a film drama and promoted it to show impressionable kids that they should not be afraid or fall for the sly ploys of others and to ask for help if something has happened ... care to cuss that too since you seem to have a real bee in your bonnet ? SAS recently outted a sikh and white paedos ...i.e. all paapis are dealt the same hand not just pakistanis , save your righteous indignation for real problems

they are not so called sikhs, they are trying their damndest to implement programs to save people from alcohol , drugs , grooming and homelessness all of which are just and noble causes which have been done by sikhs from time immemorial . To state the facts about a situation is neither slander nor nindiya so get off the high horse Bhen ji and use your brain just because the truth is bitter and coincides with the agenda of others it does not mean anyone is promoting that agenda . Next using that kind of logic you'll be saying we are HIndus because GurBani has numerous references to hindu stories about their pantheon , that we use Ram , Gopal etc Anti-Asian ? trying to use media speak are we ... Being a good or true sikh has nothing to do with cowering away from telling the truth of a situation , we owe no man allegiance 'paap kamavanda tere koi na beli Ram' so what if it is a muslim /hindu/christian frankly they have failed in their duties to Akal Purakh by commiting injustices against their fellow humans. Don't come here expecting sikhs to back off protecting or speaking about what's occurring because of neoliberal ideas promoted and swallowed whole by naive clueless people who claim some sikhi. They are not willing to stick their necks out even to save themselves instead they want to destroy sikh values to accomodate other people . Sorry being a doormat doesn't get the job done of preserving the panth. BTW pakistanis are NOT the sum total of all Asians there are chinese, japanese, taiwanese, Thais, Malaysians, Vietnamese, Indians, Sri Lankans etc etc and White people know the difference too

seems from the picture he's fallen under the spell of maya both in the form of paise and istri - what is it about these yoginis ?