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India is already overcrowded do they really need more people? Plus Hindus get treated bad in Bangladesh so i don't think the government wants more Bengalis. Perhaps Saudi Arabia should take them in

http://www.newindianexpress.com/world/2018/sep/07/pakistan-to-open-kartarpur-border-crossing-with-india-for-sikh-pilgrims-pakistan-minister-fawad-cha-1868886.html https://www.geo.tv/latest/210242-no-words-to-thank-pm-imran-says-sidhu-on-decision-to-open-kartarpur-corridor Maybe this time they will actually go ahead with the plans?

When i do simran i sometimes think of the Guru's sitting with me.

So how many of you guys have heard stories of someone having had a experience of Hell or Heaven and then came back? My mums friend, her mother lives in India, she basically died, the doctors proclaimed her dead! next morning when they were about to do her daag, cremate her and stuff, her toes started twitching! one of the village folk saw it and started screaming that he saw her move. Long story short she described what happened in the time that she was dead. She basically went to the next world and saw a lot of stuff! She said that it is very hot and humid, and very hard to breath, there is this narrow corridor that everyone needs to walk through, in this corridor it is pitch black and one can not breath. Everyone is in a line, and the people that misbehaved are dragged out of the line and tortured with whips and canes! People are screaming and begging for forgiveness. one jamdoot then came up to her and said what are you doing here, its not your time yet you still have a couple of days left, and she then woke up on the cremation wood! My mums friend told my mum that her mother then told everyone to do waheguru simran, and that only simran can save you, nothing else can save you. She gave her husband a simran mala and said only this will save you. she then passed away on the number of days the jamdoot had told her she had left! I also remember hearing another terrifying story from the same town as me. It was some punjabi man. Two "people" visited him, one of the ladies that came was a gori who he knew but she had died a few years back. They came through the the gap between the door and floor. There was a third person who came with them, that person was on the floor and they both were torturing him/her ! They then said to the punjabi man that they are gnna come back on this date -- -- ---- and take him. He then shared his story with all his family and many local Punjabis visited his house to hear it. The date that they told him they will come back he was found dead in his house! waheguru! My nani who was a amritdhari used to tell us before she passed away that she has visions of this Singh in white chola, long white dhari and a white dastar. He didn't say anything to her but used to walk past her. Soon she passed away. Some people on here will find this funny lol! and some scientists on here will not believe it and probably call it imagination or something. Has anyone else heard such stories? May Waheguru ji guide us all and protect us from all evil, Waheguru

Waheguru

He looks and behaves like a pig

LMAO what made you think this absolute clown would be a good representation of Sikhs. He makes a joke out of himself to please the white British audience. He's been a prick on tv from day 1

I never liked him, he has been an embarrassment since he first started appearing on tv, he is a jaloos. He is the sought to make a fool out of himself to entertain the whites. last year or the year before they had a punjabi sl@g married to a paki on big brother, her husband was in it too. Deana Uppal is another punjabi t@rt that went on big brother a few years back.

But what if they still don't listen and end up marrying a non sikh or end up converting to another religion, would you accept them?

I think I would just accept them! Would be Interesting to know what other people would do ...

Lol your actually right, traditional aunties age a lot better than the white washed coconut aunties. I guess it because coconut punjabi women adopt unhealthy habits like eating junk food, alcohol, spending hours in the sun etc My mum is in her mid 50s but looks mid 40s.

Yeah your average white woman looks good up to the age of 25, after 25 they start looking bad

1. your sibling or child left Sikhi and became atheist or converted to another faith 2. your sibling or child wanted to marry a non Sikh e.g Christian, Muslim, Hindu Would you try and convince them not to? break all relations with them? accept it? or something else ...

Very interesting. I used be mona but started wearing patka and stopped cutting my hair over 2 yrs ago, so i can kind of relate. Your behavior does change.You also know that every person you walk past knows what background you are from, thats something that i never even used to think about when i was mona. Your more careful about what your doing. It actually does change you now that im thinking about it. When in public you don't want to let other Sikhs down by doing something that they will not approve off, not that i do anything wrong, but you do become more aware of how other Sikhs might perceive you or what they might be thinking of you. Like just today at work i was talking to this hijab wearing paki girl at work, and i basically said to her that i hadn't seen her for a couple of days and where she been, we then started talking, giggling etc, then i saw these 2 punjabi aunties looking at me and from what i saw they looked quite disappointed! i then stopped talking to her and walked off lol! it just didn't feel right, maybe i just over react! But when i was mona and working at a massive retail store on oxford street, Iv had girls slap my bum, talked about dirty stuff in front of customers, I once was laughing so hard with this black girl that i was on the floor front of like 30 customers staring at me! but i just didn't care tbh! but now i would NEVER do any of that. When i was mona i used to drink alcohol but whenever i used to buy it from the shop i used to cover my kara because i didn't want anyone to know Im Sikh, i looked like a mirpuri paki anyway when i was mona lol! And now that I keep my hair, Whenever i go shopping with my dad,who drinks alcohol, whenever he goes into the alcohol aisle, i become really tensed and start looking around to see if some Singh is nearby who might see me standing in the alcohol isle lol! i really don't want to disappoint anyone ... But yeah you do change ...

Maybe it's just me lol tbh the last time I ever spoke to a Punjabi girl around my age is like 7 years ago LOL so maybe they aren't as bad as I think. Yeah my mum tells me food in the pinds was a lot more healthy plus people use to work hard so even if they did eat lots of ghee etc it wasn't as bad. These days many of us eat unhealthy food and then just sit around back in the days in pinds people worked a lot, moved around, lots of activity,

Yeah I agree many South Asian women can make white women look very average.

I think deep down many people are racist, many South Asians are racist towards whites and blacks. I know it's not racism but look how many punjabis believe in caste and think they are superior than other castes. White people are not the only racists. Look how South Asians are treated by Arabs. Look how South Asians treat the darker South Asians. In India people call North East Indians chinky. Growing up I heard punjabis say that whites are dirty and don't wash

Light skin is overrated. In India a woman can look like a horse but if she has light skin she would be considered beautiful. Many Bollywood actresses actually look like men e.g kareena kapoor but are considered attractive because of light skin. Lighter skin Punjabi women including Pakistani women can have masculine appearances. Large noses, harder looking faces etc. Especially jatt women. Many paki women look hideous especially the long hooked noses, but some can be very pretty.

Yeah your right, English women don't take care of themselves. At work during lunch you have the English women sitting around table with burgers, hotdogs, chips etc drinking coke and making jokes about male private parts and then you have the Eastern European ladies on the other table eating fruit, salad and drinking water, reading a book or something LOL the contrast Tbh the the main problem with South Asians is diet, our food makes you chubby and gives you greasy looking oily skin. I like women with dusky skin lol Bengali women are very beautiful, imo they are among the prettiest south asian women. Something about Punjabi females just put me off! dnno they have this attitude about them which i don't like, many dress like trash too.

Yeah its really messed up. How you been anyway bro, haven't heard from you in a while, everything Ok ?

Well it contradicts the Quran which says that Allah is all knowing, clearly Allah wasn't up to scratch and all knowing with biology. Its not just a cultural practice but Allah and Islam allows Muslims to marry their cousins. I wounder if Punjabi Muslims married their cousins pre partition, when they used to live among Punjabi Sikhs and Hindus?If they did imagine how disgusted the Singhs and Hindus must of been! We don't even get married to women from the same pind or same family name because we consider them our sisters

Yeah your right its mostly UK cousin gets married to Pakistan cousin. But in my school I knew this paki guy who was dating his cousin. I first found out pakis marry their cousins when I was in primary school and this paki girl called fatima told me she wants to marry her cousin and she called him sexy. So from a very young age they are aware and start developing attractions towards their cousins. This suli at my mum's work place was first married to her chacha's son, she has a son with him but she divorced him and then married her pua's son !

Yeah most animals leave their group in search of other females, so their social setting avoids inbreeding but many animals actually do things to avoid inbreeding, search it up it's actually interesting lol Inbreeding communities may of worked well a couple of decades ago but they have very high divorce rates now which results not only in the couple breaking up but close families breaking up and family wealth and inheritance leads to court cases. I have seen many paki families breaking up in my area because inbreeding couples/cousins decided to divorce. I remember once when I used to get my hair cut I was at the hair cut shop and this paki uncle was saying the good thing about cousin marriages is that all the wealth stays in the family but the bad thing is when the couple break up it breaks the whole family up and causes a lot of problems. Times are changing and divorces are on the rise in inbreeding communities. My mum's paki friend got her daughter married to her sisters son. The couple broke up and she also broke up with her sister LOL