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  1. the first time I took Amrit, I was 5 years old. After plenty of mistakes and growing I had taken it again at the age of 12 from pressure (not all of it was bad but some auntiyan were really urging me to just do it even though my family was warning me of all my responsibilities) and just pure desire to want it. It was at a camp and they really motivate you well. I kept it up for a while and ended up doing many wrongful things afterwards. I’ve plucked my eyebrows because I started getting insecure and ashamed, and just some of my facial hair in general after I got judgemental comments even from my own mother who is Amritdhari, I’ve removed a small amount from legs a couple times where my leg was exposed, once even because I childishly wanted to see what a razor feels like (not sure if this was before or after I took it again). But I’ve had my fair share of mess ups. I kissed a boy and once he took Amrit we never did again and are on a better path now where we don’t even see each other in real life. I feel like I have to confess to that and I’m not sure how. The worst one for me is confession removing pubic hair a few times for comfort purposes especially during period a few times. I just can’t find any way to do that so simply. I know I have to confess everything I can remember because if I don’t then I will be punished after I leave this world so I might as confess now and take the tankha especially because I do very much feel guilty for it all. I don’t know what I was thinking. But I’m terrified of how to say all this. Like wording-wise and just bringing it up in general.
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    Amrit Sanchar UK

    Vjkk vjkf, Sangat ji, daas was wondering when the next amrit sanchar will take place. Preferably in West Midlands or around Leicester. Vjkk vjkf
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    Amrit Sanchar UK

    Vjkk vjkf, Sangat ji, daas was wondering when the next amrit sanchar will take place. Preferably in West Midlands or around Leicester. Vjkk vjkf
  4. I heared from a nihang that in dal panth women can't take khande di pahul is that truth
  5. I looked at inappropriate things online and on top I'm an amritdhari guy. did I do a bajjar kurehat. will I have to take amrit again or can I ask for forgiveness please answer. *edited*
  6. Can someone please tell me when the next amrit Sanchars are please ?? UK urgent.
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    HELP With BOOK

    WGJDK WGJDF Khalsa ji, i will be writing a book which has my views , question and answers , details ,resources and activity about sikhi .So, i request you to give me some questions about sikhi which i can answer in the book (you can also give answers ),topics i should give my views on in the book(you can give ur views too) ( i dont want people to fight because of different opinions so please dont do that )( even controversial topics) ,resources , activities,saakhis ,sikh stories (any good story with sikhs in it)that i can write about in my book . I wont write your names in the book though (not even usernames) ( privacy 100 %).Please help your brother in this mission. Also you can give me suggestions for the title of the book.if you have any doubts you can post below and ask me i will surely reply.I will see your suggestions and select from them . I hopee you will like this thanks, love, bhul chuk maaf peace Regards Daas Guest Singh WGJDK WGJDF KHUSIAAN DE JAIKARE GAJAVE NIHAAL HO JAAAVE, NIHAAL HO JAVE ,NIHAAL HO JAVE ,NIHAAL HO JAAVE ,BAIRI NU BHAJNA PAVE , KALGIDHAR SWAMI SAHIB SRII GURU GOBIND SINGH JI DE MAAN NU BHAAVE ,SHAHIDAAN SINGHAAN SINGHNIAAN DE MAN NU BHAAVE NANAK GURU GOBIND SINGH DE MANAN NU BHAAVE NIHAAL HO JAAAAAAAAVE SAT SRII AKAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL
  8. is there a Amrit Sanchaar this weekend in or around Birmingham Area?
  9. Hello Please can I have some advice. My bro in law did Amrit early this year but continues to lie and makes false benefit claims, I.e, gives false address etc. Is this right or wrong? Has he broken his Amrit?
  10. Can someone please let me know the upcoming Amrit Sanchaars in the UK? ASAP (prefer not missionary lol)
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    Panj Pyarey

    WJKK WJKF, Das is struggling with a battle against porn addiction and this week sevadaar at my local gurdwara are pressurising me to do seva in panj, don't know what to do help ASAP.
  12. Wjkk wjkf, i am 12 yrs old and I want to take Amrit but my parents won't let me. 1. They say u r too young. 2. You might cut your hair when u grow up. 3. People don't hire amritdharis. 4. When will u get if u take Amrit. 5. You don't need to take Amrit to be a true Sikh. (I know this but I said u r not a complete Sikh) 6. God doesn't give anything to amritdharis These r some of the issues I am facing please help very depressed
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    Amrit after marriage

    WJKK WJKF Sangat ji What should be done in case one of members in couple wants to partake amrit few years after marriage? To set up context, I was non kesadhari sikh few years back and married a hindu girl. Few years into a marriage and few setbacks in life, I started reading gurbani and doing sangat a lot. Still was non kesadhari then. Kep full rehit of baani including nitnem, kirtan, sangat , simran etc. Nitnem (all 7 banis) were kanth to me. My wife continued followed her religion and there was no interference. She would join me for gurudwara but still do her own thing at home. Fast forward few years and another major setback, I kept my kesh and did prakash of dahra sahib. Started doing sehaj path and more strict in my rehit including hours of nitnem, kirtan. In fact I have reached a stage whenever I am free, I would either listen to kirtan, katha or read gurbani related books or memorize Gurbani - No TV or any activity that world calls entertainment. My wife supported me and I was able to make her understand about one God and life of Sikh. Now I have got too much ahead and I feel there is a call from Guru Gobind Singh for Amrit chakk and I am totally ready and excited. Now some people say that both partners have to take amrit together. In my case, my wife may take years to just get onto Sikhi path or may refuse altogether. She is following all sikh traditions but she is also following hindu way. She listen to path I am doing sometimes. My problem is that should I go ahead and take Amrit which I really want to? May be if Guru sahib showers blessings, she will join sometime in future. Remember, she doesn't have any issue with me taking amrit. Having suffered huge setbacks in life, I don't want to wait further and want to start my new journey asap. For me Guru sahib is most important and other relationships come later. Should I take the jump or wait for my wife to join. It may happen that she doesn't change and I may be without amrit for whole life which is certainly very-2 distressing for me. Can amritdhari man stay with non amritdhari wife? If yes, what are the usual dos and don'ts
  14. National Amrit Sanchaar Smagam & Keertan Darbar In Celebration of Holla Mohalla Saturday 2nd March 2019 SINGH SABHA GURDWARA CROSS ROAD COVENTRY CV6 5GR Akhand Keertan 7pm-12am Amrit Sanchar - 7pm With respect to getting pesh, please remember the following: 1. Wear 5 Kakaars, including Keski and Dastaar. 2. Wear Clean Gurmukhi Baana 3. Kirpan must be made of Sarbloh and held in Gaatra. 4. Kachhera must be White only. 5. Karra must be made of Sarbloh. 6. All Abhilaakhis must come after Body & Kesh Ishnaan. 7. 5 Kakaars Will be provided as free Seva if needed. Note – It is strongly advised all New Abhilaakhis should do 2 hours Mool Mantra Jaap & 7 Baniaa in preparation for Amrith. For more information, please contact 07969 655015 ਪੀਵਹੁ ਪਾਹੁਲ ਖੰਡੇਧਾਰ ਹੋਇ ਜਨਮ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ||
  15. Next month, I will be taking Amrit. Is there anything I need to know?
  16. National Amrit Sanchaar Smagam In Remembrance of Chaar Sahibzade & Shaheed Gursikhs Saturday 22nd December 2018 GURU NANAK DEV JEE GURDWARA 1912 WAKEFIELD ROAD BRADFORD BD4 7DP Start time 7pm With respect to getting pesh, please remember the following: 1. Wear 5 Kakaars, including Keski and Dastaar. 2. Wear Clean Gurmukhi Baana 3. Kirpan must be made of Sarbloh and held in Gaatra. 4. Kachhera must be White only. 5. Karra must be made of Sarbloh. 6. All Abhilaakhis must come after Body & Kesh Ishnaan. 7. 5 Kakaars Will be provided as free Seva if needed. Note – It is strongly advised all New Abhilaakhis should do 2 hours Mool Mantra Jaap & 7 Baniaa in preparation for Amrith. For more information, please contact 07969 655015 ਪੀਵਹੁ ਪਾਹੁਲ ਖੰਡੇਧਾਰ ਹੋਇ ਜਨਮ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ||
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    Help - full of kaam

    Fateh sangat ji, I am in a dilemma with myself and my Sikhi. I would like to ask a few questions from knowledgeable people on there, both Gursikhs and non, and also get some advice. Please don't just slander me as I don't need that right now. I took amrit aged 15 but then went down the wrong path at 18 when I moved out for uni, but secretly. I started drinking (usually on my own at home), occasionally smoking a cigarette when in the pub low key and I also dabbled in some weed and coke here and there. I did not become an addict or alcoholic by any means. I have always had a major problem with kaam. I got together with my best friend but this was an on off relationship and a distance one due to areas. Mostly based on phone calls, emails etc. I never told her about what kurehats I had done. She was amritdhari. During our last off period which was about a year, she had met someone else. I called her one day to say I still love her and later down the line she told me that she met someone and their wedding was arranged and date set. This broke me and I still wanted us to be together as we always spoke about. Anyway, we met a few times and one thing lead to another. This lasted up until her wedding. She didn't call off the wedding due to being afraid of her parents etc. Now, I was obviously heartbroken and lonely. I have always been a horny chap and with the regular physical activity no longer there with her it was difficult for me. Anyway, I went to pesh and retook amrit but my heart wasn't in it as I could not speak openly to the panj piaare due to time restraints and as one was hell bent on telling me off without me fully explaining all my kurehats. I still done the seva they said but just felt I was not forgiven as everything wasn't disclosed. Then an old friend of mine got in touch but she was married and not happy. It had only been a year since her marriage. We got close on the phone declared we liked each other in all ways and met. Nothing happend as I knew I retook amrit and she is married. I resisted so much for a few years and had several "opportunities" with other friends and colleagues which I didn't do. But being full of kaam I couldn't any longer and had an affair with my married friend. Now, I have disrespected my Guru and Amrit twice now and cant give up sex with her but I know one day I will have to as she cant leave him. My conscious gets to me. Question, will I be forgiven?? I read plenty of bani and do seva. I don't plan on taking Amrit yet because I cannot fall a 3rd time and take the piss so will wait a few years and control.my kaam before going in front of the panj piaare. I need to sort my kaam out. I cant get married to someone I don't love otherwise that would have addressed the issue. Any advice and thoughts? Thank you.
  18. When I met my fiance first time in India this summer, she touched the topic on Amrit. She isn't Amritdhari herself. This was our 1st meeting. I made it clear to her, if you wish to take Amrit or not it up to you. Nobody will force you before/ after marriage. That put her at ease. Now, I am about to tell you why you should never ever ever force anyone into taking Amrit. Do I mean putting them at gunpoint? No. I'm talking about nagging them! Everytime u see/ meet that one or two persons you mite say silly things like "Why aren't u Anritdhari? Your parents are? You hubby/ wife is...?" First of all, EVERYONE knows about Amrit lol. Trust... EVERYONE! Nothing is being hidden from them. Now, you're unnecessary nag may compel them into taking Amrit. What happens in next few years?? The compelled individual(s) will either be suffocating or Amrit broken. However, there is a correct way into motivating others. Individuals will step up and say "I too wish to be Amritdhari." THEN U motivate them; keep your kes, do simran n seva - whatever level you feel they're appropriate at. If they wish to go ahead or step down BEFORE having taken Amrit, YOU should accept their wishes. I said exact same things to my fiance. However, reason for both couples t be Amritdhari, first is so they're truly level meeting on vichaars n second is to do with jooth (germs). One method of jooth is sharing food. Second is intercourse. During the act germs are shared. I left it up to her for her wishes. I'd rather her say "I took Amrit as it was in my heart/ own wishes" instead of "I only took Amrit as he's Amritdhari." I took Amrit as it was my own desires. With kirpa it been 12 years of bliss n Anand. My dad is Nitnemi plus I found the right crowd (Friday nite sangat Gurudwara) and thas it! Kirpa happened. Thas all it took. Fair play, you mite ask sum1 once about them wishing to take Amrit. But constant nag will do them ZERO favours. And don't think they'll tell u off! Some people are powerless to speak up about their wishes to remain NON Amritdhari.
  19. Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh ! I am in a bit of a conundrum Saadh Sangat Jee. I have decided that I want to take Amrit and walk the path of our Guru, my wife doesn't eat meat / drink etc however is not ready as of yet to take Amrit. Her mind-set is to take Amrit but not right now, and I respect that. We have one young child (7 months) and we are planning to have more in the future. My questions are : Am I still able to take Amrit from the Panj Pyaare even though my wife will not be? Are we still able to have a physical relationship (without her having taken Amrit)? I have read through some of the posts on previous topics, but would be keen to hear and read everyone's thoughts? Bhul Chuk Maaf Daas Gurvinder Singh
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    Next amrit sanchar

    Let's keep this open as a running thread which should be pinned to the top as telling people about the next amrit Sanchar is a big sewa to everyone. So does anyone know when the next amrit sanchar is? Near them? Hopefully in London but also elsewhere in other places for the rest of sangat
  21. ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕਾਖਾਲਸਾਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕੀਫਤਹਿ With the Apaar Kirpa of Guru Gobind Singh Jee, Amrit Sanchar and Akhand Keertan Darbar has been organised for the Chardi Kala of the Khalsa Panth. Saturday 6th October 2018. Amrit Sanchar 7pm, Akhand Keertan 7pm to 12am @ Sri Guru Singh Sabha Gurdwara, 47-49 Cross Rd, Foleshill, Coventry, CV6 5GR. Kakkars will be provided as Seva. For more information please contact Bhai Hardeep Singh on 07969655015.
  22. I have heard the term ‘abhiyasee’... is this correct? What does it mean?
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    amrit, rehat questions

    Hello. I am thinking of taking amrit but i have a few questions, i will ask the panj pyare about this as well, but i wish to practice rehat before taking amrit. 1. How did you feel after taking amrit? 2. When you did naam simran or nitnem did your concentration increase? 3. what happens if you miss waking up at amrit vela, do you just do ardaas? 4. If you miss amrit vela for more than 2 or 3 days then do you have to go pesh? 5. If you know that, for example, hair will come out when you scratch your beard or legs and stuff but you still scratch it, will you have to go pesh? (some of the pesh topics are making me paranoid) 6. When taking a shower, where do you put your kangha? Do you just put it in your kacchera or something? 7. Do you have to wash your hair everyday? (i will ask panj pyare about this one) 8. If i go to school and uni and stuff and i am not allowed to carry a "big" kirpan can i carry a small one? When i mean big i mean something that i will be able to use 9. Do you guys use 2 kirpans? One for being the in shower and the other one you just wear when not in the shower?? 10. Do I have to do my entire nitnem at amritvela or? (What i mean is that, for example, i did 10 paaths, 5 of them are the minimum paaths i have to do as told by panj pyare but what about the other 5?.
  24. Daas had decided to go pesh for a porn problem I suffered with, anyone know any upcoming amrit sanchaars in UK I could go to and what I need to say to panj?
  25. AKHAND KEERTAN & AMRIT SANCHAAR SMAGAM Saturday 7th July 2018 Amrit Sanchaar - 7pm Akhand Keertan - 7pm - 12am Sri Guru Singh Sabha Gurdwara Cross Roads Coventry CV6 5GR For more information please contact : +44 7969 655015 ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕਾਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ। ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂਜੀਕੀਫ਼ਤਹਿ
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