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  1. Guest

    problem

    hi this boy I know has a big problem he told me and I don't know what to do, so basically he hasn't comb he's hair for a bit as he rushes when he ties he's dastaar as he just makes he's Bunga and didn't even brush it. and now he has massive knots and he wants to take when out but he's not sure what to do he's really stressed because they are not coming out as its such a big big knot like its most of he's hair its been so long , what should he do I think the only option is to cut it but he is amritari should he just leave it because he doesn't want to break Amrit by cutting hair but also he wants to sort it out what should he do cut it thank you
  2. My name wasn’t decided from taking hukamnama when born (cos my family didn’t follow sikhi then) So when I take amrit do I have to be given a new name? I mean first name cos I already use Singh to my surname
  3. I tie a taksali dumala, but i am wondering what is the history behind it. Apparently the singhs in guru jis time used to wear nihang dumala and used used to wear chakars on them. When was the taksali dumala style made? who made it? is there a reason why taksalis wear this dumala?
  4. Vaheguroo ji ka khalsaa vaheguroo ji ki fatehh i recently came back from visiting hazoor sahib for the first time I feel ashamed and violated. i was just outside the takht complex with 20 other “gursikhs” who were all in their bana and wearing shastar they handed me a drink telling me it was rattani which I thought meant rose water however I took one sip and immediately realised this wasn’t rose water but was infact alcohol I questioned the “gursikh” who handed me it and he starting laughing and confirmed it was infact alcohol they were all drinking it and said this is true “Sikhi” and that if I don’t like it I should go somewhere else I felt ashamed of my self and ran back to my accommodation and spent all day there crying. I am really ashamed of myself and I feel I have broken my Amrit and I’m extremely scared to go pesh and admit my mistake. do I need to go pesh because it was not intently or do I need to go ?! Please help
  5. Guest

    Lazer Before Amrit

    I'm a keshdhari working towards the eventual goal of taking amrit. Ive seen alot (specically females) having lazer treatment done before taking amrit. i'm tempted to do the same, just so i don't remove any hair or have the urges to after taking amrit and commit a kerit. whats the sangat's opinions on lazer treatment before taking amrit? technically your not a gursikh yet, or amritdhari, or a khalsa. so why not right? seen plently of girls with issues having it done before amrit too and they're happier afterwards and full of confidence having not taken that step and then done the business.
  6. Vaheguroo Jee Kaa Khalsaa Vaheguroo Jee Kee Fateh!! Sadh sangat ji, I am looking for some direction/advice. I took Amrit at a young age but ended up doing kuraits such as drinking alcohol, smoking and cocaine at one stage. It was a tough time I was going through but no excuse as I still had love for Sikhi. Whilst doing this I never slaughtered my Kes in any way. I always had a deep feeling of guilt whilst doing the above and hid it from everyone (the activities and guilt). Later I met someone also Amritdaari and she had done a kurait as well. I did not disclose my kuraits although she as aware that I was 'Amritdaari' and had taken my Sri Sahib off but kept all other four kakkars. We become a couple and one thing led to another. Anyway, we are no longer together as she passed away in a fatal accident when she was in India. I have upped my Gurbani and Simran so much with Maharaaj's kirpa since. I went to do pesh 2 years ago and took Amrit again. I wasn't able to fully explain all the kuraits I had done as one of the Panj Piyaaray just began shouting at me for the first thing I explained which is fair enough but I still feel my pesh was not complete becuase I didn't get a chance to have a word again due to the amount of praani's taking Amrit that day. Since then I have been in touch with someone and we are really close. Problem is she is married and not happy. Kaam has always been a BIG weakness of mine although I have only been with one person. I have failed again Sangat ji. Having so much knowledge of Gurbani and doing so much Simran and Seva I have still fallen. I want to sort myself out again but need to wait until I can really keep on track and get my avasta to that level. Amrit is priceless and I still remember the Panj Piyaara saying "amrit baar baar nee mildha". I would like to know if anyone has been or is in the same situation or how many times people have been to pesh and taken Amrit? Sorry for the long story but I thought I would explain the situation(s). Thank you very any answers, feedback and guidance in advance.
  7. Guest

    Amrit & Dastar

    Hi to all, So I have problem, maybe it's not even a problem, maybe it's my insecurities I don't know. So I'm ready to take Amrit 100%. I do my Paath, I don't remove no hair whatsoever and try to be a good human being in general. So I believe when I do take Amrit my head should be covered at all times . However I am having trouble with this. So I've been practicing the Dastar for many months now and it simply does not suit me. I know you are probably thinking I am silly for even writing this but it does not suit my face. I've also tried different styles. So i figured I would wear a patka instead but I have a weird shaped head or something (lol), I don't know but patka don't look good at all. I don't know why I am even writing this post, I guess most of the replies will tell me I have insecurity issues and need to be more confident. I'm not really insecure at all . I have slight facial hair on my upper lip. I often have people at work, other girls saying I need to wax but I couldn't care less what others think about it. However I just want to tie a nice dastar that suits my face. :( Is there any other people out there, that faced same issue with dastar, I've tried many styles :(
  8. the first time I took Amrit, I was 5 years old. After plenty of mistakes and growing I had taken it again at the age of 12 from pressure (not all of it was bad but some auntiyan were really urging me to just do it even though my family was warning me of all my responsibilities) and just pure desire to want it. It was at a camp and they really motivate you well. I kept it up for a while and ended up doing many wrongful things afterwards. I’ve plucked my eyebrows because I started getting insecure and ashamed, and just some of my facial hair in general after I got judgemental comments even from my own mother who is Amritdhari, I’ve removed a small amount from legs a couple times where my leg was exposed, once even because I childishly wanted to see what a razor feels like (not sure if this was before or after I took it again). But I’ve had my fair share of mess ups. I kissed a boy and once he took Amrit we never did again and are on a better path now where we don’t even see each other in real life. I feel like I have to confess to that and I’m not sure how. The worst one for me is confession removing pubic hair a few times for comfort purposes especially during period a few times. I just can’t find any way to do that so simply. I know I have to confess everything I can remember because if I don’t then I will be punished after I leave this world so I might as confess now and take the tankha especially because I do very much feel guilty for it all. I don’t know what I was thinking. But I’m terrified of how to say all this. Like wording-wise and just bringing it up in general.
  9. Guest

    Amrit Sanchar UK

    Vjkk vjkf, Sangat ji, daas was wondering when the next amrit sanchar will take place. Preferably in West Midlands or around Leicester. Vjkk vjkf
  10. Guest

    Amrit Sanchar UK

    Vjkk vjkf, Sangat ji, daas was wondering when the next amrit sanchar will take place. Preferably in West Midlands or around Leicester. Vjkk vjkf
  11. I heared from a nihang that in dal panth women can't take khande di pahul is that truth
  12. I looked at inappropriate things online and on top I'm an amritdhari guy. did I do a bajjar kurehat. will I have to take amrit again or can I ask for forgiveness please answer. *edited*
  13. Can someone please tell me when the next amrit Sanchars are please ?? UK urgent.
  14. Guest

    HELP With BOOK

    WGJDK WGJDF Khalsa ji, i will be writing a book which has my views , question and answers , details ,resources and activity about sikhi .So, i request you to give me some questions about sikhi which i can answer in the book (you can also give answers ),topics i should give my views on in the book(you can give ur views too) ( i dont want people to fight because of different opinions so please dont do that )( even controversial topics) ,resources , activities,saakhis ,sikh stories (any good story with sikhs in it)that i can write about in my book . I wont write your names in the book though (not even usernames) ( privacy 100 %).Please help your brother in this mission. Also you can give me suggestions for the title of the book.if you have any doubts you can post below and ask me i will surely reply.I will see your suggestions and select from them . I hopee you will like this thanks, love, bhul chuk maaf peace Regards Daas Guest Singh WGJDK WGJDF KHUSIAAN DE JAIKARE GAJAVE NIHAAL HO JAAAVE, NIHAAL HO JAVE ,NIHAAL HO JAVE ,NIHAAL HO JAAVE ,BAIRI NU BHAJNA PAVE , KALGIDHAR SWAMI SAHIB SRII GURU GOBIND SINGH JI DE MAAN NU BHAAVE ,SHAHIDAAN SINGHAAN SINGHNIAAN DE MAN NU BHAAVE NANAK GURU GOBIND SINGH DE MANAN NU BHAAVE NIHAAL HO JAAAAAAAAVE SAT SRII AKAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL
  15. is there a Amrit Sanchaar this weekend in or around Birmingham Area?
  16. Hello Please can I have some advice. My bro in law did Amrit early this year but continues to lie and makes false benefit claims, I.e, gives false address etc. Is this right or wrong? Has he broken his Amrit?
  17. Can someone please let me know the upcoming Amrit Sanchaars in the UK? ASAP (prefer not missionary lol)
  18. Guest

    Panj Pyarey

    WJKK WJKF, Das is struggling with a battle against porn addiction and this week sevadaar at my local gurdwara are pressurising me to do seva in panj, don't know what to do help ASAP.
  19. Wjkk wjkf, i am 12 yrs old and I want to take Amrit but my parents won't let me. 1. They say u r too young. 2. You might cut your hair when u grow up. 3. People don't hire amritdharis. 4. When will u get if u take Amrit. 5. You don't need to take Amrit to be a true Sikh. (I know this but I said u r not a complete Sikh) 6. God doesn't give anything to amritdharis These r some of the issues I am facing please help very depressed
  20. Guest

    Amrit after marriage

    WJKK WJKF Sangat ji What should be done in case one of members in couple wants to partake amrit few years after marriage? To set up context, I was non kesadhari sikh few years back and married a hindu girl. Few years into a marriage and few setbacks in life, I started reading gurbani and doing sangat a lot. Still was non kesadhari then. Kep full rehit of baani including nitnem, kirtan, sangat , simran etc. Nitnem (all 7 banis) were kanth to me. My wife continued followed her religion and there was no interference. She would join me for gurudwara but still do her own thing at home. Fast forward few years and another major setback, I kept my kesh and did prakash of dahra sahib. Started doing sehaj path and more strict in my rehit including hours of nitnem, kirtan. In fact I have reached a stage whenever I am free, I would either listen to kirtan, katha or read gurbani related books or memorize Gurbani - No TV or any activity that world calls entertainment. My wife supported me and I was able to make her understand about one God and life of Sikh. Now I have got too much ahead and I feel there is a call from Guru Gobind Singh for Amrit chakk and I am totally ready and excited. Now some people say that both partners have to take amrit together. In my case, my wife may take years to just get onto Sikhi path or may refuse altogether. She is following all sikh traditions but she is also following hindu way. She listen to path I am doing sometimes. My problem is that should I go ahead and take Amrit which I really want to? May be if Guru sahib showers blessings, she will join sometime in future. Remember, she doesn't have any issue with me taking amrit. Having suffered huge setbacks in life, I don't want to wait further and want to start my new journey asap. For me Guru sahib is most important and other relationships come later. Should I take the jump or wait for my wife to join. It may happen that she doesn't change and I may be without amrit for whole life which is certainly very-2 distressing for me. Can amritdhari man stay with non amritdhari wife? If yes, what are the usual dos and don'ts
  21. National Amrit Sanchaar Smagam & Keertan Darbar In Celebration of Holla Mohalla Saturday 2nd March 2019 SINGH SABHA GURDWARA CROSS ROAD COVENTRY CV6 5GR Akhand Keertan 7pm-12am Amrit Sanchar - 7pm With respect to getting pesh, please remember the following: 1. Wear 5 Kakaars, including Keski and Dastaar. 2. Wear Clean Gurmukhi Baana 3. Kirpan must be made of Sarbloh and held in Gaatra. 4. Kachhera must be White only. 5. Karra must be made of Sarbloh. 6. All Abhilaakhis must come after Body & Kesh Ishnaan. 7. 5 Kakaars Will be provided as free Seva if needed. Note – It is strongly advised all New Abhilaakhis should do 2 hours Mool Mantra Jaap & 7 Baniaa in preparation for Amrith. For more information, please contact 07969 655015 ਪੀਵਹੁ ਪਾਹੁਲ ਖੰਡੇਧਾਰ ਹੋਇ ਜਨਮ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ||
  22. Next month, I will be taking Amrit. Is there anything I need to know?
  23. National Amrit Sanchaar Smagam In Remembrance of Chaar Sahibzade & Shaheed Gursikhs Saturday 22nd December 2018 GURU NANAK DEV JEE GURDWARA 1912 WAKEFIELD ROAD BRADFORD BD4 7DP Start time 7pm With respect to getting pesh, please remember the following: 1. Wear 5 Kakaars, including Keski and Dastaar. 2. Wear Clean Gurmukhi Baana 3. Kirpan must be made of Sarbloh and held in Gaatra. 4. Kachhera must be White only. 5. Karra must be made of Sarbloh. 6. All Abhilaakhis must come after Body & Kesh Ishnaan. 7. 5 Kakaars Will be provided as free Seva if needed. Note – It is strongly advised all New Abhilaakhis should do 2 hours Mool Mantra Jaap & 7 Baniaa in preparation for Amrith. For more information, please contact 07969 655015 ਪੀਵਹੁ ਪਾਹੁਲ ਖੰਡੇਧਾਰ ਹੋਇ ਜਨਮ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ||
  24. Guest

    Help - full of kaam

    Fateh sangat ji, I am in a dilemma with myself and my Sikhi. I would like to ask a few questions from knowledgeable people on there, both Gursikhs and non, and also get some advice. Please don't just slander me as I don't need that right now. I took amrit aged 15 but then went down the wrong path at 18 when I moved out for uni, but secretly. I started drinking (usually on my own at home), occasionally smoking a cigarette when in the pub low key and I also dabbled in some weed and coke here and there. I did not become an addict or alcoholic by any means. I have always had a major problem with kaam. I got together with my best friend but this was an on off relationship and a distance one due to areas. Mostly based on phone calls, emails etc. I never told her about what kurehats I had done. She was amritdhari. During our last off period which was about a year, she had met someone else. I called her one day to say I still love her and later down the line she told me that she met someone and their wedding was arranged and date set. This broke me and I still wanted us to be together as we always spoke about. Anyway, we met a few times and one thing lead to another. This lasted up until her wedding. She didn't call off the wedding due to being afraid of her parents etc. Now, I was obviously heartbroken and lonely. I have always been a horny chap and with the regular physical activity no longer there with her it was difficult for me. Anyway, I went to pesh and retook amrit but my heart wasn't in it as I could not speak openly to the panj piaare due to time restraints and as one was hell bent on telling me off without me fully explaining all my kurehats. I still done the seva they said but just felt I was not forgiven as everything wasn't disclosed. Then an old friend of mine got in touch but she was married and not happy. It had only been a year since her marriage. We got close on the phone declared we liked each other in all ways and met. Nothing happend as I knew I retook amrit and she is married. I resisted so much for a few years and had several "opportunities" with other friends and colleagues which I didn't do. But being full of kaam I couldn't any longer and had an affair with my married friend. Now, I have disrespected my Guru and Amrit twice now and cant give up sex with her but I know one day I will have to as she cant leave him. My conscious gets to me. Question, will I be forgiven?? I read plenty of bani and do seva. I don't plan on taking Amrit yet because I cannot fall a 3rd time and take the piss so will wait a few years and control.my kaam before going in front of the panj piaare. I need to sort my kaam out. I cant get married to someone I don't love otherwise that would have addressed the issue. Any advice and thoughts? Thank you.
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