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I just wanted to ask the sangat's own experience in the real world:

I have found that a lot of sikhs who are amrithdhari still hold a lot of regard for the caste system, eg be it jat, ramgarhia etc...

Especially when it comes to marriage proposals. People say such and such is a really good family, educated, good morals, amritdhari etc .... and then go on to ask the cast of the other party and then say that they are only strictly looking for a match of the same cast.

In living our lives in a practical sense (as our Gurus have taught us to live our lives in the Sikh way) I feel that we are way off. Even the new generation of sikhs seems to put a lot more importance on cast and much less on Sikhi!!

Bul chuk di mafi

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true!!! well i dunno if im allopwed 2 marry a white singhni.. hm lol well wenever i talk 2 my parents abt marryi out of caste all they say is "what about ur children? they will get nowhere 2 marry" since they dnot jatt nor wotever caste ur wife/hubby will be. n dat kinda angers me coz tis all a vicious circle!. only a few cant do it. either all can do it or none. hope u lot understand wot im tryna say.

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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

Those 'sikhs' who believe in caste, are not Sikhs. :wub:

This Shabad is by Guru Amar Daas Ji in Raag Bhairao on ANG 1127

rwgu BYrau mhlw 3 caupdy Gru 1

<> siqgur pRswid ]

jwiq kw grbu n krIAhu koeI ]

bRhmu ibMdy so bRwhmxu hoeI ]1]

jwiq kw grbu n kir mUrK gvwrw ]

iesu grb qy clih bhuqu ivkwrw ]1] rhwau ]

cwry vrn AwKY sBu koeI ]

bRhmu ibMd qy sB Epiq hoeI ]2]

mwtI eyk sgl sMswrw ]

bhu ibiD BWfy GVY kum@wrw ]3]

pMc qqu imil dyhI kw Awkwrw ]

Git viD ko krY bIcwrw ]4]

khqu nwnk iehu jIau krm bMDu hoeI ]

ibnu siqgur Byty mukiq n hoeI ]5]1]

raag bhairo mehalaa 3 choupadhae ghar 1

ik oa(n)kaar sathigur prasaadh ||

jaath kaa garab n kareeahu koee ||

breham bi(n)dhae so braahaman hoee ||1||

jaath kaa garab n kar moorakh gavaaraa ||

eis garab thae chalehi bahuth vikaaraa ||1|| rehaao ||

chaarae varan aakhai sabh koee ||

breham bi(n)dh thae sabh oupath hoee ||2||

maattee eaek sagal sa(n)saaraa ||

bahu bidhh bhaa(n)ddae gharrai kumhaaraa ||3||

pa(n)ch thath mil dhaehee kaa aakaaraa ||

ghatt vadhh ko karai beechaaraa ||4||

kehath naanak eihu jeeo karam ba(n)dhh hoee ||

bin sathigur bhaettae mukath n hoee ||5||1||

Raag Bhairao, Third Mehl, Chaupadas, First House:

One Universal Creator God. By The Grace Of The True Guru:

No one should be proud of his social class and status.

He alone is a Brahmin, who knows God. ||1||

Do not be proud of your social class and status, you ignorant fool!

So much sin and corruption comes from this pride. ||1||Pause||

Everyone says that there are four castes, four social classes.

They all emanate from the drop of God's Seed. ||2||

The entire universe is made of the same clay.

The Potter has shaped it into all sorts of vessels. ||3||

The five elements join together, to make up the form of the human body.

Who can say which is less, and which is more? ||4||

Says Nanak, this soul is bound by its actions.

Without meeting the True Guru, it is not liberated. ||5||1||

Waheguru ji :wub:

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

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