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[Gurjeet_Kaur]

im over it now... :wub:

that's a awesome story JSS bhaji.

[Sher Khalsa]

its better to cut all ur hair.. instead of just ur dhari...

thas why some panj pyarai say dont associate with beard trimmers .... cuz thats beadbi of the sikh image

[DesiVibe]

very very sorry to hear about your brother and i guess its more harder to swallow as he was an amritdhari. Although i agree with what most people say and it is a big thing, but maybe we need to accept one of the hardest things can and will happen. We cant cut off with our immediet families that is still ur veer thats your brother you grew up with and still probably feels close to you. Telling him off or reminding him will make him more distant to you.

just show him love, n tell him to keep the love for his faith even with cut kes and recite bani and still jap nam. im sure that will still give him something than him thinking ive cut my hair now so all religion means nothing. At least he will have a base, somewhere he can always come to when hes fed up of the maya world and find refuge in. I know some monai from sada panjab who get up at 1am and start nam jappin and recite bani and dont go near meat or eggs or shraab.

Now thats gotto be better than cutting across the line never to return.

phanji im very very sorry and my words wont do near enough to what your going through i hope you stay in high spirits. Mums and dads dont worry, its the way it is my family arent perfect either. We can only sort ourselves out and tell someone if their wrong. But try not to think about it instead do ardas nam jap and do bani and keep your family encouraged towards that path whatever else they do hats or kes issue.

u stay strong as steel, sister in mind thought and jeevan yet caring as a mother loves her child. Keep the bro sis relationship tight always hel soon realise how false the world is and hel not find that warmth, welfare love anywhere else but in the sikh panth.

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ay in chardi kala, god loves you he loves your family whatever happened was meant to be its how we deal with it now.

[Khalsa04]

I cut my hair off like 3 years ago. I regret it and when I talk to gianis, sants, babey etc they so pleased with me for my knowledge about Sikhi and when I tell them that i cut my hair, there eyes jus.......I know it was wrong and i shudnt have cut it but i keep telling myself when im older then i will keep it agen. If Guru Ji gives his Kirpa then i will grow my kes agen. FATEH