About To Go Insane

[kaur_khalistani_lioness]

waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!

just tell them that u willbe fine in studies. sikhi makes u more focused. like others have said about the wrongs u can get into... tell them that in uni they wont have to worry about u being in pubs or any other parties drunk or on drugs. they can be worry free and kow that "their" kid is safe and prolly studying or doing something good!

if they worried about ur studies thats all u gotta say to them!

even though there is nothing wrong with being granthi(they fear that..just one of those stigmas and thinking of our people)...just tell them that like Guru Gobind singh ji, u will be and want to be an educated/knowledgeable/experienced person in worldly and spiritual matters

its one of those things parents also worry about, that if their kid gets into sikhi it means he/she will not study or pay attention to his "duties" or be responsible. the reason they have this thinking is because they think of the sant babas or nihugs who leave their homes or dont work. i guess its smiler to what kaur said, that they worry that they will lose u.

u are very young and they will have hard time excepting what u will say to them. so what u need to do right now is keep up with ur studies, do ur amritvela at gurdwara sahib, and seva! as others said, ur studies is ur kirat for right now! =) when they will see that sikhi is not really effecting ur studies and life in a bad way they will be happy!(just some things u have to figure out about ur parents-what do they like or what will keep them happy, so u can keep on doing what matters to u the most and keeps u happy. right now i see that they are worried about ur studies etc so keep up with that so they dont have any reason to make u not do what u wanna do?)

bhul chuk muaff karni

waheguru ji kakhalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!

[AkalPurakhDiFauj]

same thing happened with me paji, when i was the same age. don't give up on yourslef. keep your dharam strong. Jap Naam, and do Ardaas..

as for you parents..hmmm...remember this:

Guru Gobind Singh ji is your Father.

Mata Sahib Kaur is your Mother.

Jap Naam! :nihungsmile:

[Guest singh?]

yes im sikh. Well atleast i have my kesh my whole family does, but like i just want everyone to no that ill never actually let my sikhi go and ill fight to the end for it, but i just wish my parents could understand. Im so fed up with them, but im trying to stay in control so i dont accedently commit one of the 5 chor. I just ask satgur to bless me with the gift of amrit as sooon as possible so i have more strength to fight.

IK ong kar satgur parsad!

Probably your parents need to understand that you as an individual need your space and should be proud of your determination. I repeat, have confidence in yourself and our gurus will guide you through!

Bhul chuk maaf karni ji!

i told them about guru gobind singh ji being educated and they replied " Guru Gobind Singh Ji's Actions and doing dont affect you..I mean in o that im in no way AT ALL EVER EVER EVER going to be like guru ji but shouldnt we follow what he said?? Also they say that i have to change myself because im living in a western country and stuff and i totaly dont agree! Im still going to gurdwara and doing my sewa, and that wont ever change

[Saahiba]

same thing happened with me paji, when i was the same age. don't give up on yourslef. keep your dharam strong. Jap Naam, and do Ardaas..

as for you parents..hmmm...remember this:

Guru Gobind Singh ji is your Father.

Mata Sahib Kaur is your Mother.

Jap Naam! :nihungsmile:

Rab daa aasraa na chhado ..